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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey first time posting in a long time so bear with me

So my situation is (I’ve put myself in this) I have a gf of 5 years she used to have this friend we’ll call her kiki for this

So my gf and Kiki used to be best friends from the age of 14 to about 24/25 so a long friendship nothing bad happened they just drifted apart as you do in life

So when I started going out with my gf the first 3 years of our relationship Kiki was there a lot being her best friend at the time so there was d*unk nights party’s etc etc

But I always thought she (Kiki) wanted to fuck me and so did my gf obviously she wasn’t happy I loved it because Kiki is stunning but I was always scared to act upon anything just incase I came close one night we were d*unk and at a party and took a cigarette out of her tits with my mouth my gf saw and wasn’t happy as you could imagine then later on that night I said I would fuck her and she said she couldn’t do that to her best friend

So fast forward Kiki gets a bf and settles down a bit but I still wanna fuck the brains outta kiki so I made a fake fb too message her on to see if she was still going with her bf because he stopped likening pics and posts and she started to put up pics of her tits basically hanging out so I messaged her saying

“This might sound weird but I’ve always wanted to fuck you but I’m too scared to tell you incase you tell my gf”and she said she doesn’t really care about a gf just wants to know who I am

So should I say and maybe she’s like oh yea it’s you damn right I wanna fuck cause she isn’t really friends with my gf anymore

But at the same time I’m scared incase she says to my gf

Anyone ever been in this situation before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheating isnt fair mate, if she dosnt want it to happen then it shouldn't happen

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

I would say don't do it, but you probably will if she says yes anyway.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Just send us the pic of Kiki with tits hanging out plz

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

So why are you still with your girlfriend?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, I don't think you'd be asking this question if you were properly committed to your gf. Sounds like you still like 'playing the field' as if you were single.

Of course, if you have both discussed it and are happy to have a more open relationship then fine. But even then, I can see having a liaison with the other's best friend might be a boundary not many would cross.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Leave it alone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s not a case of “playing the field” or not being committed I’ve never cheated on my gf before it’s just at the time they were friends Kiki was a tease and they haven’t been friends for 2 years now and I still think about wanting to fuck her I was wondering weather to keep it a sort of fantasy or pursue it and my gf is completely unaware about this hence why I messaged her on another fb account and no she wouldn’t be happy but as I said that’s been 2 years and I still wanna fuck her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finish your girl if you want to fuck someone else

Honesty is best, cheaters always get found out in the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How would you feel if your girlfriend was doing something similar with a guy you used to be friends with, behind your back?

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

In my opinion, the moment you messaged 'kiki' from a secret FB is the moment you stopped being committed to your girlfriend.

Maybe time to take stock of what you want from life - in reality she may be a great shag but then you have no relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The question you have to ask yourself is this... would you be pissed off if your gf did what you are doing with one of your mates. Perspective is essential here.

I think you’re being selfish, Kiki has a bf, you have a gf. Either break up with your lass before you pursue Kiki or leave her alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s not a case of “playing the field” or not being committed I’ve never cheated on my gf before it’s just at the time they were friends Kiki was a tease and they haven’t been friends for 2 years now and I still think about wanting to fuck her I was wondering weather to keep it a sort of fantasy or pursue it and my gf is completely unaware about this hence why I messaged her on another fb account and no she wouldn’t be happy but as I said that’s been 2 years and I still wanna fuck her "

But its deeper than just fucking Kiki..you've a GF.. reverse the situation and see how' d you'd feel if your GF wanted to fuck your friend from earlier in life that you haven't talked to in 2 years ?...the bravado of fucking " Kiki " just cause you always wanted to is very small to the potential fallout...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've made a dodgy account to message this woman on to try and cheat with her? She's probably creeped out about it all.

Sounds like something kids in school would do. Or Coronation Street.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also think the fake account thing is creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finish your girl if you want to fuck someone else

Honesty is best, cheaters always get found out in the end"

This.

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By *octor DeleriumMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

Why not leave your profile open on your phone?

I'm sure that your gf will let you know how the relationship is going from there

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By *erDirtyRockstarMan
over a year ago

buckinghamshire

Seems you're not satisfied with your present situation.

So stop lying to yourself, stop being unfair to your current squeeze and be single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the gf doesn't mind the 3 verifications then she won't mind you playing with Kiki.

Alternatively...considering the fact that one verification is 5 years old and you've kept it from your gf then you can probably keep kiki a secret

Or ... neither Kiki or gf exist and in which case go for it

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

You know the right answer to this question OP, you're just hoping someone will say "yeah go for it", and ease your conscience.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

So you're only scared of being caught, not sorry that you're already secretly hiding things from her.

As everyone else has said, leave her and let her find someone who deserves her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you need to be single. Stop being selfish and let your girlfriend go. She deserves better. You're then free to do as you please

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

You don’t deserve to have a girlfriend. I really dislike people like you & hope to get caught. Or catch an STi

J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's consentual cheating (hotwifing/cuckolding essentially) and then there's just straight up betraying someone's confidence and trust in you. If you don't appreciate how this might hurt someone, and you wouldn't this happening to yourself, you shouldn't be in a relationship.

There are ways to satisfy some of these urges by simply talking to your gf. It's better not to hide it since you seem to feel strongly about this kink. Roleplay and cuckolding are always alternatives, but your gf has to consent. You have to communicate.

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By *rscotsdudeMan
over a year ago

angus

The op post reminds me of vicky pollard off little britain!

Yeah but no but yeah but no....

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