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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Need varifications to get a meet..

Need to get meets for varifications..

(Yes im aware of lockdown restrictions, dont need any of that babble about meets during a pandemic.. fab has always been like this before and after corona)

In this day and age youd think it was easier to connect with ppl online.. nvm hooking up. Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's verifications.

You know you can get a cam veri, right?

And socially distanced meets are still allowed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's verifications.

You know you can get a cam veri, right?

And socially distanced meets are still allowed."

Yeah nobody cams... at least nobody ive connected with.. besides its actually getting a convo going in the first place thats the problem.. too many ppl shut the door before a convo is even started based on 'no varifications'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I repeat. It's verifications.

Lot of people look at profiles before they decide if they will reply or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op you’re bi sexual......

You should have no problems on here because the world is your oyster........

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I repeat. It's verifications.

Lot of people look at profiles before they decide if they will reply or not."

Yeeeaaah thats my point... its paradoxical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cam veris will not get you meets from most people they prove nothing apart from you went on cam...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"cam veris will not get you meets from most people they prove nothing apart from you went on cam..."

They will give him the green tick.. which lot of people are after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I repeat. It's verifications.

Lot of people look at profiles before they decide if they will reply or not."

Plus as many threads on here have said before, single men make up a huge part of the population on here so it's hard for a man to get passed the first message, and it's been said before women and couples get loads of messages off guys so unfortunately it's just hard work, I personally dont take anything seriously on here,I just enjoy the forums and the cam chat and if I make a friend or two along the way bonus plus again covid is messing everything up at the momment, I wish you all the luck in the world mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I repeat. It's verifications.

Lot of people look at profiles before they decide if they will reply or not.

Yeeeaaah thats my point... its paradoxical"

It's paradoxical at Leeds Pandora.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Op you’re bi sexual......

You should have no problems on here because the world is your oyster........"

Yeah well i only meet guys if im in that kinda mood and its rare, and im very picky with who i meet. When it comes to women, on fab at least anyway, its like job hunting.. but i at least talk to ppl first before i make judgements

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, you say fab has been like this before corona.. you've been on fab before then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I repeat. It's verifications.

Lot of people look at profiles before they decide if they will reply or not.

Plus as many threads on here have said before, single men make up a huge part of the population on here so it's hard for a man to get passed the first message, and it's been said before women and couples get loads of messages off guys so unfortunately it's just hard work, I personally dont take anything seriously on here,I just enjoy the forums and the cam chat and if I make a friend or two along the way bonus plus again covid is messing everything up at the momment, I wish you all the luck in the world mate"

Sadly thats very true.. i dont blame women for having defences as ive been on the receiving end of douche men too and my inbox being rammed, pun intended.. though sometimes those who are genuine and make somewhat of an effort get overlooked.. and enjoyable experiences missed out on.. thx anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP, you say fab has been like this before corona.. you've been on fab before then?"

A few times on and off over the years.. though i just straight up delete my account rather than hide it and sometimes havent used it for a couple years.. though in hindsight i realise i shoulda just hid it and kept my previous varifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, you say fab has been like this before corona.. you've been on fab before then?

A few times on and off over the years.. though i just straight up delete my account rather than hide it and sometimes havent used it for a couple years.. though in hindsight i realise i shoulda just hid it and kept my previous varifications "

Yeah you should have kept your vErifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I repeat. It's verifications.

Lot of people look at profiles before they decide if they will reply or not.

Yeeeaaah thats my point... its paradoxical

It's paradoxical at Leeds Pandora. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is like window shopping...

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By *escplCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Sadly thats very true.. i dont blame women for having defences as ive been on the receiving end of douche men too and my inbox being rammed, pun intended.. though sometimes those who are genuine and make somewhat of an effort get overlooked.. and enjoyable experiences missed out on.. thx anyway"

Dan here. I think as single male it is very difficult, not only here but in general on online dating sites. Very hard to stick out from the crowd.

I’m not a pushy alpha male type, I’m shy and do not approach women, but whenever I go to night clubs I can find someone. Online as single male, never.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anyone go to a job interview and to the interviewer, flip the bird?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah yes... This is exactly how women like to be referred to... As "work"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone go to a job interview and to the interviewer, flip the bird? "

Only if they don't want the job Jim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have some comments on your profile which may help you get those varifications OP. I don't want to wind up on the naughty step though so if you want the pointers you'll have to specifically ask for it in here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone go to a job interview and to the interviewer, flip the bird? "

Were the swans interviewed? Did they get flipped?

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks


"OP, you say fab has been like this before corona.. you've been on fab before then?

A few times on and off over the years.. though i just straight up delete my account rather than hide it and sometimes havent used it for a couple years.. though in hindsight i realise i shoulda just hid it and kept my previous varifications

Yeah you should have kept your vErifications "

Pmsl he's not getting it is he flower! Perhaps hes added the wrong spelling to his phones dictionary!

OP will you spell it right before this poor lady has an aneurysm!

vErification, not vAryfication!

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

PS: it's definitely not the lack of those things you cant spell thats causing you difficulties

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

How many clubs or organised socials have you been to?

Can't blame people not meeting if you don't go to the places where they do.

Simple as fucking that kiddo.

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By *eavertrackerMan
over a year ago

Bridgwater

Just be friendly, be relaxed and add pics regularly,.. don't be desperate just show your friendly nature and try and connect, I know it may seem like a catch 22, but eventually you will get noticed, get noticed for your good attributes....alot of men fail because they are crude, vulgar and don't show any consideration,....treat it like a bit of light hearted banter,..shine through the scum of the vulgar men

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

And to liken it even more to job hunting seeing as you used that in the first place.

250 people apply for a job.

249 email their C.V.

1 makes the effort to hand it in personally.

That 1 usually gets the job for the fact they got off their arse and made that extra effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair if it was like jump hunting, your lack of bio may put people off? People read that more often than not and putting effort into that and getting your personality goes a long way i’ve found

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