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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone else feeling lonely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think lots of people are experiencing loneliness at the moment OP

Have you got anyone in a bubble?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think lots of people are experiencing loneliness at the moment OP

Have you got anyone in a bubble? "

Nope it's just me! I moved just before lock down to a new area

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Was going to pm you but I m outside your age limits - it does suck at the moment, I completely agree and many people feel they wake up each day feeling like a dark cloud is looming. We just have to get through this and the more people stick to what is being asked of them the sooner hopefully we will get there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loneliness is a rotten feeling

It's a common misconception that you have to be alone to feel it

You can be in a room filled with love and laughter and still feel it

OP, what do you think that you can do to lift your spirit and alter your mindset?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Was going to pm you but I m outside your age limits - it does suck at the moment, I completely agree and many people feel they wake up each day feeling like a dark cloud is looming. We just have to get through this and the more people stick to what is being asked of them the sooner hopefully we will get there. "

Thank you literal dark clouds today!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Loneliness is a rotten feeling

It's a common misconception that you have to be alone to feel it

You can be in a room filled with love and laughter and still feel it

OP, what do you think that you can do to lift your spirit and alter your mindset? "

Probably get out if bed lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Loneliness is horrible, especially at a time like this. What tier are you in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a lot of it going around..and like others have said you don’t have to be alone to feel lonely but I think if you are it can make it more raw .. the lockdown has been really hard on those living alone whether they are going or old ..personally I got 2 dogs during lockdown both rehomed with me and that’s made all the difference to me .. hope you can find someone to talk to OP or find something to help .. good luck mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems it’s a lot of ppl suffering from the same kinds of things at the moment. I know how your feeling tho OP I’m in a similar situation with moving a day before lockdown started and haven’t anyone around that I know off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I've been feeling lonely lately. I don't do isolation well and, even though I'm in Tier 1 atm, I still hardly see anyone as being very careful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live on my own with 2 kids. I often feel lonely because I have no adults to talk to or vent my anger at.

If you need a anger release or someone to chat to ? Feel free to message me. The same goes for anyone who’s struggling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I live on my own with 2 kids. I often feel lonely because I have no adults to talk to or vent my anger at.

If you need a anger release or someone to chat to ? Feel free to message me. The same goes for anyone who’s struggling."

That's very kind of you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loneliness is a rotten feeling

It's a common misconception that you have to be alone to feel it

You can be in a room filled with love and laughter and still feel it

OP, what do you think that you can do to lift your spirit and alter your mindset?

Probably get out if bed lol"

That might be a start

Get up, drink, eat, shower and get dressed

Walk into town, say 'Good Morning' to people along the way

Take to a bench in a park, say hi to people, stop and stroke passing dogs and chat with their owners for a minute

Take lunch in a tea shop with friendly staff

Treat yourself to something from the shops

All these little things, those basic human interactions, can make such a difference

And just think, some of those you say 'Good Morning' to may be lonely too - your interaction with them might be the only one they have today

It's important

Take a chance, make yourself feel better and you could just make someone else feel better too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Loneliness is a rotten feeling

It's a common misconception that you have to be alone to feel it

You can be in a room filled with love and laughter and still feel it

OP, what do you think that you can do to lift your spirit and alter your mindset?

Probably get out if bed lol

That might be a start

Get up, drink, eat, shower and get dressed

Walk into town, say 'Good Morning' to people along the way

Take to a bench in a park, say hi to people, stop and stroke passing dogs and chat with their owners for a minute

Take lunch in a tea shop with friendly staff

Treat yourself to someone from the shops

All these little things, those basic human interactions, can make such a difference

And just think, some of those you say 'Good Morning' to may be lonely too - your interaction with them might be the only one they have today

It's important

Take a chance, make yourself feel better and you could just make someone else feel better too "

That is excellent advice, but clearly the weather in Cheshire is nicer than it is here today! There's a full on storm raging haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loneliness is a rotten feeling

It's a common misconception that you have to be alone to feel it

You can be in a room filled with love and laughter and still feel it

OP, what do you think that you can do to lift your spirit and alter your mindset?

Probably get out if bed lol

That might be a start

Get up, drink, eat, shower and get dressed

Walk into town, say 'Good Morning' to people along the way

Take to a bench in a park, say hi to people, stop and stroke passing dogs and chat with their owners for a minute

Take lunch in a tea shop with friendly staff

Treat yourself to someone from the shops

All these little things, those basic human interactions, can make such a difference

And just think, some of those you say 'Good Morning' to may be lonely too - your interaction with them might be the only one they have today

It's important

Take a chance, make yourself feel better and you could just make someone else feel better too

That is excellent advice, but clearly the weather in Cheshire is nicer than it is here today! There's a full on storm raging haha"

Oh no, it's pissing down here too

Get one of those see thru plastic rain hoods that old ladies wear and you'll be fine

Dog walkers love them - especially the ones with old Jack Russells

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By *iffler 2019Woman
over a year ago

Saltash aka Fraggle Rock

Yes I feel lonely 99% of the time. Plus I have normally seen my youngest son loads, but this year I have only seen him once since Xmas x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else feeling lonely?"

Sorry to hear that my young friend.

If you need a chat or anything then my inbox is open for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I feel lonely 99% of the time. Plus I have normally seen my youngest son loads, but this year I have only seen him once since Xmas x"

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By *iffler 2019Woman
over a year ago

Saltash aka Fraggle Rock


"Yes I feel lonely 99% of the time. Plus I have normally seen my youngest son loads, but this year I have only seen him once since Xmas x

"

Ty sweetie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I feel lonely 99% of the time. Plus I have normally seen my youngest son loads, but this year I have only seen him once since Xmas x"

If I lived close to you I would ask to pop round to chat and have a cup of tea for an hour, no one should be alone and feel lonely X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Less lonely now I’m alone.

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Even surrounded by people it's a lonely place

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By *iffler 2019Woman
over a year ago

Saltash aka Fraggle Rock


"Yes I feel lonely 99% of the time. Plus I have normally seen my youngest son loads, but this year I have only seen him once since Xmas x

If I lived close to you I would ask to pop round to chat and have a cup of tea for an hour, no one should

be alone and feel lonely X"

Ty hun

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By *acktar74Man
over a year ago

leeds

Lonelyness is great for short periods of time. I miss true human interaction.

I miss the smile when you bump in to someone shopping. Face mask no smile.

The forums at 3am help but i know i should be asleep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lonelyness is great for short periods of time. I miss true human interaction.

I miss the smile when you bump in to someone shopping. Face mask no smile.

The forums at 3am help but i know i should be asleep "

I scrunch up my face so my eyes 'smile' because they can't see my mouth smiling. I probably look deranged.

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Quite used to being alone... and enjoy it. A _igma is a lone wolf... that’s what my name means. Just recently that hasn’t been the case though. Don’t know why... obviously missing something. Probably meeting! Covid took away a couple of regular partners that have been hard to replace. Well haven’t been replaced. Probably why I‘m back posting in here after not bothering for such a long time. Trying to amuse myself

Anyway... keep pointing forwards!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loneliness is a horrible feeling. I think all of us feel lonely at one time or another but there are definitely times when it feels overwhelming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loneliness is a horrible feeling. I think all of us feel lonely at one time or another but there are definitely times when it feels overwhelming."

I hope you are not feeling so bad today X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loneliness is a horrible feeling. I think all of us feel lonely at one time or another but there are definitely times when it feels overwhelming.

I hope you are not feeling so bad today X"

I'm ok thank you. I'm just missing someone who is away temporarily. I think the situation we find ourselves in at the moment with the global pandemic just adds to the feeling of uncertainty and loneliness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was about to break out in a sing song to akon

Wrong thread

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way


"Anyone else feeling lonely?"

Yes, very

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By *acktar74Man
over a year ago

leeds


"Anyone else feeling lonely?

Yes, very "

Just saying hi so you are not alone.

That goes to anyone on this thread male female bi trans nb or martian. If you are lonely say hi to me I will always say hi back.

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