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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m planning my first time and not sure how I should prepare for it and how. Any suggestions?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I’m planning my first time and not sure how I should prepare for it and how. Any suggestions?"

Make sure his arse hole is well stretched and prepared before hand. Loads of lube. Start with your pinky, then thumb, courgette, cucumber, marrow , melon and then you should be okay to fist him into oblivion ...

Hope this helps x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

failing that ......... tell him to assume the position and grit his teeth.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It’s me who’s receiving lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"failing that ......... tell him to assume the position and grit his teeth. "

She might mean HER first time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Douche and douche again

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"failing that ......... tell him to assume the position and grit his teeth.

She might mean HER first time."

Sherlock ..... is that you ?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"I’m planning my first time and not sure how I should prepare for it and how. Any suggestions?"

Bend over and relax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"failing that ......... tell him to assume the position and grit his teeth.

She might mean HER first time.

Sherlock ..... is that you ?"

Elementary, my dear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Practice on yourself with something small to begin with and then work your way up. Use the amount of lube you think you need and double it.

Relax and have fun

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By *octor DeleriumMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

Start with your pinky, then thumb, courgette, cucumber, marrow , melon and then you should be okay to fist him into oblivion ...

Hope this helps x "

I always find a wearing a beret and a striped shirt and inserting a string of large onions always adds a certain je ne sais quoi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relax. Toy on clit. Spoons position. Take it slow. Lots of lube. Get him to enter you then hold it. Don’t move till your ready then you control it, pushing back until comfortable and slightly moving in and out. Once you get used to it you can change position. I find anal toys etc don’t help

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Make sure you douche well before any anal play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Douche and douche again "

this

Lube, don't be afraid to use lots of it. Start with other foreplay until you're relaxed. Being tense is likely to make it hurt. Use a finger first, then a small anal toy and go bigger over time until you find your maximum size. Don't go straight for a cock.

My first time, it hurt like crazy and I bled. Lack of lube didn't hemp with that. Now, I prefer anal penetration to vaginal.

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By *itsAndTangentsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Grit your teeth and think of England / borris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m planning my first time and not sure how I should prepare for it and how. Any suggestions?"

Definitely need to relax..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time will be uncomfortable, but worth it. Relax but go very slowly, get him to pause when he first enters until you've relaxed around him a little.

I find a buttplug very helpful as prep. Have you practised on a dildo first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excuse my foul finger, but..

I couldn't shit for 3 days after my first anal. I was 21.

I've been very regular since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m planning my first time and not sure how I should prepare for it and how. Any suggestions?"

I recommend spending a couple of weeks to prepare if your first time. Buy a couple of different size butt plugs and a bulb douche set.

Each day douche and then put a lot of lube on the smallest butt plug and wear it for a couple of hours. Do this each day and move up in size when easy to insert. A couple of days before anal wear the largest size butt plug overnight and repeat.

On the day you plan anal douche really well in the morning, wear the butt plug and douche again an hour or so before. Have a nice warm bath to relax, put lots of lube in and wear your butt plug again.

I recommend doggy style and ask your partner to remove your butt plug and just insert the tip of his cock and stop and then let you move back on him slowly and stop if you feel any pain. You can then move as you wish.

I hope you enjoy it - just remember to relax and not rush - I love it.

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By *omerset tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Weston-super-Mare

Visit your local west country farm buy a galleon of scrumpy cider and drink night before your insides will be squeaky clean after the next day lol

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Anyone ever thought of using the tried and tested method of .....

NO!

Failing that it's

YOU FIRST ....

Okay but only once we get this t.v. screen out of your arse hole.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

WHY HAVE NONE OF YOU SAID GO FOR A BIG POO FIRST?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"WHY HAVE NONE OF YOU SAID GO FOR A BIG POO FIRST?

Because it goes without saying.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"WHY HAVE NONE OF YOU SAID GO FOR A BIG POO FIRST?

Because it goes without saying."

Out damn shit! Out!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all ur advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"WHY HAVE NONE OF YOU SAID GO FOR A BIG POO FIRST?

We've said to douche. That cleans out the poo.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"WHY HAVE NONE OF YOU SAID GO FOR A BIG POO FIRST?

Because it goes without saying."

I’d say otherwise reading above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"WHY HAVE NONE OF YOU SAID GO FOR A BIG POO FIRST?

That what douching is.

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I recommend an attentive viewing of Anal Invaders 12.

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By *oastal1968Man
over a year ago

London

Just remember, if you put a brush up a chimney it's going to come down with soot on it. That's all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start with your pinky, then thumb, courgette, cucumber, marrow , melon and then you should be okay to fist him into oblivion ...

Hope this helps x

I always find a wearing a beret and a striped shirt and inserting a string of large onions always adds a certain je ne sais quoi."

Lmaooooooo oui oui

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m planning my first time and not sure how I should prepare for it and how. Any suggestions?"

On YouTube there is a LoveHoney channel they explain how to start with anal sex. You’ll need to buy an anal douche to wash out your bottom and plenty of lube if he rims finger insertion etc till your relaxed aroused and to go slowly and gently.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"WHY HAVE NONE OF YOU SAID GO FOR A BIG POO FIRST?

We've said to douche. That cleans out the poo."

Don’t always work though, I douched this morning when I showered but after the second time that daddy took me anally it wasn’t great.

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By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South

"I’m planning my first time and not sure how I should prepare for it and how. Any suggestions?"

Quick spit and a short run up....

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"WHY HAVE NONE OF YOU SAID GO FOR A BIG POO FIRST?

That what douching is."

No. No it’s not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stiff drink and lie back and think of England!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw man....I love this thread. Love seeing all the women giving their advice. You kind of women are the best!

Keep it up (the bumhole) ladies! Oh and feel free to marry me.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

What works good for me is to spit on the pecker, it is the perfect lube for it

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By *ick270Man
over a year ago

Here

Why when there is a nice wet pussy ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What works good for me is to spit on the pecker, it is the perfect lube for it

Have you being watching pornos?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spooning position or on your back. Make it sensual and lots of eye contact. It can be so erotic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m planning my first time and not sure how I should prepare for it and how. Any suggestions?"

Yeah. Don't.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

"What works good for me is to spit on the pecker, it is the perfect lube for it

Have you being watching pornos?

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Yes I have, but this was the technique I used last time and it worked really well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All sounds like a bit of a faff to me. Glad I don’t like it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just remember, if you put a brush up a chimney it's going to come down with soot on it. That's all.

Ive never felt the need to douche, let nature take its course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might try taking psyllium husks for a few days beforehand. It's a natural fibre that thoroughly cleans out the digestive system.

Also think about using an anal relaxant spray or gel as well as lubricant.

And if your using condoms these will dry you out very quickly so keep reapplying the lube.

Hope u enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I douche so I'm clean, pre lube a bit and use/put in a butt plug so I'm already a little stretched

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pray

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Overated to fuck, I’ll stick with a moist vagina.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Overated to fuck, I’ll stick with a moist vagina."

Thank heavens for that. A man that doesnt want to stick his cock up your arse is a treasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all different I like to go on top, I prefer to take my time at the beginning and gives my hands space to play too.. most important thing is making sure your guy takes his time and cares about your readiness, if you aren’t turned on enough and he rushes in it will hurt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m planning my first time and not sure how I should prepare for it and how. Any suggestions?"

Have you tried using butt plugs or toys designed specifically for anal use? I am assuming you are planning your 1st time actually having anal sex, not just any type of anal play.

So I would suggest you take time to explore your bodies reaction to having something inserted into your ass during some slow solo play.

Start with small thin butt plugs and gradually work up in size.

It will feel alien at 1st and it may hurt, but if so, just go with the sensation and breathe deeply until the burning sensation dies away, and it will.

Once this is over then you can begin exploring pushing the toy in and out and fucking yourself with it.

Maybe move up to an actual dildo for this.

As said before use lots of lube.

You can buy lube specifically for anal play, and I would recommend you doing so, it is thicker than the general water based stuff for vaginal penetration, and lasts longer.

I find when prepping for anal sex.

After I have cleaned out with a shower douche attachment,(until the water runs clear) I will insert a large butt plug. This keeps the sphincter open so that it does not constrict again. Then simply remove the plug & insert penis!

If I do this then there is never any burning painful sensation and I can get straight into the pleasure.

Hope that helps!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 pints of guiness and a hot curry should compleate the anal experience.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

As said previously. Douche and douche again, lots and lots of lube but most importantly go at your own pace control your tempo, it does get easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relax, lots of lube. Try using toys first. Beginners but plugs ect, Start slow and work to what your comfortable with. When I first started anal I would use my clit vibrator to take my mind off it... the orgasm was amazing.

Have fun!

Nikki xx

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Finger the bum and sniff it

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

10 sets of deep back squats... 3 reps each... increasing weight up to PB. Remember to squeeze and hold at the bottom!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anyone else find that just going to the loo is enough? No douche required.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"WHY HAVE NONE OF YOU SAID GO FOR A BIG POO FIRST?

We've said to douche. That cleans out the poo.

Don’t always work though, I douched this morning when I showered but after the second time that daddy took me anally it wasn’t great."

If you haven’t had a poo that can happen and if you douche multiple times you can have water left inside that will eventually leak as brown water.

Best way is to take some laxative the night before so you do a poo first thing before douching or just have a liquid diet only the day before.

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By *nal-FunMan
over a year ago

London & Leeds

"WHY HAVE NONE OF YOU SAID GO FOR A BIG POO FIRST?

We've said to douche. That cleans out the poo.

Don’t always work though, I douched this morning when I showered but after the second time that daddy took me anally it wasn’t great.

If you haven’t had a poo that can happen and if you douche multiple times you can have water left inside that will eventually leak as brown water.

Best way is to take some laxative the night before so you do a poo first thing before douching or just have a liquid diet only the day before."

Love a woman who knows what she’s talking about when it comes to anal.

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