FabSwingers.com forum: Friend requests

By *bw44DD OP Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Do you accept friend requests from people that have never even messaged you before?

I don’t know why but it really irritates me.

At least message me first.

Is it just me? Do I need to change my feelings about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope!

Winds me up too! Grrrr!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope gets on my last nerve also.

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By *ountry Boy FreshMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Well I don't but its not something to get irritated over either delete,delete and block, look and delete or look delete and block

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

No. I only have the people I have met or are definitely going to meet as friends and the occasional birthday perusal treat

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Nope, I just leave them sat there. That said there's a certain few who repeatedly manage to send them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes, it honestly isn't that big a deal to me

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

I don’t get irritated. Does not bother me at all.

I do sometimes accept them, look at their friends only pictures then delete them again straight after because I’m nosey

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By *BC StitchMan
over a year ago

London

"Do you accept friend requests from people that have never even messaged you before?

I don’t know why but it really irritates me.

At least message me first.

Is it just me? Do I need to change my feelings about it? "

No one likes it men like myself get it from fake profiles and abnormal people

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By *heGentleman2024Man
over a year ago

North West

I don’t think it’s just you that gets frustrated OP..

I find it seriously annoying..no message no nothing but a request.. especially when they aren’t photo verified or nothing. Im very weary of them.. pic hunters or Tries stealing yours xx

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

It’s an annoying behaviour so I wait until they go offline , accept and view their private pics and unfriend them straight away.

None of them come back for more

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By *bt96Man
over a year ago

GAINSBOROUGH

Never get them so couldn't tell you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its been a while but generally no, I don't send them without at least few messages 1st, x

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

Not just you op all of us men are sick of it as well the amount of woman on here that just randomly friends request is shocking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you accept friend requests from people that have never even messaged you before?

I don’t know why but it really irritates me.

At least message me first.

Is it just me? Do I need to change my feelings about it? "

It irritates me too, or when you reply to a message and then they send a friends request especially when they've got an empty profile.

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By *BC StitchMan
over a year ago

London

"I don’t get irritated. Does not bother me at all.

I do sometimes accept them, look at their friends only pictures then delete them again straight after because I’m nosey

Lol

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"It’s an annoying behaviour so I wait until they go offline , accept and view their private pics and unfriend them straight away.

None of them come back for more

Guilty of having done that with requests from women and couples before

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By *bw44DD OP Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I’m glad I’m not the only one to find it irritating. Occasionally I’ll get a message after I’ve just left the request there saying something like “accept my friend request” erm no thanks

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I ignore them.

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

"It’s an annoying behaviour so I wait until they go offline , accept and view their private pics and unfriend them straight away.

None of them come back for more

Guilty of having done that with requests from women and couples before

Great minds ones more alike

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By *bt96Man
over a year ago

GAINSBOROUGH

Might send you all some frieind invites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Annoys me. I won't accept the request till they go offline, look at private pics, fab one so they know I've been in, then delete the friendship. Petty I know, but they should respect my wishes

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland

"It’s an annoying behaviour so I wait until they go offline , accept and view their private pics and unfriend them straight away.

None of them come back for more

What a brilliant idea! Need to try that

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Nope dont get annoyed just leave them there unless it's someone I want to friend x

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By *andy2Man
over a year ago

Ealing

No but yes if it’s a lady or a couple

I’m ever hopeful but so far no results

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you accept friend requests from people that have never even messaged you before?

I don’t know why but it really irritates me.

At least message me first.

Is it just me? Do I need to change my feelings about it? "

No don’t change just block them.

We put in our profile no friend requests until we have met but they still come flooding in like it’s just a sexy Facebook.!!!!

No readie goodbyeie!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a strict rule of not accepting any friend requests without having exchanged at least a dozen messages, this rule goes out the window if it’s a fit local woman, or indeed a fit woman, or a woman, or I suspect the person could be a woman, apart from these exceptions, then I stick to to this rule and I can’t be swayed otherwise.

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By *ongueTwistererMan
over a year ago

telford/ shrewsbury/ bridgnorth/ wolverhampton

"It’s an annoying behaviour so I wait until they go offline , accept and view their private pics and unfriend them straight away.

None of them come back for more

How sneaky can you get haha i love it

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We had one this week from a hidden profile!

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By *bt96Man
over a year ago

GAINSBOROUGH

"Do you accept friend requests from people that have never even messaged you before?

I don’t know why but it really irritates me.

At least message me first.

Is it just me? Do I need to change my feelings about it?

No don’t change just block them.

We put in our profile no friend requests until we have met but they still come flooding in like it’s just a sexy Facebook.!!!!

No readie goodbyeie!!!!

Have you seen your bio though nobody is going to read all that.. imagine reading 10pages of shit for every profile it would take all night to check 3 people out

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

"I have a strict rule of not accepting any friend requests without having exchanged at least a dozen messages, this rule goes out the window if it’s a fit local woman, or indeed a fit woman, or a woman, or I suspect the person could be a woman, apart from these exceptions, then I stick to to this rule and I can’t be swayed otherwise."

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By *inks_apeyCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Always file them under /dev/nul

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By *reativecouplederbyCouple
over a year ago

Derby

It's just rude, but then again there's obviously a LOT of profiles here that are just using it for a quick wank and not actually being part of a scene

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Instant block! Read the profile...or dont

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.

"Do you accept friend requests from people that have never even messaged you before?

I don’t know why but it really irritates me.

At least message me first.

Is it just me? Do I need to change my feelings about it? "

Nope we wait till they’re offline, accept, look at their friends only pics, then unfriend.

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.

"It's just rude, but then again there's obviously a LOT of profiles here that are just using it for a quick wank and not actually being part of a scene"

Yes! This exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *inateaseWoman
over a year ago

ANTRIM

"I don’t get irritated. Does not bother me at all.

I do sometimes accept them, look at their friends only pictures then delete them again straight after because I’m nosey

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you should at least hold a conversation through messages and then if I think it's going well I always ask first, just think it's good manners personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, probably why I got no friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to, when I first joined. I don't anymore. I block people that only send a friend request

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By *winger212Woman
over a year ago

Live in spain

No never. I rarely accept them anyway as I've my face pics up so I'd have to have met or really like them

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By *bt96Man
over a year ago

GAINSBOROUGH

I was talking to someone earlier and waited for them to mention it before adding.. you should at least think your going to get along first

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

"I don’t get irritated. Does not bother me at all.

I do sometimes accept them, look at their friends only pictures then delete them again straight after because I’m nosey

Guilty of this too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you accept friend requests from people that have never even messaged you before?

I don’t know why but it really irritates me.

At least message me first.

Is it just me? Do I need to change my feelings about it? "
no I get loads of friend requests from guys that I've never spoken to a few from women also. I just delete them

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Poole, but up in lincs for a bit

Nope

They stay in the pile of requests never to be accepted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I get it often I sometimes accept being nosey

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Do you accept friend requests from people that have never even messaged you before?

I don’t know why but it really irritates me.

At least message me first.

Is it just me? Do I need to change my feelings about it? "

Since I hid a good portion of my pictures I get a lot more friend requests than I used to

But to get on my list I have to know you or at least we’ve had some messages to each other.

I only have a few on here, so places are limited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you accept friend requests from people that have never even messaged you before?

I don’t know why but it really irritates me.

At least message me first.

Is it just me? Do I need to change my feelings about it? "

Yes.

Learn to not let it get to you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to us a lot. Usually by guys, we guess, wanting to perv on our friends only pics. We leave them on a list not deleting them so they can't send another one

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

If I haven't spoken to you, it's just bloody rude. Delete. Repeat offenders are blocked.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I just leave them sat there so they can't send another request. I do find it a bit strange, but I presume it's because they just want to look at my friends only pictures...obviously their pea brains can't figure out that if I wanted random people to see them then I'd move them into my public folder

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"Happens to us a lot. Usually by guys, we guess, wanting to perv on our friends only pics. We leave them on a list not deleting them so they can't send another one "

I used to do that until I accepted it by mistake!!!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I get loads of people asking to be added as a friend but i decline most. My friends list is small and i would rather keep it that way as i want the people on it to be a bit special to me and not just a number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No never,I receive friend requests on a daily, mostly off guys.who have no pics,I just mass delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just wait until they're offline and have a perve. Then unfriend

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Not a problem that I suffer with

Although I only send requests to people I've chatted to and think I'd get on with beyond the forum.

And because I'd like to perv their private pics by that point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't bother me in the slightest and I rarely except a friend request and less it someone RI have already met or somebody I've been chatting to a lot.

I just ignore them, I don't remove them or anything because then they can't send another one.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

A town near you perhaps

We don't accept random invites. We like to exchange the odd message at the very least.

We find it manners to say a hello first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ignore them. I only accept ones from people I’ve actually met, intend to meet or have chatted to a hell of a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, then have a look at private pics then usually unfriend.

Occasionally some stay on the list

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We don't accept friend requests from strangers. It doesn't really bother us getting them though. It's just a bit pointless. They just sit on a list we're perfectly capable of ignoring.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I only accept friend requests from people I know or intend to meet.

I just ignore the others, stops them requesting again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I even have it on my profile I don't accept random friend requests but surprise surprise they still happen.

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I've had 3 random requests this week and I don't accept them either unless we have chatted previously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not just you. I have even stated this in my profile and still get friend requests without a message

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Nope.

We will not accept requests from people, no matter how hot, if we haven’t been chatting to them for a bit or have met them.

So many people chance it just for a look at the friends only album.

Very rarely delete a friend so we think we have it about right.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

No not at al

But I have accepted them and delete them at the same time

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By *uHorny1Man
over a year ago

Cannock

If I'm chatting to someone and it's going well, I ask if I can send a friend request. I always reassure them that if its not what they want, I promise not to throw throw my toys out of the pram. I always send face pics with an initial message anyway, so they know it's going to mean they can see, ahem- "other" pictures.

I think I've only ever had 2 refusals. But I'd never send an invite without chatting first.

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