FabSwingers.com forum: Men go on strike!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Men go on strike so that women will need to message first??

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over a year ago

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By *iberty RedWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Who says we don't anyway?

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By *ig rig hullMan
over a year ago

Hull

"Who says we don't anyway?"

Iv been on here over 2 years and had 2 first message's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men go on strike so that women will need to message first?? "

I've always wanted this as an experiment. Maybe just for a week and see what happens.

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Women usually wink not message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What should my message say?

"Sorry you're not my type but good luck on fab"

Is that ok?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think I have ever sent a first message on Fab, unless its part of a forum game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont think I have ever sent a first message on Fab, unless its part of a forum game.

I have sent a few first messages before. If you see someone you like then why not.

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By *ig rig hullMan
over a year ago

Hull

"I dont think I have ever sent a first message on Fab, unless its part of a forum game.

I have sent a few first messages before. If you see someone you like then why not. "

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Most of my meets I messaged first. I kind of have to with my filters.

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By *ig rig hullMan
over a year ago

Hull

"Most of my meets I messaged first. I kind of have to with my filters. "

I must have deleted your message by mistake then chick sorry lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of my meets I messaged first. I kind of have to with my filters. "

I'm still waiting Lacey, got lost in the 'Fab post' did it?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Very funny guys

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"What should my message say?

"Sorry you're not my type but good luck on fab"

Is that ok?"

That works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What should my message say?

"Sorry you're not my type but good luck on fab"

Is that ok?

That works for me

No strike needed then?

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"What should my message say?

"Sorry you're not my type but good luck on fab"

Is that ok?

That works for me

No strike needed then?

Still waiting on my message saying...

"Sorry you're not my type but good luck on fab"

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By *ig rig hullMan
over a year ago

Hull

"What should my message say?

"Sorry you're not my type but good luck on fab"

Is that ok?

That works for me

No strike needed then?

Still waiting on my message saying...

"Sorry you're not my type but good luck on fab""

Me too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Basically girls get bombarded with messages so they can’t reply to all of them unless they stand out?

So if all men don’t message girls won’t feel that all men are starving sex pests and men when they get a message will know there’s a interest?

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Basically girls get bombarded with messages so they can’t reply to all of them unless they stand out?

So if all men don’t message girls won’t feel that all men are starving sex pests and men when they get a message will know there’s a interest?"

Solidarity!

Right behind ya brother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What should my message say?

"Sorry you're not my type but good luck on fab"

Is that ok?

That works for me

No strike needed then?

Still waiting on my message saying...

"Sorry you're not my type but good luck on fab"

Me too "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women usually wink not message.

Correct

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Must be me then? Don’t get anything first not even a wink

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By *ig rig hullMan
over a year ago

Hull

"Must be me then? Don’t get anything first not even a wink "

I get the odd wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Must be me then? Don’t get anything first not even a wink "

Must be your going for a walk profile

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By *ig rig hullMan
over a year ago

Hull

"Must be me then? Don’t get anything first not even a wink

Must be your going for a walk profile

Whats wrong with a walk on a sandy beach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Must be me then? Don’t get anything first not even a wink

Must be your going for a walk profile

Whats wrong with a walk on a sandy beach

Nothing. I love it! But could be the answer to OP haha

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Must be me then? Don’t get anything first not even a wink

Must be your going for a walk profile

Ain’t Swansea and Cardiff not that far away from each other???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Must be me then? Don’t get anything first not even a wink

Must be your going for a walk profile

Ain’t Swansea and Cardiff not that far away from each other???

Lockdown

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ha that’s just a bit of light humour

Should of said something more obscene like making origami as a interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ha that’s just a bit of light humour

Should of said something more obscene like making origami as a interest

OP you've been filling in later for 11 months now

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By *oxyVikingCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia

I message and wink! If I like I go for it

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Must be me then? Don’t get anything first not even a wink

Must be your going for a walk profile

Ain’t Swansea and Cardiff not that far away from each other???

Lockdown

Socially distanced walk on the beach is permissible!

Rule of six an all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Must be me then? Don’t get anything first not even a wink

Must be your going for a walk profile

Ain’t Swansea and Cardiff not that far away from each other???

Lockdown

Socially distanced walk on the beach is permissible!

Rule of six an all that

Wanna join our fab walk?

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"I message and wink! If I like I go for it

Knock yourself out

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Must be me then? Don’t get anything first not even a wink

Must be your going for a walk profile

Ain’t Swansea and Cardiff not that far away from each other???

Lockdown

Socially distanced walk on the beach is permissible!

Rule of six an all that

Wanna join our fab walk?

I’m in leeds

and still on strike for another 23 minutes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Must be me then? Don’t get anything first not even a wink

Must be your going for a walk profile

Ain’t Swansea and Cardiff not that far away from each other???

Lockdown

Socially distanced walk on the beach is permissible!

Rule of six an all that

Wanna join our fab walk?

I’m in leeds

and still on strike for another 23 minutes

I didn't mean today

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ha awesome mate let’s start a movement

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Must be me then? Don’t get anything first not even a wink

Must be your going for a walk profile

Ain’t Swansea and Cardiff not that far away from each other???

Lockdown

Socially distanced walk on the beach is permissible!

Rule of six an all that

Wanna join our fab walk?

I’m in leeds

and still on strike for another 23 minutes

I didn't mean today

I’d have to meet you half way at Llandudno

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Must be me then? Don’t get anything first not even a wink

Must be your going for a walk profile

Ain’t Swansea and Cardiff not that far away from each other???

Lockdown

Socially distanced walk on the beach is permissible!

Rule of six an all that

Wanna join our fab walk?

I’m in leeds

and still on strike for another 23 minutes

I didn't mean today

I’d have to meet you half way at Llandudno

I'm sure OP could pick me up on the way lol

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Ha awesome mate let’s start a movement

I’m in! ...been on strike for a good 15 minutes now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ha get the banners out let’s go striking

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Must be me then? Don’t get anything first not even a wink

Must be your going for a walk profile

Ain’t Swansea and Cardiff not that far away from each other???

Lockdown

Socially distanced walk on the beach is permissible!

Rule of six an all that

Wanna join our fab walk?

I’m in leeds

and still on strike for another 23 minutes

I didn't mean today

I’d have to meet you half way at Llandudno

I'm sure OP could pick me up on the way lol"

You’d have to message him though because where both on strike!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP can I message you on here instead?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Unfortunately no! Men need inboxes to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unfortunately no! Men need inboxes to

Haven't you got one?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Must be me then? Don’t get anything first not even a wink

Must be your going for a walk profile

Ain’t Swansea and Cardiff not that far away from each other???

Lockdown

Socially distanced walk on the beach is permissible!

Rule of six an all that

Wanna join our fab walk?

I’m in leeds

and still on strike for another 23 minutes

I didn't mean today

I’d have to meet you half way at Llandudno

I'm sure OP could pick me up on the way lol

You’d have to message him though because where both on strike!

Can you get him an inbox, please?

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Nope "

That probably why your not get any messages if you haven’t got an inbox!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope

That probably why your not get any messages if you haven’t got an inbox!"

Exactly. Mystery solved.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Women generally like to get a feel for a man on a profile your photo's are good,showing people a bit of your personality can be a great thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I got a inbox just no 1 messages it

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By *erry2017ukMan
over a year ago

Mazarron Spain

Going to be a quite site

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Nope

That probably why your not get any messages if you haven’t got an inbox!

Exactly. Mystery solved."

That mean strikes over???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope

That probably why your not get any messages if you haven’t got an inbox!

Exactly. Mystery solved.

That mean strikes over???

Sing Hallelujah!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not untill we all get messages first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not untill we all get messages first

Amen.

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Nope

That probably why your not get any messages if you haven’t got an inbox!

Exactly. Mystery solved.

That mean strikes over???

Sing Hallelujah!"

You know what that means!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope

That probably why your not get any messages if you haven’t got an inbox!

Exactly. Mystery solved.

That mean strikes over???

Sing Hallelujah!

You know what that means!

We're going for a walk!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Basically girls get bombarded with messages so they can’t reply to all of them unless they stand out?

So if all men don’t message girls won’t feel that all men are starving sex pests and men when they get a message will know there’s a interest?"

So much this....

I did an experiment too.. I went away for about a week or so, hoping that maybe I might have the odd message, wink.. even a few profile views.

Not one...

On the whole, as much as women may disagree they don't message first really do they? (I'd were talking percentages.. maybe 1% do) for that FIRST initial message that gets the conversation flowing. And I get it.. women get bombarded.

So I'm behind this... I would like to see, for a week or two.. ALL men don't message first or contribute to forum posts and see whether the women even notice we're not here?

Still waiting for my

"Sorry you're not my type but good luck on fab" followed by a message deleted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What should my message say?

"Sorry you're not my type but good luck on fab"

Is that ok?"

That'll do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What should my message say?

"Sorry you're not my type but good luck on fab"

Is that ok?

That'll do."

Is your inbox empty?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Must be me then? Don’t get anything first not even a wink "

Maybe try putting something on your profile.

I looked at your photos and thought hmm if I was closer, then realised you said nothing. That could be the reason you don't get messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont message women first anyway yet they pester the bloody life out of me anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What should my message say?

"Sorry you're not my type but good luck on fab"

Is that ok?

That'll do.

Is your inbox empty?"

It's none of your business!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What should my message say?

"Sorry you're not my type but good luck on fab"

Is that ok?

That'll do.

Is your inbox empty?

It's none of your business!"

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By *addyBabygirl2020Couple
over a year ago

norwich

Myself and Babygirl agree that's it's the man who should do the chasing.

Sure there are exceptions and there are no rules on this, but it's just natures way.

Look at the animal kindom where the males of the species have to show there suitability as a mate.

Some proform dances, some collect pretty stones, some fight the othet males, so intice their mate but showing off their feathers or flexing mucsles.

Its just the natural way of things.

If men went on strike Women would not start messaging. It would make you look weak and needy and would be very unattractive i should thing.

Plus Women would just wait for you all to crack and start messaging again. About 24hrs tops i should think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What should my message say?

"Sorry you're not my type but good luck on fab"

Is that ok?

That'll do.

Is your inbox empty?

It's none of your business!

I'm sensitive about my box.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What should my message say?

"Sorry you're not my type but good luck on fab"

Is that ok?

That'll do.

Is your inbox empty?

It's none of your business!

I'm sensitive about my box."

Keep your box

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dear Op

I send this message to you today

Your forum question blew me away.

I send a wink, it's ignored because people snored past it. It means, no thank you not for me. Don't take it harshly Op.

I've sent first message. It gets deleted I don't get over heated. As freddy says.. 'Another bites the dust.'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually fully support this. If I received no messages at all for a week, then I'd actually have time to do my own searches and message those I'd like to chat to.

But as it is, I'm always too busy replying to men's messages lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Trust me it’s not something that bothers me, just something Iv noticed on her

I don’t take anything seriously and I totally get the reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Fill my box ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actually fully support this. If I received no messages at all for a week, then I'd actually have time to do my own searches and message those I'd like to chat to.

But as it is, I'm always too busy replying to men's messages lol"

But you may miss that serendipity moment when a fellas message blows you away and has you laughing your knickers off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actually fully support this. If I received no messages at all for a week, then I'd actually have time to do my own searches and message those I'd like to chat to.

But as it is, I'm always too busy replying to men's messages lol

But you may miss that serendipity moment when a fellas message blows you away and has you laughing your knickers off"

I've had a few great messages, and lots of nice ones. I like getting messages of course, but I do agree with OP that women would send more messages if we got fewer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actually fully support this. If I received no messages at all for a week, then I'd actually have time to do my own searches and message those I'd like to chat to.

But as it is, I'm always too busy replying to men's messages lol"

If only there were Fab tools to stop messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It will be the weak perverted men who fail this mission for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actually fully support this. If I received no messages at all for a week, then I'd actually have time to do my own searches and message those I'd like to chat to.

But as it is, I'm always too busy replying to men's messages lol

If only there were Fab tools to stop messages.

I don't want to stop them, as I said I like receiving them. Just saying I agree with OP's point. I've set my filters fairly tight but if I turn them off completely I'd never get to chat to anyone lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It will be the weak perverted men who fail this mission for us "

I'm just building up to my first approach message... let me know when 'The Strike's' on so I can maximise my chances I believe a shot gun, cut and paste message during 'The Strike' might just pay dividends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another first message sender here. Seems to work excellently if I’m honest

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

See if you're in the forums and be yourself you will get women contacting you if you have an ok profile sensible pictures

Rocket science it is not hundreds of forum out there say what women are looking for a profile and it's ok to be yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actually fully support this. If I received no messages at all for a week, then I'd actually have time to do my own searches and message those I'd like to chat to.

But as it is, I'm always too busy replying to men's messages lol

If only there were Fab tools to stop messages.

I don't want to stop them, as I said I like receiving them. Just saying I agree with OP's point. I've set my filters fairly tight but if I turn them off completely I'd never get to chat to anyone lol"

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