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The Secret Tea Party; A Question

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By *inky-Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Grantham

We've missed 3 and we should be at one tonight

Should I give up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No! Could do another outdoor one socially distanced in the spring. Maybe wait a few months to plan a date to see if the vaccines are rolled out. X

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Maybe they were so secret that even you didn't know about them?

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"We've missed 3 and we should be at one tonight

Should I give up?"

Nooooo if you give up and so does everyone else that will be the end of STP! Bear with.... hang on.... be patient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've missed 3 and we should be at one tonight

Should I give up?

Nooooo if you give up and so does everyone else that will be the end of STP! Bear with.... hang on.... be patient "

I totally agree with this and also you can't give up because one of the reasons I managed to persuade Ash we NEEDED to get a new sofa bed was so we could put people up for London socials.

So if you give up I lose part of my argument.

Seriously though you do a fantastic job and we would really love if you carried on and as soon as it is safe to do so we will be there with Bells on. X

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By *inky-Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Grantham

Thanks but there’s not many comments. I’m kind of down in the collective Covid dumps

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I hadn't seen this before, but you shouldn't give up Op. There's many a person who's enjoyed attending (myself included). Many regulars who attended it before are laying low now and off fab. Lack of response doesn't mean lack of interest. When the time us right and you are able to organise i'm sure there will be interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks but there’s not many comments. I’m kind of down in the collective Covid dumps "

Hi lovely, I get why you feel this way.

I think for many people the idea of going to a social right now just feels so far away but I wouldn't put any store in the fact that people haven't responded to the thread because the forums have been so quiet and threads that normally fill up really quickly just haven't then just died a death.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't give up KM xx

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Having travelled across the country to socials this was one I thought I’d hopefully get to one day.

Don’t give up

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Don't you bloody dare!

I'm yet to make it to one

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Where's Stingly "Thomas" Byron when ya need him?

Seriously though, as has been said, a lot of people who attended socials only posted on those kind of threads. Just keep it on the back burner for now and see how things pan out in the new year

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

We joined during the first lockdown so have yet to enjoy any group socials but are looking forward to attending as many as possible when things get back to normal.

One thing we have had plenty of however is time to chat and we have heard glowing things about the secret tea parties.

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

We joined during lock down so have never been to any socials. No idea what secret tea party is buy we're sold on the name alone

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Thanks but there’s not many comments. I’m kind of down in the collective Covid dumps "

Don’t give up, the opportunity will come again for socials xx

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru


"We joined during lock down so have never been to any socials. No idea what secret tea party is buy we're sold on the name alone"

Social events are just great, I’ve clicked so many miles from Newcastle to Heathrow attending them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you considered having an online stp? Zoom/teams or whatever? Seems to be working for the club's that are having virtual nights.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After over 5 years on fab I finally went to my first social just before lockdown.

Like others have said we are all in a different place mentally at the moment so lots of us are posting/responding to threads with the normal frequency.

When the time is right people will come.

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By *akbearMan
over a year ago

Newbury

What on earth have I been missing, benefits of joining fab a week before lockdown 1

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland


"We joined during lock down so have never been to any socials. No idea what secret tea party is buy we're sold on the name alone

Social events are just great, I’ve clicked so many miles from Newcastle to Heathrow attending them "

I suspect our weekends away could be getting used up with socials

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"No! Could do another outdoor one socially distanced in the spring. Maybe wait a few months to plan a date to see if the vaccines are rolled out. X"

Vaccines lol

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru


"We joined during lock down so have never been to any socials. No idea what secret tea party is buy we're sold on the name alone

Social events are just great, I’ve clicked so many miles from Newcastle to Heathrow attending them

I suspect our weekends away could be getting used up with socials "

Definitely I’ve made some great friends through socials

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I suspect our weekends away could be getting used up with socials "

They can become quite addictive, I did manage to fit one in earlier this year

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Thanks but there’s not many comments. I’m kind of down in the collective Covid dumps "

Sending you hugs, feeling a bit down in the dumps is understandable. As others have said, regular users/attendees of the socials aren't posting on the same level of frequency. Personally speaking, it's difficult to say I'll attend a social because I don't see as many threads as before and I don't know what the situation will be next year. Anyway, people will attend KM, x

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By *ye-spyMan
over a year ago

London


"We've missed 3 and we should be at one tonight

Should I give up?"

Don't give up on the socials Once the lockdown ends lots of people will be looking for socials to meet people.

Once the meet and socials part of the forum is unblocked people will be posting again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've missed 3 and we should be at one tonight

Should I give up?"

No don’t give up KM, I’m hoping to get down to you again. I miss seeing everyone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’d be a shame to give up on them for those who attend.

As you’re the last remaining of the organisers on here it’s testament to you for keeping it alive.

Having said that... I’m not arsed.

I messaged the profile once when you were all the height of popularity a few years back for an invitation and was ignored so never bothered with it again.

The Manchester Lounge Social group were far more inclusive and far less up their own arses which is why they became much more popular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is _he secret tea party? I clearly have missed something here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is _he secret tea party? I clearly have missed something here "

It's an organised group social usually held in London they are lots of fun by all accounts however we've not managed to get to one yet xx

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"It’d be a shame to give up on them for those who attend.

As you’re the last remaining of the organisers on here it’s testament to you for keeping it alive.

Having said that... I’m not arsed.

I messaged the profile once when you were all the height of popularity a few years back for an invitation and was ignored so never bothered with it again.

The Manchester Lounge Social group were far more inclusive and far less up their own arses which is why they became much more popular."

We really like the MLS crowd too. They are a great bunch of girls who organise it and are very good at it. Let's hope it can go ahead next year!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is _he secret tea party? I clearly have missed something here

It's an organised group social usually held in London they are lots of fun by all accounts however we've not managed to get to one yet xx"

Thanks, being in Manchester that'll be why never heard of it. However the Manchester Lounge Social... How do I find out more?

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway


"We've missed 3 and we should be at one tonight

Should I give up?"

Please don’t give up KM. I haven’t been yet!

At the moment when nothing is happening we’re all hyper aware of what we could have attended.

It’s more difficult not knowing when we can resume.

Remember you bring people together and it’s a wonderful event as far as the praise I’ve heard. Keep on keepin’ on x

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway


"What is _he secret tea party? I clearly have missed something here

It's an organised group social usually held in London they are lots of fun by all accounts however we've not managed to get to one yet xx

Thanks, being in Manchester that'll be why never heard of it. However the Manchester Lounge Social... How do I find out more? "

Pop this on your hotlist and wait until something can be arranged.

https://m.fabswingers.com/profile/lounge_social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We joined during lock down so have never been to any socials. No idea what secret tea party is buy we're sold on the name alone

Social events are just great, I’ve clicked so many miles from Newcastle to Heathrow attending them

I suspect our weekends away could be getting used up with socials "

That is exactly what we do actually, we use them as an opportunity to see new places and make a whole weekend of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will say when somebody is down is probably not the best time to give them a good kick.

Yes other socials are great but this is about one specific social.

It is bloody hard work organising one and occasionally people get missed or messages don't get replied to it's just how it goes.

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By *oneyBear100Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick area

We attended one years ago (think it was the 2nd one) been trying to attend on and off ever since but not had a place. Hopefully KM you'll keep it going as was the best social we've been to

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"What is _he secret tea party? I clearly have missed something here

It's an organised group social usually held in London they are lots of fun by all accounts however we've not managed to get to one yet xx

Thanks, being in Manchester that'll be why never heard of it. However the Manchester Lounge Social... How do I find out more? "

Check out the profile 'lounge social'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you both

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By *inky-Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Grantham

Thank you friends for the kind words

No invite message are ever ignored. We only ignore the messages that have given rise to the FAQs on the profile

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By *inky-Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Grantham


"ImMany regulars who attended it before are laying low now."

That’s good to know

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By *inky-Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Where's Stingly "Thomas" Byron when ya need him? "

Good question

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By *inky-Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Have you considered having an online stp? Zoom/teams or whatever? Seems to be working for the club's that are having virtual nights. "

I had thought of that but one of our USPs is that we take privacy very seriously and I didn’t think Zoom etc. Would work for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't call it a day please Kinky. You guys were the first people I met here and I still owe you a quiz.

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By *inky-Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Don't call it a day please Kinky. You guys were the first people I met here and I still owe you a quiz.

"

And hugs you gorgeous man

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London

Should have posted from here in the first place, probably not going to give up

KM

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Should have posted from here in the first place, probably not going to give up

KM"

HUZZAH!!!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Should have posted from here in the first place, probably not going to give up

KM"

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By *ye-spyMan
over a year ago

London


"Should have posted from here in the first place, probably not going to give up

KM"

I'm running low on crockery and need to win another cup

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

I'm hoping that when the world comes back from the wrong side of the looking glass, i might be invited to the STP...

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By *oneyBear100Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick area


"Should have posted from here in the first place, probably not going to give up

KM"

Woohoo, we've only made one and it was the best

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By *ip2Man
over a year ago

Near Maidenhead

I'd love to come to a Heathrow social when it's possible...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Socials can be awesome. Don't give up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should have posted from here in the first place, probably not going to give up

KM"

Fantastic news xx

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

No please don't I need to attend another one before you are allowed to end them.

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By *inky-Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Should have posted from here in the first place, probably not going to give up

KM

I'm running low on crockery and need to win another cup "

Do i recognise that torso?

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By *inky-Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I'd love to come to a Heathrow social when it's possible... "

That's not the same as the STP

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

No way!! I’m coming to another Tea Party next year! I miss you all

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By *inky-Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Should have posted from here in the first place, probably not going to give up

KM

HUZZAH!!!"

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By *inky-Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I'm hoping that when the world comes back from the wrong side of the looking glass, i might be invited to the STP..."

Me too

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By *inky-Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Should have posted from here in the first place, probably not going to give up

KM

Woohoo, we've only made one and it was the best "

Thank you

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By *inky-Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Socials can be awesome. Don't give up."

You're right and I won't

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By *inky-Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Should have posted from here in the first place, probably not going to give up

KM

Fantastic news xx"

You've got to get to one

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By *inky-Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Grantham


"No please don't I need to attend another one before you are allowed to end them. "

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By *inky-Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Grantham


"No way!! I’m coming to another Tea Party next year! I miss you all "

Oh good, awesome hugs on the cards...

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By *ye-spyMan
over a year ago

London


"Should have posted from here in the first place, probably not going to give up

KM

I'm running low on crockery and need to win another cup

Do i recognise that torso? "

You know what they say "once you've seen one you've seen them all".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should have posted from here in the first place, probably not going to give up

KM

Fantastic news xx

You've got to get to one "

I know xx

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

No! Maybe do an online one in a little used chat room!

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there

I need to add to my cup collection! Don't stop! I can't wait to see you all again and play ridiculous d*unken games!

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By *inky-Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Do i recognise that torso?

You know what they say "once you've seen one you've seen them all". "

Noooooo

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By *inky-Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I need to add to my cup collection! Don't stop! I can't wait to see you all again and play ridiculous d*unken games! "

Someone has had a name change. Or I really am going senile

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I've never been to one but would love to.

Don't give up

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I would love to attend another, once we're allowed out again.

Missed my old STP friends.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"I need to add to my cup collection! Don't stop! I can't wait to see you all again and play ridiculous d*unken games!

Someone has had a name change. Or I really am going senile "

Different fruit

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By *inky-Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I've never been to one but would love to.

Don't give up "

Then you shall

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By *inky-Minx OP   Woman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Someone has had a name change. Or I really am going senile

Different fruit "

I thought so. I’m not good with naked bodies

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there


"Someone has had a name change. Or I really am going senile

Different fruit

I thought so. I’m not good with naked bodies "

Haha! Yes it's meee!

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London

Soooo...

In light of the latest Covid news we have decided to plan the next STP for June 26th 2021.

Obviously this could change at any time dependent on events and further Government guidance

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway


"Soooo...

In light of the latest Covid news we have decided to plan the next STP for June 26th 2021.

Obviously this could change at any time dependent on events and further Government guidance "

I would love to come down and see you!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Soooo...

In light of the latest Covid news we have decided to plan the next STP for June 26th 2021.

Obviously this could change at any time dependent on events and further Government guidance "

Do people drink Tea ?

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Soooo...

In light of the latest Covid news we have decided to plan the next STP for June 26th 2021.

Obviously this could change at any time dependent on events and further Government guidance

Do people drink Tea ?"

I'd bring a hip flask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Soooo...

In light of the latest Covid news we have decided to plan the next STP for June 26th 2021.

Obviously this could change at any time dependent on events and further Government guidance "

Ohhhh pop us down pretty please. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I be pemcilled in too?

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London


"Do people drink Tea ?"

I generally do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Soooo...

In light of the latest Covid news we have decided to plan the next STP for June 26th 2021.

Obviously this could change at any time dependent on events and further Government guidance "

Could you add me again please xx

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I would love to be considered for a invitation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to come too

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London

Forgot to say, same rules apply so please message the profile

It could be cancelled at any moment so I'll need all contacts in the profile's messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where is it held?

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By *oyj60Man
over a year ago

farnborough

Good evening, I would love to be considered for June. Please accept my membership.

Many thanks

Roy x

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"Soooo...

In light of the latest Covid news we have decided to plan the next STP for June 26th 2021.

Obviously this could change at any time dependent on events and further Government guidance "

pops head out of lurk mode.

Will there be cake ?

It will be good to catch up with old friends and possibly make some new ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forgot to say, same rules apply so please message the profile

It could be cancelled at any moment so I'll need all contacts in the profile's messages "

Done!

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London


"Where is it held?"

Generally central London

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London


" pops head out of lurk mode.

Will there be cake ?

It will be good to catch up with old friends and possibly make some new ones. "

Can't believe we haven't gotten together for over a year

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

The meet and event section is not open at the moment , you can't post about meets in other parts of the forum

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