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Kinkier as we get older

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By *cooby5555 OP   Man
over a year ago

galway

Anyone else here got kinkier as they got older more open more experimental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else here got kinkier as they got older more open more experimental "

absolutely

my kink at the moment is going down and cleaning a well fucked cum filled pussy, kissing, licking and sucking up both sets of cum & sperm from it

would never dream of doing that when younger, would run a mile at the thought

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

Yep most definitely, although I have always tried finding new ways to enjoy sex.

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Absolutely! Growing old disgracefully

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By *cooby5555 OP   Man
over a year ago

galway

Played with my first cock when 50 never ever thought I would do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think we just care less about what others think...not just in relation to sex but everything. I certainly do.

If you're not important to me then neither is your opinion of what I may or may not be doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely, you become more open and worry less.

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By *cooby5555 OP   Man
over a year ago

galway

Nice cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A big yes from me too.

Absolutely love a orally bi mmf

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By *cooby5555 OP   Man
over a year ago

galway

Find the female I will be around lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely agree with you on that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think we just care less about what others think...not just in relation to sex but everything. I certainly do.

If you're not important to me then neither is your opinion of what I may or may not be doing."

Exactly this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I’m getting older I defo want to experience things I’d never previously thought about. Suppose it’s due to my age and doing it before I am to old and bye passed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% yes!

After coming out of a 20 year vanilla marriage I am finally free to be who I really am sexually.

And I love it.

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By *oson-BlueCouple
over a year ago

North Kent

D was more wordly wise than I was when we meet, but we've definitely both become kinkier and more adventurous over the last four years or so. And why not, your only on this planet once, and when this current situation is over, we're only going to go on to greater heights (or plumb new depths )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice cock"

Thanks

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By *exySquirrelsCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I Red have definitely got more sexually active and experimental as I've got older. Try anything once sort of attitude. And since being with V she has opened up lots of new doors. Just need covid to bugger off do can get back yo the clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather try something to see what it's like rather than keep thinking "what if" or "I wish I'd done that" in my twilight years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really. Don’t need to prove anything and know what I like now. No need for boxes or labels or ‘pushing boundaries’.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see + read things and think yeah I'd like to do that... But what is the definition of filth? My filth is probably someone elses vanilla

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see + read things and think yeah I'd like to do that... But what is the definition of filth? My filth is probably someone elses vanilla "

Amazing body btw. Bit off topic, but what the hell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see + read things and think yeah I'd like to do that... But what is the definition of filth? My filth is probably someone elses vanilla

Amazing body btw. Bit off topic, but what the hell. "

Haha thanks!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Anyone else here got kinkier as they got older more open more experimental "

Guilty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely more adventurous as we have got older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else here got kinkier as they got older more open more experimental "

I was always open to being experimental, but with age definitely comes more confidence. But also I found the right partner to do things with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At 54 not for me no. I've always been a kinky male it's not something I've acquired over the years.

I do question why some older/mature people still don't know what does it for them and what doesn't.

I do believe some get into certain stuff just to get some action. I don't think that's being open minded or experimental, just perhaps a little desperation on their part.

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By *ittleRed18Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Oh dear if that's the case I think I'm in for some big trouble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else here got kinkier as they got older more open more experimental "

Oh aye kinky and filthy

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By *aldyreynoldsMan
over a year ago

Oldbury

Far more adventurous these days. If i have a fantasy i try to make it happen, rather than keep it in my mind.

Any nuns on here??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe cuz vanilla gets boring.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Definitely. When I think back to my younger days I was fairly innocent. I did explore my bi side but nowhere near as much as I should of done. If only I could turn back time.

Mrs

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Just an ever evolving sexuality!

Thinking back I was probably as kinky in my early 20’s as I am now... just have more life experiences behind me and know what works and what doesn’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else here got kinkier as they got older more open more experimental "

Definitely..kinkier,hornier and more open minded..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was definitely very naive about kink until later in life. Once the door was open though

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

So far, no. But I am more willing to explore. I accept myself enough to do so, I guess.

Kinky goes back a long time but I didn't allow myself to.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I don't necessarily think it's a case of you get kinkier, more you become more sexually confident and open to exploring over time and discover either new things or unsuppress old ones - and maturity means you're more open to discussing with a partner things you'd like to try.

I also think it may be a generational thing - that may well be different for younger people now than it was when I was their age - when I was in my formative sexual years, anything outside of vanilla was considered odd and mostly sniggered at - with the internet showing people that it is ok to like "different" things I suspect younger people are more open to exploring - although that doesn't come without its downsides either as there is a danger that young people can think some extreme activities are the norm and to be expected, which couldn't be further from the truth.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I discover new kinks as time goes on and I've evolved from being purely submissive to more switchy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely!

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice


"Anyone else here got kinkier as they got older more open more experimental "

Oh hell yes

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By *ontecristoMan
over a year ago

PonteCarlo

I don't know I was kinky too when I was younger you just get more knowledge about more kinks as you age.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Anyone else here got kinkier as they got older more open more experimental "

Yep, I can't walk into a room and not look at the best place to have sex or look for household items to bring into my kinky sex games.

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