FabSwingers.com forum: Thinking about sex

By *eavertracker OP Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater

I have been having a number of conversations regarding pics, and we'll I have come to the conclusion pics can be placed into three different styles of pics,...you have the classy sexy erotic pic, the pic which oozes sex appeal and then there's the pic which actually makes you think about sex...I'm starting to fear non of my pics are actually allowing those viewing to actually imagine sex of any sort,...or am I wrong, love to know your views, oh and add comments to others within the thread,...though always remember to remain respectful

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By *olidOak85Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Classy sexy erotic pics, black and white, works for me! Your rugby ball needs a bit of air...!

xxher

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

It's hard to take nice selfies and you have only got your phone to do this black and white are very classy #

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By *eavertracker OP Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater

Black and white certainly have that class, I get that,...but do they allow the individual looking to think about sex, this is my point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone’s Brian works differently so what works for one will not necessarily for another..it’s the alluding to creating the I wonder...again as others mentioned I particularly like the black and white..hand sliding behind the towel... different angles and lighting are good if you can too! Play around and enjoy taking the pics...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone’s Brian works differently so what works for one will not necessarily for another..it’s the alluding to creating the I wonder...again as others mentioned I particularly like the black and white..hand sliding behind the towel... different angles and lighting are good if you can too! Play around and enjoy taking the pics...

My Brian is quite adaptable

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

"It's hard to take nice selfies and you have only got your phone to do this black and white are very classy #

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well it is a swingers sight depends if people like what's on offer #

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By *eavertracker OP Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater

The art of putting together a good pic and placing that sexual imagination into a viewers thoughts is certainly one which totally fascinates me,...all you ladies seem to be able to do it with such ease

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

"The art of putting together a good pic and placing that sexual imagination into a viewers thoughts is certainly one which totally fascinates me,...all you ladies seem to be able to do it with such ease

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find nowadays none of the photos make me think of sex unless they are of someone I've been 'sexting' messaging with.

I appreciate the aesthetic quality but intentionally erotic photos don't particularly do much for me.

Something a bit different and with imagination and flair is more likely to catch my eye and a photo which captures the personality of the person appeals more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try not to overthink it and just post what you're happy with sharing! You're more likely to find someone like minded that way i think

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By *eavertracker OP Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater

I'm more then happy to show....I just find it fascinating to really know what gets a woman's mind thinking about sex in a image

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is one pic of a man on here that gets my dusty minge trembling.

I'm not a pic kind of person though, they don't turn me on usually. Which is odd because in person I'm a voyeur.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"There is one pic of a man on here that gets my dusty minge trembling.

I'm not a pic kind of person though, they don't turn me on usually. Which is odd because in person I'm a voyeur.

I'm just eating a banana for gawd's sake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt mind you lying on top of me and having sex so I think your pics work

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"I have been having a number of conversations regarding pics, and we'll I have come to the conclusion pics can be placed into three different styles of pics,...you have the classy sexy erotic pic, the pic which oozes sex appeal and then there's the pic which actually makes you think about sex...I'm starting to fear non of my pics are actually allowing those viewing to actually imagine sex of any sort,...or am I wrong, love to know your views, oh and add comments to others within the thread,...though always remember to remain respectful

I like your pics but alot are very similar and focus on your chest whereas i am a lover of legs.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is one pic of a man on here that gets my dusty minge trembling.

I'm not a pic kind of person though, they don't turn me on usually. Which is odd because in person I'm a voyeur.

I'm just eating a banana for gawd's sake

2 pics now...

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By *eavertracker OP Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater

I like your pics but alot are very similar and focus on your chest whereas i am a lover of legs.x"

This is totally what I am talking about, I totally understand different women have a desire and imagination in the image they are viewing,...comments here will allow me to develope further images for different tastes, keep the comments flowing ladies

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By *eavertracker OP Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater

Still very curious on other forumites views and opinions....don't be shy guys and gals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Still very curious on other forumites views and opinions....don't be shy guys and gals

Profile pic is a yes

What type of impression do you want to create?

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By *eavertracker OP Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater

I want to make women think about sex...

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I'd suggest you play around with different angles OP...you have a great body, but virtually all of your pictures are of the same body part taken from the same angle. Perhaps where the camera is above you and looking down, or even just further away so we can see you in all your glory for example.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"There is one pic of a man on here that gets my dusty minge trembling.

I'm not a pic kind of person though, they don't turn me on usually. Which is odd because in person I'm a voyeur.

I'm just eating a banana for gawd's sake

2 pics now...

If that's all it takes...dust is the least of your problems

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's hard to take nice selfies and you have only got your phone to do this black and white are very classy #

My best pic was phone camera just on the timer, propped on a chair, bedroom lamp placed on the floor for mood lighting then use normal phone photo editing to turn b&w...

You don't need anything fancy... Give it a whizz

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Tbh I think about sex from a picture when I like and trust the person, and sex might be a possibility. There's no picture that will make me think about sex with someone by itself.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"It's hard to take nice selfies and you have only got your phone to do this black and white are very classy #

My best pic was phone camera just on the timer, propped on a chair, bedroom lamp placed on the floor for mood lighting then use normal phone photo editing to turn b&w...

You don't need anything fancy... Give it a whizz"

Yup. Phone stand, DIY phone stand. Wall to prop phone up with. Video to still apps to reduce blooper frustration.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I don't tend to see a picture and instantly think sex unless it's someone I'm talking to.

Though I think pictures that show personality are the most interesting. Of your own pictures OP maybe have them in a different order. Some are a bit repetitive, says the woman with the her boobs out in most of them I know lol

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By *eavertracker OP Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater

It's all a very interesting learning curve,...men should take note

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"It's all a very interesting learning curve,...men should take note

Take photos that make you feel good about yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use my phone camera and set it to 10 seconds timer. In selfie mode, so I can usually see how it looks.

I use Lightroom, but all I do with that is either black and white, or make the colours pop. I sometimes reduce the clarity to give it that soft porn peachy skin look.

I love taking pics and I take them first and foremost for me and it gets me all hot and turned on (not looking at myself, just the outfits and things) and if someone else enjoys them then that’s great but just do it for what you like. (Still not made it to page 1 mind you haha)

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I use my phone camera and set it to 10 seconds timer. In selfie mode, so I can usually see how it looks.

I use Lightroom, but all I do with that is either black and white, or make the colours pop. I sometimes reduce the clarity to give it that soft porn peachy skin look.

Interestingly, I find taking photos to be a distinctly clinical experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use my phone camera and set it to 10 seconds timer. In selfie mode, so I can usually see how it looks.

I use Lightroom, but all I do with that is either black and white, or make the colours pop. I sometimes reduce the clarity to give it that soft porn peachy skin look.

This is me! I enjoy taking the pics and mostly gets me quite horny! Not always but I guess I don’t see the point if I don’t enjoy it! And it’s what I like...sometimes I do pics with someone in mind...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I use my phone camera and set it to 10 seconds timer. In selfie mode, so I can usually see how it looks.

I use Lightroom, but all I do with that is either black and white, or make the colours pop. I sometimes reduce the clarity to give it that soft porn peachy skin look.

I enjoy the creative process. But I don't find it arousing, more... a creation of an art form. (I use "art" in the loosest possible form)

I loathe the selection/ blooper process. It's like staring at myself in the mirror and finding everything that's wrong with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about the pics that make you wish you hadn’t looked at the new photo section will eating a ham baguette and no matter how hard you try you can’t get the image out of your head, what about them ones ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about the unintentionally hilarious ones, ones that are made to look like they’re spontaneous or trying to be nonchalant, but you know they’ve taken 500 photos trying to capture it, but gave up, what about them ones ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use my phone camera and set it to 10 seconds timer. In selfie mode, so I can usually see how it looks.

I use Lightroom, but all I do with that is either black and white, or make the colours pop. I sometimes reduce the clarity to give it that soft porn peachy skin look.

I enjoy the creative process. But I don't find it arousing, more... a creation of an art form. (I use "art" in the loosest possible form)

I loathe the selection/ blooper process. It's like staring at myself in the mirror and finding everything that's wrong with me

Oh ha I know - sometimes my face looks ridiculous in them - like straining and things and there’s ones where I tried to do a pose and it does not come across well. And hey, call it art - it takes skill to make pics look the part.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I use my phone camera and set it to 10 seconds timer. In selfie mode, so I can usually see how it looks.

I use Lightroom, but all I do with that is either black and white, or make the colours pop. I sometimes reduce the clarity to give it that soft porn peachy skin look.

I enjoy the creative process. But I don't find it arousing, more... a creation of an art form. (I use "art" in the loosest possible form)

I loathe the selection/ blooper process. It's like staring at myself in the mirror and finding everything that's wrong with me

I laugh when it gets called narcissism. Oh no, it takes a degree of resilience and introspection to get something workable out of the raw material I'm working with. It's awful

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"It's all a very interesting learning curve,...men should take note

I have for quite some time now. Pic taking sessions are an entertaining and creative experience

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By *eavertracker OP Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater

There's some thing very fun and sexy about taking a pic, and being rewarded with the efforts,...I do occasionally look at other males profiles to give me thoughts and inspiration, though alot of males really need to take a good close look at their pics, their are a few though who really do obviously put in the effort,....like the forumites have said, it's about having fun with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use my phone camera and set it to 10 seconds timer. In selfie mode, so I can usually see how it looks.

I use Lightroom, but all I do with that is either black and white, or make the colours pop. I sometimes reduce the clarity to give it that soft porn peachy skin look.

I enjoy the creative process. But I don't find it arousing, more... a creation of an art form. (I use "art" in the loosest possible form)

I loathe the selection/ blooper process. It's like staring at myself in the mirror and finding everything that's wrong with me

I laugh when it gets called narcissism. Oh no, it takes a degree of resilience and introspection to get something workable out of the raw material I'm working with. It's awful

Nothing wrong with a little light narcissism to get the creative juices flowing

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I use my phone camera and set it to 10 seconds timer. In selfie mode, so I can usually see how it looks.

I use Lightroom, but all I do with that is either black and white, or make the colours pop. I sometimes reduce the clarity to give it that soft porn peachy skin look.

I enjoy the creative process. But I don't find it arousing, more... a creation of an art form. (I use "art" in the loosest possible form)

I loathe the selection/ blooper process. It's like staring at myself in the mirror and finding everything that's wrong with me

I laugh when it gets called narcissism. Oh no, it takes a degree of resilience and introspection to get something workable out of the raw material I'm working with. It's awful

Nothing wrong with a little light narcissism to get the creative juices flowing "

According to my now ex therapist, I'm almost pathologically non-narcissist. Ha. It's challenging to work with the norms set by normal people.

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over a year ago

"I use my phone camera and set it to 10 seconds timer. In selfie mode, so I can usually see how it looks.

I use Lightroom, but all I do with that is either black and white, or make the colours pop. I sometimes reduce the clarity to give it that soft porn peachy skin look.

I enjoy the creative process. But I don't find it arousing, more... a creation of an art form. (I use "art" in the loosest possible form)

I loathe the selection/ blooper process. It's like staring at myself in the mirror and finding everything that's wrong with me

I laugh when it gets called narcissism. Oh no, it takes a degree of resilience and introspection to get something workable out of the raw material I'm working with. It's awful

Nothing wrong with a little light narcissism to get the creative juices flowing

According to my now ex therapist, I'm almost pathologically non-narcissist. Ha. It's challenging to work with the norms set by normal people."

blimey!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"According to my now ex therapist, I'm almost pathologically non-narcissist. Ha. It's challenging to work with the norms set by normal people.

blimey! "

I cringe, do it, cringe some more.

Some might say I'm wired wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"According to my now ex therapist, I'm almost pathologically non-narcissist. Ha. It's challenging to work with the norms set by normal people.

blimey!

I cringe, do it, cringe some more.

Some might say I'm wired wrong

Cringing is my spirit totem.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"According to my now ex therapist, I'm almost pathologically non-narcissist. Ha. It's challenging to work with the norms set by normal people.

blimey!

I cringe, do it, cringe some more.

Some might say I'm wired wrong

Cringing is my spirit totem. "

Sister?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Appealing photos to me are tease /hint with good lighting... I do like b+w with good contrast /saturation and I'm partial to the odd prop.. I also love the humorous ones.. The hot dogs etc (can tell the make lots of effort to look good)

I try to avoid profiles with 99m cock angles and /or poor lighting /contrast (i like what i like lol)

I usually look through photos of profiles participating in the fab-athon threads, recently loaded public pics .. Friends or hot list... Its not often I'll do a random search

Lately i working my way through videos

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By *eavertracker OP Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater

It's been absolutely amazing the comments and conversations I have had off the back of this thread,...I have massive respect for those who I have had conversations with, I love this subject and it's one which has really highlighted many thoughts,...I'm very passionate about the art of a sexual pose

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over a year ago

"Appealing photos to me are tease /hint with good lighting... I do like b+w with good contrast /saturation and I'm partial to the odd prop.. I also love the humorous ones.. The hot dogs etc (can tell the make lots of effort to look good)

I try to avoid profiles with 99m cock angles and /or poor lighting /contrast (i like what i like lol)

I usually look through photos of profiles participating in the fab-athon threads, recently loaded public pics .. Friends or hot list... Its not often I'll do a random search

Lately i working my way through videos

Your pics are great !! X

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I try to avoid profiles with 99m cock angles and /or poor lighting /contrast (i like what i like lol)

I usually look through photos of profiles participating in the fab-athon threads, recently loaded public pics .. Friends or hot list... Its not often I'll do a random search

Lately i working my way through videos

I definitely borrow from others, and even from outside Fab. Some of my pictures are inspired by adverts I remember from being a kid (umm yeah so part of my sexual awakening involved Pat Rafter I'm gonna say that out loud...)

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over a year ago

I try to avoid profiles with 99m cock angles and /or poor lighting /contrast (i like what i like lol)

I usually look through photos of profiles participating in the fab-athon threads, recently loaded public pics .. Friends or hot list... Its not often I'll do a random search

Lately i working my way through videos

Your pics are great !! X"

Why thank you very much... I'm also a fan of yours

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over a year ago

I try to avoid profiles with 99m cock angles and /or poor lighting /contrast (i like what i like lol)

I usually look through photos of profiles participating in the fab-athon threads, recently loaded public pics .. Friends or hot list... Its not often I'll do a random search

Lately i working my way through videos

Your pics are great !! X

Why thank you very much... I'm also a fan of yours

Thank you !! Fan girling over here!!!!

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over a year ago

I try to avoid profiles with 99m cock angles and /or poor lighting /contrast (i like what i like lol)

I usually look through photos of profiles participating in the fab-athon threads, recently loaded public pics .. Friends or hot list... Its not often I'll do a random search

Lately i working my way through videos

Love those red white and blue contrast ones - rep lips are gorgeous!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I try to avoid profiles with 99m cock angles and /or poor lighting /contrast (i like what i like lol)

I usually look through photos of profiles participating in the fab-athon threads, recently loaded public pics .. Friends or hot list... Its not often I'll do a random search

Lately i working my way through videos

Love those red white and blue contrast ones - rep lips are gorgeous! "

Thank you! A Photoshop express filter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to avoid profiles with 99m cock angles and /or poor lighting /contrast (i like what i like lol)

I usually look through photos of profiles participating in the fab-athon threads, recently loaded public pics .. Friends or hot list... Its not often I'll do a random search

Lately i working my way through videos

Oh i take a whole photo album of inspiration when i go on meets and say i wamna recreate this... At which point i get a pained eyebrow lift and a resigned get on with it then

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

That's one thing I find women in here are better at is use of colour. Maybe it's easier for women due to clothing or lingerie choices etc. But some of the ladies pictures on here pop out the screen in a way B&W rarely does

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I try to avoid profiles with 99m cock angles and /or poor lighting /contrast (i like what i like lol)

I usually look through photos of profiles participating in the fab-athon threads, recently loaded public pics .. Friends or hot list... Its not often I'll do a random search

Lately i working my way through videos

Oh i take a whole photo album of inspiration when i go on meets and say i wamna recreate this... At which point i get a pained eyebrow lift and a resigned get on with it then

The majority of my pictures are self taken. I've recently discovered that the cardboard my subscription coffee comes in helps prop my phone up for pictures on my bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to avoid profiles with 99m cock angles and /or poor lighting /contrast (i like what i like lol)

I usually look through photos of profiles participating in the fab-athon threads, recently loaded public pics .. Friends or hot list... Its not often I'll do a random search

Lately i working my way through videos

Oh i take a whole photo album of inspiration when i go on meets and say i wamna recreate this... At which point i get a pained eyebrow lift and a resigned get on with it then

I actually struggle to take pics with others - I take them on my own and can be all bendy and stuff. But with my partner we still haven’t taken pics for our couples page together. We are just having too much fun and I think I’d feel really silly pulling faces and stuff plus he’s a major perfectionist. Could be an interesting combo!!! How do you even ask??

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"That's one thing I find women in here are better at is use of colour. Maybe it's easier for women due to clothing or lingerie choices etc. But some of the ladies pictures on here pop out the screen in a way B&W rarely does "

Definitely. But shirts, ties, scarves... guys have options.

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By *eavertracker OP Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater

It's been fantastic the maturity by which this thread has been explored, I was partially expecting some very juvenile and immature comments, so it's been fantastic that people havnt small talked the subject and actually given their true views and opinions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to avoid profiles with 99m cock angles and /or poor lighting /contrast (i like what i like lol)

I usually look through photos of profiles participating in the fab-athon threads, recently loaded public pics .. Friends or hot list... Its not often I'll do a random search

Lately i working my way through videos

Oh i take a whole photo album of inspiration when i go on meets and say i wamna recreate this... At which point i get a pained eyebrow lift and a resigned get on with it then

The majority of my pictures are self taken. I've recently discovered that the cardboard my subscription coffee comes in helps prop my phone up for pictures on my bed."

I got a free tripod from somewhere... I love it!

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Definitely. But shirts, ties, scarves... guys have options."

They do have options but I can't think of any particular male who utilises colour. Where I can name several women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to avoid profiles with 99m cock angles and /or poor lighting /contrast (i like what i like lol)

I usually look through photos of profiles participating in the fab-athon threads, recently loaded public pics .. Friends or hot list... Its not often I'll do a random search

Lately i working my way through videos

Oh i take a whole photo album of inspiration when i go on meets and say i wamna recreate this... At which point i get a pained eyebrow lift and a resigned get on with it then

The majority of my pictures are self taken. I've recently discovered that the cardboard my subscription coffee comes in helps prop my phone up for pictures on my bed.

I got a free tripod from somewhere... I love it! "

We got a tripod and a little light. Taking things to the next level.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Definitely. But shirts, ties, scarves... guys have options.

They do have options but I can't think of any particular male who utilises colour. Where I can name several women. "

I look far better in B&W plus the licence is cheaper

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Definitely. But shirts, ties, scarves... guys have options.

They do have options but I can't think of any particular male who utilises colour. Where I can name several women. "

It's definitely true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to avoid profiles with 99m cock angles and /or poor lighting /contrast (i like what i like lol)

I usually look through photos of profiles participating in the fab-athon threads, recently loaded public pics .. Friends or hot list... Its not often I'll do a random search

Lately i working my way through videos

Oh i take a whole photo album of inspiration when i go on meets and say i wamna recreate this... At which point i get a pained eyebrow lift and a resigned get on with it then

Yeah we also get carried away and forget... So its usually right at the end haha as we are contemplating leaving... Initially i took a few from video stills and it took off from there.. I never include faces which makes us both more comfortable

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over a year ago

I try to avoid profiles with 99m cock angles and /or poor lighting /contrast (i like what i like lol)

I usually look through photos of profiles participating in the fab-athon threads, recently loaded public pics .. Friends or hot list... Its not often I'll do a random search

Lately i working my way through videos

Oh i take a whole photo album of inspiration when i go on meets and say i wamna recreate this... At which point i get a pained eyebrow lift and a resigned get on with it then

Ooh must check these out for some inspiration!!!

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Definitely. But shirts, ties, scarves... guys have options.

They do have options but I can't think of any particular male who utilises colour. Where I can name several women.

It's definitely true."

And I think possibly that women are far comfier with their creativity for photography on here. Thinking especially with forum challenges, some of the ideas are amazing and again the stand out ones are female. Think this is probably why the majority of the pictures I fab are female.

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By *eavertracker OP Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater

At times I do men become easily deflated because our images don't get fabbed that much, from my personal view it takes quite alot of strength to keep posting pics even when they are not fabbed,...women get fabs constantly on their pics and I know that's an amazing buzz,....so I can totally understand alot of men get deflated from adding pics

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"At times I do men become easily deflated because our images don't get fabbed that much, from my personal view it takes quite alot of strength to keep posting pics even when they are not fabbed,...women get fabs constantly on their pics and I know that's an amazing buzz,....so I can totally understand alot of men get deflated from adding pics"

I can see what you mean, but try not to think of it like that. It's not like I'm going to be on page one of hot pics. And sometimes you can question why do I bother. But your profile is your shop window, so it's definitely worth it, I wouldn't speak to a shadow. Guess it depends what function you want from your photos

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Thing is though and what a lot of men seem to miss - there's two distinct opposites at play when it comes to Fabs on pics.

Men are in the majority of users so logic dictates that women will get more - it also dictates that men will do so because they believe it will get them noticed by the recipient.

Women are in the minority so by comparison the number of Fabs they give will always be proportionally less and they don't tend to Fab pics of guys so readily as they don't need to attract the attention and because by doing so they risk being bombarded with "you fabbed me therefore you must want to fuck me" messages.

So in summary men not getting as many Fabs makes perfectly logical sense

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By *eavertracker OP Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater

I was just speaking out for alot of the men, I totally agree, I add pics to be viewed upon as my shop window.....why do you think I'm such a pic slut lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t post pics to get to top spot or to achieve fabs. I post them across a few different platforms and it’s just a lot of fun. Don’t give it much else thought.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"I was just speaking out for alot of the men, I totally agree, I add pics to be viewed upon as my shop window.....why do you think I'm such a pic slut lol

Haha like your style

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I was just speaking out for alot of the men, I totally agree, I add pics to be viewed upon as my shop window.....why do you think I'm such a pic slut lol

Haha same.

I don't put too much value in Fabs, except as "picture x does better than picture y, maybe I should take more like x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Black and white certainly have that class, I get that,...but do they allow the individual looking to think about sex, this is my point

Oh yes

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

If I fancy someone I can look at a picture of them fully dressed and think about sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I fancy someone I can look at a picture of them fully dressed and think about sex. "

YES!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From my previous set of pics (lost when I flounced off here in a man huff in July), my b&w pics almost always did better in terms of Fabs.

Although it seems a boing/helicopter vid is an inexplicable gateway to success recently....

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