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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You want to be treated as a person and not just a set of genitals...

True or false? State your reasoning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True

Men see us as a hole to fuck.

Just unset your filters to see.

(Yes not all men before you all jump on me)

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

I am a walking genital

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

False .

I've met some wonderful people on here and have made many friends .

The good outweigh the bad imo

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By *P994Man
over a year ago

Travelling

Most people’s representations of themselves on here are pictures of their genitals so in a lot of cases you’re just the set of what you’ve got on show to an extent

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

False. I have many nights at friends houses that don’t involve one tiny piece of genital at all. Not even the tip.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You want to be treated as a person and not just a set of genitals...

True or false? State your reasoning "

Using Fab isn't the issue, it is how you conduct yourself, your persona and how you present your profile

I believe you get back what you get out.

I have one filter on and rarely get those objectifying messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"True

Men see us as a hole to fuck.

Just unset your filters to see.

(Yes not all men before you all jump on me)"

Yeah not all men are like that. Some of us are kinky fuckers that like to do all sorts . Just fucking holes sounds a bit boring to me.

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

And some of us (well me) are here for a cheeky chat, and if anything else happens then great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither true or false because people use fab for different reasons.

Some purely as a sex site, some as a dating site and even some just for the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

false nobody wants my genitals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of the thousands of messages I receive a day it’s only men who are preoccupied with my penis, most women wanna talk bollocks.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

False.

Plenty people on here who treat people as people.

Those who don't, we ignore

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"False .

I've met some wonderful people on here and have made many friends .

The good outweigh the bad imo "

Agreed!

You just need to not give the fucktards any head space

Lu

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"False .

I've met some wonderful people on here and have made many friends .

The good outweigh the bad imo

Agreed!

You just need to not give the fucktards any head space

Lu "
Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This place is a sure way to lose your self esteem. No-one even bothers reading a message. If they do they never reply (which is fine to a point as I know there are a lot of message for you girls). I have had girls chat for days, have great sexual bants, agree to meet up and then block me without warning 10 minutes later. Are there any women out there that put value in standard and polite manners and etiquette?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By the way. I appreciate there are guys and couples that are the same.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

Tbf I am a bit of a dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mainly true.

It definately depends on why you're using it and how strong your self coping mechanisms.

Personally I'm here to find genitalia, can cope well with rejection and abuse and have unintentionally made some friends along the way. Bonus

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

85% true. There are some men & women who aren't thinking with their gentials constantly & are able to build a bit of a connection

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"True

Men see us as a hole to fuck.

Just unset your filters to see.

(Yes not all men before you all jump on me)

Yeah not all men are like that. Some of us are kinky fuckers that like to do all sorts . Just fucking holes sounds a bit boring to me."

Not all women, but there are a lot who filter by the size of the man's equipment.

I know it's a preference, but it's still objectification.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"False. I have many nights at friends houses that don’t involve one tiny piece of genital at all. Not even the tip. "
Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FALSE!

I've met some great people on fab, none of whom have treated me as a set of genitals. I've really only had one bad experience and even then genitals never came into it.

I think how you present and conduct yourself makes a huge difference to how your fab journey pans out. Treat people with respect and in general it will come back to you. If your doing everything properly, correctly and decently then those for whom such things matter will find you.

I would imagine that how you set out your stall (profile) and display your wares (photos) and market yourself (words on profile) has a big baring on how you are considered and the type of contact you receive.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

False. It is quite easy to detect the males who just want a quick fuck. I tend to find someone who wants a bit more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are there any women out there that put value in standard and polite manners and etiquette? "

There are, and in time you will find them or, they may even find you. just be yourself rather than a persona.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FAP?

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