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Good friends daughter as my sub

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'll keep the details short.

She's 18+ so please, no hate.

My friend is a friend of many years and his daughter is gay. She has had a crunch on me for a couple of years and was always an ongoing joke with us all. She turned 18 early in the year and over the last couple of months has contacted me on kik.

I'll spare you those details, but, obviously she wants to be more than my friends daughter....

So, without abusing me...

What would you do lol?

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By *assion and MoreCouple
over a year ago

Here and There, Monaghan


"I'll keep the details short.

She's 18+ so please, no hate.

My friend is a friend of many years and his daughter is gay. She has had a crunch on me for a couple of years and was always an ongoing joke with us all. She turned 18 early in the year and over the last couple of months has contacted me on kik.

I'll spare you those details, but, obviously she wants to be more than my friends daughter....

So, without abusing me...

What would you do lol? "

Thanks but no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep the crunch away and don’t entertain her or play her along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say hello and meet for coffee x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah. It wouldn’t cross my mind to get involved with a friends child.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Surely that’s a line you don’t cross?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Think I have my thoughts confirmed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll keep the details short.

She's 18+ so please, no hate.

My friend is a friend of many years and his daughter is gay. She has had a crunch on me for a couple of years and was always an ongoing joke with us all. She turned 18 early in the year and over the last couple of months has contacted me on kik.

I'll spare you those details, but, obviously she wants to be more than my friends daughter....

So, without abusing me...

What would you do lol? "

Don't go there...it would be taking advantage of your friends daughter. You would likely end up without a friend if it all goes tits up x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She’s going to black mail you for the rest of your life if you cross that line. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay away,if it was my daughter I would go mental,there are some lines that you just never cross

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By *ebel Red HotWoman
over a year ago

York

I can't help thinking someone is still asleep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If this is for real....

I’d have a chat with her face to face, explain how highly inappropriate this is. You won’t tell your friend, but if it continues you will need to.

Tell her you support her choices in life, you have no issue with being gay, but her messaging you all of this is so inappropriate and it makes you highly uncomfortable.

Remain friendly while around others, but distance yourself and do not talk privately, and do not join in with the ‘jokes’ about her fancying you.

If you’re stupid enough to actually go for it, then I have no advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a porn scenario that a man would come up with

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By *cotty MancMan
over a year ago

warrington

Resist any urge. Do not cross that line. How would you feel if it was your daughter and your mate betrayed you like that ?? Your choice though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If this is for real....

I’d have a chat with her face to face, explain how highly inappropriate this is. You won’t tell your friend, but if it continues you will need to.

Tell her you support her choices in life, you have no issue with being gay, but her messaging you all of this is so inappropriate and it makes you highly uncomfortable.

Remain friendly while around others, but distance yourself and do not talk privately, and do not join in with the ‘jokes’ about her fancying you.

If you’re stupid enough to actually go for it, then I have no advice. "

Great advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounds like a porn scenario that a man would come up with"

Yes it does

Why woukd a 44yr old woman need

'advice ' on what to do about a friends child.

If it's real it's disturbing

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Your loyalty should be to your friend.

Tell him what has happened, better he finds out from you than from someone else.

Your guidance should be to the daughter, point her in the direction of other people she can socialise with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi OP

I wouldn't have responded to her on kik other than to acknowledge her and close down any other kind of conversation.

The father of this girl is your friend and he is aware of a crush and teases you. I wonder how he would feel if you stepped over the mark and began a sexual friendship with his daughter? You are jeopardising your friendship, as you must know.

You have had years of life and sexual experience and she needs to explore and find things out for herself without an influence which could be quite authoritative as your subject title says taking her on as a sub.

My advice is to stop encouraging your friends daughter.

I am not hating on you, just giving my thoughts as requested.

Her x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hi OP

I wouldn't have responded to her on kik other than to acknowledge her and close down any other kind of conversation.

The father of this girl is your friend and he is aware of a crush and teases you. I wonder how he would feel if you stepped over the mark and began a sexual friendship with his daughter? You are jeopardising your friendship, as you must know.

You have had years of life and sexual experience and she needs to explore and find things out for herself without an influence which could be quite authoritative as your subject title says taking her on as a sub.

My advice is to stop encouraging your friends daughter.

I am not hating on you, just giving my thoughts as requested.

Her x

"

Ty. I've told her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely, this question doesn't need to be asked??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Green arrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely no.. but obviously let her down very gently.

The fact your engaging on Kiki is worrying.

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

I think its a good way to lose a friend and a betrayal of trust

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

In the time it took me to write that comment, they went unlos....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I;d delete my profile..

oh wait..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Green arrow "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the time it took me to write that comment, they went unlos...."

It was probably a fake profile

I've seen a couple of threads from this person that were the same theme - friends kids etc ..

Weird and creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I;d delete my profile..

oh wait.."

Omg!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll keep the details short.

She's 18+ so please, no hate.

My friend is a friend of many years and his daughter is gay. She has had a crunch on me for a couple of years and was always an ongoing joke with us all. She turned 18 early in the year and over the last couple of months has contacted me on kik.

I'll spare you those details, but, obviously she wants to be more than my friends daughter....

So, without abusing me...

What would you do lol? "

Delete and never to return

Oh good you you’ve gone

Your not wanted on here by anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I;d delete my profile..

oh wait..

Omg!! "

yeah the sex was great,whats your name again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll keep the details short.

She's 18+ so please, no hate.

My friend is a friend of many years and his daughter is gay. She has had a crunch on me for a couple of years and was always an ongoing joke with us all. She turned 18 early in the year and over the last couple of months has contacted me on kik.

I'll spare you those details, but, obviously she wants to be more than my friends daughter....

So, without abusing me...

What would you do lol?

Delete and never to return

Oh good you you’ve gone

Your not wanted on here by anyone "

Wtf? That’s harsh, and probably not true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it me or is it even stranger than usual on the forum today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it me or is it even stranger than usual on the forum today "

Nah

It’s not a stranger

It was her friends daughter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think I have my thoughts confirmed lol"

Fastest UNLOS ever?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the time it took me to write that comment, they went unlos....

It was probably a fake profile

I've seen a couple of threads from this person that were the same theme - friends kids etc ..

Weird and creepy"

Seen a few like that. 'Woman' profile asking the kind of questions a man in a dirty raincoat would ask.

Photo verified though.

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