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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

People say it doesn’t go on but what do YOU think? Does it? Do people get possessive on here? Is there a secret “code” that if someone’s seeing someone you can’t?

What are your thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s eased off, seems a lot more relaxed now and inclusive, can’t put my finger on why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s eased off, seems a lot more relaxed now and inclusive, can’t put my finger on why. "

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I can’t walk past a lamppost without pissing all over it to stake my claim.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it’s eased off, seems a lot more relaxed now and inclusive, can’t put my finger on why. "

What makes you say that? Just being curious.. this is a swing site after all not a dating one obviously if you find love on here fantastic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can’t walk past a lamppost without pissing all over it to stake my claim. "

Lol

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I can’t walk past a lamppost without pissing all over it to stake my claim. "

With a penis like that, I'm not surprised. It must be like trying to control an electric eel

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can’t walk past a lamppost without pissing all over it to stake my claim.

With a penis like that, I'm not surprised. It must be like trying to control an electric eel "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never needed to. He knows I’ll rip his bollocks off if he even looks at a boob on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the smell of other dogs piss on my lampposts.

There’s something very arousing about that sugar puff smell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can’t walk past a lamppost without pissing all over it to stake my claim. "

As long as you don’t piss up my back and tell me it’s raining

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Of course it goes on and always has done - have always avoided personally - have never needed to broadcast who I'm meeting or issue virtual "hands off" messages

In fact since I hid my "meet" veris, most people wouldn't have a clue who I've met as if anything I am quite the opposite of a lamp post pisser

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By *o Trash in My TrailerMan
over a year ago

Daytona Beach

Piss on a lamppost round here and you would get tazered.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Of course it goes on and always has done - have always avoided personally - have never needed to broadcast who I'm meeting or issue virtual "hands off" messages

In fact since I hid my "meet" veris, most people wouldn't have a clue who I've met as if anything I am quite the opposite of a lamp post pisser "

Drama free is the best way to enjoy yourself and indulge in the lifestyle.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I think it’s eased off, seems a lot more relaxed now and inclusive, can’t put my finger on why. "

I don't think it happens as much as it used to. In the past as soon as someone hot/wanted would comment, bam, there would be a post with leg cocked and urine running a steady stream. I think as much as it is a swingers site, people want to feel special/don't like seeing others flirting with someone. I think also sometimes they just get a bit carried away with replying, like they think they have good banter with x and want to carry it on as much as possible.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never needed to. He knows I’ll rip his bollocks off if he even looks at a boob on here "

Haha feisty I like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s eased off, seems a lot more relaxed now and inclusive, can’t put my finger on why.

I don't think it happens as much as it used to. In the past as soon as someone hot/wanted would comment, bam, there would be a post with leg cocked and urine running a steady stream. I think as much as it is a swingers site, people want to feel special/don't like seeing others flirting with someone. I think also sometimes they just get a bit carried away with replying, like they think they have good banter with x and want to carry it on as much as possible. "

*cocks leg*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it’s eased off, seems a lot more relaxed now and inclusive, can’t put my finger on why.

I don't think it happens as much as it used to. In the past as soon as someone hot/wanted would comment, bam, there would be a post with leg cocked and urine running a steady stream. I think as much as it is a swingers site, people want to feel special/don't like seeing others flirting with someone. I think also sometimes they just get a bit carried away with replying, like they think they have good banter with x and want to carry it on as much as possible. "

Im inclined to agree. You see it a lot in here. I’ve seen it in person at clubs/events there’s always the token “hot bod” and their harem.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Not sure where the line between lamp post pissing and genuine banter between friends is. It doesn't bother me I kind of like seeing a bit of flirting on the forum to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah hands up ive been guilty of it when i was like 24 and wrapped up in the throws of 'young lurve'.. we both met on the forums and the relationship developed. Regular posters saw us fall for each other..

started as friends and naturally we would comment on each others posts.

hindsight it was so unattractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never needed to. He knows I’ll rip his bollocks off if he even looks at a boob on here

Haha feisty I like it. "

. Only messing. I agree with Gemini Man. I’ve learnt it’s best to keep it private. In fact we tend to not comment on each other’s posts and comments on purpose now x

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I wouldn't do it to anyone as I like to share and anyone I've met knows not to do it to me or I'm walking away quick smart

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Got turned down recently because I’m “friends with one of her friends”. She didn’t say who... but if it is who I think it is. We haven’t even met for best part of a year.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not sure where the line between lamp post pissing and genuine banter between friends is. It doesn't bother me I kind of like seeing a bit of flirting on the forum to be honest. "

I genuinely meant like actual hands off messages. Flirting in an open public forum is somewhat different to warning someone off from someone.

One thing that I realise now compared to my naieve younger days (yes I know I’m still young haha) is that people are fickle. They also like their egos inflated.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Got turned down recently because I’m “friends with one of her friends”. She didn’t say who... but if it is who I think it is. We haven’t even met for best part of a year."

See this is what I mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s eased off, seems a lot more relaxed now and inclusive, can’t put my finger on why. "

Absolutely agree...Does seem more chill now

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

You can't get as high on these solar panel lamppost, and it a small surface to aim for

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah hands up ive been guilty of it when i was like 24 and wrapped up in the throws of 'young lurve'.. we both met on the forums and the relationship developed. Regular posters saw us fall for each other..

started as friends and naturally we would comment on each others posts.

hindsight it was so unattractive

"

Oh I know this feeling....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got turned down recently because I’m “friends with one of her friends”. She didn’t say who... but if it is who I think it is. We haven’t even met for best part of a year."

No idea who this is refering too and ive never spoken to you..

But yes i have also been guilty of thinking 'fuck that'.. when ive seen a guy associating with someone i take a dim view of..

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Not sure where the line between lamp post pissing and genuine banter between friends is. It doesn't bother me I kind of like seeing a bit of flirting on the forum to be honest.

I genuinely meant like actual hands off messages. Flirting in an open public forum is somewhat different to warning someone off from someone.

One thing that I realise now compared to my naieve younger days (yes I know I’m still young haha) is that people are fickle. They also like their egos inflated.

"

Those messages I perceive as possessive though and would be a total turn off for me, if I knew someone did that.

Totally agree with you everyone likes a bit of flattery

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Got turned down recently because I’m “friends with one of her friends”. She didn’t say who... but if it is who I think it is. We haven’t even met for best part of a year.

See this is what I mean"

I don't know if that's the same sort of thing as lamppost pissing. I wouldn't meet someone who has met one of my good friends because I've seen so many fallouts over men, the drama that can arise, the bitching etc. It's far easier if I steer clear of men in that situation because my friendships mean more to me than a minute of thrusting does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got turned down recently because I’m “friends with one of her friends”. She didn’t say who... but if it is who I think it is. We haven’t even met for best part of a year.

No idea who this is refering too and ive never spoken to you..

But yes i have also been guilty of thinking 'fuck that'.. when ive seen a guy associating with someone i take a dim view of..

"

Oh yeah definitely. That’s a whole different subject I think. I’ll admit to not meeting people because they’ve met people I can’t stand.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Got turned down recently because I’m “friends with one of her friends”. She didn’t say who... but if it is who I think it is. We haven’t even met for best part of a year.

No idea who this is refering too and ive never spoken to you..

But yes i have also been guilty of thinking 'fuck that'.. when ive seen a guy associating with someone i take a dim view of..

"

It’s really interesting. Locally to me there’s someone on here who’s got a good reputation as being amazing in bed and who’s been in the lifestyle a long time, and I know of people being put off or taking a dislike to someone else because they’ve met him etc.

People are funny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got turned down recently because I’m “friends with one of her friends”. She didn’t say who... but if it is who I think it is. We haven’t even met for best part of a year.

No idea who this is refering too and ive never spoken to you..

But yes i have also been guilty of thinking 'fuck that'.. when ive seen a guy associating with someone i take a dim view of..

Oh yeah definitely. That’s a whole different subject I think. I’ll admit to not meeting people because they’ve met people I can’t stand. "

Least im not the only one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s actually incredibly tedious to watch it, you know exactly what they’re doing, take it to PM instead of putting on a show for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s actually incredibly tedious to watch it, you know exactly what they’re doing, take it to PM instead of putting on a show for everyone."

Noooo! It’s entertaining

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s actually incredibly tedious to watch it, you know exactly what they’re doing, take it to PM instead of putting on a show for everyone."

Amen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hang on will get my dog in on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s actually incredibly tedious to watch it, you know exactly what they’re doing, take it to PM instead of putting on a show for everyone.

Noooo! It’s entertaining "

Depends who it is I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never needed to. He knows I’ll rip his bollocks off if he even looks at a boob on here "

Not possessive at all then. Good to know..

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Not sure where the line between lamp post pissing and genuine banter between friends is. It doesn't bother me I kind of like seeing a bit of flirting on the forum to be honest. "

There *is* a fine line but you can usually tell - there have been times in the past where one half of the "couple" posts and within minutes the other half appears each and every time almost like they're sitting refreshing the green arrow screen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s actually incredibly tedious to watch it, you know exactly what they’re doing, take it to PM instead of putting on a show for everyone."

What? Where is the fun in that! People love to parade the drama llama, no fun otherwise

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

It’s actually happening on this thread OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never done it my self but I've been wrapped around one many times on a Saturday night

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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I think a lot of people have learnt to keep meets with other forum users quiet because of this...some people seem to see it as a green light to be less than pleasant to someone that the object of their desire meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s actually happening on this thread OP "

Oh I can tell. It’s entertaining to watch though as someone else said...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think a lot of people have learnt to keep meets with other forum users quiet because of this...some people seem to see it as a green light to be less than pleasant to someone that the object of their desire meets "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a lot of people have learnt to keep meets with other forum users quiet because of this...some people seem to see it as a green light to be less than pleasant to someone that the object of their desire meets "

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I think it’s eased off, seems a lot more relaxed now and inclusive, can’t put my finger on why.

Absolutely agree...Does seem more chill now "

Poor Chillout gets the blame for everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s eased off, seems a lot more relaxed now and inclusive, can’t put my finger on why.

Absolutely agree...Does seem more chill now

Poor Chillout gets the blame for everything "

Oh shush you or I'll drown that lampost of yours in piss if you're not careful

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Not sure where the line between lamp post pissing and genuine banter between friends is. It doesn't bother me I kind of like seeing a bit of flirting on the forum to be honest.

There *is* a fine line but you can usually tell - there have been times in the past where one half of the "couple" posts and within minutes the other half appears each and every time almost like they're sitting refreshing the green arrow screen"

Can't say I've noticed this kind of behaviour, but I'm not the most observant on here to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Problem is a lampost can never hide my marrow shaped appendage

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Got turned down recently because I’m “friends with one of her friends”. She didn’t say who... but if it is who I think it is. We haven’t even met for best part of a year.

No idea who this is refering too and ive never spoken to you..

But yes i have also been guilty of thinking 'fuck that'.. when ive seen a guy associating with someone i take a dim view of..

Oh yeah definitely. That’s a whole different subject I think. I’ll admit to not meeting people because they’ve met people I can’t stand. "

Might not relate to forum posting. But still territorial pissing for someone I no longer meet.

Each to their own...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Problem is a lampost can never hide my marrow shaped appendage "

You want to get that looked at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t know about lamppost pissing but I’ve seen less trolling though it still exists.

Even on this thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don’t know about lamppost pissing but I’ve seen less trolling though it still exists.

Even on this thread "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Problem is a lampost can never hide my marrow shaped appendage

You want to get that looked at."

It's the lampost on my miniature railway set

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t know about lamppost pissing but I’ve seen less trolling though it still exists.

Even on this thread "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems to calmed down.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"People say it doesn’t go on but what do YOU think? Does it? Do people get possessive on here? Is there a secret “code” that if someone’s seeing someone you can’t?

What are your thoughts? "

It happens all the time here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You lot are hilarious

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"I think a lot of people have learnt to keep meets with other forum users quiet because of this...some people seem to see it as a green light to be less than pleasant to someone that the object of their desire meets "

I’d agree with you Lily. Likewise where the object of their desire shows interest in other people....... and the green eyes monster appears in those who think they are entitled to claim their stake!

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"I think it’s eased off, seems a lot more relaxed now and inclusive, can’t put my finger on why.

Absolutely agree...Does seem more chill now

Poor Chillout gets the blame for everything "

I'm being much more low profile now and still get blamed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s eased off, seems a lot more relaxed now and inclusive, can’t put my finger on why.

Absolutely agree...Does seem more chill now

Poor Chillout gets the blame for everything

I'm being much more low profile now and still get blamed "

It's ok, I pissed on him and his lamp post for ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... and the green eyes monster appears in those who think they are entitled to claim their stake! "

Great malaprop!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"... and the green eyes monster appears in those who think they are entitled to claim their stake!

Great malaprop! "

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I have had private messages responding to perhaps some perceived flirting here but it was a long time ago. I don’t feel the need to participate.

V x

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

It’s not for me I’m more a private person, but each to their own, although at times it can be too much when it takes over a thread

Those that know me, know that anything they see on the forum is just friendly banter, anything else happens away from prying eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got turned down recently because I’m “friends with one of her friends”. She didn’t say who... but if it is who I think it is. We haven’t even met for best part of a year.

See this is what I mean

I don't know if that's the same sort of thing as lamppost pissing. I wouldn't meet someone who has met one of my good friends because I've seen so many fallouts over men, the drama that can arise, the bitching etc. It's far easier if I steer clear of men in that situation because my friendships mean more to me than a minute of thrusting does."

Agreed. 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s actually incredibly tedious to watch it, you know exactly what they’re doing, take it to PM instead of putting on a show for everyone.

Noooo! It’s entertaining "

It really isn’t you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru


"Got turned down recently because I’m “friends with one of her friends”. She didn’t say who... but if it is who I think it is. We haven’t even met for best part of a year.

See this is what I mean

I don't know if that's the same sort of thing as lamppost pissing. I wouldn't meet someone who has met one of my good friends because I've seen so many fallouts over men, the drama that can arise, the bitching etc. It's far easier if I steer clear of men in that situation because my friendships mean more to me than a minute of thrusting does.

Agreed. 100%"

This

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"It’s actually incredibly tedious to watch it, you know exactly what they’re doing, take it to PM instead of putting on a show for everyone.

Noooo! It’s entertaining

It really isn’t you know."

It’s not entertaining at all - it’s territory marking in public! It’s not an endearing quality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it depends on your thoughts of a person and the manner in which they lamppost piss. It can be seen as cute or crass depending. I don't take much notice to try and figure out who's doing who, because quite frankly I imagine it's a pretty tangled web.

I know I do for one person, simply because they like it. And they're (50%) mine

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I know I've done it plenty but never notice others doing it, then again I'm generally oblivious to most things on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said it doesn't happen anywhere near as much as it did. There was a point a few months ago when it was pretty much every post to be fair.

I think sometimes though friends chatting or flirting can be seen as "lamp post pissing" when its just fun .

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"I guess it depends on your thoughts of a person and the manner in which they lamppost piss. It can be seen as cute or crass depending. I don't take much notice to try and figure out who's doing who, because quite frankly I imagine it's a pretty tangled web.

I know I do for one person, simply because they like it. And they're (50%) mine "

Whatever do you mean dear?

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

It probably doesn't happen as much or as obviously because people aren't meeting as much or as obviously .

Don't think any kind of magic "maturity wand" has been waved

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yes some people can get possessive but then some just enjoy flirty banter. Personally I'm not going to do the whole pretending not to know each other thing with anyone I consider a friend, whether that relationship is sexual or not but nobody has claim to me. I'm not an object to be owned and I'm open about the fact I meet multiple people and I take no issue with my sexual partners doing the same. That's swinging .

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Yes some people can get possessive but then some just enjoy flirty banter. Personally I'm not going to do the whole pretending not to know each other thing with anyone I consider a friend, whether that relationship is sexual or not but nobody has claim to me. I'm not an object to be owned and I'm open about the fact I meet multiple people and I take no issue with my sexual partners doing the same. That's swinging . "

Actually the point I wanted to make. No one has claim to me too!

...but thread went a bit west and seemed to focus on forum relationships rather than the point of the OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As others have said it doesn't happen anywhere near as much as it did. There was a point a few months ago when it was pretty much every post to be fair.

I think sometimes though friends chatting or flirting can be seen as "lamp post pissing" when its just fun . "

I've made several friends on here and alot of it is being playful back and forth with each other. I honestly didn't realize it could be seen as any other way . It's meant to be fun isn't it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People say it doesn’t go on but what do YOU think? Does it? Do people get possessive on here? Is there a secret “code” that if someone’s seeing someone you can’t?

What are your thoughts? "

No one should have a claim on anyone here unless they want to be claimed. Some here like to give subtle little warnings that this guy or that guy is their's. You'll see the hints dropped in forum threads or an update on their status . It can be rather amusing at times to see the feathers flapping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As others have said it doesn't happen anywhere near as much as it did. There was a point a few months ago when it was pretty much every post to be fair.

I think sometimes though friends chatting or flirting can be seen as "lamp post pissing" when its just fun .

I've made several friends on here and alot of it is being playful back and forth with each other. I honestly didn't realize it could be seen as any other way . It's meant to be fun isn't it ? "

Well thats how I see it. I have seen obvious am pissing but on the whole I think it's just playful banter or people that are in couples but just have separate profiles. (Yes im talking about me and Ash but we've never been subtle)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As others have said it doesn't happen anywhere near as much as it did. There was a point a few months ago when it was pretty much every post to be fair.

I think sometimes though friends chatting or flirting can be seen as "lamp post pissing" when its just fun .

I've made several friends on here and alot of it is being playful back and forth with each other. I honestly didn't realize it could be seen as any other way . It's meant to be fun isn't it ?

Well thats how I see it. I have seen obvious am pissing but on the whole I think it's just playful banter or people that are in couples but just have separate profiles. (Yes im talking about me and Ash but we've never been subtle)

"

I agree with you 100 %

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All this time, I just thought it was just a forum clique.....

Now my eyes have been open to lamppost pissing....,.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It probably doesn't happen as much or as obviously because people aren't meeting as much or as obviously .

Don't think any kind of magic "maturity wand" has been waved "

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"As others have said it doesn't happen anywhere near as much as it did. There was a point a few months ago when it was pretty much every post to be fair.

I think sometimes though friends chatting or flirting can be seen as "lamp post pissing" when its just fun .

I've made several friends on here and alot of it is being playful back and forth with each other. I honestly didn't realize it could be seen as any other way . It's meant to be fun isn't it ?

Well thats how I see it. I have seen obvious am pissing but on the whole I think it's just playful banter or people that are in couples but just have separate profiles. (Yes im talking about me and Ash but we've never been subtle)

"

True but you don't chase ash's posts constantly when a lady chats to him and dump your stamp on him claiming him xxx

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Yes some people can get possessive but then some just enjoy flirty banter. Personally I'm not going to do the whole pretending not to know each other thing with anyone I consider a friend, whether that relationship is sexual or not but nobody has claim to me. I'm not an object to be owned and I'm open about the fact I meet multiple people and I take no issue with my sexual partners doing the same. That's swinging . "

I think there's a huge difference between flirty banter and friendships playing out and lamp post pissing though - the former two occur naturally and instinctively - the latter is a deliberate act and they're quite distinctive from each other in how they play out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Problem is a lampost can never hide my marrow shaped appendage "

I have the same issue with my aubergine shaped penis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As others have said it doesn't happen anywhere near as much as it did. There was a point a few months ago when it was pretty much every post to be fair.

I think sometimes though friends chatting or flirting can be seen as "lamp post pissing" when its just fun .

I've made several friends on here and alot of it is being playful back and forth with each other. I honestly didn't realize it could be seen as any other way . It's meant to be fun isn't it ?

Well thats how I see it. I have seen obvious am pissing but on the whole I think it's just playful banter or people that are in couples but just have separate profiles. (Yes im talking about me and Ash but we've never been subtle)

"

Yeah but you two are just way too cute!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess it depends on your thoughts of a person and the manner in which they lamppost piss. It can be seen as cute or crass depending. I don't take much notice to try and figure out who's doing who, because quite frankly I imagine it's a pretty tangled web.

I know I do for one person, simply because they like it. And they're (50%) mine

Whatever do you mean dear? "

you Darling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s eased off, seems a lot more relaxed now and inclusive, can’t put my finger on why. "

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"I guess it depends on your thoughts of a person and the manner in which they lamppost piss. It can be seen as cute or crass depending. I don't take much notice to try and figure out who's doing who, because quite frankly I imagine it's a pretty tangled web.

I know I do for one person, simply because they like it. And they're (50%) mine

Whatever do you mean dear?

you Darling "

Take it to DMs for goodness sake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its funny to observe both parts of the couple flirt their way around the forums.. but if one person recieves a bit of attention the heckles from the other partner goes up.

Hippocrites.

It to me demonstrates neediness, insecurity, jealous and paranoia perhaps.

As stated already ive been guilty of the whole lamp post pissing thing and with hindsight i cringe at my actions back then. Thank fuck i grew up

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Its funny to observe both parts of the couple flirt their way around the forums.. but if one person recieves a bit of attention the heckles from the other partner goes up.

Hippocrites.

It to me demonstrates neediness, insecurity, jealous and paranoia perhaps.

As stated already ive been guilty of the whole lamp post pissing thing and with hindsight i cringe at my actions back then. Thank fuck i grew up "

That’s the difference! Recognition you’re doing it and knowing when to stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess it depends on your thoughts of a person and the manner in which they lamppost piss. It can be seen as cute or crass depending. I don't take much notice to try and figure out who's doing who, because quite frankly I imagine it's a pretty tangled web.

I know I do for one person, simply because they like it. And they're (50%) mine

Whatever do you mean dear?

you Darling

Take it to DMs for goodness sake "

Wanna join us there?

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"I guess it depends on your thoughts of a person and the manner in which they lamppost piss. It can be seen as cute or crass depending. I don't take much notice to try and figure out who's doing who, because quite frankly I imagine it's a pretty tangled web.

I know I do for one person, simply because they like it. And they're (50%) mine

Whatever do you mean dear?

you Darling

Take it to DMs for goodness sake

Wanna join us there? "

Waaa but yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As others have said it doesn't happen anywhere near as much as it did. There was a point a few months ago when it was pretty much every post to be fair.

I think sometimes though friends chatting or flirting can be seen as "lamp post pissing" when its just fun .

I've made several friends on here and alot of it is being playful back and forth with each other. I honestly didn't realize it could be seen as any other way . It's meant to be fun isn't it ?

Well thats how I see it. I have seen obvious am pissing but on the whole I think it's just playful banter or people that are in couples but just have separate profiles. (Yes im talking about me and Ash but we've never been subtle)

True but you don't chase ash's posts constantly when a lady chats to him and dump your stamp on him claiming him xxx "

Oh god no. We both openly flirt on the forum and it really isn't a problem for either of us, its all just fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasn’t aware of this being a thing till today and yep it seems someone was pissing on my leg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wasn’t aware of this being a thing till today and yep it seems someone was pissing on my leg "

Me either!! Well Groot is a tree ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wasn’t aware of this being a thing till today and yep it seems someone was pissing on my leg

Me either!! Well Groot is a tree ... "

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

This is a sex site so piss on every lamppost there is OP

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I am not sure but dogs sure piss on them lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god. Been guilty of this. 2017 was a particularly pissy year. I had full on tantrums and meltdowns, it’s where yazoo comes from, it’s the code word to tell me I’m acting crazy!

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