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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Should I be worried if I was having a lovely talk with someone and things where “going somewhere” and I trusted to send a picture of my face and talk to them for a couple of hours and then I just can’t seen them anymore, and all the messages are gone :/

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

They left the site. Fairly common occurrence here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m surprised that’s the first time mate. It’s quite a regular occurrence

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Man that’s such a shame, but if you think it’s nothing to worry about I’ll calm down a bit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

They were only on here for three hours, so I was just hoping it wasn’t anything shady

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Man that’s such a shame, but if you think it’s nothing to worry about I’ll calm down a bit "

It's pretty well a daily occurance. Was possibly a guy posing as a woman or couple and has gone UNLOS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just click the photo remove icon before you send

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Also maybe hold back the face pics for longer than 3hrs

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Happens to us all at some stage....

You think you have a connection that’s different, you send a face pic and conversation stops... just move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

with every pic you send click the remove once they have opened the message button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They were only on here for three hours, so I was just hoping it wasn’t anything shady "

As long as you arent doing anything shady, you should be fine!

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"Should I be worried if I was having a lovely talk with someone and things where “going somewhere” and I trusted to send a picture of my face and talk to them for a couple of hours and then I just can’t seen them anymore, and all the messages are gone :/ "

I would suggest you become a site supporter then you can opt for the photo to be removed one the message has been read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go in head first.

No surprises then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I think that’s on the money to be honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Will do from now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes Miss

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Try using reply+quote so we know who you're replying to, OP

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

I think most people *MASSIVELY* over estimate the received wisdom on the need for privacy from other people. Some people have valid reasons, but generally, it's utterly irrelevant if someone sees your face or not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Now that’s a man with confidence

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Try using reply+quote so we know who you're replying to, OP "

This place really wouldn't be the same if people knew how to use it.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria


"Should I be worried if I was having a lovely talk with someone and things where “going somewhere” and I trusted to send a picture of my face and talk to them for a couple of hours and then I just can’t seen them anymore, and all the messages are gone :/

I would suggest you become a site supporter then you can opt for the photo to be removed one the message has been read. "

Think it’s a bit mean that Fab don’t allow non site supporters to be able to remove pics once sent to someone, if you got ill feeling after sending them then couldn’t remove them could cause unnecessary worry.

Would advise against sending face pics unless 100% trust somebody and would never send to an unverified profile.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

As everyone has said it means they've deleted their profile.

Don't stress over it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Try using reply+quote so we know who you're replying to, OP "
cheers for the reply, I think you were on the money with what you said and thanks for showing me how to reply properly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As everyone has said it means they've deleted their profile.

Don't stress over it. "

Yeah I agree, I’d feel much better being able to do that and thank you, appreciate the reply x

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Try using reply+quote so we know who you're replying to, OP cheers for the reply, I think you were on the money with what you said and thanks for showing me how to reply properly "

You are most welcome, my friend. To quote a wise philosopher: SmileyFace

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

They quoted a wise philosopher^

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"As everyone has said it means they've deleted their profile.

Don't stress over it.

Yeah I agree, I’d feel much better being able to do that and thank you, appreciate the reply x"

if you have sent a photo to someone as a non site supporter and regret it delete the photo from your gallery. I think it removes their end too. Of course this would only work if their profile is still active

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