FabSwingers.com forum: The fab curse

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The fab curse is it real???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends which curse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The fab curse is it real???"

Enlighten me what is the fab curse?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends which curse"
the one where you find someone that you get on with and seem to be the perfect match for you but they love bloody miles away

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

That the one you really want to meet lives over 200 miles away and there’s a sea between you

yeah I’d say it’s pretty real

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

"Depends which curse the one where you find someone that you get on with and seem to be the perfect match for you but they love bloody miles away

I can relate to that

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By *ister_ee_1981Man
over a year ago

Sunniest Exeter...

" the one where you find someone that you get on with and seem to be the perfect match for you but they love bloody miles away

That isn't a curse. That's "Fab (insert deity) being a CU next Tuesday...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That the one you really want to meet lives over 200 miles away and there’s a sea between you

yeah I’d say it’s pretty real

How good are you at swimming?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That the one you really want to meet lives over 200 miles away and there’s a sea between you

yeah I’d say it’s pretty real

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320+ miles between us B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends which curse the one where you find someone that you get on with and seem to be the perfect match for you but they love bloody miles away

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aha a car is your friend but be careful or there could be tiers

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"The fab curse is it real???"

Simply put no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not many folk in South Devon thats for sure x

Moving to the midlands is too much of an effort though lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not many folk in South Devon thats for sure x

Moving to the midlands is too much of an effort though lol "
yep us southern folk are fresh out lol

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

A bit but there are planes trains and automobiles if you are serious about meeting someone otherwise its just an excuse and you are leading someone on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends which curse the one where you find someone that you get on with and seem to be the perfect match for you but they love bloody miles away

You have to ask them to be your girlfriend and then they will let you stop over and sleep in thier bed.... Xx

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Nah, I'd say the fab curse is finding the love of your life...

Only to find out they're already in a relationship with someone else who has no fucking idea.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"That the one you really want to meet lives over 200 miles away and there’s a sea between you

yeah I’d say it’s pretty real

I know I'm sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A bit but there are planes trains and automobiles if you are serious about meeting someone otherwise its just an excuse and you are leading someone on"
not always that easy if you have children or business etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nah, I'd say the fab curse is finding the love of your life...

Only to find out they're already in a relationship with someone else who has no fucking idea."
that's just a person that's a real shit and you or anyone else shouldnt have to deal with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, it’s real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But without Fab, you'd never have met. So how's that a curse?

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"But without Fab, you'd never have met. So how's that a curse? "

This is very true

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Nah, I'd say the fab curse is finding the love of your life...

Only to find out they're already in a relationship with someone else who has no fucking idea. that's just a person that's a real shit and you or anyone else shouldnt have to deal with that

Yet is a regular occurrence it seems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But without Fab, you'd never have met. So how's that a curse? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nah, I'd say the fab curse is finding the love of your life...

Only to find out they're already in a relationship with someone else who has no fucking idea. that's just a person that's a real shit and you or anyone else shouldnt have to deal with that

Yet is a regular occurrence it seems. "
you deserve better your a wonder person peach xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah, I'd say the fab curse is finding the love of your life...

Only to find out they're already in a relationship with someone else who has no fucking idea."

Thats a massive kick

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

All the time OP. and I don’t even have a helicopter

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Depends which curse the one where you find someone that you get on with and seem to be the perfect match for you but they love bloody miles away

I really need to get back to designing that teleportation machine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends which curse the one where you find someone that you get on with and seem to be the perfect match for you but they love bloody miles away

That is definitely a bloody thing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends which curse the one where you find someone that you get on with and seem to be the perfect match for you but they love bloody miles away

I really need to get back to designing that teleportation machine.

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make it so wing man

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends which curse the one where you find someone that you get on with and seem to be the perfect match for you but they love bloody miles away

That is definitely a bloody thing! "
yep your miles away

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends which curse the one where you find someone that you get on with and seem to be the perfect match for you but they love bloody miles away

That is definitely a bloody thing! "
yep your miles away

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Its never happened to me. If i want to meet someone i do. Might take some planning but there is cars, trains and boats. I dont even drive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely is always the way. You never find anyone that you click with that lives local it’s always miles away

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

It’s definitely real.

Also known as ‘Sod’s Law’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a subconscious defence mechanism so that reality never meets fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends which curse the one where you find someone that you get on with and seem to be the perfect match for you but they love bloody miles away

That is definitely a bloody thing! yep your miles away

Exactly!!

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

It's the unwritten rule of fab!! Xx

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Distance doesn’t have to mean it can’t happen

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's the unwritten rule of fab!! Xx"
another that's 2 far away

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

Maybe because everyone has their guard down a bit more when they start chatting to someone far away, as it’s in your mind they’re too far for it to be viable to meet

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Its never happened to me. If i want to meet someone i do. Might take some planning but there is cars, trains and boats. I dont even drive"

Precisely this, you make the effort. If you don’t think you’ll be able to make that effort, due to circumstances, then talking to someone miles away is pointless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe because everyone has their guard down a bit more when they start chatting to someone far away, as it’s in your mind they’re too far for it to be viable to meet

thats exactly it less of an agenda

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends which curse the one where you find someone that you get on with and seem to be the perfect match for you but they love bloody miles away

This is definitely a thing!

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

"It's the unwritten rule of fab!! Xx another that's 2 far away

I know xx

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By *siancouplehantsCouple
over a year ago

K-PAX

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By *siancouplehantsCouple
over a year ago

K-PAX

"The fab curse is it real???"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The fab curse is it real???"

You mean the fab curse where you meet someone on here and they are a complete dick? Oh yes

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"The fab curse is it real???

You mean the fab curse where you meet someone on here and they are a complete dick? Oh yes"

Shock-horror. I'm only a bit of a dick (on a good day).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The fab curse is it real???

You mean the fab curse where you meet someone on here and they are a complete dick? Oh yes

Shock-horror. I'm only a bit of a dick (on a good day).

Still a dick?!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"The fab curse is it real???

You mean the fab curse where you meet someone on here and they are a complete dick? Oh yes

Shock-horror. I'm only a bit of a dick (on a good day).

Still a dick?!"

No one is perfect.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

It can be a thing. It can also be a convenient 'out'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The fab curse is it real???

Enlighten me what is the fab curse?"

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

"Depends which curse the one where you find someone that you get on with and seem to be the perfect match for you but they love bloody miles away

Distance is not important for the right connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Curse is most definitely real I'd say . But it's an awfully good reason to take a trip somewhere too!!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"The Curse is most definitely real I'd say . But it's an awfully good reason to take a trip somewhere too!!

And who doesn't love Florida??

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"The fab curse is it real???"

The one about your toes turning into lettuces if you send too many FAF messages is real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fab curse. The sexier the woman the more miles apart we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends which curse the one where you find someone that you get on with and seem to be the perfect match for you but they love bloody miles away

Yes

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By *otmale5Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Absolutely.. the only real offers I get from bi cuck couples live on the opposite side of the country.. funny that .. ohh I had one this morning from a local couple but the guy wants to suck me first , just to see if I’m his wife’s taste I guess.. what a bunch of cuck suckers lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends which curse the one where you find someone that you get on with and seem to be the perfect match for you but they love bloody miles away

My partner lives 238 miles away. Been together 3 years met on here. Its whatever you want. Travel should not stop you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Curse is most definitely real I'd say . But it's an awfully good reason to take a trip somewhere too!!

And who doesn't love Florida??"

We do have the most goregous Beaches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends which curse the one where you find someone that you get on with and seem to be the perfect match for you but they love bloody miles away

My partner lives 238 miles away. Been together 3 years met on here. Its whatever you want. Travel should not stop you "

But it will still stop some people depending on what other commitments they have in life

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"The Curse is most definitely real I'd say . But it's an awfully good reason to take a trip somewhere too!!

And who doesn't love Florida??

We do have the most goregous Beaches

And looking at your pics (13/14 October) - some great parks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes the travel is worth it for the right person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Curse is most definitely real I'd say . But it's an awfully good reason to take a trip somewhere too!!

And who doesn't love Florida??

We do have the most goregous Beaches

And looking at your pics (13/14 October) - some great parks.

Yep there's those too....

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

It's a minor inconvenience that I have and will overcome if I want to see someone enough to make that effort.

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By *erms and conditionsCouple
over a year ago

Alton

Contemplating moving to the Midlands lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh id travel to the stars thru a stone wall on fire covered in barbed wire for the right person

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

"It's a minor inconvenience that I have and will overcome if I want to see someone enough to make that effort. "

I agree with

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"It's a minor inconvenience that I have and will overcome if I want to see someone enough to make that effort. "

I agree with this too, I think when “the want” is there, you’d make that effort for them, I have done so in the past and would do so again

It just has to be on the level I want lol

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"It can be a thing. It can also be a convenient 'out'"

This really!

I’ve agreed with many a chap who’s said ‘If only you weren’t so far away’ because I saw no point in being unkind and telling them they’re not my type anyway! X

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

A town near you perhaps

Yep. So many swingers seem to be in the Midlands. There seems to be a lack of swinging couples in the North East.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah same for me

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"A bit but there are planes trains and automobiles if you are serious about meeting someone otherwise its just an excuse and you are leading someone on"

It can be done, it’s whether you really want to that’s the issue a lot of the time.

We’ve travelled 250 miles in the past & had one lady drive 210 miles to spend the weekend with us after talking for just a couple of evenings.

Hurdles are only as high as your mind makes them.

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

"Nah, I'd say the fab curse is finding the love of your life...

Only to find out they're already in a relationship with someone else who has no fucking idea."

yeh that's the real Fab curse that's for sure

I'm sorry

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont really understand why youd get involved with someone you had no intention of meeting

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Depends which curse the one where you find someone that you get on with and seem to be the perfect match for you but they love bloody miles away

The dreaded geography curse

It does indeed exist but has never stopped me from meeting the lovely people I have which were all quite far away. I realize not everyone has the opportunity or capacity to travel, but if you do and are determined, the curse becomes an urban myth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t call it a curse because if I want to meet someone that bad I’ll make it work. 2 fwbs ive had over the last few years have lived 3 ish hours from me and they were both worth the travel

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By *erms and conditionsCouple
over a year ago

Alton

On the bright side our knowledge of British geography has improved no end

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"On the bright side our knowledge of British geography has improved no end

Meeting people from fab and checking where on the map they were when interest was shown really helped my UK geography. Win win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv experienced this such curse!

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By *iobhan123Woman
over a year ago

Deal

"Nah, I'd say the fab curse is finding the love of your life...

Only to find out they're already in a relationship with someone else who has no fucking idea."

Yep, this...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On the bright side our knowledge of British geography has improved no end

Just don’t use fabs idea of all the places that are apparently in East Midlands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah, I'd say the fab curse is finding the love of your life...

Only to find out they're already in a relationship with someone else who has no fucking idea.

Yep, this..."

And this one too

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By *iobhan123Woman
over a year ago

Deal

"Nah, I'd say the fab curse is finding the love of your life...

Only to find out they're already in a relationship with someone else who has no fucking idea.

Yep, this...

And this one too

Absolute shit and can ruin your mojo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah, I'd say the fab curse is finding the love of your life...

Only to find out they're already in a relationship with someone else who has no fucking idea.

Yep, this...

And this one too

Absolute shit and can ruin your mojo"

Yes it can, make u dubious too, takes time to bounce back but that we do! Live and learn xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, though sometimes it’s worth the travel x

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

Godstone

Tops so far was a 9hr round trip (over a weekend) and worth every mile.

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

"That the one you really want to meet lives over 200 miles away and there’s a sea between you

yeah I’d say it’s pretty real

About 280+ actually... X

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By *iobhan123Woman
over a year ago

Deal

"Nah, I'd say the fab curse is finding the love of your life...

Only to find out they're already in a relationship with someone else who has no fucking idea.

Yep, this...

And this one too

Absolute shit and can ruin your mojo

Yes it can, make u dubious too, takes time to bounce back but that we do! Live and learn xx "

Uep, and never make the same mistakes again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends which curse the one where you find someone that you get on with and seem to be the perfect match for you but they love bloody miles away

That's not a curse

That's geography

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And there was me thinking the Fab curse was never finding anyone you get on with in the first place.

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

"A bit but there are planes trains and automobiles if you are serious about meeting someone otherwise its just an excuse and you are leading someone on

It can be done, it’s whether you really want to that’s the issue a lot of the time.

We’ve travelled 250 miles in the past & had one lady drive 210 miles to spend the weekend with us after talking for just a couple of evenings.

Hurdles are only as high as your mind makes them.

Exactly

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

Believe me living 1 mile away ,but unable to see as much as you want to , is much worse

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Fab delivers curses and blessings in equal measure.

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

"Fab delivers curses and blessings in equal measure.

We're yet to see too many blessings. Some beauty's, but these haven't matured into blessings for us yet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And some more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And some more. "

Haha Annie I might tell a joke in a minute

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"Depends which curse the one where you find someone that you get on with and seem to be the perfect match for you but they love bloody miles away

Yep. Been getting on with someone in America

But I guess with the current state of things it makes no difference.

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