FabSwingers.com forum: Just because we are a couple

By *onnynclaire OP Couple
over a year ago

Reading

Hey all.

Happy lockdown II

Do any other couples get a bit fed up of people (obviously the guys) assuming that just because you are a couple that you are fucking or being filthy all the time.

Most messages we get are guys asking about what fun we’ve had or are we being filthy with each other right now.

We gots kids. We have jobs. We are “normal” people who have stresses and strains and lucky to get it on twice a week.

Is it just because they are constantly cock in hand that they think everyone else is.

Man I think I woke up too early. Rant over.

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By *incsladyandscotsmanCouple
over a year ago

North fife

Here here..... They think we are in a little world of our own just waiting for just them....

Sorry but its a swinging site not an instant sex site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbf, there are many couples who post regularly on the forum that give the impression that they're constantly doing the sex

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By *onnynclaire OP Couple
over a year ago

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Really grinds my gears

I think people have watched way too much porn and it’s given them a false sense of reality.

In reality. We haven’t had fun with each other since Friday....or was it before....anyway.

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By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford

"Tbf, there are many couples who post regularly on the forum that give the impression that they're constantly doing the sex"

High five!

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By *onnynclaire OP Couple
over a year ago

Reading

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By *onnynclaire OP Couple
over a year ago

Reading

"Tbf, there are many couples who post regularly on the forum that give the impression that they're constantly doing the sex"

That’s up to them and fair play to them for having the time and opportunities to do it.

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Hey all.

Happy lockdown II

Do any other couples get a bit fed up of people (obviously the guys) assuming that just because you are a couple that you are fucking or being filthy all the time.

Most messages we get are guys asking about what fun we’ve had or are we being filthy with each other right now.

We gots kids. We have jobs. We are “normal” people who have stresses and strains and lucky to get it on twice a week.

Is it just because they are constantly cock in hand that they think everyone else is.

Man I think I woke up too early. Rant over."

We get this a lot too.

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

Remember that couples have the opportunity to do it even if they choose not to (if real life lets us). Most of the the keyboard fantasists are a looong way from making that choice so become a little more preoccupied. Besides which, we all *think* about it more than we do it. Not enough hours in the day for that

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By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford

"Remember that couples have the opportunity to do it even if they choose not to (if real life lets us). Most of the the keyboard fantasists are a looong way from making that choice so become a little more preoccupied. Besides which, we all *think* about it more than we do it. Not enough hours in the day for that

I agree. We are the lucky one’s. To be in a relationship and able to explore other things together. I feel very lucky and don’t blame some single men wanting to hear about living the dream.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What??!!

You mean couples on here aren’t constantly going at it like rabbits?

My mind is blown

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By *onnynclaire OP Couple
over a year ago

Reading

Ludicrous I know.

Yes we are lucky to have each other and thankful every day.

We have had a giggle with people online during this time and we hope it has helped but we don’t constantly do it

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By *ove2pleaseseukMan
over a year ago

Hastings

"Really grinds my gears

I think people have watched way too much porn and it’s given them a false sense of reality.

In reality. We haven’t had fun with each other since Friday....or was it before....anyway.

Was that Friday end of August or is that just me

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By *onnynclaire OP Couple
over a year ago

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Lol

Noooo last Friday but I feel your pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many just assume because you are logged in you are set there with your legs spread wide. I will say this comes from couples profiles too they are just as bad at making assumptions.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm sent similar assumptions. I think there's a subset who assume that logged in means dressed up, horny, and ready for sex right this second.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Whilst I understand the irritation and frustration and personally don't make assumptions about what others are doing unless they tell me they are (and even then unless I know them I take it with a modicum of scepticism) I can also understand why some guys may jump to false conclusions.

Firstly as someone said you *do* get couples who constantly post what they have been up to which leads to a general perception about other users.

Secondly this *is* a sex site, whichever way you look at it (and before anyone says "no it's a swingers site" the underlying basis of swinging is still sex) which again can lead to a false perception that people on a sex site are forever "at it" and constantly horny.

Now obviously in reality both of those perceptions are far far from the truth - we do *all* have lives, day jobs etc and it would be impossible to be constantly horny/at it but to the guy that just logged on and *is* horny himself that false perception becomes false reality in that moment.

Not saying it's right or it's any less frustrating, particularly because of the nature of that type of message, just trying to frame it a little - and having done so and come to those conclusions there's little you can do other than delete the message and ignore it, same as anything with other users whose actions you can't control.

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