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The funny world of ‘fans’ on pictures.

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By *ittyandtheboy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.

I (The Boy) guess I shouldn’t be surprised.

(Please don’t take this as a moan cos I’m actually just interested in the psychology of it.)

We’re taking part in the forum profile photo challenge. When we put up a picture of just Kitty we get loads of likes straight away, when it’s of us a couple it’s like a quarter of the engagement. Now admittedly it’s not a boobs out lingerie pic so it could be that.

However I think it’s because people scan new pics filtered to just women?

Am I right, or is Kitty’s sexiness diminished by the presence of The Boy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could be that, to be Frank guys look for as much wank material as possible and they wouldn't want to cum over a pic with the boy in it because that would be 'gay'

But that's just single guys and sadly they heavyly outweigh every body else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In regards to your current profile picture??

As a tiny square in truth id barely notice you were in it, for me its not obvious so wouldnt take it personally.

Its probably just a numbers thing. This place i would presume is 60% (if not more) single straight men who would be attracted to kitty rather than you, some gay or bi men might appriciate shoes, women also love shoes and can appriciate artistic flare.

So yeah just think its a statistics thing. X

Some avatars make me think 'wtf is that' so i HAVE to go look at the big version.. as i said id barely notice her shoes on your chest. X

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Do you use categories? as a lot of people use them to search for perusal as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s just the nature of the site - a lass posts a picture of her elbow and it’ll get 100 Fabs, a guy can create a artful sensual masterpiece and it’ll get a handful at best, a few more if it’s a close up of his arsehole or cock from gay or bi men.

As to the psychology of it all, it’s always been the case, I assume the guys think that Fabbing a ladies pics will increase their chances of getting laid, whereas the ladies don’t need to be so desperate to get a shag.

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By *ittyandtheboy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.


"Do you use categories? as a lot of people use them to search for perusal as well"

Yes when we remember too!

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

If I’m perving hotpics I filter to women only

Our pics have the same outcomes so I guess its pretty common

D.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In regards to your current profile picture??

As a tiny square in truth id barely notice you were in it, for me its not obvious so wouldnt take it personally.

Its probably just a numbers thing. This place i would presume is 60% (if not more) single straight men who would be attracted to kitty rather than you, some gay or bi men might appriciate shoes, women also love shoes and can appriciate artistic flare.

So yeah just think its a statistics thing. X

Some avatars make me think 'wtf is that' so i HAVE to go look at the big version.. as i said id barely notice her shoes on your chest. X "

Oh gosh! I was checking out the footwear and actually did not notice her shoes on your chest until I took another look after it was pointed out to me in this thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the grand scheme of things it dont really matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbf most of my views after uploading a pic tend to be guys!

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By *ittyandtheboy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.


"In regards to your current profile picture??

As a tiny square in truth id barely notice you were in it, for me its not obvious so wouldnt take it personally.

Its probably just a numbers thing. This place i would presume is 60% (if not more) single straight men who would be attracted to kitty rather than you, some gay or bi men might appriciate shoes, women also love shoes and can appriciate artistic flare.

So yeah just think its a statistics thing. X

Some avatars make me think 'wtf is that' so i HAVE to go look at the big version.. as i said id barely notice her shoes on your chest. X

Oh gosh! I was checking out the footwear and actually did not notice her shoes on your chest until I took another look after it was pointed out to me in this thread! "

Well you know I like my Femdom!

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"I (The Boy) guess I shouldn’t be surprised.

(Please don’t take this as a moan cos I’m actually just interested in the psychology of it.)

We’re taking part in the forum profile photo challenge. When we put up a picture of just Kitty we get loads of likes straight away, when it’s of us a couple it’s like a quarter of the engagement. Now admittedly it’s not a boobs out lingerie pic so it could be that.

However I think it’s because people scan new pics filtered to just women?

Am I right, or is Kitty’s sexiness diminished by the presence of The Boy?"

No, her sexiness is not diminished by your presence. It is a numbers game, pure and simple! Don't be thinking you're shit, cos that's a loads of old bollocks

Mrs TMN x

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By *ittyandtheboy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.


"I (The Boy) guess I shouldn’t be surprised.

(Please don’t take this as a moan cos I’m actually just interested in the psychology of it.)

We’re taking part in the forum profile photo challenge. When we put up a picture of just Kitty we get loads of likes straight away, when it’s of us a couple it’s like a quarter of the engagement. Now admittedly it’s not a boobs out lingerie pic so it could be that.

However I think it’s because people scan new pics filtered to just women?

Am I right, or is Kitty’s sexiness diminished by the presence of The Boy?

No, her sexiness is not diminished by your presence. It is a numbers game, pure and simple! Don't be thinking you're shit, cos that's a loads of old bollocks

Mrs TMN x"

Oh I definitely don’t think that!

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By *orace99Man
over a year ago

York

I am far more likely to fab a clothed/corsetry picture than a naked one.

If it's an artistic photo I don't really care if it's a boy or girl it's the visuals for me.

I do like your current pictures, nice shoes, not irregular choice level, and depicting a dominant woman determined to get her own way.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"I (The Boy) guess I shouldn’t be surprised.

(Please don’t take this as a moan cos I’m actually just interested in the psychology of it.)

We’re taking part in the forum profile photo challenge. When we put up a picture of just Kitty we get loads of likes straight away, when it’s of us a couple it’s like a quarter of the engagement. Now admittedly it’s not a boobs out lingerie pic so it could be that.

However I think it’s because people scan new pics filtered to just women?

Am I right, or is Kitty’s sexiness diminished by the presence of The Boy?

No, her sexiness is not diminished by your presence. It is a numbers game, pure and simple! Don't be thinking you're shit, cos that's a loads of old bollocks

Mrs TMN x

Oh I definitely don’t think that! "

That's good Just had a wee perv of your pics, fabbing finger was dusted off x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am far more likely to fab a clothed/corsetry picture than a naked one.

If it's an artistic photo I don't really care if it's a boy or girl it's the visuals for me.

I do like your current pictures, nice shoes, not irregular choice level, and depicting a dominant woman determined to get her own way. "

This is the same for us. Rarely fab a pic that is explicit. I like when pics allude to something and the photographer has thought about aesthetics. I think we may be in the minority though. However slog on and eventually the others will catch up

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"It’s just the nature of the site - a lass posts a picture of her elbow and it’ll get 100 Fabs, a guy can create a artful sensual masterpiece and it’ll get a handful at best, a few more if it’s a close up of his arsehole or cock from gay or bi men.

As to the psychology of it all, it’s always been the case, I assume the guys think that Fabbing a ladies pics will increase their chances of getting laid, whereas the ladies don’t need to be so desperate to get a shag."

Pretty much this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s just the nature of the site - a lass posts a picture of her elbow and it’ll get 100 Fabs, a guy can create a artful sensual masterpiece and it’ll get a handful at best, a few more if it’s a close up of his arsehole or cock from gay or bi men.

As to the psychology of it all, it’s always been the case, I assume the guys think that Fabbing a ladies pics will increase their chances of getting laid, whereas the ladies don’t need to be so desperate to get a shag."

My elbow cleavage pic was very popular!!

And

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