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"It’s got to be a compliment surely? "Maybe but don't call me Shirley. | |||
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"Guess it depends on how much time you had spent getting ready, and how much you were expecting back! "Yeah ........ so easy to do LOADS of stuff before the final dirty and just as easy to continue after....... The let down is if he's one of those........ oh ...... i've come.... that's the end then ..... sos. Thats the let down. | |||
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"I might have not answered clearly ..... It is a bitter experience being let down by someone who came in two shoves and could never be plastered over with a I was so horny excuse...... It's a let down , down let , let down..... let .......... down." Something of a disappointment is what I think you are trying to say? | |||
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"maybe i should have included the 20 minutes of kissing and foreplay x" Foreplay is to rev the engine ........ you should still use up all her petrol | |||
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"I can cum 2/3 times in a row is that normal ??" yes | |||
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"Did I say a let down ? I meant a total fucking let down sorry." Hahah I like this ^ | |||
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"maybe i should have included the 20 minutes of kissing and foreplay x Foreplay is to rev the engine ........ you should still use up all her petrol" | |||
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"I love foreplay and "encores" so I love a quick "cummer" that can repeat and repeat and repeat... and did I mention repeat ? Also I like to see the fruit of my labour , a guy that can hold on all night makes me feel rather inadequate . "You're repeating yourself about the repeater.  | |||
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"As long as he makes an effort to please me too it's all good. " This 
As long as he’s not pulling his chinos up whilst running for the front door as soon as he’s spaffed the situation is totally salvageable. | |||
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"As long as he makes an effort to please me too it's all good. " Taxi to Liverpool please.  | |||
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"Guess it depends on how much time you had spent getting ready, and how much you were expecting back!
Yeah ........ so easy to do LOADS of stuff before the final dirty and just as easy to continue after.......
The let down is if he's one of those........ oh ...... i've come.... that's the end then ..... sos. Thats the let down."Ahh yes. Totally get that. Few thrusts and walking away like his work is done would be a recipe for a used condom being twatted at the back of his head. | |||
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"I love foreplay and "encores" so I love a quick "cummer" that can repeat and repeat and repeat... and did I mention repeat ? Also I like to see the fruit of my labour , a guy that can hold on all night makes me feel rather inadequate . "Yes this for me too | |||
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"is it a real let down when a guy comes to quick or do you like the fact that youve really got him turned on xx" It depends! If its when its still in his pants its disappointing. | |||
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"Can't get past the 'iGuy' in the thread title. Made me think of a sex toy made by Apple "Oh I like that idea | |||
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"As long as he did it just to get that first one done and was a repeat " Believe it or not we're not performing seals who "do" anything to order whether that be cumming too soon "to get that first one done" or the ability to repeat or anything else really - the key as I said above is how *both* people approach it - if it's done maturely and with an understanding and acceptance that it happens and there are other things that can be done - "As long as..." doesn't even have to come into it | |||
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"As long as he did it just to get that first one done and was a repeat Believe it or not we're not performing seals who "do" anything to order whether that be cumming too soon "to get that first one done" or the ability to repeat or anything else really - the key as I said above is how *both* people approach it - if it's done maturely and with an understanding and acceptance that it happens and there are other things that can be done - "As long as..." doesn't even have to come into it" Ok you have arranged a meet, had a great social, built up anticipation with texts and fun chats. The meet is arranged child care sorted, u take extra effort shave, choose relevant outfit / underwear/ lingerie and the night arrives, U don’t want to just have a quick fumble for them to zip up and be done!!! How rude, now I understand if he couldn’t control his excitement and then that initial first come is out the way and u spend the rest of the night filled with mutual pleasure pleasing and teasing And god knows what else, yes it has to be two ways mutual, but Iv had more than my fair share of selfish fucks enough to refuse to participate in that one sided dynamic ever again, nothing about performing seals, two pumps and a squirt is what I’m talking about! At least seals perform | |||
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"As long as he did it just to get that first one done and was a repeat Believe it or not we're not performing seals who "do" anything to order whether that be cumming too soon "to get that first one done" or the ability to repeat or anything else really - the key as I said above is how *both* people approach it - if it's done maturely and with an understanding and acceptance that it happens and there are other things that can be done - "As long as..." doesn't even have to come into it Ok you have arranged a meet, had a great social, built up anticipation with texts and fun chats. The meet is arranged child care sorted, u take extra effort shave, choose relevant outfit / underwear/ lingerie and the night arrives, U don’t want to just have a quick fumble for them to zip up and be done!!! How rude, now I understand if he couldn’t control his excitement and then that initial first come is out the way and u spend the rest of the night filled with mutual pleasure pleasing and teasing And god knows what else, yes it has to be two ways mutual, but Iv had more than my fair share of selfish fucks enough to refuse to participate in that one sided dynamic ever again, nothing about performing seals, two pumps and a squirt is what I’m talking about! At least seals perform " Brilliant comment x  | |||
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"I always find if I am near to Cumming, I pull away and concentrate on the person I'm with. That way it gives you time to calm down a bit." It’s not a crime it happens and sometimes when a guy does too soon you can tell they genuinely feel bad it wasn’t intentional X that’s the difference xx | |||
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"As long as he makes an effort to please me too it's all good. Taxi to Liverpool please. "Kill two birds I’ll put the kettle on x | |||
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"As long as he makes an effort to please me too it's all good. Taxi to Liverpool please.
Kill two birds I’ll put the kettle on x "What's your postcode lol xxx | |||
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"is it a real let down when a guy comes to quick or do you like the fact that youve really got him turned on xx" It’s the greatest compliment any man can pay a woman. | |||
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"I might have not answered clearly ..... It is a bitter experience being let down by someone who came in two shoves and could never be plastered over with a I was so horny excuse...... It's a let down , down let , let down..... let .......... down." Stop sitting on the fence and tell us what you really think. | |||
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"I might have not answered clearly ..... It is a bitter experience being let down by someone who came in two shoves and could never be plastered over with a I was so horny excuse...... It's a let down , down let , let down..... let .......... down." What about a round 2 Granny? | |||
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"I might have not answered clearly ..... It is a bitter experience being let down by someone who came in two shoves and could never be plastered over with a I was so horny excuse...... It's a let down , down let , let down..... let .......... down. Stop sitting on the fence and tell us what you really think." | |||
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"If I was meeting someone I like to be in their company having fun for at least an hour or more. Not just sex but fooling around having fun and relaxing who I am with." And me...I like to take my time. Fooling around before the nitty gritty. | |||
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"is it a real let down when a guy comes to quick or do you like the fact that youve really got him turned on xx" Oh hell no! its a HUGE let down, thats grounds for divorce... | |||
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"is it a real let down when a guy comes to quick or do you like the fact that youve really got him turned on xx Oh hell no! its a HUGE let down, thats grounds for divorce..." Guess it was no sex before marriage xx | |||
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"maybe i should have included the 20 minutes of kissing and foreplay x" Your kidding right?? | |||
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"Not at all. 10 minute break and go again x" 10 min break wouldnt be needed with you..that bum would keep me hard | |||
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"Wow. Poor guy! Some of these comments make me sad. No of course it wouldn’t bother me and even if I was a bit disappointed I wouldn’t let it show. You don’t do that to people. Not in my world anyway. " awe thats nice | |||
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"is it a real let down when a guy comes to quick or do you like the fact that youve really got him turned on xx It depends! If its when its still in his pants its disappointing. " if that happened to me I would be so embarrassed id never meet a woman again | |||
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"Wow. Poor guy! Some of these comments make me sad. No of course it wouldn’t bother me and even if I was a bit disappointed I wouldn’t let it show. You don’t do that to people. Not in my world anyway. "  | |||
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"The key is in how the guy reacts after - it's an affliction I can suffer from particularly with penetrative sex, and no matter how many different "methods" I've tried it's not one I can overcome - but with an understanding partner and taking your time to please them in other ways and not seeing cumming as "game over" it doesn't have to be a problem even if at times I do feel the need to apologise (and usually be told not to be silly). Same with when "he" decides he's not going to play ball and rise to the occasion - there are plenty of other ways to be intimate and have just as pleasurable a time. The problem is sites like this can cause a perception that you need to be able to go all night and continually remain hard, which for the vast majority of men is physically not possible. Trouble is we let it play on our minds and think we've failed somehow, when the majority of the time if we accept it happens and behave like adults about it and find other ways to please our partners are happy - yes there may be some that seek to belittle because of it but frankly they're not the type of partner I would seek out anyway."  | |||
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"As long as he did it just to get that first one done and was a repeat Believe it or not we're not performing seals who "do" anything to order whether that be cumming too soon "to get that first one done" or the ability to repeat or anything else really - the key as I said above is how *both* people approach it - if it's done maturely and with an understanding and acceptance that it happens and there are other things that can be done - "As long as..." doesn't even have to come into it Ok you have arranged a meet, had a great social, built up anticipation with texts and fun chats. The meet is arranged child care sorted, u take extra effort shave, choose relevant outfit / underwear/ lingerie and the night arrives, U don’t want to just have a quick fumble for them to zip up and be done!!! How rude, now I understand if he couldn’t control his excitement and then that initial first come is out the way and u spend the rest of the night filled with mutual pleasure pleasing and teasing And god knows what else, yes it has to be two ways mutual, but Iv had more than my fair share of selfish fucks enough to refuse to participate in that one sided dynamic ever again, nothing about performing seals, two pumps and a squirt is what I’m talking about! At least seals perform " As has already been established it's completely not good form to zip up and go - but it's also about understanding on *both* sides that it happens and not making a guy feel like he's somehow failed if he does go off quick - as I said there are plenty of other things that can be done and that are just as pleasurable either while he recovers or if he's unable to and *that* takes the mature approach I referred to above on the guy by not running for the hills and on the woman by not making him feel like a performing seal and expecting him to be able to get it up again immediately (which inevitably will lead to him not being able to) | |||
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"Eh No, its actually a legally accepted grounds for getting rid of a man. If he hasn't learned a few simple tricks to delay himself then hes A crap in bed B selfish in bed " I'm obviously both crap and selfish in bed then - guess UNLOS is the only thing for me  | |||
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"Eh No, its actually a legally accepted grounds for getting rid of a man. If he hasn't learned a few simple tricks to delay himself then hes A crap in bed B selfish in bed I'm obviously both crap and selfish in bed then - guess UNLOS is the only thing for me "No it's C. Too decent a bloke for people like that to appreciate. | |||
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"Eh No, its actually a legally accepted grounds for getting rid of a man. If he hasn't learned a few simple tricks to delay himself then hes A crap in bed B selfish in bed " Sex is a 2 way street Woman can also be both of those things. | |||
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"Eh No, its actually a legally accepted grounds for getting rid of a man. If he hasn't learned a few simple tricks to delay himself then hes A crap in bed B selfish in bed Sex is a 2 way street Woman can also be both of those things." No, sex is a one way street but it's about finding the right person to go down that street with - if you're not sexually compatible then inevitably it will lead to disappointment and frustration. | |||
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"I have a bit of a mean streak in bed and quite often (when the mood takes me) I enjoy getting a guy to cum as quickly as possible but in a way where he doesn’t really get any gratification from it and he’s left frustrated. I derive great pleasure from that. " Do you let him cum again? | |||
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"I have a bit of a mean streak in bed and quite often (when the mood takes me) I enjoy getting a guy to cum as quickly as possible but in a way where he doesn’t really get any gratification from it and he’s left frustrated. I derive great pleasure from that. Do you let him cum again? "Only if I want penetrating | |||
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"Just make her cum a few times as you reload its no big deal " That’s the second time you’ve used that this morning!! | |||
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"Just make her cum a few times as you reload its no big deal That’s the second time you’ve used that this morning!! "No it’s not, I’m on the wrong thread  | |||
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"Just make her cum a few times as you reload its no big deal That’s the second time you’ve used that this morning!!
No it’s not, I’m on the wrong thread " | |||
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"Just make her cum a few times as you reload its no big deal That’s the second time you’ve used that this morning!! "I see what you did then | |||
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"It’s got to be a compliment surely? "Complementary but requires more practice.. | |||
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"It's a two way thing... If you think a guy is going to cum too quick change it up or take a break.. get him to do something else for a while...or tell him to think about his grandma that will stop him instantly" unless its kevin bloody wilson | |||
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"Eh No, its actually a legally accepted grounds for getting rid of a man. If he hasn't learned a few simple tricks to delay himself then hes A crap in bed B selfish in bed I'm obviously both crap and selfish in bed then - guess UNLOS is the only thing for me
No it's C. Too decent a bloke for people like that to appreciate. "People like what exactely? men v boys, decent man takes care of business first before himself, and im far from the only 1 here who believes that. | |||
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"Eh No, its actually a legally accepted grounds for getting rid of a man. If he hasn't learned a few simple tricks to delay himself then hes A crap in bed B selfish in bed I'm obviously both crap and selfish in bed then - guess UNLOS is the only thing for me
No it's C. Too decent a bloke for people like that to appreciate.
People like what exactely? men v boys, decent man takes care of business first before himself, and im far from the only 1 here who believes that."And as I have said numerous times in my post who said anything about not "taking care" of others? I've made it very clear that the key here is how *all* people concerned handle the situation - if a guy cums quickly gets flustered and heads for the hills that's obviously wrong, but so are partners who show a lack of understanding and acceptance when it does happen and expect him to immediately be able to repeat and stand to attention for round two like he's a performing seal. There are plenty of pleasurable things that can be done while a guy recovers, or even if he can't - a guy cumming doesn't have to mean "game over" - by *either* party thinking it does just perpetuates the myth that guys should be able to go all night and stay hard the whole time, which for most is not physically possible. I get that it can be frustrating, for all concerned, especially if it's something you've been looking forward to and preparing for etc - but again, handled maturely and with empathy and understanding, it doesn't have to be. | |||
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