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Regular FWB or one off meets ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been lucky enough to have found a regular FWB and think its so much more enjoyable than a one off.

One offs are good and exciting but at the moment I'm favoring the regular as you can get to know what each other like more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I prefer repeat meets with the same person over one offs too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can I ask you both is it the same from the female side ? More trust and knowing more what makes the partner click ??

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By *mudge354Man
over a year ago

Mid Sussex

FWB all the way, it make the fun so much better when you learn what each other like and enjoy.

My FWB has met Mr Right and has moved on, i am gutted as the sex was so good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely repeat meets with the same person, can’t possibly get through all the fun and games in one meet

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By *killsMan
over a year ago

Never Never Land

I would go for the regular every time. It is so much more enjoyable when you know what each other likes and can push the boundaries as opposed to awkward first time fumbling

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

We are regulars, have been for over 5yrs. It works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been lucky enough to have found a regular FWB and think its so much more enjoyable than a one off.

One offs are good and exciting but at the moment I'm favoring the regular as you can get to know what each other like more.

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Lucky guy. I’d love to meet a regular fwb. Someone who you can learn to understand and grow with over time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"FWB all the way, it make the fun so much better when you learn what each other like and enjoy.

My FWB has met Mr Right and has moved on, i am gutted as the sex was so good. "

Oh no it happens, all good things etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely one lover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually prefer one night stands, but a FWB or two along with hubby is good for comfortable, familiar, better sex with a connection in addition to the one off fun meets xx

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

I would love to find a FWB to play and explore with. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% FWB situation over one off meets. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular,still searching for a local FWB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fwb definitely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always done FWBs (though these I call BWF on fab)

One FWB I saw for 14 years, another one 8.5 years and were actual proper FWB but I've had fab BWFs for years!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I actually prefer one night stands, but a FWB or two along with hubby is good for comfortable, familiar, better sex with a connection in addition to the one off fun meets xx"

Lucky you getting all the fun. Great tongue too lol

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

South

Prefer to have a regular meet with someone I can play with over and over again...

Having did that, many people do not want a regular situation so you have to make the most of a one off encounter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely regular for me. I don't do one offs anymore. I want to have sex with my friends rather than a stranger.

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By *umstibleMan
over a year ago

Colindale

I think a regular FWB defeats the point in some aspects.

Because the whole point of somethings are that you want to explore and discover. Yes, you can do different things but doing them with the same person is a bit half arsed in my opinion.

I feel like im more all or nothing here but, FWB is good for things you already know are good and well. For new excitement you need new faces.

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By *issMeSlowlyMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I wold prefer something regular if I can find it, but wouldn't say no to something one-off if the opportunity was to present itself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a regular FWB defeats the point in some aspects.

Because the whole point of somethings are that you want to explore and discover. Yes, you can do different things but doing them with the same person is a bit half arsed in my opinion.

I feel like im more all or nothing here but, FWB is good for things you already know are good and well. For new excitement you need new faces."

That's quite a jaded outlook to sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a regular FWB defeats the point in some aspects.

Because the whole point of somethings are that you want to explore and discover. Yes, you can do different things but doing them with the same person is a bit half arsed in my opinion.

I feel like im more all or nothing here but, FWB is good for things you already know are good and well. For new excitement you need new faces."

I can see what you are saying but obviously everyone is different. For me, I wouldn't feel comfortable trying something new with a stranger, it would need to be with someone I knew and trusted. I've explored lots of different things in my time here but it's always been with a trusted friend. Having that trust and safety factor is a big thing for some.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Both, for different reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely fwb, makes the sex so much better.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I think a regular FWB defeats the point in some aspects.

Because the whole point of somethings are that you want to explore and discover. Yes, you can do different things but doing them with the same person is a bit half arsed in my opinion.

I feel like im more all or nothing here but, FWB is good for things you already know are good and well. For new excitement you need new faces."

This I kind of understand. Long term FWB gets boring and you both turn more into friends than lovers. It’s basically a ‘relationship’ without commitment. The problem is one can be taken for granted in this set up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FWB for me personally...and local too for those off the cuff times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely prefer FWB!

Things tend to get dirtier as go....as long you’re both open and honest and it doesn’t become exclusive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FWB Always for me . I wouldn't meet with them if I didn't think that potential was already there.

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

I'm looking for a fwb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both. I like the comfort, care and expertise of FWB and the excitement, chase and spontaneity of randoms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would really like a walking and cycling chum

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Defenitly regulars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer to play with our friends...not really into shagging randoms. Tho on occasion we might meet someone at a club, click and decide to play that night, stranger things have happened

Lu

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We would always prefer regulars. Chemistry is important and that can take time to build up to a point where we're all ready to have sex. From that point you can learn over time what each other likes.

Besides, finding new people all the time sounds exhausting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would really like a walking and cycling chum "

I will be your walking Chum

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By *uddly GoblinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Much prefer regular over one offs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular. I don’t do one offs

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By *umstibleMan
over a year ago

Colindale


"Regular. I don’t do one offs "

Does every one off not have the potential to be a regular? Is that not how one manages to find regulars?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regular. I don’t do one offs

Does every one off not have the potential to be a regular? Is that not how one manages to find regulars?"

Yes I suppose that’s true. It could happen. I guess I’ve always been a pretty good judge so far and they have become regular. But yes if it didn’t work it would be a one off . I don’t look for one offs though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regular. I don’t do one offs

Does every one off not have the potential to be a regular? Is that not how one manages to find regulars?

Yes I suppose that’s true. It could happen. I guess I’ve always been a pretty good judge so far and they have become regular. But yes if it didn’t work it would be a one off . I don’t look for one offs though. "

Although I’m talking about men not women. Not looking for a female FWB really.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Prefer a FWB as you learn what makes each of you tick so much better and not only do you get a good friend from it but epic sex as well if you click.

I do like the newness and excitement of a one off sometimes too

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

FWB much preferred.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Regular. I don’t do one offs

Does every one off not have the potential to be a regular? Is that not how one manages to find regulars?

Yes I suppose that’s true. It could happen. I guess I’ve always been a pretty good judge so far and they have become regular. But yes if it didn’t work it would be a one off . I don’t look for one offs though.

Although I’m talking about men not women. Not looking for a female FWB really. "

We are all one offs to start but when you both click and actually mean let's do it again thats awesome.

I think I can tell when arranging a meet that there is a good chance to be a second

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both very much prefer repeat meets xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular.

I've been meeting someone for two years now and we have a bit of a BDSM thing and you obviously need trust and understanding for it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Regular.

I've been meeting someone for two years now and we have a bit of a BDSM thing and you obviously need trust and understanding for it."

Yes thats the main thing, if its something like BDSM you need the trust of each other.

I'm more Dominant and as the meets go on I find out more ways to improve the next meet.

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