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By *ax_uk_2009 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow

I spend time reading and replying to forum

posts. However it seems that replies need to smutty or insulting to get any conversation going. What ever happened to just being nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's nice. ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I spend time reading and replying to forum

posts. However it seems that replies need to smutty or insulting to get any conversation going. What ever happened to just being nice."

Rule 1 of Fab - you can never, ever win.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Try being weird. Works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try being weird. Works for me "

Freak like you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I spend time reading and replying to forum

posts. However it seems that replies need to smutty or insulting to get any conversation going. What ever happened to just being nice."

Nice guys come last, sadly it is a reality. But don’t lower your standards we are in strange times, things will get better. Try treating this site as a place to meet friends. You cannot do anything else at the moment anyway, no matter what some think. Then when it is over you will have met some lovely people you would actually want to meet and see where that goes.

Good luck and stay safe

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Nices guys come ____?

...or maybe that’s cum ____?

Kind of a blankety blank thing

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Nice guys come last? I'd say that's nonsense. We chat to all sorts of people but call out/ don't tolerate rudeness etc.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I spend time reading and replying to forum

posts. However it seems that replies need to smutty or insulting to get any conversation going. What ever happened to just being nice."

You've started another thread about chatting but you haven't replied to anyone who's answered your original post.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"Try being weird. Works for me "

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"Nices guys come ____?

...or maybe that’s cum ____?

Kind of a blankety blank thing "

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London


"Nices guys come ____?

...or maybe that’s cum ____?

Kind of a blankety blank thing

"

Sideways?

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Nices guys come ____?

...or maybe that’s cum ____?

Kind of a blankety blank thing

Sideways?"

Unfortunately no cheque book and pen for you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nices guys come ____?

...or maybe that’s cum ____?

Kind of a blankety blank thing "

LOL, very good.

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London


"Nices guys come ____?

...or maybe that’s cum ____?

Kind of a blankety blank thing

Sideways?

Unfortunately no cheque book and pen for you! "

That’s so 1980s!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nices guys come ____?

...or maybe that’s cum ____?

Kind of a blankety blank thing

Sideways?

Unfortunately no cheque book and pen for you!

That’s so 1980s!"

My niece actually asked what a cheque book was the other day!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Nices guys come ____?

...or maybe that’s cum ____?

Kind of a blankety blank thing

Sideways?

Unfortunately no cheque book and pen for you!

That’s so 1980s!

My niece actually asked what a cheque book was the other day! "

We got taught how to write a cheque in PSHE lessons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nices guys come ____?

...or maybe that’s cum ____?

Kind of a blankety blank thing

Sideways?

Unfortunately no cheque book and pen for you!

That’s so 1980s!

My niece actually asked what a cheque book was the other day!

We got taught how to write a cheque in PSHE lessons "

We got taught how rabbits make babies in PSHE lessons.

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Torquay

I had to write a cheque recently, worried it wouldn't clear, must be a thirty year old cheque book. It did fortunately, or perhaps unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just peer in now.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I had to write a cheque recently, worried it wouldn't clear, must be a thirty year old cheque book. It did fortunately, or perhaps unfortunately "

My Grandad writes cheques for birthday and Christmas gifts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had to write a cheque recently, worried it wouldn't clear, must be a thirty year old cheque book. It did fortunately, or perhaps unfortunately

My Grandad writes cheques for birthday and Christmas gifts "

Ashs dad does this.

I dont think iv ever written a cheque.

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Torquay


"I had to write a cheque recently, worried it wouldn't clear, must be a thirty year old cheque book. It did fortunately, or perhaps unfortunately

My Grandad writes cheques for birthday and Christmas gifts "

You know and I know but just in case for the benefit of everyone else I am not your grandad

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I had to write a cheque recently, worried it wouldn't clear, must be a thirty year old cheque book. It did fortunately, or perhaps unfortunately

My Grandad writes cheques for birthday and Christmas gifts

You know and I know but just in case for the benefit of everyone else I am not your grandad "

My Grandad is 89

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Torquay


"I had to write a cheque recently, worried it wouldn't clear, must be a thirty year old cheque book. It did fortunately, or perhaps unfortunately

My Grandad writes cheques for birthday and Christmas gifts

You know and I know but just in case for the benefit of everyone else I am not your grandad

My Grandad is 89 "

Mine is scattered around a crematorium garden along with my grandma, mum and uncle so make the most of still having one

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I had to write a cheque recently, worried it wouldn't clear, must be a thirty year old cheque book. It did fortunately, or perhaps unfortunately

My Grandad writes cheques for birthday and Christmas gifts

You know and I know but just in case for the benefit of everyone else I am not your grandad

My Grandad is 89

Mine is scattered around a crematorium garden along with my grandma, mum and uncle so make the most of still having one"

Trying, but Covid has other plans. My mum lives with him so he's not alone at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try being weird. Works for me "

With pics like those hun I’m not surprised :p xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I spend time reading and replying to forum

posts. However it seems that replies need to smutty or insulting to get any conversation going. What ever happened to just being nice."

Just ignore the posts you don't like and contribute to ones you do.

Works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I spend time reading and replying to forum

posts. However it seems that replies need to smutty or insulting to get any conversation going. What ever happened to just being nice.

You've started another thread about chatting but you haven't replied to anyone who's answered your original post. "

That's nice, OP...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Being yourself is the best thing. Everyone adds something to discussions, even if many posts don't get quoted etc. If you were physically in a large group of people discussing a topic, you'd find something similar happening. Often in fab it's managing our expectations that is the most important step, to ensure that we are comfortable here

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

No point writing anything here then if you ain't gonna reply.

Responses not flirty enough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had to write a cheque recently, worried it wouldn't clear, must be a thirty year old cheque book. It did fortunately, or perhaps unfortunately

My Grandad writes cheques for birthday and Christmas gifts

You know and I know but just in case for the benefit of everyone else I am not your grandad "

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