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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just married men looking for fun on the side so to speak

Or are there married woman looking too

Without there other half knowing

Just curious so know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv a lady friend On here her hubby doesn’t know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a fair few married women here, both with consent and without; nothing compared to the number of blokes, however.

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By *ig rig hullMan
over a year ago

Hull

There's loads mate! Women are just as bad as fellas. Just better at hiding it haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friend, I can only guess you are new to this, it's a lady's preserve!

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

We've already spoken to a fair number of women who are on without partners knowledge. Surprised at how many to be honest, but maybe we were just a bit naieve

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My friend, I can only guess you are new to this, it's a lady's preserve!"

Not new no

Just curious as loads don’t want to meet married men

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

It gets even more complicated than that. You get one half of swinging couples on Fab meeting without the knowledge of the other. Rarely ends well

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It gets even more complicated than that. You get one half of swinging couples on Fab meeting without the knowledge of the other. Rarely ends well "

I know about complicated

That why am here

Without much luck I might add

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It gets even more complicated than that. You get one half of swinging couples on Fab meeting without the knowledge of the other. Rarely ends well "

Too true! But it's always the couples on here that put down the married people "playing away"

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By *unch BoxMan
over a year ago

Seattle

There are a lot of married women over here looking for fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm married, without OH's knowledge. Living as strangers does that to you. I don't judge anyone who contacts me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've already spoken to a fair number of women who are on without partners knowledge. Surprised at how many to be honest, but maybe we were just a bit naieve

"

Yes but they don't get nearly as much "abuse" and condemnation as men do on here!

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

I'm here without his knowledgeable we live separate lives

Hes not the man I thought his was after recent events

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm here without his knowledgeable we live separate lives

Hes not the man I thought his was after recent events "
has he had a sex change ?

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia


"I'm here without his knowledgeable we live separate lives

Hes not the man I thought his was after recent events has he had a sex change ?"

Haha no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv a lady friend On here her hubby doesn’t know "

You should tell the poor guy

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By *iscreet-is-paramountMan
over a year ago

somewhere only we know.

There's quite a few.

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By *ich_ChesterMan
over a year ago

Chester


"Iv a lady friend On here her hubby doesn’t know "

Feel free to pass on my details

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Iv a lady friend On here her hubby doesn’t know

You should tell the poor guy "

Why? Who knows what goes on behind closed doors

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By *orthern PowerhouseMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield


"Is it just married men looking for fun on the side so to speak

Or are there married woman looking too

Without there other half knowing

Just curious so know "

~They are great till hubbie returns home early and you have to climb out of the bedroom window.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm here without his knowledgeable we live separate lives

Hes not the man I thought his was after recent events "

I know exactly how you feel

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By *ave2489Man
over a year ago

Bury

Being a piece of shit has no gender

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By *lknhungMan
over a year ago

Luton


"I'm here without his knowledgeable we live separate lives

Hes not the man I thought his was after recent events "

Oohh what happened here to make you have such a different perception of him?

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Being a piece of shit has no gender"

That’s a nice open minded non-judgemental opinion.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill


"I'm here without his knowledgeable we live separate lives

Hes not the man I thought his was after recent events

I know exactly how you feel "

Mine tells me every time he can how unattractive I am.

He didn’t know until recently. Now we are in an open marriage...

I never judge either.

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By *ave2489Man
over a year ago

Bury


"Being a piece of shit has no gender

That’s a nice open minded non-judgemental opinion. "

If you are cheating you are not giving your partner a chance to react as you are lying....why am I not open minded being truthful?

Lying hurts everyone eventually

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Being a piece of shit has no gender

That’s a nice open minded non-judgemental opinion.

If you are cheating you are not giving your partner a chance to react as you are lying....why am I not open minded being truthful?

Lying hurts everyone eventually"

Yes cheating is cheating and lying. Read above and look at life. There are sometimes good reason for it. And it does not however make the cheater “a piece of shit” by default.

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By *iscreet-is-paramountMan
over a year ago

somewhere only we know.

Some do it because they are unhappy and feel the need to, others do it because they can and are greedy. If having discreet sex with another holds your marriage together, because that's what's missing, and no one is the wiser, then that must be a good thing.....while it lasts.

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By *oni and lingamCouple
over a year ago

HULL

My FB knows, the only time he comes on here is when we are away on holidays, I entertain regulars whilst he at work before covid off course, he asks about my day which ends up sexual, we are never going to marry it just works for us, xx

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Just the mention of a married woman and she turns into dust. Tread carefully OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some do it because they are unhappy and feel the need to, others do it because they can and are greedy. If having discreet sex with another holds your marriage together, because that's what's missing, and no one is the wiser, then that must be a good thing.....while it lasts."

You would like to think so but that is not how we are viewed on here. The reality is you are classed as a cheater by most. I found trying to explain that my wife and I have an agreement as long as I was discreet was falling on mostly deaf ears and I have had a few that don’t read my profile and get miffed when you read theirs and point out they specify ‘no attached males’. Plus joining just as Covid started is viewed a suspect.

But I have met some really lovely people on here and because of that I choose to stay in here. As one I the ladies told me once, swinging is about friendships, not hook ups and she was right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've noticed a few. I don't know why but I find it sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just married men looking for fun on the side so to speak

Or are there married woman looking too

Without there other half knowing

Just curious so know "

My wife is married and looking for fun but I know and help in her orgasm search as fab can be a bit wank at times for ladies.!!!!

T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen a few xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *orace99Man
over a year ago

York


"I'm here without his knowledgeable we live separate lives

Hes not the man I thought his was after recent events

I know exactly how you feel

Mine tells me every time he can how unattractive I am.

He didn’t know until recently. Now we are in an open marriage...

I never judge either. "

Telling you how unattractive you are is just horrible. Wouldn't sink that low regardless of what has happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads married males / females play away but that’s down to what’s happening in there own private life and upto them to decide so just help them enjoy it and to be fair I think married women want it more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You just never know people's circumstances and reasons. I do however think if you're still having sex with your spouse/partner, then you're just being greedy by being on a site like this..unless you're on as a couple of course!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm here without his knowledgeable we live separate lives

Hes not the man I thought his was after recent events

I know exactly how you feel

Mine tells me every time he can how unattractive I am.

He didn’t know until recently. Now we are in an open marriage...

I never judge either. "

He’s obviously blind as well as daft .. good luck to you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And to anyone else who thinks it appropriate to send me an abusuve message by pm you’ll get reported ..

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By *ontecristoMan
over a year ago

PonteCarlo

Lots of both reading profiles on here people like some extra.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree you don’t know anyone’s circumstances so I find it best not to judge

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

South

I tend not to judge as everyone has unique circumstances as to why they’re on here.

That being said there are plenty of married women on here playing away from home. As long as I’m aware of it then I don’t have as problem with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend not to judge as everyone has unique circumstances as to why they’re on here.

That being said there are plenty of married women on here playing away from home. As long as I’m aware of it then I don’t have as problem with it. "

Exactly this. Don’t see a problem as long as people are honest about it. Then it’s up to that person to make an informed decision. Don’t have a problem at all with attached people being on here. I do have a problem with them pretending they’re single and lying about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of my best meets were with married women.

They always showed, got down to business and always made the effort.

No if bits or maybes like you get from flakey singles.

They want to fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can be a bit of a turn on like, ha ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You just never know people's circumstances and reasons. I do however think if you're still having sex with your spouse/partner, then you're just being greedy by being on a site like this..unless you're on as a couple of course!"

Am in a sexless marriage that’s way am here

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

I can certainly verify that there are married women on here. A married man with a married woman means equal discretion is required, also no drama.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You just never know people's circumstances and reasons. I do however think if you're still having sex with your spouse/partner, then you're just being greedy by being on a site like this..unless you're on as a couple of course!

Am in a sexless marriage that’s way am here

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Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You just never know people's circumstances and reasons. I do however think if you're still having sex with your spouse/partner, then you're just being greedy by being on a site like this..unless you're on as a couple of course!

Am in a sexless marriage that’s way am here

Me too"

Me too

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield


"You just never know people's circumstances and reasons. I do however think if you're still having sex with your spouse/partner, then you're just being greedy by being on a site like this..unless you're on as a couple of course!

Am in a sexless marriage that’s way am here

Me too

Me too "

There’s a lot of it about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married women cheat as much as men do.

Lots of couples cheat on each other without consent.

I've seen a few couple profiles where it's just the male on the profile

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By *nowman1300Man
over a year ago

manchester

Sometimes a bit more excitement is needed if things go flat at home. The chase and flirt that you dnt get once you are attached.

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We only got together because Caroline was married but looking for extra martial fun.

That was a one-night stand - 30 years ago!

So yes, sometimes it is the wife looking.

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