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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just had this thought and id honestly love to see your comments

I got my popcorn ready

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not much to comment on...

Lu

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not much to comment on...

Lu "

this

And profile pic would stop me reading more if there was anything to read. Don’t see the point in a swearing gesture

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

No

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

If fab is like job hunting, as you said then it wouldn't even get you a call to say "sorry someone more qualified has the job"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If fab is like job hunting, as you said then it wouldn't even get you a call to say "sorry someone more qualified has the job""

To clarify this profile look is after that conclusion i made.. which i came to some years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And profile pic would stop me reading more if there was anything to read. Don’t see the point in a swearing gesture "

Honestly imo id rather see this than a generic cock pic. Ots certainly different Im not eager to be hunting for hook ups so if someone likes me for who i am from my interactions in the forums im sure they can look past a mere profile pic lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

There is no profile

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

and you look stoned

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

12 September back to you and nothing else to add here

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester


"and you look stoned"

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By *nigmatic_AngelWoman
over a year ago

The place where fairies live

There isn't profile really.

Also why are you swearing in your pic? Have some tasteful pics too x

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

The sticking your finger up picture makes you look very immature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your ability to count to 1 is quite impressive altho folks may accuse you of accountancy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"and you look stoned"

Lmao no i wasnt stoned.. i do smoke bud but ive done so for a few months now.. ive been called c_inese plenty times cos of my squinty eyes lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There isn't profile really.

Also why are you swearing in your pic? Have some tasteful pics too x"

The main pic is just cos im not someone who gives a fuck i dont take this site seriously and when socialising online a good few ppl think im an asshole for my opinions.. and always without actually deliberately trying to offend ppl lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"and you look stoned

Lmao no i wasnt stoned.. i do smoke bud but ive done so for a few months now.. ive been called c_inese plenty times cos of my squinty eyes lol"
i apologise then but still not a good picture

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The sticking your finger up picture makes you look very immature "

Pmsl.. oh but if you actually knew me.. though id imagine.. you dont want to

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses


"The sticking your finger up picture makes you look very immature

Pmsl.. oh but if you actually knew me.. though id imagine.. you dont want to "

Pmsl Pass

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i apologise then but still not a good picture"

No meed, no harm no foul. There is logic behind it though.. im only interested in ppl who like me for who i am.. not what they liked from some drivel ive written in my bio. So if they can look past a simple profile pic then those ppl are worth my time and effort...

Ya see.. theres method to this madness

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"i apologise then but still not a good picture

No meed, no harm no foul. There is logic behind it though.. im only interested in ppl who like me for who i am.. not what they liked from some drivel ive written in my bio. So if they can look past a simple profile pic then those ppl are worth my time and effort...

Ya see.. theres method to this madness "
well hope you find that person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i apologise then but still not a good picture

No meed, no harm no foul. There is logic behind it though.. im only interested in ppl who like me for who i am.. not what they liked from some drivel ive written in my bio. So if they can look past a simple profile pic then those ppl are worth my time and effort...

Ya see.. theres method to this madness "

Ummmm, maybe ... but you are just looking like you are being rude for rudeness sake. Why would anyone take you seriously if the first thing you do is flick them the bird?! The one thing I learned a long time ago, when I enjoyed my alcohol, is when everyone is laughing at you not with you, it is time to seriously think about what you are doing. With all that said, I hope you find what you are looking for.

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

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"i apologise then but still not a good picture

No meed, no harm no foul. There is logic behind it though.. im only interested in ppl who like me for who i am.. not what they liked from some drivel ive written in my bio. So if they can look past a simple profile pic then those ppl are worth my time and effort...

Ya see.. theres method to this madness "

Agree with the above posters...think you're trying too hard to seem standoffish/rude/above people. This may not actually be you and I can understand your supposed logic behind it. But the people that you want to talk to, who you want them to see you for you, their first impression of you is more likely going to be negative because of the profile. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice ass

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ummmm, maybe ... but you are just looking like you are being rude for rudeness sake. Why would anyone take you seriously if the first thing you do is flick them the bird?! The one thing I learned a long time ago, when I enjoyed my alcohol, is when everyone is laughing at you not with you, it is time to seriously think about what you are doing. With all that said, I hope you find what you are looking for."

I know what youre saying.. though to say its time for me to seriously think what im doing.. yeeeaaah.. no. Ya see.. im not here to try please as many women as possible.. ive played that game.. its exhausting and really not worth it given how much effort so many guys put into this and dont get very far.. decent genuine fun and good looking guys at that. If ppl wanna laugh at me go right ahead, ive had far worse abuse for being myself that im really not bothered what ppl think of me. Ive certainly felt a lot better about myself, who i am and what i look like for taking that approach

I dont do judgemental ppl who makes judgements at face value. Sorry but theres too much of that wherever you go. So as ive said before.. the only ppl im interested in pleasing are those who take the time to know me better based on what theyve seen of me in public and our interactions, and look past my bare naked profile and "rude" profile pic.. hence why i stick to the forums than profile searching and inboxing. And tbh.. ppl on this site are rude without deliberately trying to be. Id rather be rude on purpose than disrespectful through ignorance or being judgemental

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Agree with the above posters...think you're trying too hard to seem standoffish/rude/above people. This may not actually be you and I can understand your supposed logic behind it. But the people that you want to talk to, who you want them to see you for you, their first impression of you is more likely going to be negative because of the profile. Good luck "

Trying too hard? Awh now youve hurt my feelings

No i get what youre saying, but like i said.. gotta look past that face value.. thats what catches my eye

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

It seems like you have asked a question and don't really care what people are saying in response. You've had constructive comments made to you and your answer has been the same each time, which, granted, shows consistency at least.

Why ask what people think of your profile if you don't really care?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nice ass"

Lol well ty

Though maybe not so nice if sat on your lap and impale your thigh with my hip bone hahaha

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Your profile picture is aggressive snd puts me off wanting to know anything more about you.

It's telling my to f**k off...so I don't see any reason to look further into it.

The reasons you chose it are your own just as my reaction to it is mine.

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

It seems like you have a fu*k it don't care attitude. You don't come across as been all that sociable or approachable

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It seems like you have asked a question and don't really care what people are saying in response. You've had constructive comments made to you and your answer has been the same each time, which, granted, shows consistency at least.

Why ask what people think of your profile if you don't really care?"

Im just a naturally curious person.. seems nearly everyone on this site cares about how they sell themselves and seen a few threads asking for advice to "fix" their profile.. im just genuinely curious to see the comments on the other end of the spectrum.

Its simple curiosity.. i love human psychology and thought it would be rather entertaining to what ppl say.. ofc i havent been abusive at all and those who have given constructive comments, although they wont sway me.. i do appreciate that they have taken the time to participate

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About


"It seems like you have asked a question and don't really care what people are saying in response. You've had constructive comments made to you and your answer has been the same each time, which, granted, shows consistency at least.

Why ask what people think of your profile if you don't really care?

Im just a naturally curious person.. seems nearly everyone on this site cares about how they sell themselves and seen a few threads asking for advice to "fix" their profile.. im just genuinely curious to see the comments on the other end of the spectrum.

Its simple curiosity.. i love human psychology and thought it would be rather entertaining to what ppl say.. ofc i havent been abusive at all and those who have given constructive comments, although they wont sway me.. i do appreciate that they have taken the time to participate "

Fare does, if your profile is a true reflection of your personality then don't change it. Be honest and keep it straight up who are

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It seems like you have a fu*k it don't care attitude. You don't come across as been all that sociable or approachable"

Hahaha well i do love a bit of irony and sarcasm however it comes.. tbh im actually the complete opposite. Would you believe i was an ambassador for my college and student rep during my studies?

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By *ocksareoffMan
over a year ago

Out n About

Missed the you out in "who you are"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very little profile to go on I'm afraid. Although you may not be, you come across as cocky and arrogant. First impressions suggest we wouldn't invest the time to look past the profile and get to know you

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I know nothing

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I know nothing "

Are you from Barcelona?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just had this thought and id honestly love to see your comments

I got my popcorn ready "

There's more to read on your opening post than on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just had this thought and id honestly love to see your comments

I got my popcorn ready "

Only comment on your profile is childish. Photo especially finger is very immature.

Nothing to add

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Very little profile to go on I'm afraid. Although you may not be, you come across as cocky and arrogant. First impressions suggest we wouldn't invest the time to look past the profile and get to know you "

And thats why first impressions can be very wrong most times. Which is why i dont try to sell myself based on first impressions regardless if i tried to sell myself or not.

Im certainly not cocky.. i know my limits and i dont act like i can get whatever i wanted. Arrogant.. far from it, im open minded, understanding, empathetic...

Regarding what my bio says, its true.. you dont review an item from a shop by looking at it through the window.. you do so after having purchased it and tested it out for yourself. Ofc you can make the claim that you buy an item from looking at it in the window but thats mostly based on looks. The advert can say anything to make you buy it regardless how crap it really is.. but its the reviews you really tend to look for. How i act in the forums is my way of showing who i am as a person, not what ive carefully written for a bio as i could say anything on it that isnt a true representation of who i am

My profile saves me the hassle of trying to please ppl who will just judge me on first impressions rather than actually getting to know me properly as a person

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Can I ask why you stared this thread why does it matter???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Only comment on your profile is childish. Photo especially finger is very immature.

Nothing to add "

I refer you to my above response..

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Can I ask why you stared this thread why does it matter???"

****started

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can I ask why you stared this thread why does it matter???"

Ive said why.. out of sheer curiosity. Scroll up to read the fulk explaination

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Can I ask why you stared this thread why does it matter???

Ive said why.. out of sheer curiosity. Scroll up to read the fulk explaination"

Ok xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So OP, your stance is that youve sacked off any bio, because you want people to get to know the real you?

Problem with that is that they will take one look at your avatar, and discount you in an instant

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So OP, your stance is that youve sacked off any bio, because you want people to get to know the real you?

Problem with that is that they will take one look at your avatar, and discount you in an instant

"

Again.. judging at face value.. i dont have time for that hence the stance on my profile.. as i said theres method in the madness.. the right ppl will want to get to know me more through my interactions on the forum which is a better showcase of my personality than any snapshot profile can convey. And theyll look past whatever ive slapped on it. Ive recently come back to fab and im already chatting to someone whos interested in me and they live close by. So for everyone here whos given negative feedback, which is most of you i might add, you dont speak for everyone. And im not trying to please everyone..

This thread is for my own genuine curiosity to understand the thinking among this sites users.. as ive already said, human psychology fascinates me.. and maybe some other readers might find it interesting.. who knows.

Ofc i take no personal offence to whatever any of you have said or will say but i will correct you.. mostly to show you that you cant judge a book by its cover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very little profile to go on I'm afraid. Although you may not be, you come across as cocky and arrogant. First impressions suggest we wouldn't invest the time to look past the profile and get to know you

And thats why first impressions can be very wrong most times. Which is why i dont try to sell myself based on first impressions regardless if i tried to sell myself or not.

Im certainly not cocky.. i know my limits and i dont act like i can get whatever i wanted. Arrogant.. far from it, im open minded, understanding, empathetic...

Regarding what my bio says, its true.. you dont review an item from a shop by looking at it through the window.. you do so after having purchased it and tested it out for yourself. Ofc you can make the claim that you buy an item from looking at it in the window but thats mostly based on looks. The advert can say anything to make you buy it regardless how crap it really is.. but its the reviews you really tend to look for. How i act in the forums is my way of showing who i am as a person, not what ive carefully written for a bio as i could say anything on it that isnt a true representation of who i am

My profile saves me the hassle of trying to please ppl who will just judge me on first impressions rather than actually getting to know me properly as a person"

Sadly people won't go looking through the forums to get to know you. They'll take one look at your profile and Make a judgement. I'm afraid your shop window analogy doesn't really stand up.. I'll read the advert.. Weigh the product up against alternatives, read as many reviews as possible and make an informed decision. To further the analogy, if the product has a less than favourable picture, no reviews with a badly written advert, I'm unlikely to waste my time and go straight to the alternatives.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Judging at face value

You asked people are responding.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Judging at face value

You asked people are responding."

Yes i did.. doesnt mean i cant respond back to any incorrect assumptions or questions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Judging at face value

You asked people are responding.

Yes i did.. doesnt mean i cant respond back to any incorrect assumptions or questions"

Human beings judge. We all do it, all day every day.

Thats not going to change anytime soon

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Judging at face value

You asked people are responding.

Yes i did.. doesnt mean i cant respond back to any incorrect assumptions or questions"

Ok the pic where your sticking your finger up why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Judging at face value

You asked people are responding.

Yes i did.. doesnt mean i cant respond back to any incorrect assumptions or questions

Ok the pic where your sticking your finger up why?"

OP has said that its because he wants to show people that he doesnt care what they think

Am i correct OP?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Judging at face value

You asked people are responding.

Yes i did.. doesnt mean i cant respond back to any incorrect assumptions or questions

Ok the pic where your sticking your finger up why?

OP has said that its because he wants to show people that he doesnt care what they think

Am i correct OP?"

Ahh ok xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sadly people won't go looking through the forums to get to know you. They'll take one look at your profile and Make a judgement. I'm afraid your shop window analogy doesn't really stand up.. I'll read the advert.. Weigh the product up against alternatives, read as many reviews as possible and make an informed decision. To further the analogy, if the product has a less than favourable picture, no reviews with a badly written advert, I'm unlikely to waste my time and go straight to the alternatives. "

No offence intended but youre being a little short sighted there.. meeting the right ppl takes time, and i feel many ppl, not saying the majority, just many.. are after those quick injections of joy (dopamine).. as with other sites/apps ive made connections with women through regular conversation in a public environment, a forum such as this, and a connection is made and we build a rapport.. they werent based on a snapshot profile because.. i have the same profile style on the rest of the social sites i use. So to assume that being a regular forum user and putting myself out there in that way wont get me anywhere is a false assumption.

Yes you could tell me to stick to those sites and apps and leave fab.. well that not up to you or anyone else to decide based on a profile and bio.. i use various sites for good reason. I use fab cos its a swingers site where sexual content, conversation and hookups is basically what we are here for. Ive made 'just friends' and FWBs on other sites too with the same approach as ive taken here, and the other sites/apps have either been simple chat sites or focused on dating. All of which im straight forward and honest and so far ive still met some great ppl and had more luck than some guys here actually try and still get nowhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got confused I thought the first profile Pic of the back double bi cep pose looked like a female athlete (no offence) but rest of the profile doesn’t put me up nor down, plenty of worse things than a finger on some profiles lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP has said that its because he wants to show people that he doesnt care what they think

Am i correct OP?"

Thats not the point of this thread sorry. I made it out of curiosity and i explained why if you scroll up. Yes i dont care as its pretty unhealthy to worry so much about what ppl think. Literally one of the biggest causes of depression especially in young generations and men in particular.

Though me not taking what you all say seriously doesnt mean im not allowed to hear your thoughts and opinions out of sheer curiosity in human psychology.. as ive said.. i appreciate you all taking the time to participate. Im just being civil but i think a couple of you are a little aggravated by me

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"OP has said that its because he wants to show people that he doesnt care what they think

Am i correct OP?

Thats not the point of this thread sorry. I made it out of curiosity and i explained why if you scroll up. Yes i dont care as its pretty unhealthy to worry so much about what ppl think. Literally one of the biggest causes of depression especially in young generations and men in particular.

Though me not taking what you all say seriously doesnt mean im not allowed to hear your thoughts and opinions out of sheer curiosity in human psychology.. as ive said.. i appreciate you all taking the time to participate. Im just being civil but i think a couple of you are a little aggravated by me "

We ain't

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I got confused I thought the first profile Pic of the back double bi cep pose looked like a female athlete (no offence) but rest of the profile doesn’t put me up nor down, plenty of worse things than a finger on some profiles lol "

Hahaha no offence taken i actually crossdress when she wants to come out but exactly youre not wrong there lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP has said that its because he wants to show people that he doesnt care what they think

Am i correct OP?

Thats not the point of this thread sorry. I made it out of curiosity and i explained why if you scroll up. Yes i dont care as its pretty unhealthy to worry so much about what ppl think. Literally one of the biggest causes of depression especially in young generations and men in particular.

Though me not taking what you all say seriously doesnt mean im not allowed to hear your thoughts and opinions out of sheer curiosity in human psychology.. as ive said.. i appreciate you all taking the time to participate. Im just being civil but i think a couple of you are a little aggravated by me "

Aggravated in what respect

You asked for peoples comments on your profile

And thats what you got

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok the pic where your sticking your finger up why?"

Lol i say why not... certainly different from the 100s of cock pics, abs on show, ass in the air or a plain silhouette...

Ive always been the kind of person to stand out and be different in my own way and i dont care who doesnt like it.. too much crap in this world to worry what others think of me

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Ok the pic where your sticking your finger up why?

Lol i say why not... certainly different from the 100s of cock pics, abs on show, ass in the air or a plain silhouette...

Ive always been the kind of person to stand out and be different in my own way and i dont care who doesnt like it.. too much crap in this world to worry what others think of me"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Aggravated in what respect

You asked for peoples comments on your profile

And thats what you got"

Its just a general feeling i get based on the replies to my responses so far.. correct me if im wrong, if i am then okay, just pointing out an observation. Though given personal experience i have a tendency to rub ppl up the wrong way just for being myself and getting into discussions

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Oh just get your bumhole out and behave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly people won't go looking through the forums to get to know you. They'll take one look at your profile and Make a judgement. I'm afraid your shop window analogy doesn't really stand up.. I'll read the advert.. Weigh the product up against alternatives, read as many reviews as possible and make an informed decision. To further the analogy, if the product has a less than favourable picture, no reviews with a badly written advert, I'm unlikely to waste my time and go straight to the alternatives.

No offence intended but youre being a little short sighted there.. meeting the right ppl takes time, and i feel many ppl, not saying the majority, just many.. are after those quick injections of joy (dopamine).. as with other sites/apps ive made connections with women through regular conversation in a public environment, a forum such as this, and a connection is made and we build a rapport.. they werent based on a snapshot profile because.. i have the same profile style on the rest of the social sites i use. So to assume that being a regular forum user and putting myself out there in that way wont get me anywhere is a false assumption.

Yes you could tell me to stick to those sites and apps and leave fab.. well that not up to you or anyone else to decide based on a profile and bio.. i use various sites for good reason. I use fab cos its a swingers site where sexual content, conversation and hookups is basically what we are here for. Ive made 'just friends' and FWBs on other sites too with the same approach as ive taken here, and the other sites/apps have either been simple chat sites or focused on dating. All of which im straight forward and honest and so far ive still met some great ppl and had more luck than some guys here actually try and still get nowhere"

Why would we tell you to leave? It has nothing to do with us. As for being short sighted and wanting a quick shot of dopermine, that's is your opinion, to which you are entitled to of course. Another way of looking at it is, free time is a finite resource. We are much more likely to interact with someone whose profile engages us. In another of your threads you asked where the love was for slender guys.. Have you considered the possibility that your build isn't what's putting people off?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh just get your bumhole out and behave "

Lol is that a joke or a request?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh just get your bumhole out and behave "

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Oh just get your bumhole out and behave

Lol is that a joke or a request? "

Make it your main pic

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By *ealArtfulDodgerMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Right all I'm a relative noob to forums et al..

Let's assume that I've been following the thread and this ain't at all absolutely clicky as the rest of em..!

So say Hi and be friendly... we all started from the same places and no graphics required.!!

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ


"Ok the pic where your sticking your finger up why?

Lol i say why not... certainly different from the 100s of cock pics, abs on show, ass in the air or a plain silhouette...

Ive always been the kind of person to stand out and be different in my own way and i dont care who doesnt like it.. too much crap in this world to worry what others think of me"

Ahem .. says the Op with the thread "comment on my profile"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok the pic where your sticking your finger up why?

Lol i say why not... certainly different from the 100s of cock pics, abs on show, ass in the air or a plain silhouette...

Ive always been the kind of person to stand out and be different in my own way and i dont care who doesnt like it.. too much crap in this world to worry what others think of me

Ahem .. says the Op with the thread "comment on my profile"

"

Yeah. I'm a tad confused too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why would we tell you to leave? It has nothing to do with us. As for being short sighted and wanting a quick shot of dopermine, that's is your opinion, to which you are entitled to of course. Another way of looking at it is, free time is a finite resource. We are much more likely to interact with someone whose profile engages us. In another of your threads you asked where the love was for slender guys.. Have you considered the possibility that your build isn't what's putting people off? "

Well theres all sorts of ppl out there and given that i use others sites to meet ppl.. bound to be someone who will say that.. ive had that thrown at me before so i included that in my response. As for the dopamine comment.. its not an opinion its based on psychological study. As ive said human psychology fascinates me and ive learned a lot on the subject through reading and watching talks on the subject.. sites like this are a great example to show how almost everyone on this planet operates based on dopamine hits, same goes for tinder and onlyfans. Your brain gets flooded with it when you have sex, you get hots when you swipe and het matched or receive a mail in your inbox from that hot guy youve been chatting with etc. Over the years ive used fab ive observed men who clearly shows signs of depression based on a lack of sexual satisfaction..

As for your comment about my weight.. whats that got to do with this thread exactly, and why are you bringing that into this? I made that thread as i said in the first post... dont tend to see much love for the slender guys.. im happy with my weight.. i wasnt many years ago.. now i am cos ive stopped worrying about trying to ne in competition with the guys who have the money to sustain a lifestyle that allows them to get hella buff.. im unique in my own way. If some women dont find me attractive or not interested in hooking up cos my body isnt to their liking then thats not something i concern myself with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok the pic where your sticking your finger up why?

Lol i say why not... certainly different from the 100s of cock pics, abs on show, ass in the air or a plain silhouette...

Ive always been the kind of person to stand out and be different in my own way and i dont care who doesnt like it.. too much crap in this world to worry what others think of me

Ahem .. says the Op with the thread "comment on my profile"

Yeah. I'm a tad confused too"

Wanted to know what some people think of his profile, not that it particularly bothers or worries him what other people think of it be negative or positive, really not that confusing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok the pic where your sticking your finger up why?

Lol i say why not... certainly different from the 100s of cock pics, abs on show, ass in the air or a plain silhouette...

Ive always been the kind of person to stand out and be different in my own way and i dont care who doesnt like it.. too much crap in this world to worry what others think of me

Ahem .. says the Op with the thread "comment on my profile"

"

Okay i will say this. Im getting tired of repeating myself like a parrot... whats so hard to understand about having a genuine curiosity of what ppl think of a profile on the opposite end of the spectrum to the vast majority of othhers on this site.. to understand the sites users better.. out of sheer curiosity of human psychology

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ


"Ok the pic where your sticking your finger up why?

Lol i say why not... certainly different from the 100s of cock pics, abs on show, ass in the air or a plain silhouette...

Ive always been the kind of person to stand out and be different in my own way and i dont care who doesnt like it.. too much crap in this world to worry what others think of me

Ahem .. says the Op with the thread "comment on my profile"

Okay i will say this. Im getting tired of repeating myself like a parrot... whats so hard to understand about having a genuine curiosity of what ppl think of a profile on the opposite end of the spectrum to the vast majority of othhers on this site.. to understand the sites users better.. out of sheer curiosity of human psychology "

You created it to be different but it's the same in a different way. See my muscles, see my butt, see my attitude. It's like Zoolander. If following the green arrow is any illustration of your thoughts you cannot complain when the difference does not achieve your aim of results. It's akin to your being snarky about shop windows in your profile when you are actively trying to drive traffic there.

Make your mind up what you want first rather than slagging off those who are unsure at your presentation. Perhaps go erotic rather than esoteric...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You created it to be different but it's the same in a different way. See my muscles, see my butt, see my attitude. It's like Zoolander. If following the green arrow is any illustration of your thoughts you cannot complain when the difference does not achieve your aim of results. It's akin to your being snarky about shop windows in your profile when you are actively trying to drive traffic there.

Make your mind up what you want first rather than slagging off those who are unsure at your presentation. Perhaps go erotic rather than esoteric... "

Lol well should i put up pics of my car? Pretty sure fab will just take those down anyway so what am i really gonna put as my profile photos if not my body? Besides its not like i can send pics like you can on other chat apps so the point youre making there doesnt hold much weight to it.. And where am i complaining? My thread about slender guys? Anything ive said here in this thread? Youve falsely assumed im complaining where i am just making an observation.. if i was conplaining id be saying "why dont ppl think im attractive? Is it my build?" "Why dont girls like my body" etc. etc.. nope.

Actively driving ppl to my profile? Yes because im curious to see the comments.. im not explaining for the Nth time why. Honestly that statement seems very hollow.

Make up my mind? What exactly are you referring to? My mind is pretty set and clear and im consistent in what ive said..

As for slagging off... the only thing ive said that is even remotely offensive in that way is saying they were short sighted, and ive given my explanation as to why i think that.. ive not been abusive in any way. As for saying some ppl are judgemental.. thats how im seeing it and its oretty much true. There have been numerous threads made and comments posted where ppl have pointed out that a certain person is being judgemental, ofc no names given as its usually about private messages that are received.. if youre gonna take that so personally then i think you need to walk away

Im not interested in having an argument.. if you dont like me for who i am or the responses ive given.. just walk away

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ


"You created it to be different but it's the same in a different way. See my muscles, see my butt, see my attitude. It's like Zoolander. If following the green arrow is any illustration of your thoughts you cannot complain when the difference does not achieve your aim of results. It's akin to your being snarky about shop windows in your profile when you are actively trying to drive traffic there.

Make your mind up what you want first rather than slagging off those who are unsure at your presentation. Perhaps go erotic rather than esoteric...

Lol well should i put up pics of my car? Pretty sure fab will just take those down anyway so what am i really gonna put as my profile photos if not my body? Besides its not like i can send pics like you can on other chat apps so the point youre making there doesnt hold much weight to it.. And where am i complaining? My thread about slender guys? Anything ive said here in this thread? Youve falsely assumed im complaining where i am just making an observation.. if i was conplaining id be saying "why dont ppl think im attractive? Is it my build?" "Why dont girls like my body" etc. etc.. nope.

Actively driving ppl to my profile? Yes because im curious to see the comments.. im not explaining for the Nth time why. Honestly that statement seems very hollow.

Make up my mind? What exactly are you referring to? My mind is pretty set and clear and im consistent in what ive said..

As for slagging off... the only thing ive said that is even remotely offensive in that way is saying they were short sighted, and ive given my explanation as to why i think that.. ive not been abusive in any way. As for saying some ppl are judgemental.. thats how im seeing it and its oretty much true. There have been numerous threads made and comments posted where ppl have pointed out that a certain person is being judgemental, ofc no names given as its usually about private messages that are received.. if youre gonna take that so personally then i think you need to walk away

Im not interested in having an argument.. if you dont like me for who i am or the responses ive given.. just walk away"

We don't know you to like or dislike you! Its possible your answer contains the key to success on Fab. Hope you find someone. Best of luck. Happy Fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the moment, it doesn't even matter if your profile is dull because nobody is meeting. Women can get away with a few pretty or explicit pics as men don't bother to read our bio's anyway but when the world returns to normal and we are safe to meet again, I think your chances of connecting with such a boring profile will be low. You'll crack on anyway me thinks regardless of anybodies opinion.

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