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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So shall we just give you the answers you want ?

I think there’s a few of us left who have seen and read it all by now - so just use this as a point of reference.

Yes, there’s a clique. Only it’s not really a clique, it’s just fully grown adults who post to others because they know them better than a newbie.

Yes, women get more positive replies than men - go figure.

Yes, there’s favouritism - this is not a shock.

Yes, there is peacocking - it’s a site with naked people vying for attention ( generic, don’t all rush to correct me)

Get my drift ?

Fabulous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So shall we just give you the answers you want ?

I think there’s a few of us left who have seen and read it all by now - so just use this as a point of reference.

Yes, there’s a clique. Only it’s not really a clique, it’s just fully grown adults who post to others because they know them better than a newbie.

Yes, women get more positive replies than men - go figure.

Yes, there’s favouritism - this is not a shock.

Yes, there is peacocking - it’s a site with naked people vying for attention ( generic, don’t all rush to correct me)

Get my drift ?

Fabulous

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Amazing Floro, on point as always

Missed you lady

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So shall we just give you the answers you want ?

I think there’s a few of us left who have seen and read it all by now - so just use this as a point of reference.

Yes, there’s a clique. Only it’s not really a clique, it’s just fully grown adults who post to others because they know them better than a newbie.

Yes, women get more positive replies than men - go figure.

Yes, there’s favouritism - this is not a shock.

Yes, there is peacocking - it’s a site with naked people vying for attention ( generic, don’t all rush to correct me)

Get my drift ?

Fabulous

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Amazing Floro, on point as always

Missed you lady

One tries ... one tries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women like beards, others don't

Some women prefer girth, some prefer length, some want it all

Some women like younger guys, some don't

Some women like a gym bod, some like a Dad bod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isnt that what friends do...dont get the whole clique thing on here...its just groups of people enjoying each others company...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some women like beards, others don't

Some women prefer girth, some prefer length, some want it all

Some women like younger guys, some don't

Some women like a gym bod, some like a Dad bod "

Shocking

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Isnt that what friends do...dont get the whole clique thing on here...its just groups of people enjoying each others company...

I get it ... from an outsider it looks like it

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I'm just trying to think why I logged back on after a little break,everyone needs to relax I know that and stop niggling at thing's,it's the weekend afterall.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some like a BBW/SSBBW, some don't.

Some like natural, some prefer smooth.

Some like cock pics, some don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm just trying to think why I logged back on after a little break,everyone needs to relax I know that and stop niggling at thing's,it's the weekend afterall."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I smiled.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isnt that what friends do...dont get the whole clique thing on here...its just groups of people enjoying each others company...

I get it ... from an outsider it looks like it "

Thats unfortunate..but its no different to going to the pub. People know and hang out with people they know or connect with better..its just life. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm just trying to think why I logged back on after a little break,everyone needs to relax I know that and stop niggling at thing's,it's the weekend afterall."

I know how you feel ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm just trying to think why I logged back on after a little break,everyone needs to relax I know that and stop niggling at thing's,it's the weekend afterall.

I know how you feel ...

I’d like to know how you both feel

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I smiled."

Fabulous

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

"Isnt that what friends do...dont get the whole clique thing on here...its just groups of people enjoying each others company...

I get it ... from an outsider it looks like it

Thats unfortunate..but its no different to going to the pub. People know and hang out with people they know or connect with better..its just life. X

I get what you are saying, It’s just people who are familiar with each other being familiar with each other and the pub analogy. The clique aspect of it only comes in to play when it’s to the deliberate exclusion of others, this isn’t widespread but it does happen.

To use your pub analogy it would be like someone at the bar saying too a group of people ‘ hello’ and they just turn around as if they have heard nothing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Isnt that what friends do...dont get the whole clique thing on here...its just groups of people enjoying each others company...

I get it ... from an outsider it looks like it

Thats unfortunate..but its no different to going to the pub. People know and hang out with people they know or connect with better..its just life. X

To use your pub analogy it would be like someone at the bar saying too a group of people ‘ hello’ and they just turn around as if they have heard nothing. "

Any hoo

We should all just be nice and kind

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By *r Potato HeadMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Some girls will

Some girls won't

Some girls need a lot of lovin' Some girls don't

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some girls will

Some girls won't

Some girls need a lot of lovin' Some girls don't"

Are you singing that in your head?

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Doesn't the peacocking by definition, get on the nerves of those intended and show as a major character flaw. If, like some on here, you are constantly preening and highlighting your best features for a not so subtle "look at me" stance, I would have thought it would turn people off. It may work for a while, but it's short term? Your thoughts OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some girls will

Some girls won't

Some girls need a lot of lovin' Some girls don't

Are you singing that in your head?"

I am now

ear worm alert

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Doesn't the peacocking by definition, get on the nerves of those intended and show as a major character flaw. If, like some on here, you are constantly preening and highlighting your best features for a not so subtle "look at me" stance, I would have thought it would turn people off. It may work for a while, but it's short term? Your thoughts OP? "

People are people ... only some would find it distasteful

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some girls will

Some girls won't

Some girls need a lot of lovin' Some girls don't

Are you singing that in your head?

I am now

ear worm alert "

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

"Some girls will

Some girls won't

Some girls need a lot of lovin' Some girls don't"

Racey, what ever happened to them?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some girls will

Some girls won't

Some girls need a lot of lovin' Some girls don't

Racey, what ever happened to them?"

They joined this shit show

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Yeah you will get asked how big your boobs are

Nobody will read your profile even if you think Shakespeare himself could have written it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah you will get asked how big your boobs are

Nobody will read your profile even if you think Shakespeare himself could have written it "

Mines war and peace

Truth

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

No reply isn't rude.

Not responding doesn't mean a "woman is stuck up".

Aside from the fact it states in the FAQs (that *most* people think they don't need to read) clearly stating that no reply isn't rude, think about it a little deeper.

How do you know that person you're accusing of being up their own arse hasn't just used the last of their energy logging in to speak to existing friends or read a daft forum thread? How do you know they've not been sobbing all day and needed a distraction ON THEIR OWN TERMS?

You don't, you simply ASSUME they're a stuck up bitch because it's easier on your ego than humility and rejection.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No reply isn't rude.

Not responding doesn't mean a "woman is stuck up".

Aside from the fact it states in the FAQs (that *most* people think they don't need to read) clearly stating that no reply isn't rude, think about it a little deeper.

You don't, you simply ASSUME they're a stuck up bitch because it's easier on your ego than humility and rejection. "

Actually Love this

And you a little bit too

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By *r Potato HeadMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Some girls will

Some girls won't

Some girls need a lot of lovin' Some girls don't

Are you singing that in your head?"

Nope but you all are now....**evil laugh**

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By *orace99Man
over a year ago

York

"Some girls will

Some girls won't

Some girls need a lot of lovin' Some girls don't

Racey, what ever happened to them?"

Split in 1985 but still going.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some girls will

Some girls won't

Some girls need a lot of lovin' Some girls don't

Are you singing that in your head?

Nope but you all are now....**evil laugh**"

I’m not

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"No reply isn't rude.

Not responding doesn't mean a "woman is stuck up".

Aside from the fact it states in the FAQs (that *most* people think they don't need to read) clearly stating that no reply isn't rude, think about it a little deeper.

You don't, you simply ASSUME they're a stuck up bitch because it's easier on your ego than humility and rejection.

Actually Love this

And you a little bit too

And I'm only just awake too. I did good for a sleepy noggin. Go me.

You're alright I suppose

Messing

really

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By *r Potato HeadMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Some girls will

Some girls won't

Some girls need a lot of lovin' Some girls don't

Are you singing that in your head?

Nope but you all are now....**evil laugh**

I’m not

Quick call the fire brigade, your pants are on fire.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No reply isn't rude.

Not responding doesn't mean a "woman is stuck up".

Aside from the fact it states in the FAQs (that *most* people think they don't need to read) clearly stating that no reply isn't rude, think about it a little deeper.

You don't, you simply ASSUME they're a stuck up bitch because it's easier on your ego than humility and rejection.

Actually Love this

And you a little bit too

And I'm only just awake too. I did good for a sleepy noggin. Go me.

You're alright I suppose

Messing

really "

Wake up in leisure and ignore the other drivel on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some girls will

Some girls won't

Some girls need a lot of lovin' Some girls don't

Are you singing that in your head?

Nope but you all are now....**evil laugh**

I’m not

Quick call the fire brigade, your pants are on fire.....

Cliche reply ??

Not wearing any

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By *orace99Man
over a year ago

York

"Yeah you will get asked how big your boobs are

Nobody will read your profile even if you think Shakespeare himself could have written it "

I quite enjoy reading profiles especially the ones with humour or fiesty in nature.

Am I wired (no answers required)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah you will get asked how big your boobs are

Nobody will read your profile even if you think Shakespeare himself could have written it

I quite enjoy reading profiles especially the ones with humour or fiesty in nature.

Am I wired (no answers required)"

You’re rare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So shall we just give you the answers you want ?

I think there’s a few of us left who have seen and read it all by now - so just use this as a point of reference.

Yes, there’s a clique. Only it’s not really a clique, it’s just fully grown adults who post to others because they know them better than a newbie.

Yes, women get more positive replies than men - go figure.

Yes, there’s favouritism - this is not a shock.

Yes, there is peacocking - it’s a site with naked people vying for attention ( generic, don’t all rush to correct me)

Get my drift ?

Fabulous

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Do you mean people shouldn't ask questions that have already been asked before?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So shall we just give you the answers you want ?

I think there’s a few of us left who have seen and read it all by now - so just use this as a point of reference.

Yes, there’s a clique. Only it’s not really a clique, it’s just fully grown adults who post to others because they know them better than a newbie.

Yes, women get more positive replies than men - go figure.

Yes, there’s favouritism - this is not a shock.

Yes, there is peacocking - it’s a site with naked people vying for attention ( generic, don’t all rush to correct me)

Get my drift ?

Fabulous

Join in and help out those who just need to ask those questions. Surely everyone will be happy then ? Sneaky eye roll just for shits and giggles

Do you mean people shouldn't ask questions that have already been asked before?"

Absolutely not ...

I’m totally on board with questions

I’m just tongue in cheek with no cliche

No injury

No offence

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Kind regards

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