FabSwingers.com forum: Age

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Another forum member made a comment a few days ago and its had me thinking ever since really..

the comment was along the lines of 'id fuck someone in a club because i found them attractive, id never ask their age, so why do i have to display my age on here'

I have set mine (i think) to roughly 30-45 but i could be excluding some incredible people.

If i were to be headless id imagine people would look at my body and see me as a 50/60 yr old woman.. on the other side i have seen some ladies and gents with phenomenal physiques that would rival people in their 20's.

So my question is.. If you were just being 'judged' on your body,, would you think people would age you younger or older??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possible as reasonable good shape for my age...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a attractive 70 year old women on here.

And why not, she likes to meet people for sex, full of life so enjoy yourself.

I know for most hitting 50 on here gets you blocked or dismissed but I look at the person and how we get on first.

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By *eavertrackerMan
over a year ago

Bridgwater

Probably younger....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definatley younger, I got asked to remove my mask in Aldi yesterday too as I bought a bottle of wine. She laughed when she saw my wrinkly face.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Definatley younger, I got asked to remove my mask in Aldi yesterday too as I bought a bottle of wine. She laughed when she saw my wrinkly face."

id like to inspect your body please just to verify these facts lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There is a attractive 70 year old women on here.

And why not, she likes to meet people for sex, full of life so enjoy yourself.

I know for most hitting 50 on here gets you blocked or dismissed but I look at the person and how we get on first."

im guilty, my filters were at 45 and since ive been using forums ive looked at some avatars, bit my lip as they are hot and seen they are like 50's..

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I'm really not sure, I guess around my actual age...not too bad, but gravity is certainly starting to take hold

I do find people of very varied ages attractive physically, but I have my filters set to around my age because I feel like they are the people that I would have the most in common with...I'm not looking for "just sex", so that's an important factor for me

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

On my body from a distance and certain angles.... about 12!

Once ya see there is a bit of boob there, loads of cellulite and a tummy flap from my c-section then probably about the same as my real age.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We'd like to think younger. Answers on a postcard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older than my face. I don’t think I look particularly young but I am often asked for ID so some must... if they could see my body they wouldn’t ask

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

I'm told my body doesn't match my age and I feel it's in pretty good shape.

I indicate an age range, to give an idea of comparable sorts but I don't filter by age because there are always exceptions to the rule.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I didn't have my tattoo's and peircings I'd say I'd look like a pigeon chested teenager

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d definitely be older lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say because of my body hair people would think I'm in my late 40s but honest I'm only 36

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are constantly surprised when informed of my (male half's) age. I'm sure it's actually put a few off when they find out but it's really just a number at the end of the day.

There's a large age gap in our relationship but I'm not with my girlfriend just for that. In fact she's actually far more mature and well balanced than many women I've met of my own age.

A connection is a connection and attraction is not something you can choose. Stay safe, consensual and legal and enjoy the times when you meet people you click with. If someone writes you off because of a number they're probably not worth bothering with anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is a attractive 70 year old women on here.

And why not, she likes to meet people for sex, full of life so enjoy yourself.

I know for most hitting 50 on here gets you blocked or dismissed but I look at the person and how we get on first.

im guilty, my filters were at 45 and since ive been using forums ive looked at some avatars, bit my lip as they are hot and seen they are like 50's.. "

Bit silly really isn't it. Plenty of nice older people with loads of experience and they may just show you something which can only be enjoyed.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I think I look my age, I have wrinkles and white hair which I think I'm kinda rocking tbh.

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By *r GLTMan
over a year ago

Richmond Upon Thames

Younger for myself as i do get complimented quite a bit.

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By *otmale5Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Don’t check my profile yet.. give me an age you think my body Looks

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Younger i think. I have good genes.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Younger i think. I have good genes.x"
you have the body of a 20 year old x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heaven only knows , im 53 , my fab age is a few months different than my real age

. For discretion.

We all have choices about who we want to meet , based on sex, age or other personal feelings

So as i cant read minds i shall leave it to others to think how old i look .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me probably older hubby around his age or slightly older xx

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Been told younger but maybe they mean my face not sure x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Health-wise, older.

Keeping out of the sun keeps me young, though.

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By *adHatter_RestrainedAliceCouple
over a year ago

In The Hills

Mine is is need of some TLC but not bad for its age

Alice x

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By *atBottomGirlsWoman
over a year ago

St Austell-ish

I have a preferred age range of "younger" solely because I've found that "older" men tend to have more of a Been There, Done That outlook on life.

When I set filters, I found I got a lot of messages from guys lying about their age anyway to just fit in, so I took off filters and go by how they talk.

Yes, filters cut out a lot of people, but if you have a preference, so it goes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I look my age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Younger I think? But I have trouble reconciling my actual age and how I feel lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Way younger, probably barely a teenager

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By *orthampton jamesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I've been told I look younger than my age but think they were just being nice, I think i look my age but actually dont feel it3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My scales say I have the body of a 34 year old

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

People routinely underestimate my age by a decade or more.

As for maximum limits: Helen Mirren is 75. Is anyone seriously going to turn down *Helen Mirren* because of some numbers?

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Definitely younger. I'm in better shape physically than most peers my age.

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By *ongueTwistererMan
over a year ago

telford/ shrewsbury/ bridgnorth/ wolverhampton

Haha im sure id be mistaken for older lol.

I had a bloke at work adding 10 years to my age the other day and he was older than me lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I look like a woman in her 40's.

I keep myself fit but I have lumps and bumps, stretch marks and scars from surgery.

I sometimes feel older when tired or aching and wonder why I put myself through such activities but then I remember that I am living a full and happy life.

Her x

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By *issMeSlowlyMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I get told I look a lot younger than I am - ID'd for alcohol, by people at work, been told once on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older

waaaaay older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is but a number, but it's important that the number is above legal age...

That aside, rather than age I prefer to go with people purely on a connection basis. But do I look my age? I don't actually know... probably... but I've been losing weight and that brings with it a few sags and bags... not that I was ever in any way hot. I appeal more to those who require something more than a visual dopamine hit. fortunately for me there a re a few ladies like that here, and one in particular is making me smile a lot right now!

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

I’d say older, I’m not in the best shape I’ve been.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

We both always get told we look younger facially but we are sure with lockdown our bodies might be starting to give the game away.

On another thread someone wanted to ban celery, Noooo that might become my staple diet for a while at this rate! ??

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

I had this age debate with someone the other day when I said something about them being a youngster as they were coming up 39 she thought she was older than me or about the same age rather than being 10 years older

Must be my younger complexion

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"People routinely underestimate my age by a decade or more.

As for maximum limits: Helen Mirren is 75. Is anyone seriously going to turn down *Helen Mirren* because of some numbers? "

I had the pleasure of being an extra in a film with Helen last year, believe me she is remarkably attractive in the flesh.

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By *kyblue1878Couple
over a year ago

Southport

We would like to think a bit younger, others can be the judge of that. We both train hard for the sport we compete in, which helps with both of our physiques. I (Mr) would definitely knock 10 years off Mrs Skyblue.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

I'm just a crusty old git

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Younger I think! Certainly act it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are usually surprised by my age but I thinks is more to do with the fact I don't act my age and act about 20 years younger

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't know what age people would think I am based on my body. The fact of the matter is this is what I look like at nearly 64, so that's the age my body looks ifyswim

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I think my body reflects a 45 + woman who has gained over 8 stone, lost 6 stone and gained it again, had two large babies and who is fond of her food and backs away from hard core exercise.

I have saggy boobs and bingo wings I could fly away with.

It is what it is. I could have surgery but the truth is I don’t want to.

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By *outhEastPaulMan
over a year ago

Thames Ditton surrey

My Boditrax readings have my metabolic age 10 years younger than I am - So

Fitness / gym routine obviously has some benefits -

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I think my body looks my age. Facially though I'm often thought to be younger than I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't know what age people would think I am based on my body. The fact of the matter is this is what I look like at nearly 64, so that's the age my body looks ifyswim"

You look stunning for your age. I'd easily guess 10 years younger. Your modesty is unwarranted

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

My body looks a lot older than my age but my face looks a lot younger. All of S looks a lot younger

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I don't know what age people would think I am based on my body. The fact of the matter is this is what I look like at nearly 64, so that's the age my body looks ifyswim

You look stunning for your age. I'd easily guess 10 years younger. Your modesty is unwarranted

thanks.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Younger.

I am in much better shape now that I ever was in my 20s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Body older. Face younger- I’m managing to escape wrinkles at the moment. I kind of think if I was slim would my face look older- I’m guessing my fat stretches out my wrinkles...

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

People often are shocked I'm not 10 years younger when they see my face although having a relatively full head of hair probably influences that.

Bodywise, not so much.

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By *reywolf_18Man
over a year ago

ayr

Possibly older. I'm not happy overall with my body, and working on it. Never really been fit in my adult life, and want to change that, not for appearances sake but for self confidence and health reasons. It's still a work in progress though so I think some people would see me as older. Keen for feedback though..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The age I am

I have dark body hair so not too old, but signs of things starting to go south so not too young either

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Since I retired 6 years ago (used to work on building sites) I've put on a few pounds, but still think I could pass as someone a few years younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband is surprised at my age brackets on here, I'm 24 and I'm looking for anyone up to age about 45. Age doesn't bother me to a certain point. I mean, if an attractive 50 odd year old came on to me, I wouldn't say no ??

People that know me are quite surprised my by age though, most think I'm older, but I still get IDed for a bottle of wine at most shops haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

younger I often get told i look younger than my age when people meet me

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over a year ago

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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity

My age, I get told my face looks younger

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

I think I look my age (59). Plenty wrinkles and saggy boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Younger I’m sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm invariably taken for younger, but as a newbie I've realised already that pushing 50 I'm pretty much on the fab scrap heap. Bummer....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get told I don't look my age but what does that even mean? What is someone my age meant to look like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get told I don't look my age but what does that even mean? What is someone my age meant to look like? "

its a real compliment

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By *rouble1998Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I think I look my age, my preferred age range is set at 18-35 but I would make exceptions for people older than that if I liked then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I look my age, my preferred age range is set at 18-35 but I would make exceptions for people older than that if I liked then "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been told younger..

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I’ve been asked am I really my age and I said yes but also I think it’s because I use moisturiser

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By *oroRick1027Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Hopefully younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am often thought to be approx 5 to 10 years than I actually am...however I consider myself to be 25 with 25yrs experience

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Ermmmmm I probably would think on body alone they would think I'm older than I am.

Mr on the other hand looks very fit so they would probably think he was younger.

Mrs

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

I do however get told I look much younger than my age, which makes me feel good

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By * New YorkieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I would say younger for body wise, due to my salt and pepper hair, my head would now say about my age...

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By *r Discreet 75Man
over a year ago

LIVERPOOL

I've always had someone who is around my own age never had younger or older.... Doesn't mean I wouldn't like to try I'm open tbh

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

My body would make everyone think I was in my 70s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don’t know actually!

I’m 27, not sure how “old” or “young” my body looks! I think people have different perceptions of bodies such as slim meaning younger and bigger meaning older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is a attractive 70 year old women on here.

And why not, she likes to meet people for sex, full of life so enjoy yourself.

I know for most hitting 50 on here gets you blocked or dismissed but I look at the person and how we get on first.

im guilty, my filters were at 45 and since ive been using forums ive looked at some avatars, bit my lip as they are hot and seen they are like 50's..

Bit silly really isn't it. Plenty of nice older people with loads of experience and they may just show you something which can only be enjoyed."

It’s not silly to have a preference.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I have no idea tbh.

Probably the same?

I'm crap with ages, as it really don't mean much to me. I know plenty of young people that act or look older and I know plenty of older people that act or look younger.

I hardly ever even celebrate my birthday. I sometimes even forget my age and have to get my kids to remind me

Maybe 'that' is a sign of getting old

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By *urious_Female89Woman
over a year ago

great yarmouth

Body wise I have no idea! Facially always been told I look younger than I am, but I get ID'ed way way less now... I miss it!

I prefer older guys and women though, my age bracket is quite open as you never know who might attract you

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I guess in a club the subdued lighting takes off a few years

Sexy doesn’t really come down to age, dress size or height. If you’ve got it, that’s it

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By *ountain of youthMan
over a year ago

lincoln

Definitely younger, I still have to show ID for lottery tickets, despite having tattoos on show and holding my car keys. Everyone tells me it's a good thing but I'm failing to see it as I'm 29!

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By *honolanMan
over a year ago

Leyton

My body probably looks younger than my face. I think!

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By *orace99Man
over a year ago

York

Been told younger but usually not by many years.

Age has never been a deciding factor for me.... Although most, out of four

, have been younger.

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By *weety321Woman
over a year ago

nottingham

I always get messages saying I look younger then my actual age. I’m not so sure myself

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

I think we both look our age

But we could look worse

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I'd be guessed under my age based on my body

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

People usually think I'm older than i am... Don't know if that's a compliment or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone gets told they look younger. Doesn't mean they do. But it amuses me the forum folk that declare it all the time!!

I look my age because that's the age I am. That's how old my body looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my head im 34, but my body says 64( and the rest!)

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Always get told my body looks younger but I’m sure that opinion changes when they see my mug shot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flattering pics makes people look younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm definitely feeling my age after the operations I've had recently.

Years ago I'd of shrugged it off but it's not so easy now.

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By *orace99Man
over a year ago

York

"Always get told my body looks younger but I’m sure that opinion changes when they see my mug shot"

Your body looks amazing..... I would probably guess mid thirties from your pictures

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By *orace99Man
over a year ago

York

"Everyone gets told they look younger. Doesn't mean they do. But it amuses me the forum folk that declare it all the time!!

I look my age because that's the age I am. That's how old my body looks.

I would probably knock a good seven years off your age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone gets told they look younger. Doesn't mean they do. But it amuses me the forum folk that declare it all the time!!

I look my age because that's the age I am. That's how old my body looks.

I would probably knock a good seven years off your age

My point entirely!!! I already did. Twice!!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Definitely younger, I still have to show ID for lottery tickets, despite having tattoos on show and holding my car keys. Everyone tells me it's a good thing but I'm failing to see it as I'm 29!

Haha I know the feeling. I'm often mistaken for a university student or someone fresh out of university which can be annoying in the workplace. I just keep telling myself I'll be glad of it in 20 years

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

The moment I stopped worrying about age the better I started to look.

Note I said “better” not “younger”. But I don’t worry anymore.

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By *orace99Man
over a year ago

York

"Everyone gets told they look younger. Doesn't mean they do. But it amuses me the forum folk that declare it all the time!!

I look my age because that's the age I am. That's how old my body looks.

I would probably knock a good seven years off your age

My point entirely!!! I already did. Twice!!

You knocked 14 years off your age?

You have definitely found the _ountain of youth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone gets told they look younger. Doesn't mean they do. But it amuses me the forum folk that declare it all the time!!

I look my age because that's the age I am. That's how old my body looks.

I agree haha.

You hardly ever see anyone come out and say “Well I’ve been told I look older and I do”

Everyone likes to flatter themselves and believe the compliments they want to believe. Most people don’t look younger than they are, they tend to look their age or older.

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By *urious_Female89Woman
over a year ago

great yarmouth

"Everyone gets told they look younger. Doesn't mean they do. But it amuses me the forum folk that declare it all the time!!

I look my age because that's the age I am. That's how old my body looks.

I agree haha.

You hardly ever see anyone come out and say “Well I’ve been told I look older and I do”

Everyone likes to flatter themselves and believe the compliments they want to believe. Most people don’t look younger than they are, they tend to look their age or older. "

Unfornutately I think you're both right! If I'm asked how old I think someone is I guess in my mind what I think then take some years off to be polite, flattering! I'm sure others do this too?

Best to never ask!

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over a year ago

"Another forum member made a comment a few days ago and its had me thinking ever since really..

the comment was along the lines of 'id fuck someone in a club because i found them attractive, id never ask their age, so why do i have to display my age on here'

I have set mine (i think) to roughly 30-45 but i could be excluding some incredible people.

So my question is.. If you were just being 'judged' on your body,, would you think people would age you younger or older??

Usually the response is younger

I'm done with much younger men. Nothing below 42 as I always regret it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they may just wonder why I look like a melted welly....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know if its good genes,or bad liars but most people assume im in my late 30's or early 40's...its frustrating when I see a couple or a single that I would like to chat with but they only go as high as 45..oh well...cant even have a chat because of the age difference of 2 years...

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Becky looks 10 years younger than she actually is.

I get my age mistaken regularly but have been bald since 21 so haven’t changed much.

Try to look after ourselves as much as possible.

Turning 50 does seem to have had an effect on message we receive.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Everyone gets told they look younger. Doesn't mean they do. But it amuses me the forum folk that declare it all the time!!

I look my age because that's the age I am. That's how old my body looks.

I agree haha.

You hardly ever see anyone come out and say “Well I’ve been told I look older and I do”

Everyone likes to flatter themselves and believe the compliments they want to believe. Most people don’t look younger than they are, they tend to look their age or older. "

It's hardly flattering myself that I looked like an actual child well into my 20s

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over a year ago

"Another forum member made a comment a few days ago and its had me thinking ever since really..

the comment was along the lines of 'id fuck someone in a club because i found them attractive, id never ask their age, so why do i have to display my age on here'

I have set mine (i think) to roughly 30-45 but i could be excluding some incredible people.

So my question is.. If you were just being 'judged' on your body,, would you think people would age you younger or older??

Anyone who's met me says at least 5-7 yes younger. Had to produce my driving licence for one person as proof.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Younger about 20-30 years younger. A resent test I had came up with a biological body age of nearly 30 years younger. I have great genes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Younger about 20-30 years younger. A resent test I had came up with a biological body age of nearly 30 years younger. I have great genes

"
ypu do indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure to be honest.

In my twenties I was way slimmer than what I am now so to me my body does reflect my age.

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By *reywolf_18Man
over a year ago

ayr

"Not sure to be honest.

In my twenties I was way slimmer than what I am now so to me my body does reflect my age. "

Slimmer does not always equal younger. You look like you have an incredible body, and I would have placed you younger

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Comparing me to other men my age, I've stayed fairly slim since my teens so I'd probably be rated slightly younger (or I'd like to think so!)

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

I’ve been told that I have a younger body by some people I met but I don’t understand what they mean with that really. Guess having a smooth body makes them feel like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My face looks younger but my body looks older than 30’s. Years of weight gain and loss along with changing levels of exercise due to long term injuries have taken their toll.

I’ve opened my age ranges (filters) after finding myself attracted to those outside of them recently. I’ve definitely become more open and find i’m more attracted to people than just the surface.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have mine set to what I imagine I'd be attracted to but I don't filter by age because you never know

I'm constantly being told I look younger than my age too

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over a year ago

"Everyone gets told they look younger. Doesn't mean they do. But it amuses me the forum folk that declare it all the time!!

I look my age because that's the age I am. That's how old my body looks.

I agree haha.

You hardly ever see anyone come out and say “Well I’ve been told I look older and I do”

Everyone likes to flatter themselves and believe the compliments they want to believe. Most people don’t look younger than they are, they tend to look their age or older.

It's hardly flattering myself that I looked like an actual child well into my 20s

I don’t remember where in my post I said you specifically lol!

But if the cap fits.

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over a year ago

"Everyone gets told they look younger. Doesn't mean they do. But it amuses me the forum folk that declare it all the time!!

I look my age because that's the age I am. That's how old my body looks.

I agree haha.

You hardly ever see anyone come out and say “Well I’ve been told I look older and I do”

Everyone likes to flatter themselves and believe the compliments they want to believe. Most people don’t look younger than they are, they tend to look their age or older.

Unfornutately I think you're both right! If I'm asked how old I think someone is I guess in my mind what I think then take some years off to be polite, flattering! I'm sure others do this too?

Best to never ask! "

Haha, exactly!

I’m yet to come across anyone who admits someone looks older than they are to their face!

The thing is perception of age is different for everyone, someone 25 might be someone’s 33, so it’s never going to be accurate.

If someone says “How old do I look” like you I deliberately shave a few years off to save the offended face!

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By *azza80Woman
over a year ago

Your wildest Dreams

I always get told I look younger than 40, looks and body wise x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think just on body I'd get aged in the right ball park.

Going by face people used to age me 5-8 years younger in my 20s/30s. The 'best' one was being asked to provide proof of age buying cigarettes when it was legal to buy them at 16 - I was 25 at the time (although I was freshly clean shaven that day).

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I think just on body I'd get aged in the right ball park.

I was asked for ID for a lottery ticket when I was 28

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over a year ago

"I think just on body I'd get aged in the right ball park.

I was asked for ID for a lottery ticket when I was 28

Weirdly I've only ever been asked for ID when buying alcohol once and that was a few days after turning 18

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Put a cassette tape and pen in front of them and see if they know how both go together

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Put a cassette tape and pen in front of them and see if they know how both go together

OK, I'm old.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Put a cassette tape and pen in front of them and see if they know how both go together

I’m 27 and know this, I used to do it in a panic when I messed up my older sisters tapes!

Am I officially “old” now?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Put a cassette tape and pen in front of them and see if they know how both go together

I’m 27 and know this, I used to do it in a panic when I messed up my older sisters tapes!

Am I officially “old” now?

Yes, sorry there's no hope for you now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women thought I was in my 30’s

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over a year ago

"Put a cassette tape and pen in front of them and see if they know how both go together

I’m 27 and know this, I used to do it in a panic when I messed up my older sisters tapes!

Am I officially “old” now?

Yes, sorry there's no hope for you now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always said age is just a number I understand people have got their own issues with people's ages because they may have a son around that age or they may have a daughter around the age but some people just passed that bye wife too short if you like someone go for it don't waste it

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

Intresting question OP, we have seen someone on fab or out of fab who are not in our age range. Plus when we meet people like socials nights, it gives us a different perception of the individual. Hence we're more likely to be attracted to them.

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

I have been told many times, i look younger and some people envy that i haven't got one grey hair. I physically feel fit, the gym and training has been good to me. Im lucky to be blessed by having good genes and i count my blessings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regardless to whether I look older or younger, it’s so true that people could miss out and that one connection we (some of us) are looking for just cos we/ they are judged by a number. It isn’t the best way forward.

Just my opinion.

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over a year ago

"Regardless to whether I look older or younger, it’s so true that people could miss out and that one connection we (some of us) are looking for just cos we/ they are judged by a number. It isn’t the best way forward.

Just my opinion. "

But isn’t that someone’s right?

I don’t want to meet a 79 year old man, surely it’s my right to deny all 79 year olds of gaining a connection with me?

Everyone has preferences whether it be age, race, height, dress size or humour. Everyone should be entitled to them.

I don’t think I’ve ever come across someone who gives every single person who gives them attention a chance, that would be sort of desperate to just not have any standard.

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By *orace99Man
over a year ago

York

Just my opinion.

But isn’t that someone’s right?

I don’t want to meet a 79 year old man, surely it’s my right to deny all 79 year olds of gaining a connection with me?

Everyone has preferences whether it be age, race, height, dress size or humour. Everyone should be entitled to them.

I don’t think I’ve ever come across someone who gives every single person who gives them attention a chance, that would be sort of desperate to just not have any standard. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just my opinion.

But isn’t that someone’s right?

Yes you are very correct. I was kinda aiming it at where you may miss a connection based on being a year or two out. Not when the difference is generations.

I don’t want to meet a 79 year old man, surely it’s my right to deny all 79 year olds of gaining a connection with me?

Everyone has preferences whether it be age, race, height, dress size or humour. Everyone should be entitled to them.

I don’t think I’ve ever come across someone who gives every single person who gives them attention a chance, that would be sort of desperate to just not have any standard. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just my opinion.

But isn’t that someone’s right?

Yes you are very correct. I was kinda aiming it at where you may miss a connection based on being a year or two out. Not when the difference is generations.

I don’t want to meet a 79 year old man, surely it’s my right to deny all 79 year olds of gaining a connection with me?

Everyone has preferences whether it be age, race, height, dress size or humour. Everyone should be entitled to them.

I don’t think I’ve ever come across someone who gives every single person who gives them attention a chance, that would be sort of desperate to just not have any standard. "

I have an age preference and there will be those who are a year or two out, but that’s life.

Not everyone you want will want you, pointless to dwell on it or focus your attention on those who aren’t interested in you. We walk past people everyday who we may have a connection with, but again, that’s life, you’ll never know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I agree with you there

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Put a cassette tape and pen in front of them and see if they know how both go together

OK, I'm old....."

Me too

I struggle with ages, especially guys. Just looking at my groups of mates, age range from 30-52, some of the younger ones look older than the older ones in the group and vice versa.

I messed up a couple of years ago, celebrating one of their big birthdays.... I bought a 40th birthday card and walked into a room decorated with 30 everywhere, they saw the funny side and put it down to their lack of hair on the bonnet

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By *weety321Woman
over a year ago

nottingham

Age is only a number on all counts. I’ve met people older who act immature and younger people with an old head on their shoulders. That’s just life! For me it’s more about the person not age.... saying that I wouldn’t meet anyone younger than my eldest (22) as it just wouldn’t feel right, that’s just my personal preference though!

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"Put a cassette tape and pen in front of them and see if they know how both go together

OK, I'm old.....

Me too

I struggle with ages, especially guys. Just looking at my groups of mates, age range from 30-52, some of the younger ones look older than the older ones in the group and vice versa.

I’ve pretty much lacked hair since I was 25.

With the age thing I think “Why don’t you grow up” or “Why don’t you act your age” are quite offensive comments really, we are all different, like different things & for some maybe like me what I liked to do when I was 20 is still what I like to do at 58.

To me looking younger is one thing, living younger is another, most of our social friends are younger than H & my age is only apparent in conversation if I mention something from before they were born.

We do shy away from others of my age unless they have a common interest (motorcycles usually) as they usually have a differing outlook, have had the kids grow up, leave home & have kids themselves while over here our youngest is 8! I don’t suppose there are that many households of someone approaching 60 who’s house reverberates to K-pop, Manga movies or the music of Professor Elemental on a daily basis ??

But it is what it is, on here you are your age & that’s the end of it, Line drawn, do not cross it. probably why so many (male & female) lie about it.

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over a year ago

"Age is only a number on all counts. I’ve met people older who act immature and younger people with an old head on their shoulders. That’s just life! For me it’s more about the person not age.... saying that I wouldn’t meet anyone younger than my eldest (22) as it just wouldn’t feel right, that’s just my personal preference though!"

reasonable

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I've started a new job few weeks back and a woman I assumed was about my age,got talking to her this morn and turns out she went to school with my eldest 2 !

could have put my foot in it x

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By *iddle ManMan
over a year ago

Walsall

Not to sound corny but age really is just a number, I agree some on here really to defie their years. They look better than a lot of people in their 20s

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I'd say younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd say younger

I'd agree

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"Not to sound corny but age really is just a number, I agree some on here really to defie their years. They look better than a lot of people in their 20s"

It is kinda but would u meet some one younger than or same age as your grandchildren?

I have age is just a number quoted daily but is it ?? X

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Probably about that same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my age tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is just a number

Many don’t want to meet or chat to guys my age

Am fit and in better shape than a lot of younger guys

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