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By *ustataste OP   Man
over a year ago

Wood Green

To respond or not to respond ?

This seems to be the question.

A polite "no thankyou" works best done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Huh?

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Nah.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"To respond or not to respond ?

This seems to be the question.

A polite "no thankyou" works best done."

Why?

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Offers of cake work for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Offers of cake work for me "

I had cake for breakfast.

Still got lots left ... fancy a slice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or just delete and or block, everyone us entitled to do it however they want to

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"To respond or not to respond ?

This seems to be the question.

A polite "no thankyou" works best done.

Why?"

So they can try to convince you to change your mind

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"To respond or not to respond ?

This seems to be the question.

A polite "no thankyou" works best done.

Why?

So they can try to convince you to change your mind "

It's been 5 minutes since I asked the question and the OP is online because I've checked.

How rude of him not to answer.

I may make a thread about it.

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By *omin8rMan
over a year ago

In A Playspace

Penny dropped, in crap, and tried picking up without gloves, hand get messy. And lesson learned to be careful and not be a clown.

The delivery man is always good, and even though he can deliver anytime. He is welcome to come back and pick up the returns and have a coffee.

Happy to support and help where I can.

Had a good night's sleep.

That knock on the door is a reality check.

Drinks any time

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"To respond or not to respond ?

This seems to be the question.

A polite "no thankyou" works best done."

Do you contact everyone who sends a flier through your front door, just to tell them you're not interested tonight?

Cal

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"To respond or not to respond ?

This seems to be the question.

A polite "no thankyou" works best done.

Why?

So they can try to convince you to change your mind

It's been 5 minutes since I asked the question and the OP is online because I've checked.

How rude of him not to answer.

I may make a thread about it."

Well there's many threads of men complaining they don't get replies...

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Do you contact everyone who sends a flier through your front door, just to tell them you're not interested tonight?

Cal"

I’m going to start doing this

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

You might rather receive it, but you might not realise the many reasons why it's not done. If you don't realise, hopefully you're open to listening to other people's perspectives.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Still no reply.

Fecking timewaster

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Just the tip ..and only for a minute

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By *essiejamesABCCouple
over a year ago

Salisbury


"To respond or not to respond ?

This seems to be the question.

A polite "no thankyou" works best done.

Why?

So they can try to convince you to change your mind

It's been 5 minutes since I asked the question and the OP is online because I've checked.

How rude of him not to answer.

I may make a thread about it."

very good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't understand why its important to many to get a "no thank you" an unanswered or deleted is the same outcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or just delete and or block, everyone us entitled to do it however they want to"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really don't understand why its important to many to get a "no thank you" an unanswered or deleted is the same outcome. "

Because it helps with the ego

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"I really don't understand why its important to many to get a "no thank you" an unanswered or deleted is the same outcome.

Because it helps with the ego "

...and getting around the filters.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Do you contact everyone who sends a flier through your front door, just to tell them you're not interested tonight?

Cal

----

I’m going to start doing this "

It's only polite

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"I really don't understand why its important to many to get a "no thank you" an unanswered or deleted is the same outcome. "

It's a great filter... Whiney men... No ta!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

So Op you’ve had loads of comments on your thread. Imagine they’re messages in your inbox, fancy replying to every comment ?

If you do, you’ll see how time consuming it is.

If you don’t, then you’re the same as everyone else and you’ll decide who you’re interested in or deserves a reply

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Fuck...... that reminds me. I really should write back to Dominos. I mean ..... they offered me a pizza I don't want so it's only polite to message them to say im not buying this week, month, ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really don't understand why its important to many to get a "no thank you" an unanswered or deleted is the same outcome.

Because it helps with the ego

...and getting around the filters. "

Ohh good point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck...... that reminds me. I really should write back to Dominos. I mean ..... they offered me a pizza I don't want so it's only polite to message them to say im not buying this week, month, ever.

"

Well thats out of order! They took the time to send you that offer, its very rude of you to not accept that pizza and the very least you can do is say a polite thanks but no thanks.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Do you contact everyone who sends a flier through your front door, just to tell them you're not interested tonight?

Cal

I’m going to start doing this "

I've been doing it since 2011. Hasn't helped. They still put the flyers through the door. Rude buggers.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"So Op you’ve had loads of comments on your thread. Imagine they’re messages in your inbox, fancy replying to every comment ?

If you do, you’ll see how time consuming it is.

If you don’t, then you’re the same as everyone else and you’ll decide who you’re interested in or deserves a reply "

have you seen all his replies?

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By *weety321Woman
over a year ago

nottingham

It’s all well and good to reply to messages if you don’t get many.... but can you even begin to understand how long it would take for those that get bombarded with messages?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"So Op you’ve had loads of comments on your thread. Imagine they’re messages in your inbox, fancy replying to every comment ?

If you do, you’ll see how time consuming it is.

If you don’t, then you’re the same as everyone else and you’ll decide who you’re interested in or deserves a reply

have you seen all his replies? "

Exactly he’ll be thinking it would be better to delete and block

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I really don't understand why its important to many to get a "no thank you" an unanswered or deleted is the same outcome.

Because it helps with the ego "

Does it? I never understand this. I don’t think my ego would be too keen on logging in to see 30 messages, all of which said some variation on “no thanks”. Do men really want an inbox full of rejection? Why?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Fuck...... that reminds me. I really should write back to Dominos. I mean ..... they offered me a pizza I don't want so it's only polite to message them to say im not buying this week, month, ever.

Well thats out of order! They took the time to send you that offer, its very rude of you to not accept that pizza and the very least you can do is say a polite thanks but no thanks. "

God, you are right. I feel ashamed. I feel bad. I am going to answer right now and tell them how bad I feel and that I have changed my ways and will respond to every fucking thing I never asked for and really don't want for the rest of my life.

New me. Hoorah !

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"I really don't understand why its important to many to get a "no thank you" an unanswered or deleted is the same outcome.

Because it helps with the ego

Does it? I never understand this. I don’t think my ego would be too keen on logging in to see 30 messages, all of which said some variation on “no thanks”. Do men really want an inbox full of rejection? Why?"

Exactly and some of the replies wouldn’t be so kind as ‘no thanks’ they may get a reply that’s rude about their appearance or lack of manhood etc...mentally it would be a nightmare.

I send a few messages, much prefer a non reply to an inbox full of reasons why they don’t find me attractive

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only


"So Op you’ve had loads of comments on your thread. Imagine they’re messages in your inbox, fancy replying to every comment ?

If you do, you’ll see how time consuming it is.

If you don’t, then you’re the same as everyone else and you’ll decide who you’re interested in or deserves a reply

have you seen all his replies?

Exactly he’ll be thinking it would be better to delete and block "

Not even a polite "ok thanks" or anything to anyone surely it's not that hard?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck...... that reminds me. I really should write back to Dominos. I mean ..... they offered me a pizza I don't want so it's only polite to message them to say im not buying this week, month, ever.

Well thats out of order! They took the time to send you that offer, its very rude of you to not accept that pizza and the very least you can do is say a polite thanks but no thanks. "

I hope you’ll be show the same fairness to Pizza Hut and Papa Johns and San Markos Pizzas. Cant just reply to one and not everyone else. Why do only Dominos deserve a thanks but no thanks message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To respond or not to respond ?

This seems to be the question.

A polite "no thankyou" works best done."

It doesn’t though, cause that’s not the end of it, there’s the follow up questions, no reply is the universal no, Suck it up and move on.

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