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How has 2020 changed you

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

or changed your mind about dating, swinging, having fun... saving for things or spending money on impulse?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It hasn't, but all of that has been on hold.

My friendships have solidified in that time and when things are safe we can consumate them (again).

I've become much surer of my values and more determined. I don't know where all this strength and energy has come from even though I need much more of it to get through this.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

It has made us really appreciate the simple things in life. We always have done to a certain extent, but even more so now.

We are incredibly grateful for what we have and try to enjoy each day.

We are obviously missing our friends, both vanilla and swinging, but we will meet again in time.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"It hasn't, but all of that has been on hold.

My friendships have solidified in that time and when things are safe we can consumate them (again).

I've become much surer of my values and more determined. I don't know where all this strength and energy has come from even though I need much more of it to get through this."
I have heard people say they found an inner strength from somewhere, something they did not think they had.

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By *urious_Female89Woman
over a year ago

great yarmouth

Its brought me to Fab Swingers.. I guess the combination of restrictions and wants has made me want to be even more impulsive, spend money recklessly.. its very hard to find a balance right now especially when there's less to spend money on.. etc! I have learned I often want what I can't have. Its also opened my eyes to what I want and need.. currently good health first and foremost and adventures

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"It has made us really appreciate the simple things in life. We always have done to a certain extent, but even more so now.

We are incredibly grateful for what we have and try to enjoy each day.

We are obviously missing our friends, both vanilla and swinging, but we will meet again in time."
I found I started enjoying a local walk in the park which I never thought about doing before. I agree it has taken me back to some of the simpler things, too.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I’ve become less materialistic. Only replaced things if they really needed replacing & bought no new clothes

J x

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By *erDirtyRockstarMan
over a year ago

buckinghamshire

I've ended up reaching out to old friends and rekindling creative connections with old bandmates. Deffo a positive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s made me realise how much I love my own company and I don’t have any desire to socialise with anyone.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"It hasn't, but all of that has been on hold.

My friendships have solidified in that time and when things are safe we can consumate them (again).

I've become much surer of my values and more determined. I don't know where all this strength and energy has come from even though I need much more of it to get through this."

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I stripped away nearly all of my casual acquaintances and concentrated on the ones who count and am in a much better place for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been broken this year but friends on here new and old have kept me going and for that I love them all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m exactly the same the only thing that will be different is that I will dance even more and go out even more when the government give us back our freedom ...may even start singing in the streets...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Found Im only defined by my work...and the bottle..its taken my dance and so much more...luckily I ve got work

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

I now own a house...

And not bothered missing foreign holidays as much as I thought I would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I now own a house...

And not bothered missing foreign holidays as much as I thought I would.

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Me too,

It's a bit like "well, at least I did that" as I did have big travel plans cancelled.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has done its best to beat me but I'm still hanging on.

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By *poolfunswingcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Just made us find new ways to enjoy our time together. Found that we have taken a lot more photos than normal during lockdown x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Redefined bored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm older.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

To be honest nothing but only one thing is I try not to worry too much and just get on with it.

I just try to appreciate the little things in life and when the sunshine is shining it feels little bit nicer

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By *rmainman10Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Playing Dodge ball with covid

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Wow that is really interesting read: I found myself focusing on those genuine friends whom I had not seen as often over the years but they were still there and reconnecting at a more frequent level was amazing.

I also found my aI appreciate the intent behind the gesture - but for me that would be a step towards the dating environment. Not that there is anything wrong with that - ambitions to travel were not as important as I thought.

And I became more... creative; not having some ingredients when cooking or baking was actually a good teacher. But also I discovered the local park. and the golf course was a greatfor a nordic walk.

I d say in a nutshell it was not as bad as I had imagined. But I do understand that some people really struggled with the isolation and my heart goes out to them. I hope everybody has found new ays of managing if we go into more total lockdowns.

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