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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you think it is a bit hypocritical to ask someone to have something that you don't when looking for a meet on fab (or in life)

Example a man being hairy around his genitals while asking for women to be shaved

Another example an overweight man or woman asking for his preference to be slim man or woman.

Note I'm not saying it's right or wrong per se, because we all have a right to our preferences but do you think persons who have preferences that they don't match can be seemed as being hypocrites.

P.s I didn't mention racial preferences because of the fact you can't change your race, I was looking at those things you could possibly change.

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By *irenGuy70Man
over a year ago

Cirencester

No. We're all here for our own reasons and can be as selective as we want to be.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

The way you’re looking at it says there’s a hierarchy of features. Shaved is better than fuzzy, slim is better than overweight.

If you look at it as things are equal then it’s very different.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I used to think that but tbh a hairy girl might fancy the shaven guy who in turn likes a hairy girl? A young guy might havea thing fora more mature woman, who in turn prefers an older guy etc. It all depends on personal preferences matching, is what I am saying. No right or wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer face than body but I do have limits on terms of body types, but I have to see first before I can say."

Can you elaborate, OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Not hypocritical at all. I've no desire to fuck the male version of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think it is a bit hypocritical to ask someone to have something that you don't when looking for a meet on fab (or in life)

Example a man being hairy around his genitals while asking for women to be shaved

Another example an overweight man or woman asking for his preference to be slim man or woman.

Note I'm not saying it's right or wrong per se, because we all have a right to our preferences but do you think persons who have preferences that they don't match can be seemed as being hypocrites.

P.s I didn't mention racial preferences because of the fact you can't change your race, I was looking at those things you could possibly change. "

no

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By *ineapple_PrincessWoman
over a year ago

in the waves


"I used to think that but tbh a hairy girl might fancy the shaven guy who in turn likes a hairy girl? A young guy might havea thing fora more mature woman, who in turn prefers an older guy etc. It all depends on personal preferences matching, is what I am saying. No right or wrong."

I agree with the above. We all have different preferences or criteria we are looking for, it's mainly about finding someone who matches yours and you match theirs.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"No. Not hypocritical at all. I've no desire to fuck the male version of me "
Priceless

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I have sex with people im attracted to who are attracted to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I'm on the stocky/chubby border depending on what season you catch me in

I like curvy women around my age, but when it comes to blokes, I find myself attracted to younger slim or muscular types

That's my tastes

I didn't script them or write, that's just what I like

Luckily, for me, it works both ways and I've never struggled to find mutual attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have sex with people im attracted to who are attracted to me"

exactly

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I love hairy men but i have no desire to grow hairs on my legs or chest. Think it may spoil my chances of getting a meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The way you’re looking at it says there’s a hierarchy of features. Shaved is better than fuzzy, slim is better than overweight.

If you look at it as things are equal then it’s very different."

Not necessarily but I see and understand your point.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love hairy men but i have no desire to grow hairs on my legs or chest. Think it may spoil my chances of getting a meet."

Lol

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"I have sex with people im attracted to who are attracted to me"

Spot on. Same here

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Nope. When meeting men I like them to have a penis but I don't have one myself. Not a real one anyway.

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Nope. When meeting men I like them to have a penis but I don't have one myself. Not a real one anyway. "

You beat me to it

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By *ndynot321Man
over a year ago

Letchworth

I'm happy to ask for anal, as plenty of people have told me I am up my own arse!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No. If I like X and someone with X likes me, then happy days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""I prefer face than body but I do have limits on terms of body types, but I have to see first before I can say."

Can you elaborate, OP?"

Where does it say that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think everyone has preferences. Why would you meet someone who didn't fit them?

I don't think it hypocritical at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think everyone has preferences. Why would you meet someone who didn't fit them?

I don't think it hypocritical at all.

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Oh you just saved me typing

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