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Use of the word slut

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What does it mean to you?

As a submissive woman’s profile, I get a lot of messages referring to women as sluts. I usually either delete or pull them up on it, cause I find it insulting. But I’m interested to know from others points of view how u feel about the word?

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I have casual nsa sex with a variety of men, so Yep I'm a slut

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By *ADY VOLUPTUOUS OF KENTWoman
over a year ago

TONBRIDGE ROUNDABOUTS

Never being referred to.

But then my profile is respected

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By *obulaterMan
over a year ago

macclesfield

Never in a message or if you don't know the person , jist rude personally but in a bedroom setting then yes when the time is right x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me its always meant very sexual woman with a need to sexually please her man or man of the moment be it the way she wears her cloths be it a look like the lip bite thread or just walking over and pulling out your cock to munch or sit on with a high sex drive i dont think its nessasarily only a submissive thing either plenty sexually aggressive type women i could see as slutty

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

A slut is a woman who has many casual sex partners. So I suppose I am a slut.

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"Never in a message or if you don't know the person , jist rude personally but in a bedroom setting then yes when the time is right x"

This Gentleman says it perfectly. If I know the guy and hes calling it me during sex I love it. Otherwise not on a first message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually use the word more for men than for women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does it mean to you?

As a submissive woman’s profile, I get a lot of messages referring to women as sluts. I usually either delete or pull them up on it, cause I find it insulting. But I’m interested to know from others points of view how u feel about the word? "

Personally l think it's an insulting word and one I'd never use ,to me if a lady is hot blooded and has a high sex drive and loves to fuck and be fucked by who she wants then l say fair play to her ..huge Salute ..she certainly would not be what maybe others would call a slut in my eyes because she loves and desires sex .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would u say it only refers to women? What’s the term for males ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the bedroom with a regular partner is fine. Otherwise it’s a big no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would u say it only refers to women? What’s the term for males ? "

Slut.

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By *ussexcouple40Couple
over a year ago

Sussex

I am a slut as I see it, so happy to be called one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never being referred to.

But then my profile is respected "
some women enjoy it its not about a lack of respect for me more an inner drive they have that excites them to act in a certain sexual way for me they have to ask to be called it first randomly calling women sluts i agree would be disrespectful but christ there great fucks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is my view. Don’t get me wrong. In the moment I don’t mind those names. But only by someone who I have developed a friendship with.

But in messages on fab, where u have no former connection, it’s insulting

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

I don’t like to use the word or be used for me.

I wouldn’t say insulting as I have good friends from the scene , simply loves it during their plays. It’s something for them to get going. However, it’s a massive turnoff for me, guess I find it disrespectful deep down

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I don't particularly care for word when it's directed at me, mainly because I think I'm far removed from a slut/a pretty crap one. It's used as a term of endearment/in a positive sense in my circle of friends so I don't mind it then. I quite like how Incandescent uses it; it's not used as a slight or in a derogatory way, more an apt description.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I find it insulting,and I just delete any messages that refer to me as a slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If my husband called me a slut during talk about hot wife side during play then I am okay with that. If he called me a slut in any other setting I wouldn't be okay with that. I have never had anyone else call me a slut in the bedroom so I am not sure if I would be okay with them using that term.

Outside of the bedroom in any other setting I would find it offensive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the context, in the bedroom Mrs freely admits that she is a slut. But it takes on a different meaning when someone you don't know calls you. It's a title that is earned by the person they are 'slutting' for, if someone you don't know calls you it then it's a deeply invasive thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, been called this a few times, and by friends, doesn’t bother me, I agree! Haha

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"What does it mean to you?

As a submissive woman’s profile, I get a lot of messages referring to women as sluts. I usually either delete or pull them up on it, cause I find it insulting. But I’m interested to know from others points of view how u feel about the word?

Personally l think it's an insulting word and one I'd never use ,to me if a lady is hot blooded and has a high sex drive and loves to fuck and be fucked by who she wants then l say fair play to her ..huge Salute ..she certainly would not be what maybe others would call a slut in my eyes because she loves and desires sex ."

Well said you. I love sex but hate the word slut.x

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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago

London/ South East

Badge of pride for some....big turn off and insulting for others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Frequent casual sex with strangers or people you barely know. Slut here xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn’t bother me it’s the way it’s used the time and by whom, it can either feel insulting or can give me fanny flutters when said in the moment by the right person it’s an art not all have mastered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Frequent casual sex with strangers or people you barely know. Slut here xx"

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By *av_55Man
over a year ago

NE


"I am a slut as I see it, so happy to be called one"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think quite a few females like to be referred to as a princess by day, slut by night. It's a harmless word if used in the right context.

I personally don't use the word slut or slag in life and it doesn't appeal to me in private play either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think quite a few females like to be referred to as a princess by day, slut by night. It's a harmless word if used in the right context.

I personally don't use the word slut or slag in life and it doesn't appeal to me in private play either."

Oh, I definitely like being called a princess

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"I actually use the word more for men than for women "

I use Tart more for men

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"This is my view. Don’t get me wrong. In the moment I don’t mind those names. But only by someone who I have developed a friendship with.

But in messages on fab, where u have no former connection, it’s insulting "

I agree.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Essentially its how you personally use the word to how it offends or not I suppose.

I hate the word C*nt but only because I mean it as a bad insult, call me one and there's going to be trouble, but others love it

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Words by themselves are harmless, its the context and meaning behind the use of the word that gives it any power.

If a stranger called me a slut I would think less of them than if a friend used it, unless I invited anyone to use it on me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't particularly care for word when it's directed at me, mainly because I think I'm far removed from a slut/a pretty crap one. It's used as a term of endearment/in a positive sense in my circle of friends so I don't mind it then. I quite like how Incandescent uses it; it's not used as a slight or in a derogatory way, more an apt description."

Gotta love a man slut huh Meli?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I caused myself a world of trouble recently referring to myself as a slut to someone who vehemently disagreed with that description. I'll just stick to saying that I like to have sex with lots of different people in different scenarios/settings from now on

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I enjoy M calling me a slut, slag on the other hand I don't like. I don't like people I don't know calling me slut. But am happy to call myself such in a conversation.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

To me it's a loaded word and therefore shouldn't be used without mutual understanding.

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK


"I enjoy M calling me a slut, slag on the other hand I don't like. I don't like people I don't know calling me slut. But am happy to call myself such in a conversation. "

Slut is a word that in the right circumstances can be a very erotic and descriptive term..

Slag is a word that will always be unacceptable and vile

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"I enjoy M calling me a slut, slag on the other hand I don't like. I don't like people I don't know calling me slut. But am happy to call myself such in a conversation.

Slut is a word that in the right circumstances can be a very erotic and descriptive term..

Slag is a word that will always be unacceptable and vile"

I agree, slut in the correct circumstances is hot. Same as cunt for me which can be controversial. Slag on the other is just wrong for me but I'm sure there are those who enjoy the term too.

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

I’d use it in the correct environment, but never asa general greeting or in a message.

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

I love it when my husband calls me a slut in the moment but if anyone used it as an insult I'm not keen. Women shouldn't be shamed for having sex whether it's a little or a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the sort of thing you only say once you know you're both on the same footing.

Anyone who throws it about without knowing how it'll be received shouldn't be surprised if people take offence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not offended by words.

They mean little to me - it's the intention behind them.

If I'm called a dirty, little, slut with each thrust then it's fine by me

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By *d4fun73Man
over a year ago

Shipley

I guess I must be a male slut or tart! Be proud of what you are.

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By *icknHMan
over a year ago

Ilfracombe

So, to sum up, it’s a minefield if you don’t know someone well enough. Equally, can be a turn on or off dependent on the lady. Oh, and a positive badge of honour for those lovely ladies who are proud of that status.

Me ?.....I’m a big tart haha !

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