FabSwingers.com forum: At what age

By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

At age do you stop giving a fuck and just start doing you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first wank was around 1991.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't pinpoint an age but late thirties and most definitely my forties.

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I'm still fucking at my age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me? Now, at 28. X

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"At age do you stop giving a fuck and just start doing you "

Any age that you want to make that decision

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mid 30's

I am pretty much past caring now

That doesn't mean I would compromise my own privacy or that of others for the sake of openness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think it's an age thing per say it's more about treating yourself with the respect you deserve... Self love

https://youtu.be/CZTn5mVBjHA

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"I couldn't pinpoint an age but late thirties and most definitely my forties.

Her x"
yeah I'm in my thirties and I'm definitely reaching that point now

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Don't think it's an age thing per say it's more about treating yourself with the respect you deserve... Self love

https://youtu.be/CZTn5mVBjHA"
most definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me probably 35.

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"For me probably 35. "
oh nice

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

When you strip yourself of ego and replace it with acceptance.

When you have enough belief in your core values to know you're alright.

When you have the balance between fuck giving, caring and accepting on an even keel and guided where its genuinely warranted and enhances your life instead of inhibiting it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to say two years ago but my independent, stubborn self has been dragged in to and caught up in shite that should never of happened since then. Im always learning and always growing so as long as I come out the other side better and stronger then I suppose that's all that matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't pinpoint an age but late thirties and most definitely my forties.

Her x"

^^This^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh the older I get the less of fucks given.

Given up trying to please people in life tbh

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By *onkyLemonsCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

28-ish to early 30’s ... it took me awhile but now I rarely care what others thing, only a few people’s opinions actually matter to me.

We can’t please everyone, so only please the ones who matter.

Mrs

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I was about 40. Life has been much better since.

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"Tbh the older I get the less of fucks given.

Given up trying to please people in life tbh"
yup it's a good feeling when you just stop giving a fuck

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By *isslush OP Woman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"I'd like to say two years ago but my independent, stubborn self has been dragged in to and caught up in shite that should never of happened since then. Im always learning and always growing so as long as I come out the other side better and stronger then I suppose that's all that matters. "
most definitely

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"At age do you stop giving a fuck and just start doing you "

It was 40 for me, as soon as I hit that I changed and I’m a much happier person for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say just this past year I’ve became far more comfortable with who I am

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

40’s for me, but that was because I had a flurry of close relatives die within a short space of time and it made me realise how quickly life passes us by.

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"40’s for me, but that was because I had a flurry of close relatives die within a short space of time and it made me realise how quickly life passes us by."

This is partly my reasoning too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At age do you stop giving a fuck and just start doing you "

I was 44 when I decided I needed to stop living my life for other people, but I still and will always give a fuck about those I love.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

It’s been awhile for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never. I will always give a fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never. I will always give a fuck. "

To my detriment me also...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same for me, definitely feeling a change now im approaching 30.. you learn as you get older that you will be judged no matter what you do. Just be happy, f**k what people think!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I plant my fucks in the comment box below

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"At age do you stop giving a fuck and just start doing you "

It's the events of life that get you to that point rather than the age.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I don’t know but u hope it happens soon

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"I don’t know but u hope it happens soon

I not u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant think of a specific age but fucks given have definitely got less as I've got older.

Not needing validation is a beautiful thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never. I will always give a fuck.

To my detriment me also..."

Why do you see it as a negative?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say situational

I have learnt my lesson recently and now I’m a bit hardened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you realise that life is far better and far more pleasurable when you do what makes you happy & not what you think others want you to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Already there, so I guess before 37.

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By *oobaaMan
over a year ago

South Shields

My problem is I put others 1st....always have always will

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"At age do you stop giving a fuck and just start doing you "

It accelerates with every passing year lol!!

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