FabSwingers.com forum: How do you think people perceive you in the forums?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Dear friends Fabbers and Forumites.

I've done a little bit of navel gazing today, i saw two tugs and an aircraft carrier

I've been pondering how people perceive myself in the forums?

I do get the impression of a bit like a comfortable older chap . Who adores the great outdoors ans cycling. A bit of an Enid Blyton charicter who speaks like some one from the 1950's . I do say spiffing and splendid a tad often

I do wish some times i was a little more , lets say naughty ans flirty. Though i think i have grown into the Taff you all know in the forums. As that is how i am in the big real world

So how do you feel fellow Forumites perceive you ? Is that the you, you would like to put across?

Taff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of a dick, probably loves himself too much. Occasionally has a funny idea for a thread, and rarely seen in a serious one. How'd I do?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I don’t know about myself, but when it comes to you Taff , even I can see that you are a popular forumite who does his best to spread goodwill and positivity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me you’ve always been one of the nicer characters. Always welcoming and don’t think we’ve ever had a crossed word (cross word?)

I am exactly the same on here as I am in the real word, some people like me some people don’t, that goes for here and the real world!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt anyone cares what I have to say

I just talk to myself mostly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Taff... or should I say Julian (or Dick) you definitely come across as a jolly fine chap, people like you and your splendid words, it's spliffingly delightful to read your posts

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I doubt anyone cares what I have to say

I just talk to myself mostly"

I talk to myself when im out walking and quite loudly too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as for me... i hope i come across as a friendly person, never take life too seriously, and try to make people laugh along the way

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Bit of a dick, probably loves himself too much. Occasionally has a funny idea for a thread, and rarely seen in a serious one. How'd I do?

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you sir make me chuckle every day

. That is a wonderful gift , the ability to make others smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dear friends Fabbers and Forumites.

I've done a little bit of navel gazing today, i saw two tugs and an aircraft carrier

I've been pondering how people perceive myself in the forums?

I do wish some times i was a little more , lets say naughty ans flirty. Though i think i have grown into the Taff you all know in the forums. As that is how i am in the big real world

So how do you feel fellow Forumites perceive you ? Is that the you, you would like to put across?

Taff

You are just as you should be, don't ever change

I'm not sure how people perceive me and tbh I'm not that bothered.

I just try and be me, because I don't know how to be anything else.

Firm but fair, kind but not afraid to call it if I see it I guess.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You seem a friendly bloke and always welcoming of others.

I don't think I make too much of an impression to be honest but hope others see me as someone who likes to keep things light hearted without stirring too much controversy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope very Genuine ... bubbly and curious about the threads !

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I'm not sure to be honest, some like me, some love me, some dislike me, some are indifferent. You can't really know how others perceive you unless they tell you, for the most part, without that information, it will be hopeful thinking and probably likely to focus on the positive.

Actually some people might think I waffle on with a lot of crap. They'd be right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dear friends Fabbers and Forumites.

I've done a little bit of navel gazing today, i saw two tugs and an aircraft carrier

I've been pondering how people perceive myself in the forums?

I do wish some times i was a little more , lets say naughty ans flirty. Though i think i have grown into the Taff you all know in the forums. As that is how i am in the big real world

So how do you feel fellow Forumites perceive you ? Is that the you, you would like to put across?

Taff

I think you spread sunshine and lots of smiles !!

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By *eachesAndCream99Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Cardiff just off the M4

I’m unashamedly me, nobody will ever work me out because I am a chameleon that changes dependant on my surroundings. I am a fellow Taff. Although, life taught me that to be taken seriously professionally, I would have to lose my accent. Only now am I discovering my new wants, needs and desires and none of them include parade grounds, airfields or T45s, 23s or tugs...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bit of a dick, probably loves himself too much. Occasionally has a funny idea for a thread, and rarely seen in a serious one. How'd I do?

you sir make me chuckle every day

. That is a wonderful gift , the ability to make others smile

Dawwww, stop it

You'll give me an erection

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Havent got a clue! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't care less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not sure to be honest, some like me, some love me, some dislike me, some are indifferent. You can't really know how others perceive you unless they tell you, for the most part, without that information, it will be hopeful thinking and probably likely to focus on the positive.

Actually some people might think I waffle on with a lot of crap. They'd be right.

I think you are honest, genuinly lovely and happy you are a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bit of a dick, probably loves himself too much. Occasionally has a funny idea for a thread, and rarely seen in a serious one. How'd I do?

I haven't thought any of that about you once !!

You have actually made me laugh several times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually some people might think I waffle on with a lot of crap. They'd be right.

I like you. You’re always firm but fair. You’re one of the few people I can take constructive criticism off because I feel like it comes from a good place with you.

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By *ocusMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

I dread to think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Miserable, unpleasant, obnoxious arsehole, why doesn't he just fuck off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Couldn't care less "

You are one of the wittiest people on the forums and always make me laugh and smile !!

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

Every pair of eyes will see us just a little different, I've no doubt to some I'm a dick, to others i doubt i even register, some may find me funny, others friendly and considerate. Honestly without knowing everyone on here how can we say for sure? Forums and Internet spaces only show a reflection of our persona, sometimes from those wonky circus mirrors, overly friendly in one, massively selfish in another.

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Your forum positivity makes me smile Taff, I would imagine in real life you are very well read, know a fair bit about lots of things and if nothing else we would have a damn good giggle.

Me, I'm not sure, I am very much in the forum background and that's fine by me

Jo x

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

You are a Splendiferous Jelly babies lover Taff x

Some people like me, some people don't like me, I chat to the former and not the latter

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

"You are a Splendiferous Jelly babies lover Taff x

Some people like me, some people don't like me, I chat to the former and not the latter

I like your lollipop today

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

"You are a Splendiferous Jelly babies lover Taff x

Some people like me, some people don't like me, I chat to the former and not the latter

I like your lollipop today

Thank you

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I neither know (for the most part...some people have previously told me how utterly horrid they think I am), nor care - there's nothing I can do about it anyway, I can only be me and people will perceive me as they will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely invisible

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I’m just myself if they don’t like it tough shite

I like to think I’m nice to everyone

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

"Completely invisible "

I see you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm ok in small doses, which is about the same in the real world too lol but that's cool too because I'm a fan of intermittent hermitting anyway

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

I don’t care to be honest(not me trying to be a dick here)

I try not to upset people and be supportive in my own way.

But I can be quite blunt but thats my gift to the world.

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

I probably come across on here pretty much the sane as I am in real life - someone who's a bit too serious and wordy at times, not as much fun as I'd like to be, slightly uncomfortable in my own skin and a bit too prone to feeling sorry for myself

Yeah, I think that just about covers it....

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

The cheeky dapper gentlemanly barman

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

"Couldn't care less "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its really hard.

I guess some people can connect on different levels, leaving different perceptions?

I hate to admit it, but sometimes an overly nice person can irritate me, and a persistent joker make me ignore them etc etc.

Are we all consistent in our persona here? I think you are Taff, but I haven't a clue how I am perceived as I'm not sure I'm consistent enough in how I engage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Couldn't care less

I often see people make this statement. I get the sentiment behind being yourself. I think most reasonable people do care, and if they don't, maybe its more reflective of them?

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

" Its really hard.

I guess some people can connect on different levels, leaving different perceptions?

I hate to admit it, but sometimes an overly nice person can irritate me, and a persistent joker make me ignore them etc etc.

Are we all consistent in our persona here? I think you are Taff, but I haven't a clue how I am perceived as I'm not sure I'm consistent enough in how I engage."

You come across as a solidly decent chap, witty, friendly without being over the top and an all round pillar of the fab forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Taff you're a totally awesome man, very inclusive and positive plus I think you're very sexy indeed. I too love where you live and am also a massive fan of the great outdoors. I like our fitness chats too

As for moi I have no idea, I hope its positive, alluring, inclusive and fair with a double helping of naughtiness.... I will leave it up to my fellow forum peeps to let me know.

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are truly splendid Taff, friendly and welcoming to everyone. Positive and kind, and a little flirty at times.

I don’t know how I come across, kind and helpful I hope. I think sometimes I come across as the embarrassing aunt who likes to flirt with the men. Lol. X

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

"Couldn't care less

I often see people make this statement. I get the sentiment behind being yourself. I think most reasonable people do care, and if they don't, maybe its more reflective of them?"

So you think people should put on an act and behave differently to their true personality for the sake of how others perceive them?

I'd rather interact with honest people personally

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

Taff, you are lovely. Kind, caring, funny. And I adore your Enid Blyton gung hi!

Me? I dunno. Not on here enough and when I am, I'm only perving bums

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"The cheeky dapper gentlemanly barman

You to a T.

Now get me a diet pepsi, loads of ice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Its really hard.

I guess some people can connect on different levels, leaving different perceptions?

I hate to admit it, but sometimes an overly nice person can irritate me, and a persistent joker make me ignore them etc etc.

Are we all consistent in our persona here? I think you are Taff, but I haven't a clue how I am perceived as I'm not sure I'm consistent enough in how I engage."

You are very Genuine, witty , honest and very thoughtful with your answers on the forum from what I have seen .And bring several smiles with your answers on very long days !!

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By *omin8rMan
over a year ago

In A Playspace

With bullet proof vest on, I know they see me as a prick, dick, pssy, and who knows what else. But hey I am who I am. And still figuring it out

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"You seem a friendly bloke and always welcoming of others.

I don't think I make too much of an impression to be honest but hope others see me as someone who likes to keep things light hearted without stirring too much controversy

Oh, your ass makes an impression on me

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By *omin8rMan
over a year ago

In A Playspace

Oh and I am sure you are a top guy

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"Every pair of eyes will see us just a little different, I've no doubt to some I'm a dick, to others i doubt i even register, some may find me funny, others friendly and considerate. Honestly without knowing everyone on here how can we say for sure? Forums and Internet spaces only show a reflection of our persona, sometimes from those wonky circus mirrors, overly friendly in one, massively selfish in another."

And you, my friend, are funny & sweet in equal measure x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Couldn't care less

I often see people make this statement. I get the sentiment behind being yourself. I think most reasonable people do care, and if they don't, maybe its more reflective of them?

So you think people should put on an act and behave differently to their true personality for the sake of how others perceive them?

I'd rather interact with honest people personally "

No. I haven't anywhere in my text suggested being disingenuous. I just think the whole "I don't care" attitude is a little immature and narcissistic in some cases.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I loved Enid Blyton as a kid, though it's weird I think you sound English with that your splendid talk, but then I also know you're from north Wales and that fries my brain a little.

Me I don't know,I guess it depends on my mood on any given day. Sometimes I'm serious and others I'm not. It's hard to know how you taken by others when you're just being you

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By *uriouscouple83Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

OP you always come across as a positive person and with the sort of wit that makes me chuckle.

I have absolutely no idea how I come across in the forums, probably as a bit of a nob who doesn’t take very much seriously. This is pretty much representative of real life though. If Mr posted in the forums then nobody would talk to us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I loved Enid Blyton as a kid, though it's weird I think you sound English with that your splendid talk, but then I also know you're from north Wales and that fries my brain a little.

Me I don't know,I guess it depends on my mood on any given day. Sometimes I'm serious and others I'm not. It's hard to know how you taken by others when you're just being you

You come across a psycho who would boil my rabbit, hence I refuse your persistent pleas for coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP you always come across as a positive person and with the sort of wit that makes me chuckle.

I think you come across just fine and I like the fact you're genuine. You're happy to challenge which is healthy, and don't point score in the popularity contest. Im sure we've had different perspectives but managing them isn't an issue for people like you.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"I loved Enid Blyton as a kid, though it's weird I think you sound English with that your splendid talk, but then I also know you're from north Wales and that fries my brain a little.

Me I don't know,I guess it depends on my mood on any given day. Sometimes I'm serious and others I'm not. It's hard to know how you taken by others when you're just being you

You come across a psycho who would boil my rabbit, hence I refuse your persistent pleas for coffee

You sir are an idiot, and don't tell everyone I'm an absolute psycho. I'm trying to act dead cool and all that. And we will have that coffee once this covid shit is done just so I can tip it in your lap

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

And you, my friend, are funny & sweet in equal measure x"

Aww thanks you say all the right things. Love that you stick to your morals, have a seductively flirty side and are always have a helping hand to anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I loved Enid Blyton as a kid, though it's weird I think you sound English with that your splendid talk, but then I also know you're from north Wales and that fries my brain a little.

Me I don't know,I guess it depends on my mood on any given day. Sometimes I'm serious and others I'm not. It's hard to know how you taken by others when you're just being you

You come across a psycho who would boil my rabbit, hence I refuse your persistent pleas for coffee

I'll spare the forum flirting in case everyone throws up. Spilling coffee in my lap is the only way you'll get a reaction down there. (Treat em mean keep em keen).

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

"Dear friends Fabbers and Forumites.

I've done a little bit of navel gazing today, i saw two tugs and an aircraft carrier

I've been pondering how people perceive myself in the forums?

I do wish some times i was a little more , lets say naughty ans flirty. Though i think i have grown into the Taff you all know in the forums. As that is how i am in the big real world

So how do you feel fellow Forumites perceive you ? Is that the you, you would like to put across?

Taff

Doubt people would even notice me. Its OK I'll cope

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

"Couldn't care less

I often see people make this statement. I get the sentiment behind being yourself. I think most reasonable people do care, and if they don't, maybe its more reflective of them?

So you think people should put on an act and behave differently to their true personality for the sake of how others perceive them?

I'd rather interact with honest people personally

No. I haven't anywhere in my text suggested being disingenuous. I just think the whole "I don't care" attitude is a little immature and narcissistic in some cases. "

I don't care because there's absolutely nothing that I can do to alter people's perceptions of me without altering my behaviour, which then wouldn't be a true reflection of my personality - why would I waste time and energy worrying about something that I can do nothing about without being insincere?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm already the black sheep of the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea but hoping we come across as friendly, we talk quite a bit in mental health threads too so hoping that people see us a just a bit supportive and understanding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Laid back genius

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have absolutely no idea how people perceive me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm already the black sheep of the forum"

Bahhhhh Bahhhh can i join you haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a listening ear for anyone who needs it and provides free hugs and boob squishes for everyone who needs it.

Cat, cake and tea enthusiast.

Oh and a bit of a slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Couldn't care less

I often see people make this statement. I get the sentiment behind being yourself. I think most reasonable people do care, and if they don't, maybe its more reflective of them?

So you think people should put on an act and behave differently to their true personality for the sake of how others perceive them?

I'd rather interact with honest people personally

No. I haven't anywhere in my text suggested being disingenuous. I just think the whole "I don't care" attitude is a little immature and narcissistic in some cases.

Maybe my message is out of context. Case example...mr ass is rude and oriole to people and a bully. Does he care? No.

Caring doesn't mean you have to change. But its not bad to take into account your actions to some degree? Decent people won't be passing comment on your actions as they respect differences? If they DO comment then its worth reflection?

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

Old bloke pushing his luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure as I post regularly and on a wide variety of threads, so I guess it depends which you read.

I'm exactly the same on here as when you meet me. I'm unapologetically me and not worried about saying what I think or feel.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

A very delightful young man

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

And you, my friend, are funny & sweet in equal measure x

Aww thanks you say all the right things. Love that you stick to your morals, have a seductively flirty side and are always have a helping hand to anyone "

Aw, I'm blushing

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

I don't have a clue what others think of me. It's not something I've thought about. I can't change how people perceive me, nor would I want to.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Actually some people might think I waffle on with a lot of crap. They'd be right.

I like you. You’re always firm but fair. You’re one of the few people I can take constructive criticism off because I feel like it comes from a good place with you. "

Yeah, I like you too and that's why it does come from a good place. I know we've clashed before but you're one of the few I read consistency and raw honesty in and they're good traits to have. Also you make me laugh a lot which is rare. You're the sort of woman who would be an amazing friend and a truly awful enemy.

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

"I have absolutely no idea how people perceive me

A dick?

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Firstly Taff you a spiffing guy and always a positive vibe on the forums and off

For me, I’d say it’s whether you know me or not, those that don’t I’m quite a closed book I trust very few people. I will speak my mind without fluff, but also know when to keep my mouth shut. I’m not an open flirter on the forums, I prefer to do that in private. So all that probably makes me stand offish to most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have absolutely no idea how people perceive me

A dick?"

Haha yea with a hint of twatness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like the rest of life, some will like me, some will dislike me, and im ok with it.

Live and let live i say, i cant please everyone, but if you have big boobs, i'll have a bloody good go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A massive helmet probably maybe

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

"I have absolutely no idea how people perceive me

A dick?

Haha yea with a hint of twatness

You're a better minge than some I've seen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have absolutely no idea how people perceive me

A dick?

Haha yea with a hint of twatness

You're a better minge than some I've seen

Awww thanks mate

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

A bit weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A bit weird"

With a cracking arse and fanny!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually some people might think I waffle on with a lot of crap. They'd be right.

I like you. You’re always firm but fair. You’re one of the few people I can take constructive criticism off because I feel like it comes from a good place with you.

That’s lush, I love that

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

I'd like to know what people honestly think of me, just from my posts here.

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

I'd like to know what people honestly think of me, just from my posts here.

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

I'd like to know what people honestly think of me, just from my posts here.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"I'd like to know what people honestly think of me, just from my posts here. "

Honestly I find you repetitive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Taf,I don't think I can comment in public

I'm invisible unless I start a wink thread.

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By *omin8rMan
over a year ago

In A Playspace

Appreciated, and respect the honesty.

Peace and love all round.

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"I'd like to know what people honestly think of me, just from my posts here.

Honestly I find you repetitive

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good that suits me, thank you

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Actually some people might think I waffle on with a lot of crap. They'd be right.

Erudite, witty, clever, daft forum darling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose as I'm a new poster to the forums it will take time for people to get to know my personality... i don't know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dear friends Fabbers and Forumites.

I've done a little bit of navel gazing today, i saw two tugs and an aircraft carrier

I've been pondering how people perceive myself in the forums?

I do wish some times i was a little more , lets say naughty ans flirty. Though i think i have grown into the Taff you all know in the forums. As that is how i am in the big real world

So how do you feel fellow Forumites perceive you ? Is that the you, you would like to put across?

Taff

Doubt people would even notice me. Its OK I'll cope

I've noticed you ... you are the COOL Ps5 guy !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was more frequently on here and couldn’t answer it then... now I’m on here less I have even less of a clue!

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Taff, you’re well liked for all the right reasons and I would happily stroll with you and enjoy the chat along the way.

Like me, the blood of Welsh princes flows through your veins but I don’t really care if someone is from Wales, Britain, Europe or just Earth; a good person is a good person.

Stick at it, please

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Taff.... a prefect gentleman, witty, absolute joy to spend time with and giver of cake

I think I’m marmite, some will like me, some won’t but it’s likely those that don’t like me I won’t like either!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

* perfect even

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably think I'm a bit of a knob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think they do, a lot of people on here are so self absorbed they are only interested in what they are doing And how perceive them, there’s so much navel gazing on here they barely notice or care what anyone else is doing.

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I’m hoping that I come across well but you really don’t know sometimes on a large platform.

I aim to always be nice and thoughtful but that just me in general even in person.

I tend to stay away from the more serious threads and stick more to the light hearted or picture challenge because I must be a little bit of attention seeker

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I don’t think they do, a lot of people on here are so self absorbed they are only interested in what they are doing And how perceive them, there’s so much navel gazing on here they barely notice or care what anyone else is doing."

Have you seen how fit my belly button is though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I hope that I come across the way that I do away from fab

Slightly Amusing, slightly charming, slightly flirty,and nice

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I do notice. Just saying

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Knowledgable, intelligent, witty and articulate. Well that’s what I think about myself...you lot probably unmemorable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do notice. Just saying

I covered myself, by saying a lot, not all, gives me room for leeway!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Straight to the point. A bit blunt. Some like me and some dont and some dont have an.opinion either way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you seen how fit my belly button is though! "

I think I’ve noticed everything else, I’ll take a closer look!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you are a lovely guy Taff, so keep on being you and bringing the smiles.

As for me, I'm probably seen as boring, my attempts of humour go unnoticed and I imagine (not looking for anyone to disagree) that if I left, my name would never be mentioned again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you seen how fit my belly button is though!

I think I’ve noticed everything else, I’ll take a closer look!

The penny’s just dropped, navel gazing, belly button, it’s been along day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Couldn't care less

I often see people make this statement. I get the sentiment behind being yourself. I think most reasonable people do care, and if they don't, maybe its more reflective of them?"

Again, I couldn't care less.

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

I'd like to think easy-going and open-minded but who knows.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

This is human nature though? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I doubt anyone cares what I have to say

I just talk to myself mostly"

I care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think i now go unnoticed

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

50% UNLOS maybe.

Haven’t really thought about it

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I really don't think about what I think people might think ......... waste of life.

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By *uHorny1Man
over a year ago

Cannock

Someone who.gets overlooked or ignored on the whole, especially on those "comment on the person above threads"- serial victim of leapfrogging.

However, if I dare to offer an opinion that's contrary to that of a forum regular, then I need to put my tin hat on.

Not that it bothers me...

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"50% UNLOS maybe.

Haven’t really thought about it

We just love to see you back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone who.gets overlooked or ignored on the whole, especially on those "comment on the person above threads"- serial victim of leapfrogging.

However, if I dare to offer an opinion that's contrary to that of a forum regular, then I need to put my tin hat on.

Not that it bothers me..."

Even if you are a forum regular doesn't mean you not gonna be overlooked.

I often find that with games because they could be quite fast pace but just keep commenting.

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I read the first bit and wondered why you were looking at your belly button.

I think people perceive me as a bit of a mardy arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just another bloke"

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Stella Heels?

Fucking Twat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who's basically a chilled out entertainer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Dear friends golly thank you for your comments, some truly lovely things i am truly touched x

I have enjoyed reading all about how you feel you are perceived.

So i would like to reply to you all. In one splendid go .

From when i log on in the morning to say hello to PP and you all . You all make me smile. Your wit, humor and general jollyness kick the day off with a chuckle .

You are all uniquely you

Also we are a small happy band who share stories , jokes and yes the harder things in life .

I have seen and felt the true milk of human kindness here. Friends caring for friends .

All i can say to you all is

Stay You . Give it a you tube its a great song ans should be our anthem . Either that or the tune from the BBC series The Goodies . Younger Fabbers google it

Diolch Pawb

Taff x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The man with no pics and 3 word profile who seems grumpy and acidic in his posts may work in a hospice for terminally kids, who utterly adore him.

The woman with many hot pics, friendly profile and always has happy glittery posts may be a bitch and bully to her friends and colleagues, causing them distress and mental health issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

taff your a spiffing chap as for me I dont post that often but I'd like to think people see me as genuine with a positive thing to say and humorous most probably actually think who is this twat

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

No idea to be honest, I get some messages saying the threads I start are stupid but to be honest I'm not particularly bothered.

Some take off, others don't but i try to start different ones from the usual "do women like anal"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The man with no pics and 3 word profile who seems grumpy and acidic in his posts may work in a hospice for terminally kids, who utterly adore him.

The woman with many hot pics, friendly profile and always has happy glittery posts may be a bitch and bully to her friends and colleagues, causing them distress and mental health issues.

"
so true and somthing we need to remeber behind very profile is a human being

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I'm enough of a frequent poster or memorable enough for people to have too much of a perception of me.

For those that do I imagine I'm probably seen as a big softie. Wearing my heart on my sleeve and hopefully friendly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The man with no pics and 3 word profile who seems grumpy and acidic in his posts may work in a hospice for terminally kids, who utterly adore him.

The woman with many hot pics, friendly profile and always has happy glittery posts may be a bitch and bully to her friends and colleagues, causing them distress and mental health issues.

So true. And (not aimed at you) the very person who highlights such matters can be vitriolic in their posts several hours later, targeting people.

We get an insight into how people want to portray themselves here, and their mindset. But its only a snapshot of who they are in the real world, dealing with life and others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Taff i think you come across as a good egg

Me ... quiet, unnoticed, unopinionated in the forums

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Taff, you come across as a jolly splendid and most agreeable gentleman

Apparently I come across as "takes no prisoners" and not sure Mr KC posts enough to have a good idea?! I'd like to think we're friendly and light hearted but I'm not sure that's what comes across

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The man with no pics and 3 word profile who seems grumpy and acidic in his posts may work in a hospice for terminally kids, who utterly adore him.

The woman with many hot pics, friendly profile and always has happy glittery posts may be a bitch and bully to her friends and colleagues, causing them distress and mental health issues.

So true. And (not aimed at you) the very person who highlights such matters can be vitriolic in their posts several hours later, targeting people.

We get an insight into how people want to portray themselves here, and their mindset. But its only a snapshot of who they are in the real world, dealing with life and others."

People on here and in real life tell me I'm a piece of shit. Consistency.

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By *heslimoneMan
over a year ago

Deeside

"Someone who.gets overlooked or ignored on the whole, especially on those "comment on the person above threads"- serial victim of leapfrogging.

However, if I dare to offer an opinion that's contrary to that of a forum regular, then I need to put my tin hat on.

Not that it bothers me..."

We've certainly shared some differing opinions and i can only apologise that you copped a little flack on that one, but i think we were both able to remain civil and i commend you for that.

Next time i catch you on one of those person above threads I'll give you a bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The man with no pics and 3 word profile who seems grumpy and acidic in his posts may work in a hospice for terminally kids, who utterly adore him.

The woman with many hot pics, friendly profile and always has happy glittery posts may be a bitch and bully to her friends and colleagues, causing them distress and mental health issues.

So true. And (not aimed at you) the very person who highlights such matters can be vitriolic in their posts several hours later, targeting people.

We get an insight into how people want to portray themselves here, and their mindset. But its only a snapshot of who they are in the real world, dealing with life and others.

People on here and in real life tell me I'm a piece of shit. Consistency. "

Well there you are...you are consistent

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By *G999Man
over a year ago

Everywhere & Nowhere

I like to throw in the odd grenade, but all with the aim of promoting debate.

A devils advocate if you will.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Bit of a dick, probably loves himself too much. Occasionally has a funny idea for a thread, and rarely seen in a serious one. How'd I do?

I haven't thought any of that about you once !!

You have actually made me laugh several times. "

Very much the same about you, Lorenzo

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I was more frequently on here and couldn’t answer it then... now I’m on here less I have even less of a clue!"

Yep this no idea. Taff you are awesome

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

No idea, I just post to make myself laugh really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No idea, I just post to make myself laugh really

I’m aware of your work!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I think the way people perceive anyone else on this forum depends greatly on not only their own view of the person but on both their friends' views and experiences and their views and experiences of that person's friends.

There is a lot of "guilt" or "love" by association that goes on, and a lot of looking through the gossip passed on by a third party. Sometimes this is fair, sometimes this is unfair.

I like to think I'm seen as a mainly happy yet occasionally deeper and honest person who just wants to enjoy fab forum life and enjoys dragging anyone who wants to come along for the ride. I'm aware that's not how a lot of people see me though.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I've been described as both forum wise man and an opinionated bully round these parts - so it depends who you speak to I guess - personally I'm authentically me and stay true to my principles and beliefs and will offer an honest opinion based on those at any given time.

The only people whose perception of me matters to me are those that have truly got to know me over a period of time - the random thoughts of an internet stranger who doesn't have the slightest idea of who I am don't overly bother me at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very likely that Im weird, odd or different but that Im not offensive and dont get caught up in any rants etc...basically I just hope that Im seen as an ok chap...maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been described as both forum wise man and an opinionated bully round these parts - so it depends who you speak to I guess - personally I'm authentically me and stay true to my principles and beliefs and will offer an honest opinion based on those at any given time.

I like you and your posts and do see you as a say you as you see it. I like that and do count you as a friend

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I’ve no idea these days.....

I would say I used to be fun and flirtatious......

If Saffie was describing me then “the forum bike”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Taff... throughly friendly guy who always sees the best in people and brings a smile to the forums

Me... Troglodyte mainly invisible and clueless as to how others see me, not that I can ever change anothers perception of me, gained through layers of glass and pixels..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair I think sometimes I don't get perceived at all lol

I guess I've been away from the forums too long

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I couldn't give a shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt anyone has given me a second thought, I just post to entertain myself most of the time. I enjoy the funny comments of others though, some of you are so quick with the banter, it's great

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Troublesome I would imagine...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really couldn’t give a flying fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Taf,I don't think I can comment in public

I'm invisible unless I start a wink thread."

See what I mean.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Taf,I don't think I can comment in public

I'm invisible unless I start a wink thread.

See what I mean."
we did wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm perceived at all it's probably as a bit of a wanker.

That's Rona's doing no meets since February

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like the cunty mentalist I am I hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over enthusiastic, but means well! Plus, I've got a shit sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think those who’ve noticed me appreciate my openness and honesty.

I hope I’ve opened a few eyes in my years on here by sharing my journey and changed the odd mind.

I’ve met many forumites at socials in London, Manchester and Blackpool, even though I live in south somerset. I made a point of talking to as many people as I could and people learned trans people are simply people. Nutters but just people.

Anyone who posted with tv/ts next to their name years back would have guaranteed they’d be ignored or they would be cornered and picked on.

I hope I’ve had something to do with the greater acceptance of the trans members and nowadays anyone turning on a tgirl is likely to find themselves shouted down by the masses.

My arse in gold hotpants made an impression too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Largely as a prick

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I quote now

“Fiddles, he’s alright, I suppose”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like the cunty mentalist I am I hope

Absolutely you do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People take me really seriously. I make satire threads and then get a tone of abuse because of them

But I’m fine with that. Others see me as a total bitch. And others see me as the queen that I am

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

I have absolutely no idea

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A bit weird"

But super loveable!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea who any of you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no idea who any of you are "

I’m your ex wife. Can’t believe you’ve forgotten me already. We only divorced last week

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

How do I think people perceive me?

A funny cunt. A farty cunt. A little cunt. A gobby cunt. A caring cunt. A cunty cunt. But most of all, I hope.... an authentically imperfect cunt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do I think people perceive me?

A funny cunt. A farty cunt. A little cunt. A gobby cunt. A caring cunt. A cunty cunt. But most of all, I hope.... an authentically imperfect cunt."

Spot on

A beautiful cunt too tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do I think people perceive me?

A funny cunt. A farty cunt. A little cunt. A gobby cunt. A caring cunt. A cunty cunt. But most of all, I hope.... an authentically imperfect cunt."

I’ve met you.

You’re a little cunt.

Think you’re a lovely little cunt.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"How do I think people perceive me?

A funny cunt. A farty cunt. A little cunt. A gobby cunt. A caring cunt. A cunty cunt. But most of all, I hope.... an authentically imperfect cunt."

I bet you’re all of those, and that makes you an awesome cunt

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"How do I think people perceive me?

A funny cunt. A farty cunt. A little cunt. A gobby cunt. A caring cunt. A cunty cunt. But most of all, I hope.... an authentically imperfect cunt."

Is that like the alternate Seven Dwarfs?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Bossy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A pain in the arse who talks a lot of bollocks?

I have no idea to be honest and I'm really not that fussed what people think of me.

"The ones who matter, don't mind and the ones who mind, don't matter"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bossy"

Not at all.

I’ve seen you as a leveller. Someone who gives fair comment on many subjects.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Those who matter don't mind, and those who mind don't matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flaky

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Bossy

Not at all.

I’ve seen you as a leveller. Someone who gives fair comment on many subjects. "

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