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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's amazing sometimes you think that you've got a connection with someone and it's non-stop talking non-stop messaging and then it goes tits up and then the quietness happens

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Welcome to the world of fab and online dating in general! It happens, just move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's life...people get bored and move on.

Internet is a fickle place.

Lu

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I mean all over life can be a bitc...

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By *ixedDevilMan
over a year ago

Bootyville

You've gotta keep people engaged. You've got to give them a reason to continue messaging you because they're probably getting loads of messaging from people that make more of an effort to send engaging messages. Otherwise they'll just get bored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can interest people or put them off by what you say if they go quiet its more than likley down to putting them off in some way. But its not worth dwelling on best to put it behind you and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it because they have gone to work OP ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes we can say too much

I know I put people off by the things I say

Simple way of looking at it 'Those are not my people'

Gimme longer with those that 'get me' and less with those that don't

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

It is possibly the case of:

You said something wrong or off putting.

They got bored, it didn't seem like it was going anywhere.

They moved on to the next shiny object.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes, it happens on here and off line too. One minute you're flavour of the month the next you're yesterday's news.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London


"It's amazing sometimes you think that you've got a connection with someone and it's non-stop talking non-stop messaging and then it goes tits up and then the quietness happens "

The answer is there OP

- non stop talking, non stop messaging.

thinking about that is already tiring.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No why I'm saying is that they are the ones that are messaging you non-stop ringing you non-stop so at that present time you think to yourself that you've got a chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's amazing sometimes you think that you've got a connection with someone and it's non-stop talking non-stop messaging and then it goes tits up and then the quietness happens

The answer is there OP

- non stop talking, non stop messaging.

thinking about that is already tiring."

In a nutshell, this

Strings of messages can feel like a bombardment

Never feel guilty for not replying to a message straight away

Leave it, do something else, pick it up later

A pause between messages can be a blessed relief for both parties

I want to chat with someone carefree and easily and not leave the conversation exhausted

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry


"Welcome to the world of fab and online dating in general! It happens, just move on."

happens to us on a regular basis x storm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it because they have gone to work OP ? "

Yeah, they like don’t reply for 8 hours, then in the evening they’re chatting again, I mean what’s that all about, it’s like they’ve got other things going on in their lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No why I'm saying is that they are the ones that are messaging you non-stop ringing you non-stop so at that present time you think to yourself that you've got a chance "

Some people just like the chase.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't take any notice of this place it will drive you mad. Make real world connections

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