FabSwingers.com forum: Massages

By *wist my nipples OP Couple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Do you find massage a turn on?

For me, it's really not. I like a good deep tissue massages to iron out my knots. That's not sexy in the least!

Have I just never experienced it in a sexual context? Or is it a case of each to their own?

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve honestly never had a massage past the physio I had years ago for a hip injury that included massaging my groin

Had to think of Jesus that day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, you’re quite correct they are not hot, I just feel relaxed and want a snooze.

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By *wist my nipples OP Couple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"I’ve honestly never had a massage past the physio I had years ago for a hip injury that included massaging my groin

Had to think of Jesus that day "

Ha ha, did you find it erotic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After me and my fab friend had sex for the first time he gave me a rub down. Told me it would hurt like hell then feel really good.

Dunno if that's sexual but the noises I made whilst he was doing it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like a massage but as more of a spa day treatment. Ive given and had massages as part of foreplay. Both are ok i suppose. Theres defo a rise in ‘qualified male masseuses’ on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve honestly never had a massage past the physio I had years ago for a hip injury that included massaging my groin

Had to think of Jesus that day

Ha ha, did you find it erotic?

Not in the slightest but there was an attractive woman rubbing my groin occasionally brushing my peen in the process. So while there was a little pleasure there it was more like torture

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I usually just fall asleep if getting a massage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very relaxing but for some very strange reason I love having the top of my hamstrings massaged really firmly, and it gives me an instant erection, I think I'm wired up wrong lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By someone who knows what they are actually doing? Hot.. From someone that uses them as a gateway to a meet with a happy ending? Less so...

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By *usty kayWoman
over a year ago

Burnham

It depends on the type of massage and who's doing it. I've had a spa day massage where all I've been able to think about was wanting her to go further. I've had a 'massage' by a guy that made me cringe

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Rarely. It's not an upside on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ever had sexy ones so yes

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

It depends on the message, these long ass ones detailing what they want to do to you is an absolute turn off & end up deleted before I've made it to the second line.

Someone I've got a bit of a connection with could say a few words & have me dripping

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By *ljamMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I love a good relaxation massage. Really great.

Injury rehab ones? Load of shit. I just don't believe they do anything beyond a mild placebo effect. The masseuse puts you in a load of pain then finishes and asks if it feels better. Of course it feels better - you're no longer digging your fucking thumb into my injured shoulder.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Ooops well I misread that didn't I?! Bloody idiot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on context, if I go for a pro massage then it's not sexual, if it's between lovers say then yes can be very sensual

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I love a good relaxation massage. Really great.

Ooh I love a good rehab massage. It hurts so bad then feels so good

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By *airytaleOfNewPorkMan
over a year ago

Close By

"Ooops well I misread that didn't I?! Bloody idiot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv given a sensual massage to a few lovely ladies and they have all enjoyed them(so iv been told)

and it usually leads onto a great sex session

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By *ljamMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I love a good relaxation massage. Really great.

Ooh I love a good rehab massage. It hurts so bad then feels so good

Maybe I'm approaching them in the wrong headspace

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I love a good relaxation massage. Really great.

Ooh I love a good rehab massage. It hurts so bad then feels so good

Maybe I'm approaching them in the wrong headspace

A few years ago I had the most horrendous shoulder pain. It took weeks of massages that were so painful I was gagging to get it back to normal. But eventually it got there. Thank god

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv had a terrible massage on the beach on holiday it felt like Chinese burns and my friend next to me was getting one at the same time and she looked close to orgasm, if done right absolutely

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Do you find massage a turn on?

For me, it's really not. I like a good deep tissue massages to iron out my knots. That's not sexy in the least!

Have I just never experienced it in a sexual context? Or is it a case of each to their own?

Mrs TMN x"

I'd probably say.. To each their own... For me personally I'm very tactile and love giving and receiving any massage...and most I have encountered do too. But I also know some who really aren't into massage at all.

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By *appyhuntingwestmanMan
over a year ago

York

Some of the best meets I have had on here have started with a long slow sensual massage .Starting slow and gentle and gradually becoming so erotic and so hot hot hot .

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I get a deep tissue every couple of weeks, it’s not pleasant but it works, but also like sensual - giving and receiving , probably enjoy giving them a little more than receiving. But you’re right not everyone likes being massaged, or even touched.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm very tactile but I'm not sure I trust most people to massage me properly. I'm a bit prone to fucking myself up, I don't need help. Better to stick to caressing etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love massages of any kind.

They can be teasing, they can be relaxing, or they can be problem shooting. I love hands on my skin whichever choice.

I really enjoy giving massages too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you find massage a turn on?

For me, it's really not. I like a good deep tissue massages to iron out my knots. That's not sexy in the least!

Have I just never experienced it in a sexual context? Or is it a case of each to their own?

Mrs TMN x"

I enjoy both giving and receiving a proper massage. As you say it needs to be a good deep tissue massage to feel effective but its the "warm down" massage after that can lead to things hotting up... Shame you're so far away or I'd offer you a demo

I'm doing the North Coast 500 though next year, I'll pop in

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

I have only had sexual massages, & sometimes although enjoyable you are waiting for it to end & get to the sex

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I’ve had a professional ( paid for but not by me ) erotic massage some years ago , the masseur was hot , the “massage” was amazing and so was the sex that ensued

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

Yup. A good massage from an actual masseuse is hot even if she's almost breaking me at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

HOT! To give or receive. Even bought a massage table and grape oil to play with wife or at meets separately. Love the feel of a ladies soft curves in my big hands

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

No one has ever gave me one

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

So hot if its done right...slow slow...and warm touches at the right time ....so nice ....

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By *ontecristoMan
over a year ago

PonteCarlo

Deffo hot with the right woman

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By *assagefun1Man
over a year ago

goole

I love receiving massage but equally love giving massage

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By *wist my nipples OP Couple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Maybe I've just been doing it wrong!

Mrs TMN x

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I think they can totally be hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To sort out aches and pains not sexy at all but with a partner/partners it's amazing fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lovely slow erotic massage with strong hands is a real turn on. A man who takes his time and rubs oil all over my body, concentrating on how much I’m enjoying it, no hurry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends

A physio type massage that is intended for a purpose then no but if you visit a spa for example and het a very hot woman rubbimg her hands on you then yes.

The thougjt of her slipping her hand a little too high up the leg and stroking my cock really gets me going even though i know its not that type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A standard massage, not particularly. Although they're nice.

A yoni massage or similar. Absolutely can be hot

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By *assage_noirMan
over a year ago

1The Angel

Do you charge for your massages?
"I love massages of any kind.

They can be teasing, they can be relaxing, or they can be problem shooting. I love hands on my skin whichever choice.

I really enjoy giving massages too. "

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By *assage_noirMan
over a year ago

1The Angel

Where do you go for your massages?
"I get a deep tissue every couple of weeks, it’s not pleasant but it works, but also like sensual - giving and receiving , probably enjoy giving them a little more than receiving. But you’re right not everyone likes being massaged, or even touched."

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Hot hot hot

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

With someone that I have a connection with, a sensual massage can be wonderful fun and incredibly erotic.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I won a backgammon match and had my pick of prizes. So I picked a bum massage. My boyfriend is very good at them, and I even had a happy ending.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Giving and receiving can be really erotic.

I've given far more than I've received sadly x

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I’ve had relaxing massages in spas that were great but as a lover of sensual massage I love the accidental brushes of my bits that builds the erotic tension. What’s not to like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a sensual massage (think hegre) by a play partner, then yes they're definitely arousing! When he starts massaging closer and closer to my pussy I could honestly melt...

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By *nigmatic_AngelWoman
over a year ago

The place where fairies live

"I love a good relaxation massage. Really great.

Trust me they are doing some good. I'm a newly qualified sports massage therapist and my massages are excellent.. And are doing you some good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Massages are definately hot

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"No, you’re quite correct they are not hot, I just feel relaxed and want a snooze."

It is very relaxing.

That's why I prefer to give it to guys after they have cummed.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"No, you’re quite correct they are not hot, I just feel relaxed and want a snooze."

It used to annoy the hell out of my masseuse when I didn't fall asleep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do love a good proper massage.

But a long sensual one is such a turn on... I just often find then don't last that long.... ill get really wet and then its just too much to not just want to touch it which then leads to the rest of it. Lol

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

A relaxing spa massage I always fall asleep, deep tissue massage I cry and a sensual massage I melt

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By *fter dinner delightCouple
over a year ago

bury st edmunds/london

We don’t mind them sexy pictures h ty or both of us to enjoy is always good

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By *r_BlueEyesMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I like a hard, deep tissue massage followed by a relaxing one. That combo for me gets me going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That a shame OP. I guess that I'm lucky to have received some very sensual massages and given some too. But, yes, you can get some people who really don't know what they're doing, even in the 'professional' world.

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Massages - hot or not?