FabSwingers.com forum: Do you use other dating sites?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No need to state the name (if you want to keep it anonymous) but just a yes or no if you're on other dating sites (not sex sites so no fetlife doesn't count)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Several, though I only use two of them on a regular basis.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"other" this isnt a dating site

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Nope, never been on a dating site as I’ve never wanted dates

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive never been on a dating site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went on another site for a while, but just didn’t find it that good.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yes

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

""other" this isnt a dating site"

It's whatever people want it to be, sure it wasn't or isn't it's original aim but I here of more and more people dating on here(under normal circumstances)

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

This is more Facebook-type place rather than dating app based on lifestyle finding where to fit and be accepted even though likeing for something a bit different.

Only of fool or mad person would be looking for dates meet here more of a transaction.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

No OP, I don't use "dating sites", I find that my smooth suave sophisticated approach works very well in real life thank you very much

P.s. I haven't been on a date in about 5 years

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I've contemplated going back on one but not sure if it's worth the effort just now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you cant name other sites on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but no one wants me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I deleted pof and tinder not long after I was told of this site lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I deleted pof and tinder not long after I was told of this site lol "

Same I have met people off POF before and find it's gone downhill find tinder rubbish also

I still have it but don't swipe

And when I do have some basic conversations hi you ok yh you never to speak again it's pointless although my last FB was off there he's the only person I've ever met off it

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"you cant name other sites on here"

I shagged a lass on a building site once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I deleted pof and tinder not long after I was told of this site lol

Same I have met people off POF before and find it's gone downhill find tinder rubbish also

I still have it but don't swipe

And when I do have some basic conversations hi you ok yh you never to speak again it's pointless although my last FB was off there he's the only person I've ever met off it "

Yup I agree dating sites are horrible and you do get ignored a lot tbh. Though your pics look lovely so I can't imagine guys ignoring you tbh, but I've still kept them tbh. I don't ignore ppl though but I try to rely on them less and less tbh

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

I am but don't really bother with them, it's mostly the same faces

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I deleted pof and tinder not long after I was told of this site lol

Same I have met people off POF before and find it's gone downhill find tinder rubbish also

I still have it but don't swipe

And when I do have some basic conversations hi you ok yh you never to speak again it's pointless although my last FB was off there he's the only person I've ever met off it "

I only met 1 girl off tinder, she turned out to be a stalker. Did have alot of joy out of pof years ago, better on here as I can be honest I'm not really looking for a relationship (although since being on her, an open/swinging relationship would deffinatly be concidered if I met the right person)

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By *bw44DDWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"No need to state the name (if you want to keep it anonymous) but just a yes or no if you're on other dating sites (not sex sites so no fetlife doesn't count)"

Yes, and I’ve seen so many people from here on there

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I have never used any other sites as fab gives me everything i want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had both Tinder and PoF profiles in the past.

Tinder is far too brutal as people instantly judge on one photo so unless you’re lucky to one of them photogenic beautiful people then prepare for disappointment.

PoF I had a couple of meets over the course of 18 months but again I found it to be another case of sending a hundred messages to get that one reply that is just someone politely turning you down.

Had a Fab profile for a number of years before my last long term (vanilla) relationship which also offered a very low success to message ratio...... but the draw of the awesome sex that the swinging world offers is too great, once you’re experienced that, you find yourself slipping back here time and time again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Lots. X

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Not recently but we both have used ones before we met.

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By *ola81Woman
over a year ago

pond

Fab isn't a dating site op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so old I get meets off

Carbon dating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm so old I get meets off

Carbon dating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah,

Tinder,

Hinge,

Bumble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Although I find it too much effort haha

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

PoF & Tinder, but they’re not much good now.

PoF was ok in the past, but more people chat on here than on PoF.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I'm deffo fishing for a ltr xxx

I would ideally love to meet a guy for a long term relationship who is also sensual

Where is he lol xxx

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By *lovebustyladiesMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I use another forum based site mainly with Americans but a few brits on good fun to be had there too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, not looking to date and have plenty of female friends on here i can chat sex with.

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By *B1974Woman
over a year ago

Stanley

"Yes but no one wants me "

Same here sadly

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Mauchline

I use a cheater site, and have also had meets through Xhamster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on a couple but don't go on them much now really! It's bloody hard work over there!....I prefer it here!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I've had a lot of one night stands off Tinder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tinder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and this isn't a dating site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pof is pretty cool for hooking up casually I find at times

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

No.

I'm not looking for a relationship.

A fab meet could be very date like if that's how both wanted it and that's enough for me for now.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"No and this isn't a dating site "

It may not be classified as a dating site but it's whatever people want it to be to suit there circumstances.

People do date and form relationships on here and what better place to date if you're hoping to find a partner that swings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No and this isn't a dating site

It may not be classified as a dating site but it's whatever people want it to be to suit there circumstances.

People do date and form relationships on here and what better place to date if you're hoping to find a partner that swings."

I did at one point use OK Cupid a lot (I was looking for something serious). Had a couple of meets from there, some drinks, some laughs, some unexpected detours into a football field of all places late at night. But after a lot of time on there, it just wasn't clicking for me so I came here to explore my sexuality before I commit to anything long-term.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and this isn’t a dating site

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"No and this isn’t a dating site

What he said...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, not anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but I have considered it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use 2 of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on a hook up site, but left that early this year. Was on a proper dating site. Only met one guy who has not become my partner, but my best friend and my subscription on there runs out tonight. I'll stick with Fab because it's erm.... Fab.

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By *reeMan
over a year ago

Paisley

"I'm so old I get meets off

Carbon dating

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only on one other. Although apparently there are a few profiles of me elsewhere.

I joined during the start of Lockdown but haven't really bothered with it

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Yes, several.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

""other" this isnt a dating site"

It's what people want it to be. Lots looking to date and meet others for swinging relationships on here. I'm one of them. Lots have also met and married or found partners on here too.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"No and this isn’t a dating site

It is for some of us. Up to the individual how they use fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On dating apps from when I’ve preferred to date but most the guys on there are on here so it’s taken the shine off them.

Tbf I’ve had more kinky/new sexual experiences come from dating apps than fab....

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By *hisisntpofMan
over a year ago

bristol

"Tinder

Lmao im on tinder,badoo,and zoosk and still couldnt pull a face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No and this isn’t a dating site

A few couples I know met on here and are now all loved up. People use it as they like.

Personally I like to keep Fab and dating separate. But there are plenty of singles on here and many do date or ask people out on dates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tinder

Lmao im on tinder,badoo,and zoosk and still couldnt pull a face

Bumble?

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By *candiumWoman
over a year ago

oban

I tried a couple but I refuse to use Facebook so that rules out several and the others all want face pics. I'm not doing that in a small town.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least 2 and met off 1

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By *hisisntpofMan
over a year ago

bristol

"Tinder

Lmao im on tinder,badoo,and zoosk and still couldnt pull a face

Bumble?"

Am i being blonde ,whats bumble?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope just this !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tinder

Lmao im on tinder,badoo,and zoosk and still couldnt pull a face

Bumble?

Am i being blonde ,whats bumble? "

A dating app, the USP of which is that men aren't able to send the initial message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, can't be bothered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met many more people off dating sites than from fab.

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

Not a dating site but a well known lifestyle site For those who have fetishes of various sorts

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