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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m 22 and would love to live out my fantasy with a more mature lady but finding one seems difficult so here I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you used different filters on the search engine? you’ll find someone who meets your / their needs.

Also how do you approach them via message? As the cliche goes, always make a good first impression

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

They’re all talk mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I were you, I'd rather chance my arm with a snow leopard.... Slightly shorter fangs....

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By *m NormalMan
over a year ago

Telford

I'm classified as a single guy and I can read your profile which says your not interested in single guys.

You need to sort your filters and add your requirements in your description.

You know the phrase, don't ask don't get.

Get out there and search for your age range. You might get a bite after 200 messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're not allowed to leave the care homes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe his big eggs need cracking

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I probably have the maturity level of a 10 year old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I probably have the maturity level of a 10 year old "
oh so true haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m 22 and would love to live out my fantasy with a more mature lady but finding one seems difficult so here I am "
a word to the wise if you like older women dont call then anything other than what they are beautiful women calling them a cougar isnt flattery its rude and makes a woman feel old in my opinion. Make a woman feel special because you fancy here not her age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I probably have the maturity level of a 10 year old "

Ahhh that’s why we get along

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"I probably have the maturity level of a 10 year old

Ahhh that’s why we get along "

It is indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can think of a few reasons that you're struggling but you'd have to specifically ask for profile advice or I'll go to Fab jail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m 22 and would love to live out my fantasy with a more mature lady but finding one seems difficult so here I am a word to the wise if you like older women dont call then anything other than what they are beautiful women calling them a cougar isnt flattery its rude and makes a woman feel old in my opinion. Make a woman feel special because you fancy here not her age "

Words of wisdom that is totally true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're not allowed to leave the care homes "

We can if someone checks us out for the day !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not tooo hard just keep positive, polite and pleasant

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

nice lips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m 22 and would love to live out my fantasy with a more mature lady but finding one seems difficult so here I am a word to the wise if you like older women dont call then anything other than what they are beautiful women calling them a cougar isnt flattery its rude and makes a woman feel old in my opinion. Make a woman feel special because you fancy here not her age "

This is very good advice and definitely worth following!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m 22 and would love to live out my fantasy with a more mature lady but finding one seems difficult so here I am a word to the wise if you like older women dont call then anything other than what they are beautiful women calling them a cougar isnt flattery its rude and makes a woman feel old in my opinion. Make a woman feel special because you fancy here not her age

This is very good advice and definitely worth following!! "
did I say something sensible fuck what on earth was I thinking that's not like me at all

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I’m 22 and would love to live out my fantasy with a more mature lady but finding one seems difficult so here I am "

Hi op.

I’m told there are ‘cougar’ websites for women/young guys who are specifically looking for each other.

How genuine the sites - or the ‘cougars’ are, though, I’ve honestly no idea.

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By *m NormalMan
over a year ago

Telford


"I’m 22 and would love to live out my fantasy with a more mature lady but finding one seems difficult so here I am

Hi op.

I’m told there are ‘cougar’ websites for women/young guys who are specifically looking for each other.

How genuine the sites - or the ‘cougars’ are, though, I’ve honestly no idea. "

I've looked a few of them. They want silly money to chat with a robot. Cannot find one like Fab

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I’m 22 and would love to live out my fantasy with a more mature lady but finding one seems difficult so here I am "

Not all older women identify with the media definition of 'cougar'.

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

Anyone see that video of a guy getting stalked by a cougar while he was out hiking last week? Not the cougar experience you'd want!

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery


"Anyone see that video of a guy getting stalked by a cougar while he was out hiking last week? Not the cougar experience you'd want! "

Haha I seen that

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

Sitting in a jacuzzi in a well known Manchester club with a lovely lady.

A young guys asks if it's ok to join us all.

That's fine we say.

He pleasantly enquired who we were, how often we come to this club, where else do we go to etc.

He was informed we were a couple and the other lady single.

After a little time he turned to the single lady and said "the younger birds in here are a bit difficult that's why I'd rather chat to an older woman like you".

She graciously thanked him for the thought but said his chat up line could do with a bit of work.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"They’re all talk mate "

That's rich coming from you, Mr M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m 22 and would love to live out my fantasy with a more mature lady but finding one seems difficult so here I am a word to the wise if you like older women dont call then anything other than what they are beautiful women calling them a cougar isnt flattery its rude and makes a woman feel old in my opinion. Make a woman feel special because you fancy here not her age "

This, well said, thank you, it’s horrible to be seen for age, plus generally translates to ‘teach me, I cba to learn for myself’

Generally if I meet someone younger they either can’t keep up or become intimidated and nervous

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By *alaciousCurvesWoman
over a year ago

Gainsborough


"Anyone see that video of a guy getting stalked by a cougar while he was out hiking last week? Not the cougar experience you'd want! "

He wasn't actually stalked. The idiot saw her cubs on the trail and kept going towards them instead of turning around (most of the sites that showed his video conveniently missed the first part which showed this). The cougar was chasing him away from her cubs. If she was stalking him he wouldn't have known about it and he almost certainly wouldn't be alive and unharmed.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"They’re all talk mate "

Perhaps they just not into younger men? I've just this minute been asked by a 22 year old if I'm interested in him I politely declined as far 2 young but certainly not all talk! X

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley


"They're not allowed to leave the care homes

We can if someone checks us out for the day !! "

I check you out most days

Sorry one line wonder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're not allowed to leave the care homes

We can if someone checks us out for the day !!

I check you out most days

Sorry one line wonder "

But a very good one ...

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley


"They're not allowed to leave the care homes

We can if someone checks us out for the day !!

I check you out most days

Sorry one line wonder

But a very good one ... "

I have more to cum

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for all the advice given I really appreciate it. In regards to the name of the thread I only put it as that as I wasn’t sure what else to call it that would still get traffic on the post, I’m sorry if it seemed rude or derogatory

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Thank you for all the advice given I really appreciate it. In regards to the name of the thread I only put it as that as I wasn’t sure what else to call it that would still get traffic on the post, I’m sorry if it seemed rude or derogatory "

I don't think you need to apologise, my friend. Cougar is a common enough term, but not everyone likes to be described as one but it's not derogatory or rude. Good luck to you

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Thank you for all the advice given I really appreciate it. In regards to the name of the thread I only put it as that as I wasn’t sure what else to call it that would still get traffic on the post, I’m sorry if it seemed rude or derogatory "

Is a better name than old lady lol x

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

22 year olds are like little puppies who haven’t not yet learned from their mothers how to behave!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I were you, I'd rather chance my arm with a snow leopard.... Slightly shorter fangs.... "
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"22 year olds are like little puppies who haven’t not yet learned from their mothers how to behave! "

Go on then DC - mother him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're not allowed to leave the care homes

We can if someone checks us out for the day !!

I check you out most days

Sorry one line wonder

But a very good one ...

I have more to cum "

I have no doubt that you do !!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I understand the desire to meet a woman "older" than oneself. Get it completely.

But asking to meet a woman based on her age, however old or young she might be, will not be successful. Women... people in general want to be approached/ wanted for their looks/ personality/ sense of humour/ sexiness... literally anything but... age. Just my experience

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By *eavertrackerMan
over a year ago

Bridgwater

Just try and connect and feel the chemistry with someone where the attraction of their body and mind appeals to you,...don't try and find a so called "cougar", find an individual where the chemistry feels right both ways, you will gain much more insight into the appeal of this

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley


"I understand the desire to meet a woman "older" than oneself. Get it completely.

But asking to meet a woman based on her age, however old or young she might be, will not be successful. Women... people in general want to be approached/ wanted for their looks/ personality/ sense of humour/ sexiness... literally anything but... age. Just my experience"

My sense of humour works for me

It’s just a bonus that I’m a Tom cruise lookalike

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"22 year olds are like little puppies who haven’t not yet learned from their mothers how to behave!

Go on then DC - mother him. "

Not my thing .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I probably have the maturity level of a 10 year old "

Definitely this... And the dress sense of a toddler

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"22 year olds are like little puppies who haven’t not yet learned from their mothers how to behave!

Go on then DC - mother him.

Not my thing ....."

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By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns


"Thank you for all the advice given I really appreciate it. In regards to the name of the thread I only put it as that as I wasn’t sure what else to call it that would still get traffic on the post, I’m sorry if it seemed rude or derogatory

Is a better name than old lady lol x"

Not old, just better

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

The pandemic will make it difficult because we're not meant to be meeting outside family or support bubble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot will be put off by the OF aspect too xx

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