FabSwingers.com forum: Dark music for your domm/sub nights

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have a good collection but wonder if I'm missing out ?

Inertia creeps by Massive Attack is my favourite.

Nostalgia is a good band too.

Give me your favourite.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

The whole of the Dummy album by Portishead is perfect - just sublimely broody and moody

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Will have a listen

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Sisters of Mercy - Dominion

Cure - Disintegration

Cure - Lullaby

Mission - Tower of Strength

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good tracks i have three already. Need to listen to the other xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cigarettes after sex...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love turning on music and making my subbie give me a nice slow sultry slutty dance. Good songs for this include:

I put a spell on you (Nina Simone)

I want to be your dog (The Stooges)

Sheela-na-gig (PJ Harvey)

No pussy blues (Grinderman)

XxBebe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love turning on music and making my subbie give me a nice slow sultry slutty dance. Good songs for this include:

I put a spell on you (Nina Simone)

I want to be your dog (The Stooges)

Sheela-na-gig (PJ Harvey)

No pussy blues (Grinderman)

XxBebe

Do you throw them a fish and ask them to clap excitedly too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Black & Blue - Whitesnake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's get ready to rumble - PJ and Duncan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell is round the corner - tricky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Led Zeppelin - Kashmir

Two Feet - Go Fuck Yourself

Two faves from my playlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got a Spotify playlist for just such occasions. All sorts of mood enhancing tracks from an eclectic range of artists, some of who have been mentioned already. One track that comes straight to mind though is, Venus in Furs by the Velvet Underground

Fuzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've got a Spotify playlist for just such occasions. All sorts of mood enhancing tracks from an eclectic range of artists, some of who have been mentioned already. One track that comes straight to mind though is, Venus in Furs by the Velvet Underground

Fuzz"

Ooooohh good one!

Ere Fuzz...send me a link for your playlist pls

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By *r GLTMan
over a year ago

Richmond Upon Thames

'The End' by The Doors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuzz

Ooooohh good one!

Ere Fuzz...send me a link for your playlist pls

For you Lu? Sure I'm on it

Fuzz

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By *ems17Couple (FF)
over a year ago

Walsall

I think Halestorm has some incredibly sexy music

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Behind the bike shed!

I once put Barbie girl on headphones on repeat for Kitty as I spanked her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I once put Barbie girl on headphones on repeat for Kitty as I spanked her. "

That's one way to make a funishment punishment

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fuzz"

Yes I have a playlist on Spotify too lol. Great minds

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think Halestorm has some incredibly sexy music

Will check them out.

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

TBH

I put together different compilations for different moods as different scenes and people have different energy.

What kicked things off for me musically is Jace Everett's "I Wanna Do Bad Things To You" the theme tune for Season One True Blood.

But I do have Cigarettes After Sex, on one list and always a bit of Marilyn Manson.

I also like Rammstein Feuer Frie.

But then I have a mixed rap and soul list. Different people different energies.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I dont have a play list, music is on in the background otherwise its a distraction for me and the sub.

Even in clubs the music takes a back seat as my focus and attention is on the person I am playing with.

Where the music has had an influence is where I play along with the drum beat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I dont have a play list, music is on in the background otherwise its a distraction for me and the sub.

Even in clubs the music takes a back seat as my focus and attention is on the person I am playing with.

Yes I get that but I tend to have it on in the background so it doesn't overpower the moment.

Where the music has had an influence is where I play along with the drum beat."

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

"I once put Barbie girl on headphones on repeat for Kitty as I spanked her.

Blimey, that is proper sadistic!

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By *ocusMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Coil have tracks for any mood as long as it’s dark.

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

"Sisters of Mercy - Dominion

Cure - Disintegration

Cure - Lullaby

Mission - Tower of Strength "

Disintegration is up there as one of my favourite albums.

The intro, Plainsong, is huge. Followed by the totally miserable Pictures of You...

Perfect.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

A lot of Black Sabbath is very dark!

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"The whole of the Dummy album by Portishead is perfect - just sublimely broody and moody"

It’s v good.

Some from our BDSM playlist

Pretty noose, soundgarden

Venus us in furs, velvet underground

All a dream, Norah Jones

Black, Norah Jones

Pretty when you cry, Lana del Ray

You and Me, Eliza Doolittle / Flume Remix

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

During a scene I don't like music on, as I find the repetitive sound of impact soothing in a way. Kind of similar to the sound of walking in heels.

But I totally do love music beforehand to get me into the right mindset, I love a lot of the music that's been mentioned already. And the music I listen to depends on the scene we've planned. So if can do from Portishead-Glory Box to Avril Lavigne-bad girl to in this moment-whore.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"During a scene I don't like music on, as I find the repetitive sound of impact soothing in a way. Kind of similar to the sound of walking in heels.

One thing to try if you have dual Audio or Bluetooth 5.x Iis to put the music through a pair of QC35s or or other NC headphones for the bottom and leave it really feint for yourself so you know what he/she is experiencing through audio. It also blocks out another sense when you hit pause , the nouse cancelling still works.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've got a playlist on Spotify and have been adding tracks over the years.

You guys have given me some more which is perfect.

I've also had my partner or sub wear headphones but not to high in volume.

The difference in sensitivity was more than I thought. We both enjoyed it lol

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

Down with sickness disturbed

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By *othin 2 proveCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

"'The End' by The Doors"
..............yes 11 minutes of dark magic.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

Closer - NIN

Justify My Love - Madonna

Erotica - Madonna

Angel - Massive Attack

I Feel You - Depeche Mode

The Pink Room - Angelo Badalamenti

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fantomas-Delirium Corda

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

No Venus in furs by the velvet underground?

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

"The whole of the Dummy album by Portishead is perfect - just sublimely broody and moody"

One of my fave every albums

The lyrics in it are heartbreaking and Beth's voice is immense.

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By *ilthyHabitCouple
over a year ago

south west

The Weeknd, Beauty behind the madness album. So erotic !! Kx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No Venus in furs by the velvet underground?

Definitely

Everlast- Dirty

Beneath the love of a knife

From the darkness of my soul

Whore

Let the band play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will have to have a listen to some of these.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Hatefuck by Cruel Youth

(It’s actually very different from what you may imagine it to be)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Closer - NIN

Justify My Love - Madonna

Erotica - Madonna

Angel - Massive Attack

I Feel You - Depeche Mode

The Pink Room - Angelo Badalamenti

Ed"

I have some of these... love Angel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe I'm doing something wrong?

I find that classical music works very well. I might sometimes ask Alexa to play the London philharmonic or hanz zimmer.

I then find that my actions match the music as it gradually builds from slow and quiet touching, kissing and gentleness to its crescendo of harder, more urgent passion.

It's also good to stop the neighbours from hearing too much. Lol.

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Goodbye horses from that scene in that film - if you want to put a chill up someone’s spine!

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

These are on our playlist:

Snake Charmer, Gustavo Bertoni

Waiting Game, Banks

Like U, Rosenfeld

IDGAF, Besomorph

Go Fuck Yourself, Two Feet

Closer, NIN

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By *ilkynmyzzyCouple
over a year ago

Bridlington

Fuzz"

We were asked to select the music at a BDSM club one night, when Venus in Furs came on we nearly got thrown out. The heathens

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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago

London

Looks like I need Spotify and go take note of the above mengioned tracks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"These are on our playlist:

Snake Charmer, Gustavo Bertoni

Waiting Game, Banks

Like U, Rosenfeld

IDGAF, Besomorph

Go Fuck Yourself, Two Feet

Closer, NIN

Just added Like U

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

Depeche Mode - Dirt

NIN - Hurt

Marylin Manson - Sweet Dreams

Type O Negative's - Black No. 1 (Little Miss Scare-All)

Nirvana - Heart Shape Box

Nirvana - Something In The Way

Dread Zepplin - 1-800-Psychic Pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is hardcore, pulp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Breathe by The Prodigy

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By *hysoseriouslyMan
over a year ago

Kent

"Sisters of Mercy - Dominion

Cure - Disintegration

Cure - Lullaby

Mission - Tower of Strength "

Yes!

Sisters of Mercy and the Mission are pretty much linked to my earliest kink memories. Nice call

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once had a sub handcuffed up naked on their knees, I played Poker Face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But let's face it NIN and any track off pretty hate machine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mainly metal. Disturbed.. Ffdp.. Metallica.. Laguna coil.. Too many playlists to mention.

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By *orkshirefucktruck3Man
over a year ago

rotherham

love this topic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuzz

We were asked to select the music at a BDSM club one night, when Venus in Furs came on we nearly got thrown out. The heathens

What!? Sacrilege!

Fuzz

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

Pure Morning - Placebo

That's another with a great feel for this sort of list.

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By *ilkynmyzzyCouple
over a year ago

Bridlington

Fuzz

We were asked to select the music at a BDSM club one night, when Venus in Furs came on we nearly got thrown out. The heathens

What!? Sacrilege!

Fuzz"

It is weren't for the fact Myzzy was tied to a St Andrews Cross at the time I think we may have been

We never got asked to choose the music again.

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By *oneko SanMan
over a year ago

derby

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By *oneko SanMan
over a year ago

derby

Fuzz

Ooooohh good one!

Ere Fuzz...send me a link for your playlist pls

If it's being shared I'd love to get a link as always open to music that causes a reaction or sets a mood.

(previos post deleted as I typed that in the wrong spot so it wasn't visible!)

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By *oneko SanMan
over a year ago

derby

"The Weeknd, Beauty behind the madness album. So erotic !! Kx"

I like the the Weeknd for this sort of play as well. Some of my favourites are the ones where he's talking about adiction as it fits the mood so well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuzz

We were asked to select the music at a BDSM club one night, when Venus in Furs came on we nearly got thrown out. The heathens

What!? Sacrilege!

Fuzz

It is weren't for the fact Myzzy was tied to a St Andrews Cross at the time I think we may have been

We never got asked to choose the music again."

I know for a fact you two have impeccable taste in music

Fuzz

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By *ilthyHabitCouple
over a year ago

south west

"The Weeknd, Beauty behind the madness album. So erotic !! Kx

I like the the Weeknd for this sort of play as well. Some of my favourites are the ones where he's talking about adiction as it fits the mood so well."

It’s what I call Raw which is just how I like it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The Weeknd, Beauty behind the madness album. So erotic !! Kx

I like the the Weeknd for this sort of play as well. Some of my favourites are the ones where he's talking about adiction as it fits the mood so well.

It’s what I call Raw which is just how I like it

More to try lol awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5R2vRFHvB5QvnRY98fZRrY?si=AqsmDv3mTy2sL-z_0Zcuwg

Some, including the OP, have asked if I'd share my playlist.....happy to share but remember music tastes are personal

Fuzz

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By *ilkynmyzzyCouple
over a year ago

Bridlington

Fuzz

We were asked to select the music at a BDSM club one night, when Venus in Furs came on we nearly got thrown out. The heathens

What!? Sacrilege!

Fuzz

It is weren't for the fact Myzzy was tied to a St Andrews Cross at the time I think we may have been

We never got asked to choose the music again.

I know for a fact you two have impeccable taste in music

Fuzz"

Well thank you for the endorsement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always had a soft spot for placebo, or depending on mood chimaira (when you're really going for it..;-))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of weeks ago I was held legs spread, face down over a table with a dom telling me to be a good girl. And I kid you not, RATM "killing in the name" came on the music channel that was playing. Fuck you I won't do what you tell me!! Fuck youuuuuuu!!! I got a spanking for giggling. But it was just perfect comedy timing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depech mode master and servant black line remix

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depech mode master and servant black line remix "

I need to listen to that remix, original was too pop like ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A couple of weeks ago I was held legs spread, face down over a table with a dom telling me to be a good girl. And I kid you not, RATM "killing in the name" came on the music channel that was playing. Fuck you I won't do what you tell me!! Fuck youuuuuuu!!! I got a spanking for giggling. But it was just perfect comedy timing

Lol awesome and so was the spanking ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depech mode master and servant black line remix

I need to listen to that remix, original was too pop like ?? "

The vid on YouTube is more BDSM theme I think the other one is just the band if I remember right, oh and another one of theirs... stripped I think it’s called a lot of their songs are about bdsm apparantly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depech mode master and servant black line remix

I need to listen to that remix, original was too pop like ?? "

https://youtu.be/XjK13ZO71ds

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depech mode master and servant black line remix

I need to listen to that remix, original was too pop like ??

Thanks I need to visit Liverpool lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depech mode master and servant black line remix

I need to listen to that remix, original was too pop like ??

Thanks I need to visit Liverpool lol"

Won’t be any time soon

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depech mode master and servant black line remix

I need to listen to that remix, original was too pop like ??

Thanks I need to visit Liverpool lol

Won’t be any time soon

xx"

I know see you 2021

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Here is my Spotify list.

What do you think ??

https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4EfKem4F10h8h4aJZ2XXM9?si=YDO-3dVcRaWDj1zeLB2Iug

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By *ilkynmyzzyCouple
over a year ago

Bridlington

If I put on Yeha Noah by Sacred Spirit myzzy knows he's getting it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bookmarking this thread so I can check out your suggestions on Spotify.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Check out nostalgia. Great group used a lot in John wick movies

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have my next meet arranged im looking forward to trying out the new playlist thanks to you pervs lol

Cheers OP

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By *oneko SanMan
over a year ago

derby

My submissive recently introduced me to Lana Del Rey... Maybe not music for a scene but the lyrics... Some of those songs are perfectly worded for a D/s dynamic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love turning on music and making my subbie give me a nice slow sultry slutty dance. Good songs for this include:

I put a spell on you (Nina Simone)

I want to be your dog (The Stooges)

Sheela-na-gig (PJ Harvey)

No pussy blues (Grinderman)

XxBebe

Do you throw them a fish and ask them to clap excitedly too?"

If you mean have them eat my pussy for an hour - yes

But do like your idea of making them clap the whole time least they get punished

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

The Pink Room - Angelo Badalamenti

Ed"

Reminded me of Floating , Julee Cruise , all that fucked up david lynch stuff would be a good playlist

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

"Check out nostalgia. Great group used a lot in John wick movies"

Marilyn Manson's "Killing Stranger" from the first film is in one of my lists. It turned me onto MM who had not really interested me before that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The Pink Room - Angelo Badalamenti

Reminded me of Floating , Julee Cruise , all that fucked up david lynch stuff would be a good playlist

Will have a listen

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Check out nostalgia. Great group used a lot in John wick movies

Marilyn Manson's "Killing Stranger" from the first film is in one of my lists. It turned me onto MM who had not really interested me before that."

Going to listen

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By *mnipotent_BehemothMan
over a year ago

near Merry Hill shopping centre

Breath Control by Recoil ideal for a play night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The whole of the Dummy album by Portishead is perfect - just sublimely broody and moody"

Love that album

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By *mnipotent_BehemothMan
over a year ago

near Merry Hill shopping centre

For light relief as you need to having something to smile at, In these shoes by Kirsty MacColl good to flog or paddle to!

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By *ave2489Man
over a year ago

Bury

Honestly don't acknowledge anything else going on when I'm in that zone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tricky - Maxinquaye

Radiohead- The Bends

The Fratellis - Eyes Wide, Tongue Tied

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