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By *assion and More OP   Couple
over a year ago

Here and There, Monaghan

Im constantly amazed that the vast morjority of people on here assume that it is the female that they are talking to when messaging. Even when we rotate our profile pic to show a couple pic or a pic of me (male).

So do you assume you know who you are talking to and why?

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Strangely we have the opposite, most presume it's M talking. We try and sign off with M or F so it is clear who they are talking to.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I assume I'm talking to both (separately or together) unless they specify, which they often do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always address both partners and then ask who I’m speaking too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice tits on you fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think of them as an androgynous entity until I've met them in person. Could be anyone behind the text. Young old man woman biscuit.

Albert x

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By *onkyLemonsCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Im constantly amazed that the vast morjority of people on here assume that it is the female that they are talking to when messaging. Even when we rotate our profile pic to show a couple pic or a pic of me (male).

So do you assume you know who you are talking to and why?"

We don’t have a problem with this so much as we have a little pet peeve when they try to single out one half of us.

We always try and introduce the fact that we’re a couple and both use the profile - when that gets ignored and people continue chatting to (mainly the Mrs - she’s much hotter after all) us as though we’re a single person we tend to end those convos pretty sharpish!

Mr

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I always assume the wife is always at work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't couples say at start who is chatting? Why is responsibility always put on the other person?

I'm contacted by them and they never say who it is, I assume it's the male, if I ask tho I always get told its the female but the content leads me to believe otherwise.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

If I am messaged by a couple j will assume & respond as if I am talking to both unless it's clear who is messaging

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I always assume it’s the woman because women love to talk.

Although HottNotts2 i assume it’s the fella because they’re very matter of fact.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I always ask, I like using peoples names when I talk to them

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By *assion and More OP   Couple
over a year ago

Here and There, Monaghan

I was talking about when people send us a message first, it's nearly always directed to Passion,

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Don't talk to couples often but I assume unless otherwise told that im talking to both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If messaging a couple, I use language as such, as in "you both", sometimes I use "yous" which I dislike, but rather that than assume either or

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By *uddly GoblinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Whenever I speak to couples the messages are always directed at both of them and think it's rude any other way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im constantly amazed that the vast morjority of people on here assume that it is the female that they are talking to when messaging. Even when we rotate our profile pic to show a couple pic or a pic of me (male).

So do you assume you know who you are talking to and why?"

Why don’t couples say who it is, instead of playing this game where we are guessing, seems to be this weird power thing that some couples do, it’s bizarre.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im constantly amazed that the vast morjority of people on here assume that it is the female that they are talking to when messaging. Even when we rotate our profile pic to show a couple pic or a pic of me (male).

So do you assume you know who you are talking to and why?"
we get this all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We generally find it's the men that message us from couples. We never assume anything. Men always seem to assume its Lu they are talking to. Which boils our piss a bit. So we always reply with our fab names.

J

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