FabSwingers.com forum: Don't really understand...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Pointless whinge here, I know, but wanted to get it off my chest.

In a rather rare instance, I got messaged by a couple's account. The guy in the relationship seemed to think that my profile was compatible with theirs, so we exchanged all of four messages that were rather straight to the point about what we were looking for.

The guy said "ok thanks sexy. She will look tomorrow at your profile and will get back to you if she likes and wants to take it further."

I said "cool. I'll keep a lookout for your response if I take her fancy."

A while later, it occurred me that perhaps I was getting ahead of myself. I hadn't really read their profile once they messaged me. So I went to check it out only to see I had been blocked....

...just why? what is the point of that exactly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is pointless to ponder.

Go forth and prosper.

Do not concern yourself with what has been.

Focus on what lies ahead.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It is pointless to ponder.

Go forth and prosper.

Do not concern yourself with what has been.

Focus on what lies ahead.

Wise words. Human behaviour has been puzzling me lately in all aspects of life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is pointless to ponder.

Go forth and prosper.

Do not concern yourself with what has been.

Focus on what lies ahead.

Wise words. Human behaviour has been puzzling me lately in all aspects of life. "

Yes, strange life forms aren’t we.

I’m eating ice cream from a tub with a teaspoon.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It is pointless to ponder.

Go forth and prosper.

Do not concern yourself with what has been.

Focus on what lies ahead.

Wise words. Human behaviour has been puzzling me lately in all aspects of life.

Yes, strange life forms aren’t we.

I’m eating ice cream from a tub with a teaspoon."

I...wasn't aware that was weird? Are you saying I've been doing it wrong with a teaspoon? I do it because I prefer to savour the ice cream in smaller portions at a time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is pointless to ponder.

Go forth and prosper.

Do not concern yourself with what has been.

Focus on what lies ahead.

Wise words. Human behaviour has been puzzling me lately in all aspects of life.

Yes, strange life forms aren’t we.

I’m eating ice cream from a tub with a teaspoon.

I...wasn't aware that was weird? Are you saying I've been doing it wrong with a teaspoon? I do it because I prefer to savour the ice cream in smaller portions at a time. "

Me too!

I’m glad we met.

We’re normal

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It is pointless to ponder.

Go forth and prosper.

Do not concern yourself with what has been.

Focus on what lies ahead.

Wise words. Human behaviour has been puzzling me lately in all aspects of life.

Yes, strange life forms aren’t we.

I’m eating ice cream from a tub with a teaspoon.

I...wasn't aware that was weird? Are you saying I've been doing it wrong with a teaspoon? I do it because I prefer to savour the ice cream in smaller portions at a time.

Me too!

I’m glad we met.

We’re normal

Just don't call it "the new normal." I'll puke the ice cream out from the overuse of that term at this point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry about it. There could be so many reasons and I'm sure you've pondered each. Don't waste your time on someone you don't know. Be happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is pointless to ponder.

Go forth and prosper.

Do not concern yourself with what has been.

Focus on what lies ahead.

Wise words. Human behaviour has been puzzling me lately in all aspects of life.

Yes, strange life forms aren’t we.

I’m eating ice cream from a tub with a teaspoon.

I...wasn't aware that was weird? Are you saying I've been doing it wrong with a teaspoon? I do it because I prefer to savour the ice cream in smaller portions at a time.

Me too!

I’m glad we met.

We’re normal

Just don't call it "the new normal." I'll puke the ice cream out from the overuse of that term at this point. "

It’s not the new normal.

It’s the mint choc chip.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They didn’t want to meet you. It’s quite obvious, I would have thought?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It is pointless to ponder.

Go forth and prosper.

Do not concern yourself with what has been.

Focus on what lies ahead.

Wise words. Human behaviour has been puzzling me lately in all aspects of life.

Yes, strange life forms aren’t we.

I’m eating ice cream from a tub with a teaspoon.

I...wasn't aware that was weird? Are you saying I've been doing it wrong with a teaspoon? I do it because I prefer to savour the ice cream in smaller portions at a time.

Me too!

I’m glad we met.

We’re normal

Just don't call it "the new normal." I'll puke the ice cream out from the overuse of that term at this point.

It’s not the new normal.

It’s the mint choc chip."

There are few things I dislike in this world more than mint chocolate

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

"It is pointless to ponder.

Go forth and prosper.

Do not concern yourself with what has been.

Focus on what lies ahead.

Wise words. Human behaviour has been puzzling me lately in all aspects of life.

Yes, strange life forms aren’t we.

I’m eating ice cream from a tub with a teaspoon.

I...wasn't aware that was weird? Are you saying I've been doing it wrong with a teaspoon? I do it because I prefer to savour the ice cream in smaller portions at a time.

Me too!

I’m glad we met.

We’re normal

Yeah, but do you microwave it first?

Always microwave my ice cream to soften it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It is pointless to ponder.

Go forth and prosper.

Do not concern yourself with what has been.

Focus on what lies ahead.

Wise words. Human behaviour has been puzzling me lately in all aspects of life.

Yes, strange life forms aren’t we.

I’m eating ice cream from a tub with a teaspoon.

I...wasn't aware that was weird? Are you saying I've been doing it wrong with a teaspoon? I do it because I prefer to savour the ice cream in smaller portions at a time.

Me too!

I’m glad we met.

We’re normal

Yeah, but do you microwave it first?

Always microwave my ice cream to soften it.

I can see that working well with an ice cream fudge sundae.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The messages were 'rather straight to the point'.... does that mean sex chat?

I'd guess it was just a man wanking.

Don't feel bad. Lucky escape.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is pointless to ponder.

Go forth and prosper.

Do not concern yourself with what has been.

Focus on what lies ahead.

Wise words. Human behaviour has been puzzling me lately in all aspects of life.

Yes, strange life forms aren’t we.

I’m eating ice cream from a tub with a teaspoon.

I...wasn't aware that was weird? Are you saying I've been doing it wrong with a teaspoon? I do it because I prefer to savour the ice cream in smaller portions at a time. "

My hero!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I can say is that the way people treat you doesn't define who you are. It only defines who they are ....and in this case better off without them.

Polished manners and respect for others is something that should be encoraged and requested at the time of joining fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All I can say is that the way people treat you doesn't define who you are. It only defines who they are ....and in this case better off without them.

Polished manners and respect for others is something that should be encoraged and requested at the time of joining fab.

I get way too hung up on these things, it's true.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"The messages were 'rather straight to the point'.... does that mean sex chat?

I'd guess it was just a man wanking.

Don't feel bad. Lucky escape.

This crossed my mind too.

But some people also just find it easier to block than to say you're not for them.

Anyway...back to the ice cream! Is there really any other way to eat it?!

A teaspoon is the perfect size and feeling it melt over your tongue and slipping down the back of your throat is just...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The messages were 'rather straight to the point'.... does that mean sex chat?

I'd guess it was just a man wanking.

Don't feel bad. Lucky escape.

This crossed my mind too.

But some people also just find it easier to block than to say you're not for them.

Anyway...back to the ice cream! Is there really any other way to eat it?!

A teaspoon is the perfect size and feeling it melt over your tongue and slipping down the back of your throat is just...

I *have* seen people use some grotesquely large spoons to scoop up ice cream from rather menial portions (I eat a lot of ice cream). They must finish it in 3 or 4 scoops....where' the fun in that?

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"The messages were 'rather straight to the point'.... does that mean sex chat?

I'd guess it was just a man wanking.

Don't feel bad. Lucky escape.

This crossed my mind too.

But some people also just find it easier to block than to say you're not for them.

Anyway...back to the ice cream! Is there really any other way to eat it?!

A teaspoon is the perfect size and feeling it melt over your tongue and slipping down the back of your throat is just...

I *have* seen people use some grotesquely large spoons to scoop up ice cream from rather menial portions (I eat a lot of ice cream). They must finish it in 3 or 4 scoops....where' the fun in that? "

Nah, that's just eating it to eat it.

If you're not going to savor it, what's the point?

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