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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent

I hate it . Doesnt arouse me at all without a play before during n after .

Anyone else the same that cant do fuck cum go meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like oral. There's other things to do apart from fuck cum go

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I could go without receiving but I do like to give

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t like rules. No oral, no kissing, no condoms, it doesn’t do it for me. X

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I hate it . Doesnt arouse me at all without a play before during n after .

Anyone else the same that cant do fuck cum go meets "

this is a genuine question, is oral the only foreplay you like?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm not that keen on oral. Doesn't interest me

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I enjoy oral both ways but then I like to just go with the flow without an agenda and see where it leads...

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By *xciter7169Man
over a year ago

The Midlands


"I could go without receiving but I do like to give "
Sounds like my ideal women

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By *xciter7169Man
over a year ago

The Midlands


"I could go without receiving but I do like to give Sounds like my ideal women "
Woman

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By *ublinGirl92Woman
over a year ago

Hell

I love oral! Giving and receiving. Oral is my favourite way to cum.

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent


"I don’t like rules. No oral, no kissing, no condoms, it doesn’t do it for me. X"
ditto

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent


"I love oral! Giving and receiving. Oral is my favourite way to cum. "

Finding its the only way i cum now

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent

Rimming gets me so aroused....if i dont do this or receive it on a meet i do struggle to be very horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like receiving more than I like giving......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't beat a good quickie sometimes though. Lift the dress, drop the trousers and fuck like rabbits. No time for oral then

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By *aywalton1Man
over a year ago

Walton on the Hill

Happy not to receive, but I adore giving oral to a lady. Really turns me on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to give (no lockjaw here!) and gutted if a lady doesn't like to receive. For a one off I guess it wouldn't be an issue but not sure I could have a FWB/partner who didn't love sitting on my face!

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent

It should be a must that a woman gives !!!

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Ive had plenty of meets where there is no sex, just oral and other play.

I would rather go without sex in a meet than go without oral tbh.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I enjoy receiving oral but it's not something I need all the time. I need to be in the mood for it. Plenty of other things that get me going.

I would prefer to give rather than receive x

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

It's all I had for a long time (not my decision btw) so I'm used to it not being there.

But I love giving oral to a woman and feeling her squirm on my face in pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes...just sometimes, oral can be better than sex (obvs depending who you’re having sex with). I do enjoy giving though

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By *ral Extraordinaire OP   Man
over a year ago

Kent


"Sometimes...just sometimes, oral can be better than sex (obvs depending who you’re having sex with). I do enjoy giving though "

I agree deffo !!

Older i get pounding sex im finding boring the longer it goes on . Needs some kind of spicing up !

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Sometimes...just sometimes, oral can be better than sex (obvs depending who you’re having sex with). I do enjoy giving though

I agree deffo !!

Older i get pounding sex im finding boring the longer it goes on . Needs some kind of spicing up !"

I'll be honest and say penetrative sex would be one thing I could do without if I had to - don't get me wrong, it can be pleasurable but if I had to take away one element of my sex life I could happily do without it

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I have to say it would certainly be removing a lot of the fun.

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

I love giving and receiving oral sex but have in the past lost interest at times. It changes for me and is never the same.. Always a journey of new sensations.

Yesterday my lover was sitting on the floor as I walked past in my nightie. He pulled me gently over to him so that I stood over him and he gave me oral while I was standing there until my legs were shaking and we were both totally aroused. It led us into an amazing zone. I'd forgotten about that angle!

Like kissing, penetrative sex and any other form of intimacy, if it gets predictable and samey, it can be boring. Try new angles and situations. Like all things sensual and sexual, it takes a little exploring or just the right person to revive lost or forgotten or even never found pleasures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of wet oral please sloppy oral is the best

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

As much as I love giving my hottest meets were with an old fuck & go, no foreplay, no talking, just fuck & fuck off.

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By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

Not a great fan of receiving it myself - its interesting that quite a few other ladies aren't that keen either.

I do like to give though

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I generally like to build up to things in terms of scope and intensity. I don't do oral only meets as a rule and I'd be put off by shag-only

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Love to give.

If receiving then I like a quick lick and crack on to something else

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Love to give.

If receiving then I like a quick lick and crack on to something else "

But what about coming back to the licking afterwards? X

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"Love to give.

If receiving then I like a quick lick and crack on to something else

But what about coming back to the licking afterwards? X"

Only if they are licking up their cum

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Love to give.

If receiving then I like a quick lick and crack on to something else

But what about coming back to the licking afterwards? X

Only if they are licking up their cum "

I was thinking more like licking your's up.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Oral sex is the best love giving and receiving !!

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Ooh! We both wouldn't like that as oral is a big thing for us, plenty of oral only sessions here. Now a quickie is slightly different

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By *uv2lick2018Man
over a year ago

Windsor

Giving oral is a must for me but if I don’t receive it I’m not too fussed

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Sex without oral, fuck noooooo cant be done. Love it to much and not even on me i just love giving

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

Nothing better than licking a woman to a orgasm

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"Nothing better than licking a woman to a orgasm "

Cunning from oral is the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love oral! Giving and receiving. Oral is my favourite way to cum. "

Foreplay and oral before during and after. Please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give head for me. That king energy, I'm here for a good time for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love giving and receiving oral sex but have in the past lost interest at times. It changes for me and is never the same.. Always a journey of new sensations.

Yesterday my lover was sitting on the floor as I walked past in my nightie. He pulled me gently over to him so that I stood over him and he gave me oral while I was standing there until my legs were shaking and we were both totally aroused. It led us into an amazing zone. I'd forgotten about that angle!

Like kissing, penetrative sex and any other form of intimacy, if it gets predictable and samey, it can be boring. Try new angles and situations. Like all things sensual and sexual, it takes a little exploring or just the right person to revive lost or forgotten or even never found pleasures. Right on lady .

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By *ealArtfulDodgerMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I can never get there from receiving oral yet I love it

However if its mutual oral then there's no better way if you both get there together

It takes me an age tho just sayin

A x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How could you say that. It sounds like you haven't had it done properly.

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By *rmainman10Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Whhaaat!! Oral is a must... Well I do love to give it.. licking the V till it's ready to pop and waiting for the squirt to hit your face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the scenario.. if we've been spooning a while and she's been grinding on me I'm not too interested in oral I'm just gonna want to slip inside

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We joke about this as sometimes when we haven’t seen each other for a few days, you just want the ‘I need you now’ urgency and so you go from kissing to sex...

But yes, we both adore giving and receiving oral and it’s an absolute must!

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t like rules. No oral, no kissing, no condoms, it doesn’t do it for me. X"

I dont like rules then give three rules?

Irony.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, I definitely have to give, I love it

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By *agnar1980Man
over a year ago

Poole

I love to give oral! Nothing better than licking a wet juicy pussy til she cums.

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By *umstibleMan
over a year ago

Colindale


"I don’t like rules. No oral, no kissing, no condoms, it doesn’t do it for me. X

I dont like rules then give three rules?

Irony."

What she said was 'i dont like rules' and then proceeded to give some examples of ones she doesn't like loooool how did you manage to understand that differently?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No no no, oral is a must x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No oral????

Call me greedy but I want, kissing, foreplay, oral... Oh yes and sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oral and lots of 4play is a must for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate it . Doesnt arouse me at all without a play before during n after .

Anyone else the same that cant do fuck cum go meets

this is a genuine question, is oral the only foreplay you like? "

Not the only one, but it is the major one

Nipple play does nothing to me or for me

Even with a wank / being played with, I'd kinda be thinking a blowjob would be in order before the main event

I don't derive any pleasure from 'toys' being used by me or on me

I can't do 'sexy talk' - infact, it makes me cringe

I'm not into being obviously seduced, again I find it kinda cringey and me smirking at someone whilst they do their best to turn me on is rarely sexy

I don't find underwear or other clothing perceived to be 'sexy' a turn on in the slightest

So, whilst I am aware that there are two people in this, I wouldn't personally derive much pleasure from them and wouldn't be very likely to be aroused by them

I think, for me, the biggest turn on that can lead to direct penetration is kisses and cuddles

Go figure, we're a complex breed us humans

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a meet in a club a few years ago and the woman wasn't interested in either giving or receiving oral but we still had plenty of fun fucking and using toys on each other

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By *oxyVikingCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia

Agreed! We struggle to not kiss or any oral. It’s hard to get yourself going without! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the partner. If it’s long term then a build of of some sorts is great. If it’s a hook up, then I’ll take what comes. If they are dropping their draws I’m not complaining about what’s not happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to give and love to receive. I do prefer no rush sex but a bj is a must as a minimum of foreplay.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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Sex without receiving oral sounds the best kind of sex ever. Means I don't have to lie there and pretend to enjoy myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex without receiving oral sounds the best kind of sex ever. Means I don't have to lie there and pretend to enjoy myself "

I'd change special friends

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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"Sex without receiving oral sounds the best kind of sex ever. Means I don't have to lie there and pretend to enjoy myself

I'd change special friends "

It just doesn't do it for me, never has, no special friend as you like to say could change that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing like A cheeky hard fuck,half clothed with the fear of being discovered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too, I like to tell a lady what to do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love giving oral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends. If sex comes from spooning, I wouldn’t break that to get into oral.

But if starts and other way, then not including oral would feel like an element was missing; I love going down on a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind 69 as it's fair. Otherwise I'm not too bothered. I wouldn't start it as it does nothing for me.

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

Pleasure the the woman you you shall reap the rewards.

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