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The Mental & Physical health benefits of swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There are many mental & physical health benefits to swinging. Can you name some...?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Increased confidence in meeting new people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Appreciation of difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Increased confidence in meeting new people."

Deffinatley a confidence boost, also an eye opener into a whole new world of fun and debauchery

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yep increased confidence in pushing boundaries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes you relaxed after you’ve emptied your sack.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

In all honesty I think the benefits are only there if you have the right psychological mindset to deal with swinging. Whilst it’s a whole new, wonderful world for many like myself - I’ve seen it tear other couples and singles apart mentally!

It takes a certain mindset to have amazing sex with someone one week and be totally fine with the concept of them fucking someone else the next!

For me the benefits are immense - I’ve met some wonderful friends and had by far the best sex of my life. It’s not for everyone though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence definitely and confident to show off body to us it was like walking through a door and leaving the stress behind...which was /is needed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Getting to know people quicker than you normally would as swingers can be more open.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't think there are any for me personally. I'm not physically any fitter and mentally I'm more or less the same. I don't tend to think of it as any more than a hobby though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In all honesty I think the benefits are only there if you have the right psychological mindset to deal with swinging. Whilst it’s a whole new, wonderful world for many like myself - I’ve seen it tear other couples and singles apart mentally!

It takes a certain mindset to have amazing sex with someone one week and be totally fine with the concept of them fucking someone else the next!

For me the benefits are immense - I’ve met some wonderful friends and had by far the best sex of my life. It’s not for everyone though. "

True. We’ve found that even without the sex the social side can be great fun too. Some people stay around never to play but just to watch and it’s all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better body confidence

Better understanding of others

Improved communication skills

Confidence to step out of your own comfort zone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There’s a beautiful sense of freedom when you are able to express your deepest desires mentally and physically. Also to watch others doing this is joyful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mentally being desired, being part of a community and expressing yourself without the burden of judgment is huge. On the physical side 1 or 2 good, long play sessions does more for me than going the gym ever would. When clubs were open a little star on the calander always gave you something to look forward too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mixing with other microbiomes helps build and entrain your immune system and gives you added sense of well-being!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats a new way to sell it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mentally being desired, being part of a community and expressing yourself without the burden of judgment is huge. On the physical side 1 or 2 good, long play sessions does more for me than going the gym ever would. When clubs were open a little star on the calander always gave you something to look forward too."

Ha yes a good long session is much more fun than tha the gym!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mentally being desired, being part of a community and expressing yourself without the burden of judgment is huge. On the physical side 1 or 2 good, long play sessions does more for me than going the gym ever would. When clubs were open a little star on the calander always gave you something to look forward too.

Ha yes a good long session is much more fun than tha the gym! "

Also being part of a supportive community is soooo Important for mental health and well being during tough times!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Appreciating human likeness. That we all, have a need to feel wanted, belong and feel-good dopamine high.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The opportunity to meet open, honest, straight to the point people and make friends for life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Confidence definitely and confident to show off body to us it was like walking through a door and leaving the stress behind...which was /is needed"

Yes! Yes! Yes! This confidence can spread into other areas of your life too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It can also teach you patience, tolerance And understanding. As well as learning to focus and control the things you can control YOUR thinking & emotions and not other peoples.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Adult Play can boost creativity, intelligence and thought processes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Better body confidence

Better understanding of others

Improved communication skills

Confidence to step out of your own comfort zone

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Yes!

Yes!

Yes!

Yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My god based on this swingers will save the bloody world

What about stds bullying abusive behaviour jealousy overly handsy people manipulation illegal things that cant be talked about just to name a few its not all sweetness and light yes there are some good things but like most things theres bad too and before someone says thats not what swinging is about it does still happen im not after a row im just saying there are things that effect people mentally and physically thats not so good about swinging as a lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It hasn't changed anything for me - but

it's made some fun, delicious, scary, cringeworthy and sometimes educational memories.

It is a tool to take me away from my boring life and have sex with people I wouldn't usually meet in day to day life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My god based on this swingers will save the bloody world

What about stds bullying abusive behaviour jealousy overly handsy people manipulation illegal things that cant be talked about just to name a few its not all sweetness and light yes there are some good things but like most things theres bad too and before someone says thats not what swinging is about it does still happen im not after a row im just saying there are things that effect people mentally and physically thats not so good about swinging as a lifestyle"

I guess unless you see stds etc.. as a benefit the clues is in the title

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It hasn't changed anything for me - but

it's made some fun, delicious, scary, cringeworthy and sometimes educational memories.

It is a tool to take me away from my boring life and have sex with people I wouldn't usually meet in day to day life.

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Haha love it! Absolutely! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Learning some fantastic tools and techniques on how to become a better lover! X

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