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By *ecurekink OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ballycarry

Asking does others enjoy the TPE a D/s relationship holds or is it to old in tbis day and age?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

What's TPE ?

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By *ecurekink OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ballycarry

Total Power Exchange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok, I’m going to need time to decipher this, put the kettle on Marge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's TPE ?"

Like face masks, gloves and that

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Total Power Exchange"

According to Google .......

I have a choice of it being the Transpenine Express or Tight Pussy Energy if i'm urban enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would it be "too old in this day and age"?

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"Ok, I’m going to need time to decipher this, put the kettle on Marge."

Does Marge always do as she is told

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"What's TPE ?

Like face masks, gloves and that"

That's FMGandT

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"What's TPE ?

Like face masks, gloves and that"

Ah yes. Total protective equipment

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

This is the sort of relationship I'm looking for. Unfortunately it is not easy to find and made worse by 50 Shades

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"What's TPE ?

Like face masks, gloves and that

That's FMGandT"

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"This is the sort of relationship I'm looking for. Unfortunately it is not easy to find and made worse by 50 Shades "

It's why I have spotlights.....

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By *wistedbambi69Woman
over a year ago

Somerset


"Asking does others enjoy the TPE a D/s relationship holds or is it to old in tbis day and age? "

Personally, I'm not keen on TPE...but that is probably because I have a little too much brat in me

Maybe with the right person I'd explore it more, but I've yet to find someone I'd trust enough for TPE

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By *ecurekink OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ballycarry

Totally agree it takes two consenting beings to live this life style, we are often frowned upon on this site, just reaching out if others are feeling this on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amazing if you have the time and opportunity

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Totally agree it takes two consenting beings to live this life style, we are often frowned upon on this site, just reaching out if others are feeling this on here. "

Why would anyone frown upon it ?

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By *ecurekink OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ballycarry

Some people dont get the connection of one person being on control of the other persons life and expectations

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

TPE is misunderstood and frankly hard to maintain long term, so if you can then good on you.

Having done the whole Master/slave thing before, we are happier now sticking to a combination of D/s or CG/l depending upon who we are meeting.

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By *ecurekink OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ballycarry


"TPE is misunderstood and frankly hard to maintain long term, so if you can then good on you.

Having done the whole Master/slave thing before, we are happier now sticking to a combination of D/s or CG/l depending upon who we are meeting."

It does take a lot of understanding and time and that's what makes it worthwhile once connected and i personally speaking there is a Dom/Domme and sub in each of us....... Just saying

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

Over the last few years more and more people on the forum have identified themselves as being into bdsm. A significant self describing as being in or looking for one of the various kinds of D/S relationships.

Provided there is some form of power exchange it is D/S and does not need to be TPE. Even Gorean relationships are not 24/7 even though they are badged that way.

In my view kink has to work for both parties and the parties do not need to adhere to someone else's view of a D/S relationship. It is not competition to be domlyier or subbier than others. The relationship should be an expression of who the parties are and should be on the whole satisfying.

That does mean that Grand Master Tal UberDomlyDom and Subbiest SubslutSlave are wrong, but what works for them is not the hallmark of D/S.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is not competition to be domlyier or subbier than others. "

Put that on a bumper sticker and sell it

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By *ecurekink OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ballycarry

Well that's an opinion of yours and i think that's why BDSM can be confussing. Unless expressed both parties know their role, and vanilla doesn't cut with eveyone.

As long as each other express there traits and desires it is sooo up lifting to find others that live the role they desire.

There is no lable, no right or wrong just great chemistry that longs to be prusued, just saying

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By *ecurekink OP   Couple
over a year ago

Ballycarry

Soooo during lockdown at the end of March, had time to build a fuck up room for us built around my partner. Anyone else have a secret room that enhances playtime?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Soooo during lockdown at the end of March, had time to build a fuck up room for us built around my partner. Anyone else have a secret room that enhances playtime? "

Yes! I have converted my 2nd bedroom into a dungeon playroom!

Complete with new ceiling anchor points for a sex swing which is arriving next Wednesday! So excited.

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