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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The scenario.

You message or you receive a message from the outset.

The 'table tennis' starts. IE, messaging back and forth.

Then 'BOOM' you receive a message back saying for example.

'I have found someone better'

Commonplace on (fab) lol.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"The scenario.

You message or you receive a message from the outset.

The 'table tennis' starts. IE, messaging back and forth.

Then 'BOOM' you receive a message back saying for example.

'I have found someone better'

Commonplace on (fab) lol."

Surely they dont actually say they found someone better??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The scenario.

You message or you receive a message from the outset.

The 'table tennis' starts. IE, messaging back and forth.

Then 'BOOM' you receive a message back saying for example.

'I have found someone better'

Commonplace on (fab) lol.

Surely they dont actually say they found someone better?? "

Yes, it has happened on my experience on (fab).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say ‘okay, have fun ’

I mean, it wouldn’t be true. There’s no one better than me. But it’s not my job to make them realise that

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Passive Agressive bollocks. I'd be happy I'd not wasted any more time on them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess if someone is looking for a exclusive fwb this can happen.

Hence why when I’m looking I am a kind of eggs in one basket type of girl but then they don’t follow up with anything so I end up twiddling my thumbs wondering if I over read into it and get put in the friend zone

So I think the way the girl who has unfortunately annoyed you has done it the right way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s some goofy shit, there’s no need to make someone feel like shit if you picked someone else. You just go quietly to the other person you prefer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant say I've ever been told that

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Sounds like you dodged a bullet there, I'd say have fun & then block them so they can't come back if/when the other person fucks them around or whatever

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

They just go straight into my 'blocked' list.

No questions asked, move on.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We have been passed over for better offers. We're soft swing and always have a social first so there's no guarantee of any sort of sexual activity. If someone comes along offering sex lots of people will take the offer up.

We don't blame them it really is every man for himself on fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds like you dodged a bullet there, I'd say have fun & then block them so they can't come back if/when the other person fucks them around or whatever"

A very good advice / tip that is.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon


"The scenario.

You message or you receive a message from the outset.

The 'table tennis' starts. IE, messaging back and forth.

Then 'BOOM' you receive a message back saying for example.

'I have found someone better'

Commonplace on (fab) lol."

That’s terrible. I’d guess it’s more likely from a fantasist that had no intention of ever meeting.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Someone better than ME?????

Never gonna happen. Lol

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Best strike while the iron is hot as the saying goes. I'd say a couple of messages should be enough before proposing a meet outside of the health crisis.

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks


"The scenario.

You message or you receive a message from the outset.

The 'table tennis' starts. IE, messaging back and forth.

Then 'BOOM' you receive a message back saying for example.

'I have found someone better'

Commonplace on (fab) lol."

Wow thats so rude!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

It happens, I remember messaging with a local chap who got me mixed with someone he was already chatting with and sent me a reply that should have been for her, turns out he had double booked himself and I just graciously pointed it out and said I hope they have a great evening

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Women and couples are often advised to have a back up plan...

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

This is where the private note section comes in handy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The scenario.

You message or you receive a message from the outset.

The 'table tennis' starts. IE, messaging back and forth.

Then 'BOOM' you receive a message back saying for example.

'I have found someone better'

Commonplace on (fab) lol.

Surely they dont actually say they found someone better?? "

Yes.

Given what you read on forums, this can't be much of a surprise, surely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d only be surprised that they’d taken that long to find someone better to be fair.

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By *on_ducor_ducoWoman
over a year ago

Rock and a hard place

'Someone better than me don't believe it lol

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"'Someone better than me don't believe it lol"

Lol

I said similar.

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

That is rude.... why don’t they just disappear instead. I would just Send back some Witty reply or ignore.

It’s when you get those who when you say sorry you aren’t going to meet and they reply “your loss”, that makes me laugh everytime

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I'd see that as he just did me a big favour by sending that early on in the chat, very little time has been wasted chatting to them.

But no I've not had that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women and couples are often advised to have a back up plan... "

Yep!

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"The scenario.

You message or you receive a message from the outset.

The 'table tennis' starts. IE, messaging back and forth.

Then 'BOOM' you receive a message back saying for example.

'I have found someone better'

Commonplace on (fab) lol."

Isn’t that a reflection of their personality?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had that reply

How very cheeky

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Would someone actually do that I’d wish them all the best it’s their loss not yours, I may not be the hottest person but I know I’m nice on the inside and If they haven’t taken the time to see that they didn’t deserve me in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would someone actually do that I’d wish them all the best it’s their loss not yours, I may not be the hottest person but I know I’m nice on the inside and If they haven’t taken the time to see that they didn’t deserve me in the first place "

It isn’t their loss. They aren’t missing out, they had the opportunity and they declined. They don’t want it, therefore aren’t missing out.

It’ll be the OPs loss, or no ones loss at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would someone actually do that I’d wish them all the best it’s their loss not yours, I may not be the hottest person but I know I’m nice on the inside and If they haven’t taken the time to see that they didn’t deserve me in the first place "
totally agree with you there B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The scenario.

You message or you receive a message from the outset.

The 'table tennis' starts. IE, messaging back and forth.

Then 'BOOM' you receive a message back saying for example.

'I have found someone better'

Commonplace on (fab) lol."

Who actually says, yeah, I’ve found someone better ?!

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