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By *etite_delight OP   Woman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

How life brought you here? Who lured you in? or are you the clever one who finds its own way here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You did

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By *av_55Man
over a year ago

NE

When I was Escorting and ex escort partner got me here

Thank the Lord

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I took a wrong left and....

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By *ave2489Man
over a year ago

Bury

Can't remember at this stage. I just like the mixing pot

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By *onty1971Man
over a year ago

London St Helier Trier

Discovered it at some point many years ago. Thought it was a good place to meet like minded people.

Had mainly good times through here and made new friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had to join as part of my community service

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recommended just curious about the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy we used to work with offshore, we found out his wife was on fab and he knew nothing of it

so initially the whole crew joined just to chat and check out his mrs,

and yes it all went south after a few months and he found out.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"How life brought you here? Who lured you in? or are you the clever one who finds its own way here? "

I was googling F.A.B and the next thing I knew instead of finding wonderful thunderbirds nostalgia I was confronted by naked women and boobies

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By *akjourneyMan
over a year ago

Weston

I had a Feb from another app who said about it. Curiosity killed me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its complicated

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

We were doing the whole club scene and it was recommended to us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on A.N.OTHER small swingers site and FAB was often mentioned so I thought why the hell not take a quick look. That was about 10 or more years ago. This is my 2nd incarnation on here.

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By *etite_delight OP   Woman
over a year ago

BunnyLand


"Its complicated"

We are here to listen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its complicated

We are here to listen "

im not here to bore folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was handcuffed and chained, prodded with a hot poker till I made a profile

Then the whips came out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on a dating site about 8 years ago and was chatting with a guy who told me that he led an alternative sex life by meeting couples...well I so wanted to know more and he told me about FAB. I joined immediately purely for research purposes

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some woman I used to chat online to did, I never met her or did what she was doing but stayed for the forum.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

A guy i was seeing told me to get my arse over here

So i did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hearsay

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

A guy I chatted to on a dating site told me about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a Feb from another app who said about it. Curiosity killed me."

Was her name Jan?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was when I went to La Chambre talking with a couple they told me to get on here and so I did

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By *uddly GoblinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

The sire was recommended to me by a lady at one of the clubs I was attending at the time

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

Was introduced to the scene many years ago by an ex work colleague and his wife on a night out..

Few years later and I got in a relationship and settled down. But that eventually collapsed so I decided to dip my toe back in and a google search for “Swinging” brought me here!...

Blessed are the internet gods!

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By *etite_delight OP   Woman
over a year ago

BunnyLand


"Was handcuffed and chained, prodded with a hot poker till I made a profile

Then the whips came out "

Sounds like a nice introduction

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

I was on another site and this one come up so I thought give it ago. I must admit that I've found it quite frustrating on here due to the lack of meets with females. Married males are like the virus, (NOT WANTED), but if your a married female that seems to be OK. Double standards I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An employee recommended i join, she said I'd love it. She was right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd heard about it a few times. Thought I'd give it a bash when I first split with my ex. Didnt start enjoying it till I got involved in the forums though.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I was being fucked by someone from a different site, who mentioned this one.

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By *exfunmaleMan
over a year ago

cardiff

I got pulled by a couple in my local .

Had regular date experience with the wife ..which got a bit messy .

They told me about this..

Been back and forth for 10 yrs or more

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By *pepepipoxMan
over a year ago

London

Saw someone on the bus perving at some delectable ladies. After some heroic squinting and neck twisting (trying to scratch your ear lobe with your shoulder), and some sweaty palm googling...

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I tripped!!

We were told by our local club owners about this site after we went there to see what it was like.

That was over 3 years ago.

Time flies when you're having fun.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex partner discovered this site and we got into swinging and used to have a couples profile this was a few years ago.. now I use it as a single woman looking for fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I followed a white rabbit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was handcuffed and chained, prodded with a hot poker till I made a profile

Then the whips came out

Sounds like a nice introduction "

I’d say it’s up there with the best kind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was in chams and everyone kept asking my fab name.

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By *he Vital SparkMan
over a year ago

Preston

Google search engine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I followed a white rabbit "

So did I

Curiouser and Curiouser

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I saw article on Facebook and I just thought why not why not give this ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Found my couples profile logged in on my ex iPad had absolutely no idea the account existed , full face pics n all.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Was forced to come here (did not offer much resistance, mind...)

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

We were on another site that was closing down. Everyone was jumping ship here so we followed. Like little horny lemmings

T x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My parents own the site so it’s kinda my destiny to be here.

One day this will all be mine.

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By *ebel Red HotWoman
over a year ago

York

Climbed the stairs and turned left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turned left at Friends Reunited

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester


"My parents own the site so it’s kinda my destiny to be here.

One day this will all be mine."

Are you a publicly traded entity?

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I used to be on here as part of a couple...now exploring and having a whale of a time as a single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My parents own the site so it’s kinda my destiny to be here.

One day this will all be mine.

Are you a publicly traded entity?"

Not sure.

I’ll ask mum

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Found my own way here. It's a great place more like a club really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Turned left at Friends Reunited"

I'm still on there. It's gone very quiet.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I was on another site for years but I preferred the forum on his site so I stayed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was lead astray

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

A good friend recommended it to us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An ex girlfriend previously had a profile before we met and then when we broke up i joined and never left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A client told me to join sooo I did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I followed a white rabbit

So did I

Curiouser and Curiouser "

ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was introduced by an ex, we split but I stayed and made a singles profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The little Naughty Devil on my left shoulder won over the sweet Angel on My right ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s summarized in my profile....

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By *ewsub4dommeMan
over a year ago

thirsk

Found it on Google

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Previous fwb brought me here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was introduced to it all by an ex who suggested we try it... Apparently it was something he always wanted to try but never had!! Turned out that was a complete lie! When I eventually realised how full of crap he was and left I was curious to try it out as a singleton!!.... the best bit has been meeting my fwb and the mischief we've got up to together over the last 2 years!!

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By *lovebustyladiesMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

All the chat rooms have now gone and I’m not paying to chat to other people like some sites I’m here for banter chat and chaos

But above all if I put a smile on somebody’s face it’s all worth it.....

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Discussed swinging looked at various club website and a few of them had links to Fab so clicked on a link and the rest is history as they say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone on another app told me about it. She said that I would meet women in no time on here.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Have been on Fab many years with hubby.

He originally opened an account to research clubs as a safe way for me to explore my bisexuality, with his support.

Set up this profile nearly 2 years ago to meet ladies alone. Still have one with hubby.

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By *ikingpairCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"All the chat rooms have now gone and I’m not paying to chat to other people like some sites I’m here for banter chat and chaos

But above all if I put a smile on somebody’s face it’s all worth it....."

Well, you've got at least one smiling Fabber here. Your 'Women needed for anal?' post was pretty special

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Found my own way here while searching for 'sex sites' looking for like minded people*. Found the forums and found my place.

*other weirdoes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I followed a white rabbit "

Same x

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

I think Fab was recommended to us during our first club visit, although Julia might correct me on that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found it on e bay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on POF for a while. A hot guy from there recomended here. It's been good so far but can be addictive

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Actively web searching for a suitable swinging site and eventually saw this place, took a while but worth the wait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Missed having great sex but did not want the relationship side. My friend spent afew years here and would tell me about her adventures. I decided to try it to make adventures of my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fireman told me about it and I was said no way am I going on there, 18mths later I was curious and...

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

I found the estrogen in my medication gave me the thrill of being free, so lingeries wearing started, ladyQ was born, then changed to StellaHeels a couple of yrs ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex boss. I blame him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A male friend told me about it when I got bored after things cooled off with a rather kinky FWB

Im far too curious a person to resist having a nose... haven’t left since

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

This is my second tour.

I was intrigued to see if it had improved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loneliness. It didn't get any better

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Got told about it, checked it out, never left.

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By *ette4ukWoman
over a year ago

Sudbury in suffolk

My husband (now ex) said I was a fat cow and nobody would want to fuck me !! That was a red flag to a bull and I had to prove him wrong

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Went to a swingers club a few times and everyone kept asking if i was on Fab. I had no idea what Fab was but joined 6months later.

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By *ig rig hullMan
over a year ago

Hull

I happened to pop into a pub on way home from work and it was rammed with people (considering it was a back street boozer). They was hosting a social event. I got talking about it and ended up here

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I honestly don't remember but what intrigued me was the lack of pretence for nsa and the fact that being a member didn't require a subscription.

Signed up, hit the ground running and never looked back. Life changing experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was introduced to swinging by they then Dom (I found him by accident).

I was originally on a much smaller site which I loved and still go on sometimes.

People where talking about fab so thought I'd take a look.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Many moons ago I was on here with my ex husband as a couple, then I got chatting about it with someone I met on a dating site recently and boom here I am again 15 years later as a single

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By *assageGiverMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I was on another site (local swi****s)which went slowly downhill to the point I looked for a good alternative and thankfully found fabs, never looked back since

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

Our first ever Mmf meet told us to come here ,been 2 years now

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By *ryingitout19Man
over a year ago

Wales

I was on POF and someone told me about it!

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By *agic12345Man
over a year ago

lakes

Just came across it one day and never looked back

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Was on regular dating sites then a friend recommended fab rest is history

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

I tried a club not far from my home about 12 years ago, liked it on my first No Obligation visit, so a week later returned and joined.

In that visit, I nervously played with a Couple, but they were impressed, and suggested I try FAB as they reckoned I could do well there.

The rest is history; FAB hasn't let me down.

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By *torm in a G cupWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Long White Cloud

I was directed to it while trying to get on to the list for a Greedy Girls night at a club in UK.

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By *am286Man
over a year ago

london

Met a girl, summer may, about 6 years ago. She got into the swinging scene and recommend fab to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found some magazines and membership letters from le chambre down the back of a cupboard after the previous owners had moved out, skip a few months and I find fab after being intrigued and I find them on here too. Well I’ve had a couple of meets with them and hopefully again soon once this is all over!! That was 11 years ago and we are still all enjoying the fun!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My husband (now ex) said I was a fat cow and nobody would want to fuck me !! That was a red flag to a bull and I had to prove him wrong "
LOL what an idiot he was. You are smoking hot and I'm sure almost any guy on here would love to fuck you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A work colleague told me about it and I had a nosey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was on a fet site.. Someone suggested I looked at fab.. 5 yrs later.. Still addicted

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I was on Tinder, mentioned a sex site I was on to a fella I was chatting to but had recently left as was no local men. He said I should try Fab, so I did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend of mine was on here and recommended it when I had a moan about Tinder one night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw a documentary on swinging and googled it. Fab came up so I joined (that was over 5 years ago!)

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks


"It was when I went to La Chambre talking with a couple they told me to get on here and so I did "

Same! I bet it was the same couple too...wonder if they are on commission

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend of mine from another site mentioned fab to me, and a couple months later, curiosity got the better of me

Lucky you lot

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice


"How life brought you here? Who lured you in? or are you the clever one who finds its own way here? "

A friend on another site suggested I take a look, and, well.... here I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to the shops and ended up buying these magic beans

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice


"Was on a fet site.. Someone suggested I looked at fab.. 5 yrs later.. Still addicted"
sounds like the same site I came from ( still there)

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

I was on another site, reading a couples profile. At the bottom of it, they said they were fab verified. Curious as to what they meant I did a search and quickly joined.

That was about twelve years ago, possibly longer, and three profiles later, here again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lady from another site recommended it to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was with a partner at a killing kittens party in london & another couple mentioned it. Been on and off for 7 years now

Met some awesome people but Just hang around for the furums may do some socials but not meeting sexually anymore.

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