FabSwingers.com forum: Are you my fuckbuddy?

By *he_original_polo OP Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

At what point does a meet become a fuckbuddy?

Is it the number of times you have met?

Is it the things you do together?

Is it what you talk about?

Is someone a fuckbuddy after one or two meets or is there an incubation period?

People talk about having fuckbuddies all the time, but at what point does someone become one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it`ll vary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....is it something to do with pizza?

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By *abloBackMan
over a year ago

London

Can we fuck a few times and find out?

(purely for research purposes of course)

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

I guess it's when one of you says "come fuck me now please" and the other replies "I'm already on my way". No questions...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i now pronounce you fuck buds

(da da dadaaa da da dadaaa)

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I have no idea

fuck buds,friends with benefits.....I would think that as soon as its mentioned its a relationship of sorts and then you get all the rules of ok whats acceptable as fuck buddies and whats not and then its gotta be boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good question

I have a couple of guys i meet off here regular but i dont regard them as my fuck buddies, i just see them as guys i meet off here regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you just "know" Basically an extension of a bootycall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good question

I have a couple of guys i meet off here regular but i dont regard them as my fuck buddies, i just see them as guys i meet off here regular "

which is a fuck bud in essence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i lived in Scotland i hada fuckbuddy who i didn't get on ith amazingly day to day but in the bedroom we pushed eachothers boundaries further and further. It became a game and was pretty intense. Still gets my mind racing now. And yes she coined y username.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Has anyone ever had a fuck-enemy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone ever had a fuck-enemy?"

Hah. Kinda. See above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good question

I have a couple of guys i meet off here regular but i dont regard them as my fuck buddies, i just see them as guys i meet off here regular

which is a fuck bud in essence

maybe the term fuck buddie its just an expression some chooose to use while others dont

I would never class anyone as a fuck buddie, i see everyone on here for what they are, people i meet of fab for sex, some are one offs some are regular, i would never label anyone with the phrase fuck buddie because i think it makes it sound a little more than what it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good question polo

for me it's just someone I meet regularly enough for sex.

Ideally it would be someone I can experiment with, have a good laugh, amazing sex, a nice cuddle and then we part ways again till next time. If he also brings pizza he's an even better fuck buddy lol

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By *he_original_polo OP Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

There are a few terms I use, though I have never really sat down and thought about at what point I change how I refer to them.

Playmates.... the person or people I am shagging at the time.... can be a single serving playmate.... basically another name for a meet.

Regulars.... tends to be when a pattern emerges, such as every second Thursday or there are a few weeks on the trot we have met. But the more I think about it the more I'm not sure. I guess it is just as much about describing the past as the now.

Fuckbuddy.... I have two guys I refer to as fuckbuddies. One of them I fist fucked over 20 years ago, the other about 10 years.... but I also call him the vanilla (no interest in the swinging scene, but an amazing shag).

I have no idea at what poing I started calling them FB's.

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By *he_original_polo OP Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Oppps, that should read 'first fucked' not 'fist fucked'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's organic, it just happens. delicious phenomenon...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me, a fb is someone you can have a laugh with, go for a night out or just generally spends time without the hassle of a full blown relationship!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just made me look at homes in leicester. Lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont know, if asked this question before. Ive got guys i have seen for 6 years + but i refer to them as my gentelman friends. From what i have read on here it seems like its used when they are just seeing one guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oppps, that should read 'first fucked' not 'fist fucked'"

HAHA Freudian slip there

Seems we all use the term a bit differently. I guess it doesn't matter, as long as everyone is having fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would think its those that u see in a regular basis, I dont socialise with my fab friends other than for sex, could also be used as the one u trust if ur going to try new things and need a partner in crime, I really want to have a gang bang but would never do that alone so one of the fbs I have is going to come to a club with me and hold me hand so to speak! Just gives me added confidence and I know I can count in him! After reading a thread The other day about a guy wanking almost in the face of a lady if here! I would feel intimidated but my mr would sort that out for me!

Mind u I have one fb who has been elevated to lover status lol, what does that mean????

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