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By *uby Tuesday 55 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Combe Martin

I have recently stumbled across a very close family members profile (female).

Do I say something to her? (which would of course expose myself. I've managed to keep my lifestyle choices secret for more years than I care to remember)

Or do I say nothing

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

say nothing

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

Say nothing and block her If you don’t want her to know you are on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have recently stumbled across a very close family members profile (female).

Do I say something to her? (which would of course expose myself. I've managed to keep my lifestyle choices secret for more years than I care to remember)

Or do I say nothing "

Just out of interest - what would you hope to achieve by saying something?

Assuming she hasn't already found your profile...

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

I’d just leave it.

Would you want her to say something to you, if she recognised you?

I agree it’s a tricky one

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

She may have been doing it for years as well and tries to avoid the same attention that you do.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Block and move on

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By *uby Tuesday 55 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Combe Martin

I guess it's just the Mothering instincts in me (No it's not my daughter)

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By *ed_Rocket.Man
over a year ago

Near by


"I guess it's just the Mothering instincts in me (No it's not my daughter)"

That's a tough one depends if you want to keep her safe or want your own privacy protected

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Understand the mothering side but at the end of the day she'll do what she wants. You wouldn't want her to be annoyed at you or start avoiding talking/being around you out of embarrassment etc. Definitely block and don't think about it

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By *uby Tuesday 55 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Combe Martin


"Understand the mothering side but at the end of the day she'll do what she wants. You wouldn't want her to be annoyed at you or start avoiding talking/being around you out of embarrassment etc. Definitely block and don't think about it "

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By *uby Tuesday 55 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Combe Martin


"I have recently stumbled across a very close family members profile (female).

Do I say something to her? (which would of course expose myself. I've managed to keep my lifestyle choices secret for more years than I care to remember)

My instinct is to keep her safe

Or do I say nothing

Just out of interest - what would you hope to achieve by saying something?

Assuming she hasn't already found your profile..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have recently stumbled across a very close family members profile (female).

Do I say something to her? (which would of course expose myself. I've managed to keep my lifestyle choices secret for more years than I care to remember)

Or do I say nothing "
how do you know she hasn't seen your profile and clicked on ? Id say something at least your conscious is clear. She can't say anythin bad cos she's doing exactly the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave her to her life choices and continue with your own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Say nothing and block her If you don’t want her to know you are on here"
but she might already know and shes sayin nothin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you block her, won't that appear on her block list and pique her interest? Personally, I would just ignore.

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By *uby Tuesday 55 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Combe Martin

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By *uby Tuesday 55 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Combe Martin


"Leave her to her life choices and continue with your own.

"

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"If you block her, won't that appear on her block list and pique her interest? Personally, I would just ignore.

"

No

And I suggest block and forget

Mothering? Sounds condescending to me

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By *iL DeVeLWoman
over a year ago

Luton


"I have recently stumbled across a very close family members profile (female).

Do I say something to her? (which would of course expose myself. I've managed to keep my lifestyle choices secret for more years than I care to remember)

Or do I say nothing "

Why on earth would you want to say anything? You value your privacy as you say so why not value hers?

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By *lovebustyladiesMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I have recently stumbled across a very close family members profile (female).

Do I say something to her? (which would of course expose myself. I've managed to keep my lifestyle choices secret for more years than I care to remember)

Or do I say nothing "

As long as your paths don’t meet keep quiet but if you check her out and she’s a gold member she will will know u are to let her make the first move not you but your aware she is here maybe private any naughty pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave it, why would you feel the need to say owt, tis their choice to be here as it was yours. Just block and move on

J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if its uncomfortable block the profile.

if your happy with them knowing your here leave it and say nothing.

if it was me. id block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have recently stumbled across a very close family members profile (female).

Do I say something to her? (which would of course expose myself. I've managed to keep my lifestyle choices secret for more years than I care to remember)

Or do I say nothing

Why on earth would you want to say anything? You value your privacy as you say so why not value hers?"

Excactly totally agree with you x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

As you have wanted to keep your situation very confidential for years, you'd probably need to reassess whether there is anything different now and specifically with this 1 person. If there's not, you could block her, knowing that you could always change that in future.

It's probably more likely that those of us who have been here for years are likely to stay longer than a new user, who may find the site less to her liking. She may be gone in the blink of an eye, saving you from the issue of disclosure

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By *ob69CoolMan
over a year ago

PETERBOROUGH

Personally if she hasn't seen your profile on here or even spoken to you off the site my advice would be just leave it and ifucking she does say anything im sure you are both adult enough to discuss it .Good luck

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

A town near you perhaps

Block her profile and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep things separate

Block and leave well alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not judging but wouldnt have started a forum thread that she could stumble on if worried about her discovering you. If not worried dont really see the problem, you can advise her better than anyone.

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

I echo the above. I found my sister and her hubby on here and blocked straight away and haven't even contemplated speaking to her about it as no good will come of it x

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