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By *litteasingMan OP   Man
over a year ago

Thereabouts

I was wondering if any of you have ever been snubbed or blocked by someone on here but when you met them on a different platform or in person through other means (e.g. club) and you got on amazingly well with them?

What's your story?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i bummed her 72 times on other sites but here i only tickled her tuppence such disappointment cannot be forgotten shame on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been snubbed by many even been blocked and not met or sent them a message

Don’t mind being blocked for a reason

Fair enough

It’s costs nothing to be polite

A reply saying thank you but no thank you

That’s enough

That’s fab for you folks

Carry on and hope for the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *rian4uMan
over a year ago

London

I think the BS response is "not my type" after much messaging and exchange of pics. Blocking often follows..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes when I first joined fab I had a profile for about 2 3 weeks that wasnt very good which I deleted and started again but I messaged a woman who blocked me without reply then when I rejoined and changed things up she actually messaged me and we met it was very pleasant but I never mentioned that she blocked me at first lol

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I changed my user name for fab so anyone who knew me from another site might not know me. I have been blocked on here lots most I have never ever spoken to but one I know of blocked me cos I didn't send her a message quick enough.

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By *litteasingMan OP   Man
over a year ago

Thereabouts


"Yes when I first joined fab I had a profile for about 2 3 weeks that wasnt very good which I deleted and started again but I messaged a woman who blocked me without reply then when I rejoined and changed things up she actually messaged me and we met it was very pleasant but I never mentioned that she blocked me at first lol"

Yeah, that's what I was thinking that sometimes first judgement is not the best...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve chatted to people at socials and clubs who have told me they have messaged me and I’ve not replied. I often mass delete so explains it.

Face to face is always a better way to interact

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By *litteasingMan OP   Man
over a year ago

Thereabouts


"I’ve chatted to people at socials and clubs who have told me they have messaged me and I’ve not replied. I often mass delete so explains it.

Face to face is always a better way to interact "

I agree on the face to face...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I met and played with a lovely looking guy at chams one night. Afterwards when we where chatting he laughed and said he had messaged me a few times on here and id always ignore him. Another time i met and played with the most perfect gentleman at a club after when we where chatting he asked if i was on fab. When he gave me his usernsme it was a guy (long gone now) that used the forum and i thought was a twat

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Both ways, knocked back online and got on great when we met and vice versa, good rapport on line but no chemistry when we met up.

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By *litteasingMan OP   Man
over a year ago

Thereabouts


"I met and played with a lovely looking guy at chams one night. Afterwards when we where chatting he laughed and said he had messaged me a few times on here and id always ignore him. Another time i met and played with the most perfect gentleman at a club after when we where chatting he asked if i was on fab. When he gave me his usernsme it was a guy (long gone now) that used the forum and i thought was a twat "

Hahaha that's what I mean. Sometimes, people have off days or have a bad online personality but could be awesome in real life

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By *litteasingMan OP   Man
over a year ago

Thereabouts


"Both ways, knocked back online and got on great when we met and vice versa, good rapport on line but no chemistry when we met up. "

I agree completely with the vice versa...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met people at socials who said I'm not as shit as they expected.

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By *litteasingMan OP   Man
over a year ago

Thereabouts


"I've met people at socials who said I'm not as shit as they expected. "
Yeah, physical meets trumps online personality.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

But that is ultimately the difference between on-line and in person interaction for you - on-line all you have to go on is the text you are presented with and it's not always easy to make a judgement call, especially when you don't have the context of facial expressions and demeanour to guide you.

And more especially if you have to make a snap judgement where you've not been able to get to know a personality on-line over time.

It's one reason I have pretty much exclusively met forumites, because you can build a picture of their character by seeing how they interact there too.

That said it *can* work both ways round - there are people here who present a sweetness and light facade, who when I've met them, or got to know them better over time on-line are quite the opposite of what they present

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By *litteasingMan OP   Man
over a year ago

Thereabouts


"But that is ultimately the difference between on-line and in person interaction for you - on-line all you have to go on is the text you are presented with and it's not always easy to make a judgement call, especially when you don't have the context of facial expressions and demeanour to guide you.

And more especially if you have to make a snap judgement where you've not been able to get to know a personality on-line over time.

It's one reason I have pretty much exclusively met forumites, because you can build a picture of their character by seeing how they interact there too.

That said it *can* work both ways round - there are people here who present a sweetness and light facade, who when I've met them, or got to know them better over time on-line are quite the opposite of what they present "
I agree on building the picture from interactions...

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