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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are there people you chat to all the time on fab both in the forums and privately but you wouldnt add as a friend??

I myself will chat to pretty much anyone and if they are friendly make or female I'm happy to be friends with them but I know a few that wont add friends even if you chat all the time. What's your thoughts and personal rules on this??

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By *appytrailmanMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I like a chat and I'm happy to chat with anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only normally add people we've met xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We chat to quite a few people who aren't "friends" as in we've both clicked a button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We only normally add people we've met xx"

We do the same!

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I chat to everyone as long they are respectful and the conversation doesn't goes in shity mode chat .

Adding friends only people i met , this because to keep my privacy and my friends privacy , as they would have access to my pictures that only are shared with friends.

I have this aproach because most the friend requested is just to have access to see pictures and videos that are not public

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

I am happy to add anyone who I have messaged with more that 4 or 5 times. Most on my friends list are way outside of my area but so what, who knows one day we may get to meet if we don't I am happy just to chat.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Nottingham and Stamford

I chat to a few people too.

Many are fab friends, a couple of people are closer.

Most are on my friends list, but not exclusively.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Yes there are. Even some I've removed as a friend (). It's too complicated and dull to explain why, it varies a lot between people. I don't think our friendship has to be fab friends official to exist.

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By *callycatMan
over a year ago

Mid Wales

I enjoy chatting and have a few people I check in with regularly on here. Anyone interested in the outdoors especially welcome x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We rarely add anyone to our friends list unless they are a friend we've met or someone we intend to meet.

The only exception to this, are those we chat to from the forums, we're happy to have them there for things like photo and status challenges and chatting shite with a little more ease

Lu

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Nottingham and Stamford


"We rarely add anyone to our friends list unless they are a friend we've met or someone we intend to meet.

The only exception to this, are those we chat to from the forums, we're happy to have them there for things like photo and status challenges and chatting shite with a little more ease

Lu "

You can't beat talking 'shite'. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We rarely add anyone to our friends list unless they are a friend we've met or someone we intend to meet.

The only exception to this, are those we chat to from the forums, we're happy to have them there for things like photo and status challenges and chatting shite with a little more ease

Lu

You can't beat talking 'shite'. Lol"

I agree! It's a skill tho...not everyone can do it

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Nottingham and Stamford


"We rarely add anyone to our friends list unless they are a friend we've met or someone we intend to meet.

The only exception to this, are those we chat to from the forums, we're happy to have them there for things like photo and status challenges and chatting shite with a little more ease

Lu

You can't beat talking 'shite'. Lol

I agree! It's a skill tho...not everyone can do it "

Skilled shite is simply the best.

But

Utter shite is a different ball game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't add unless I'm expecting to meet up with someone.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Some people I add as "Fab fwends" others we just chat and it doesn't happen - it's not something I give a great deal of thought to, and personally find that whole "shall we be fwends" thing a little awkward at times unless we're really getting on, or it's off the back of a forum thread or similar.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I chat to a few that post on here and a few Old timer regulars that no longer post on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We rarely add anyone to our friends list unless they are a friend we've met or someone we intend to meet.

The only exception to this, are those we chat to from the forums, we're happy to have them there for things like photo and status challenges and chatting shite with a little more ease

Lu

You can't beat talking 'shite'. Lol

I agree! It's a skill tho...not everyone can do it

Skilled shite is simply the best.

But

Utter shite is a different ball game. "

That's when shit gets dark!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Nottingham and Stamford


"We rarely add anyone to our friends list unless they are a friend we've met or someone we intend to meet.

The only exception to this, are those we chat to from the forums, we're happy to have them there for things like photo and status challenges and chatting shite with a little more ease

Lu

You can't beat talking 'shite'. Lol

I agree! It's a skill tho...not everyone can do it

Skilled shite is simply the best.

But

Utter shite is a different ball game.

That's when shit gets dark! "

Lets stay away from there. It's too close to politics for my liking. Yikes.

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By *orace99Man
over a year ago

York

I chat with someone but I wouldn't assume they wanted to be friends unless they hit that button themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like to add anyone as friends. I don't have friends pics and I feel like being 'friends' with me will cause them to suffer a life of loneliness and hardship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few people that i chat to regularly that i assumed i was friends with, but actually we aren't... I have one or two friends added through forum games, who never /rarely talk to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would add tho that i find it really awkward if people want to just do sex chat or ask 'when can we meet'

I kinda like chatting about random stuff

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Holibobs

My friends list consists of people I've met or people I want to meet and the occasional perving opportunities

But I speak to an awful lot more people than I have as friends on here, just cos we chat doesn't mean they have to see my bits

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I only add to my friends list people I’ve met or I am very interested in meeting. No point otherwise.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"My friends list consists of people I've met or people I want to meet and the occasional perving opportunities

But I speak to an awful lot more people than I have as friends on here, just cos we chat doesn't mean they have to see my bits "

Couldn't have put it better myself.

And if I dont hear from them in a while, I remove them. X

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Nottingham and Stamford

I like it when my friends come and talk to me.

I feel like being a pest if i have to always start a conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to. I chat to very few people now at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww i made a new friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't chat to anyone

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"Aww i made a new friend "

Friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't add friends here, but I am very friendly

Go figure

Same on FB - been on there 8 years or so and still no more than 40 friends, whereas some have hundreds, if not thousands

I won't add family or colleagues at all, it is purely for those that fal into the friends category

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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My friends list on here is split more or less 50/50 between people that I've met (even if just socially) and people I just like chatting to or perving at occasionally.

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By *orace99Man
over a year ago

York


"Aww i made a new friend

Friends "

Fab friends

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"Aww i made a new friend

Friends

Fab friends "

Is always fab having friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *orace99Man
over a year ago

York


"Aww i made a new friend

Friends

Fab friends

Is always fab having friends "

Even if they are bus wankers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a bit like veries.... I don't really need a list of friends, I already know who they are....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only add people I have met or have chatted with on cam . Have a fair few vids so need to be careful lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah. I don’t add many as friends on here, only if I’ve met them socially or otherwise or I really like them. I chat to a lot of people though

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

I chat to no-one as I'm a grumpy old twat!

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