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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Recently all I have seen on here are comments taking threads totally out of context, people derailing threads, people feeling the need to justify their threads or posts, people feeling uncomfortable to express an honest opinion for fear of being bullied or ridiculed for it.... yet many other silly non sensical threads carry on untouched.

The forum has always been a wonderful mixed bag of content with people being silly, serious, sharing unhappy moments, sharing happy moments, flirty, sexual, sporty and so much more.

Ffs people, some use this channel to escape from the realities of life they have going on in the real world. Let's us not take that away.

Can we please bring some positivity, inclusivity and kindness back to a corner of the forum.

So I am not going to sit back and wait for a change of mood in this place, I am going to help by creating threads every now and again on topics I enjoy participating in and I hope it encourages others to feel that they too can participate or start their own threads and let's bring back some fun.

Her x

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Wow, it’s only a forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently all I have seen on here are comments taking threads totally out of context, people derailing threads, people feeling the need to justify their threads or posts, people feeling uncomfortable to express an honest opinion for fear of being bullied or ridiculed for it.... yet many other silly non sensical threads carry on untouched.

The forum has always been a wonderful mixed bag of content with people being silly, serious, sharing unhappy moments, sharing happy moments, flirty, sexual, sporty and so much more.

Ffs people, some use this channel to escape from the realities of life they have going on in the real world. Let's us not take that away.

Can we please bring some positivity, inclusivity and kindness back to a corner of the forum.

So I am not going to sit back and wait for a change of mood in this place, I am going to help by creating threads every now and again on topics I enjoy participating in and I hope it encourages others to feel that they too can participate or start their own threads and let's bring back some fun.

Her x"

Defo fuck..oh hold on, wrong post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some days I’m too scared to post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Others I’m chilled and vibing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow, it’s only a forum "

But it's many things to all the different people who participate on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You just need a thick skin. And remember it’s only words on a screen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently all I have seen on here are comments taking threads totally out of context, people derailing threads, people feeling the need to justify their threads or posts, people feeling uncomfortable to express an honest opinion for fear of being bullied or ridiculed for it.... yet many other silly non sensical threads carry on untouched.

The forum has always been a wonderful mixed bag of content with people being silly, serious, sharing unhappy moments, sharing happy moments, flirty, sexual, sporty and so much more.

Ffs people, some use this channel to escape from the realities of life they have going on in the real world. Let's us not take that away.

Can we please bring some positivity, inclusivity and kindness back to a corner of the forum.

So I am not going to sit back and wait for a change of mood in this place, I am going to help by creating threads every now and again on topics I enjoy participating in and I hope it encourages others to feel that they too can participate or start their own threads and let's bring back some fun.

Her x"

Only if you get your tits out!

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Here here Mrs, and I definitely wouldn't mess with you, and looking forward to seeing your threads

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Recently all I have seen on here are comments taking threads totally out of context, people derailing threads, people feeling the need to justify their threads or posts, people feeling uncomfortable to express an honest opinion for fear of being bullied or ridiculed for it.... yet many other silly non sensical threads carry on untouched.

The forum has always been a wonderful mixed bag of content with people being silly, serious, sharing unhappy moments, sharing happy moments, flirty, sexual, sporty and so much more.

Ffs people, some use this channel to escape from the realities of life they have going on in the real world. Let's us not take that away.

Can we please bring some positivity, inclusivity and kindness back to a corner of the forum.

So I am not going to sit back and wait for a change of mood in this place, I am going to help by creating threads every now and again on topics I enjoy participating in and I hope it encourages others to feel that they too can participate or start their own threads and let's bring back some fun.

Her x

Defo fuck..oh hold on, wrong post "

... love it

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I’m too scared to start my 10th thread of the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow, it’s only a forum "
if its only a forum why do people take it so seriously ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Others I’m chilled and vibing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Recently all I have seen on here are comments taking threads totally out of context, people derailing threads, people feeling the need to justify their threads or posts, people feeling uncomfortable to express an honest opinion for fear of being bullied or ridiculed for it.... yet many other silly non sensical threads carry on untouched.

The forum has always been a wonderful mixed bag of content with people being silly, serious, sharing unhappy moments, sharing happy moments, flirty, sexual, sporty and so much more.

Ffs people, some use this channel to escape from the realities of life they have going on in the real world. Let's us not take that away.

Can we please bring some positivity, inclusivity and kindness back to a corner of the forum.

So I am not going to sit back and wait for a change of mood in this place, I am going to help by creating threads every now and again on topics I enjoy participating in and I hope it encourages others to feel that they too can participate or start their own threads and let's bring back some fun.

Her x

Only if you get your tits out! "

Deal Mr Bants

Her x

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Wow, it’s only a forum

But it's many things to all the different people who participate on it."

True, though to have such strong feelings like fear and anxiety over it is totally OTT in my opinion.

It’s words on a screen not something to invest in emotionally I’d say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which threads?

The juicy ones are fun to read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m here for the saccharine echo chamber threads

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Here here Mrs, and I definitely wouldn't mess with you, and looking forward to seeing your threads "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow, it’s only a forum

But it's many things to all the different people who participate on it.

True, though to have such strong feelings like fear and anxiety over it is totally OTT in my opinion.

It’s words on a screen not something to invest in emotionally I’d say."
yeh I wouldnt exactly say its frightening to post anything. But hey ho some people have anxiety and we must take there feelings into consideration I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no one should be scared to post we are all different we all have different views and idea ...being different is what makes the world spin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m almost too scared to make this comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m almost too scared to make this comment "
I think somebody's looking for sympathy now. How can you be scared to comment ? You have already made 4 comments

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Much as it's an admirable sentiment OP unfortunately I can't see anything will change - because you always will get people who are deliberately contentious, always will get those that take offence at the slightest thing, always will get those that take a differing opinion as a sleight somehow and more.

Unfortunately you can't please all of the people all of the time - I have been called everything from forum wise man to a bully in my time here as proof of that - all you can do is just be true to yourself and try and rise above the rubbish as much as you can.

But I'm all for more interesting and inclusive threads where you don't feel like an intruder on a private party

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I’m almost too scared to make this comment I think somebody's looking for sympathy now. How can you be scared to comment ? You have already made 4 comments "

I think you'll find it's called irony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m almost too scared to make this comment I think somebody's looking for sympathy now. How can you be scared to comment ? You have already made 4 comments "

I’m almost too scared to reply to this comment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Much as it's an admirable sentiment OP unfortunately I can't see anything will change - because you always will get people who are deliberately contentious, always will get those that take offence at the slightest thing, always will get those that take a differing opinion as a sleight somehow and more.

Unfortunately you can't please all of the people all of the time - I have been called everything from forum wise man to a bully in my time here as proof of that - all you can do is just be true to yourself and try and rise above the rubbish as much as you can.

But I'm all for more interesting and inclusive threads where you don't feel like an intruder on a private party "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do think theres a lot of overly serious stuff on here. We come in to escape the bullshit of the world as it is now. That's us though. So mostly we just skim or skip the bitching and whining.

Dont get me wrong, theres a place for everything and people have a right to voice whatever opinions they have, whether it be a moan or a question that's been asked a thousand times before.

But like I said, they're easy enough to spot, without even entering the post or the ensuing affray. So isnt a particular issue for us.

J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m almost too scared to make this comment I think somebody's looking for sympathy now. How can you be scared to comment ? You have already made 4 comments

I’m almost too scared to reply to this comment "
ooohh scary ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently all I have seen on here are comments taking threads totally out of context, people derailing threads, people feeling the need to justify their threads or posts, people feeling uncomfortable to express an honest opinion for fear of being bullied or ridiculed for it.... yet many other silly non sensical threads carry on untouched.

The forum has always been a wonderful mixed bag of content with people being silly, serious, sharing unhappy moments, sharing happy moments, flirty, sexual, sporty and so much more.

Ffs people, some use this channel to escape from the realities of life they have going on in the real world. Let's us not take that away.

Can we please bring some positivity, inclusivity and kindness back to a corner of the forum.

So I am not going to sit back and wait for a change of mood in this place, I am going to help by creating threads every now and again on topics I enjoy participating in and I hope it encourages others to feel that they too can participate or start their own threads and let's bring back some fun.

Her x"

Hear hear, it’s been very argumentative again x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m almost too scared to make this comment I think somebody's looking for sympathy now. How can you be scared to comment ? You have already made 4 comments

I’m almost too scared to reply to this comment ooohh scary ????"

You’re new here aren’t you ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently all I have seen on here are comments taking threads totally out of context, people derailing threads, people feeling the need to justify their threads or posts, people feeling uncomfortable to express an honest opinion for fear of being bullied or ridiculed for it.... yet many other silly non sensical threads carry on untouched.

The forum has always been a wonderful mixed bag of content with people being silly, serious, sharing unhappy moments, sharing happy moments, flirty, sexual, sporty and so much more.

Ffs people, some use this channel to escape from the realities of life they have going on in the real world. Let's us not take that away.

Can we please bring some positivity, inclusivity and kindness back to a corner of the forum.

So I am not going to sit back and wait for a change of mood in this place, I am going to help by creating threads every now and again on topics I enjoy participating in and I hope it encourages others to feel that they too can participate or start their own threads and let's bring back some fun.

Her x

Hear hear, it’s been very argumentative again x "

No it hasn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get ya but thats the thing about life isnt it some folk are nice some are not but what you will find is they are neither or both in reality no point getting upset unless your directly insulted throwaway comments shouldn't upset anyone people have a right to be both arseholes and pricks as well as caring and friendly just chat or dont in the end whi really cares about the onions if strangers

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Much as it's an admirable sentiment OP unfortunately I can't see anything will change - because you always will get people who are deliberately contentious, always will get those that take offence at the slightest thing, always will get those that take a differing opinion as a sleight somehow and more.

Unfortunately you can't please all of the people all of the time - I have been called everything from forum wise man to a bully in my time here as proof of that - all you can do is just be true to yourself and try and rise above the rubbish as much as you can.

But I'm all for more interesting and inclusive threads where you don't feel like an intruder on a private party "

Agreed and wholeheartedly seconding the final sentiment. Not everyone wants to be happy/flirty/positive all the time and that's fair enough, I'd rather people post honestly than with a clearly false voice. In a similar vein, if you want to use this fora for escapism, crack on. I don't think people nitpicking/being a twat is okay but I also don't think trying to make it, as CJ so eloquently put it, a "saccharine echo chamber" is good either.

Anyway, I'm all for inclusivity and encouraging the wealth of varying topics and posters and moods so well said OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Much as it's an admirable sentiment OP unfortunately I can't see anything will change - because you always will get people who are deliberately contentious, always will get those that take offence at the slightest thing, always will get those that take a differing opinion as a sleight somehow and more.

Unfortunately you can't please all of the people all of the time - I have been called everything from forum wise man to a bully in my time here as proof of that - all you can do is just be true to yourself and try and rise above the rubbish as much as you can.

But I'm all for more interesting and inclusive threads where you don't feel like an intruder on a private party

Agreed and wholeheartedly seconding the final sentiment. Not everyone wants to be happy/flirty/positive all the time and that's fair enough, I'd rather people post honestly than with a clearly false voice. In a similar vein, if you want to use this fora for escapism, crack on. I don't think people nitpicking/being a twat is okay but I also don't think trying to make it, as CJ so eloquently put it, a "saccharine echo chamber" is good either.

Anyway, I'm all for inclusivity and encouraging the wealth of varying topics and posters and moods so well said OP."
_eli you nailed it in much better england than me anywhatsits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to be fake nice to people when I’m working.

I don’t want to be fake nice here

I like the threads that do bring colour to the forums rather than the dull, grey ones. It’s good to see the fire in people.

Debates/arguments are good because it makes me see both sides of a topic.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I like the mixture of threads. Would be boring if it was lovely and nice the whole time

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Much as it's an admirable sentiment OP unfortunately I can't see anything will change - because you always will get people who are deliberately contentious, always will get those that take offence at the slightest thing, always will get those that take a differing opinion as a sleight somehow and more.

Unfortunately you can't please all of the people all of the time - I have been called everything from forum wise man to a bully in my time here as proof of that - all you can do is just be true to yourself and try and rise above the rubbish as much as you can.

But I'm all for more interesting and inclusive threads where you don't feel like an intruder on a private party

Agreed and wholeheartedly seconding the final sentiment. Not everyone wants to be happy/flirty/positive all the time and that's fair enough, I'd rather people post honestly than with a clearly false voice. In a similar vein, if you want to use this fora for escapism, crack on. I don't think people nitpicking/being a twat is okay but I also don't think trying to make it, as CJ so eloquently put it, a "saccharine echo chamber" is good either.

Anyway, I'm all for inclusivity and encouraging the wealth of varying topics and posters and moods so well said OP."

What? Wait? You agreed with me twice in a month?

Roll out the red carpet, dress me in Laura Ashley and call me Hilda....it's a miracle of biblical proportions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like the mixture of threads. Would be boring if it was lovely and nice the whole time"

Yes it would.

The sickly sweet love ins with the same people just make me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the threads people start about themselves, they’re great

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I rather like the random "shit and nonsense" of the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to be fake nice to people when I’m working.

I don’t want to be fake nice here

I like the threads that do bring colour to the forums rather than the dull, grey ones. It’s good to see the fire in people.

Debates/arguments are good because it makes me see both sides of a topic."

I like those too. I can disagree with someone's opinion but still respect them as a person. I usually agree with them on other subjects.

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