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"Yeah im obese too, but im also sexy, hot and beautiful ha ha" You laugh but this is worth reinforcing. BMI correlates with health outcomes - it's not a measure of attractiveness or self-worth. Lose the weight to have more healthy, active years on this planet and less miserable, unhealthy years. Be sexy and beautiful all the way through that process | |||
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"Yeah im obese too, but im also sexy, hot and beautiful ha ha You laugh but this is worth reinforcing. BMI correlates with health outcomes - it's not a measure of attractiveness or Lose the weight to have more healthy, active years on this planet and less miserable, unhealthy years. Be sexy and beautiful all the way through that process " Fair point | |||
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"The only proper way to calculate BMW is also with the old pinch test which measures fat levels in different areas of the body which is why the nhs no longer uses it...some claimed it was degrading. Most people these days (2/3's of UK) are over weight so it is possible that the calculator is medically correct. " I wish that I had a BMW still! Did you pinch it?? | |||
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"BMI is still broadly a good way to work out how much you need to lose/gain. Unless you're pregnant, an athlete, etc. People saying it's inaccurate are talking about exceptions (and you probably know if you're an exception). " This. Yes, Johnny Wilkinson was technically obese according to BMI. No, that doesn't mean BMI is rubbish unless you're actually Johnny Wilkinson. | |||
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"I think there are much better ways of assessing whether you are a healthy weight or size (which are not necessarily the same thing) and tracking your progress. If you want to be anal get some smart scales. They measure fat-to-muscle ratio and you metabolic rate, amongst other things. They are excellent for tracking. Alternatively, I have found belt notches a great indicator and very satisfying as I have to tighten my belt over time. You may want to try that or similar things like trouser waist size or dress size. " So, the way those scales work is to measure your electrical impedance - this is affected by hydration, food intake etc such that the measurements aren't all that accurate. Calipers (the "pinch test") are inaccurate but consistent, making them great for tracking fat loss - but they're not really more useful than BMI unless you're a bodybuilder or something. I lift weights, and this means I'll always be on the heavier side (more muscle mass) - but it's clear from my fat% that my BMI isn't all that off at all. And the "healthy" range (18-25) is so large that unless you're doing something that is putting on large amounts of non-fat body mass it's an "accurate enough" way to work out where you are and where you need to go (and is why it's used by the NHS). | |||
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"My BMI says I’m morbidly obese " Queenie, if yours says morbidly obese, then there's no hope for us. I'd kill for your figure. OK, where's the cake? | |||
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"BMI is still broadly a good way to work out how much you need to lose/gain. Unless you're pregnant, an athlete, etc. People saying it's inaccurate are talking about exceptions (and you probably know if you're an exception). Don't sweat it too much, just aim to get within the healthy range - but only through a healthy, sustainable approach. Unhealthy means to achieve a healthy weight is pointless!" That makes sense, thanks | |||
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"Yeah im obese too, but im also sexy, hot and beautiful ha ha Its a shame they use such a dated system, but if you are trying to loose weight dont focus on that, just try and vary your diet do some fitness, Im always up and down with my weight but never let it define me. " It's great that you feel sexy and confident I have days when I feel like this too, but also days when I feel like an absolute monster and think "my god what have I done to myself" | |||
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"A waist circumference measurement is a better marker of health. Blokes tend to deposit weight around the waist which is proven to increase poor health outcomes (e.g. diabetes, high blood pressure, stroke and heart attacks). This is the so called ‘Apple shape’ as opposed to the slighlty healthier ‘pear shaped’ deposition of fat. A combination of healthy eating and exercise are the best ways to maintain health. High intensity exercise and intermittent fasting boosts health. I write this...having just come back from the pub, eating a steak n ale pie, and I’ve just finished a bowl of dry roasted peanuts! " Haha I discovered a not-so-well hidden bag of doritos in the kitchen last night! literally fisted a handful straight into my open jaws like a hangry bear but luckily I caught myself just in time and spat them out! | |||
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"I think there are much better ways of assessing whether you are a healthy weight or size (which are not necessarily the same thing) and tracking your progress. If you want to be anal get some smart scales. They measure fat-to-muscle ratio and you metabolic rate, amongst other things. They are excellent for tracking. Alternatively, I have found belt notches a great indicator and very satisfying as I have to tighten my belt over time. You may want to try that or similar things like trouser waist size or dress size. " I had smart scales a few years ago, really good (and expensive) fitbit ones that were linked to my phone but it was a nightmare, they kept breaking! Got them replaced by fitbit a couple of times and then I just gave up and got a £20 Salter one. Doesn't measure body fat but at this point I know it's just "a lot" | |||
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"For the average person it’s fine, for elite athletes it’s not, because muscle is heavier than fat, I’m right in the middle of where I should be according to height, but I get told I’m skinny according to workmates, which kind of shows what is the norm now and where society is at. " "society" shouldn't be commenting on people's bodies either way. | |||
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"BMI is a rough guideline, not the be all and end all. According to the index I'm overweight too, and I know plenty of athletic people (including actual athletes) who are classed as overweight or obese." Yeah that's a lot of peoples' main argument, that it only takes weight into account and not actual body fat percentage. | |||
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"I,be lost almost 2 stone since May but according to BMI I am still obese... like a previous poster says it doesn't take into account muscle. I am quite active so will have more muscle than an inactive person my height/weight. I don't think BMI is accurate at all. " Congratulations on your weight loss | |||
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"My BMI says I’m morbidly obese " No it fucking doesn't | |||
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"It can be so disheartening when you look at your BMI, to be told your obese. I don't bother with it and go by my clothes instead. I've dropped a dress size and that gives me incentive to keep going." That's great, well done! I've only been wearing lounge wear and pj's since lockdown and have had very few occasions to get dressed up so I don't really know where I'm at ie dress size. I recently reorganised my wardrobe and stupidly put away all my clothes that were too small so everything in my wardrobe at the moment fits me. I'm 47lbs (and 8 BMI points) down so I reckon that's at least one size dropped, right? | |||
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"It can be so disheartening when you look at your BMI, to be told your obese. I don't bother with it and go by my clothes instead. I've dropped a dress size and that gives me incentive to keep going. That's great, well done! I've only been wearing lounge wear and pj's since lockdown and have had very few occasions to get dressed up so I don't really know where I'm at ie dress size. I recently reorganised my wardrobe and stupidly put away all my clothes that were too small so everything in my wardrobe at the moment fits me. I'm 47lbs (and 8 BMI points) down so I reckon that's at least one size dropped, right?" 47 lbs is fantastic! Well done you. That's about 3 dress sizes down - its about one dress size per stone. | |||
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"It can be so disheartening when you look at your BMI, to be told your obese. I don't bother with it and go by my clothes instead. I've dropped a dress size and that gives me incentive to keep going. That's great, well done! I've only been wearing lounge wear and pj's since lockdown and have had very few occasions to get dressed up so I don't really know where I'm at ie dress size. I recently reorganised my wardrobe and stupidly put away all my clothes that were too small so everything in my wardrobe at the moment fits me. I'm 47lbs (and 8 BMI points) down so I reckon that's at least one size dropped, right? 47 lbs is fantastic! Well done you. That's about 3 dress sizes down - its about one dress size per stone. " Thank you! I think that calculation probably applies to more average sized people lol, if I were 3 sizes down I'd know as my clothes would be falling off me and they're definitely not Now you mention it I'm not seeing that many changes in my body, if any. Will need to lose a lot more before it starts being noticeable. | |||
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"It can be so disheartening when you look at your BMI, to be told your obese. I don't bother with it and go by my clothes instead. I've dropped a dress size and that gives me incentive to keep going. That's great, well done! I've only been wearing lounge wear and pj's since lockdown and have had very few occasions to get dressed up so I don't really know where I'm at ie dress size. I recently reorganised my wardrobe and stupidly put away all my clothes that were too small so everything in my wardrobe at the moment fits me. I'm 47lbs (and 8 BMI points) down so I reckon that's at least one size dropped, right? 47 lbs is fantastic! Well done you. That's about 3 dress sizes down - its about one dress size per stone. Thank you! I think that calculation probably applies to more average sized people lol, if I were 3 sizes down I'd know as my clothes would be falling off me and they're definitely not Now you mention it I'm not seeing that many changes in my body, if any. Will need to lose a lot more before it starts being noticeable. " I bet there is a difference but it's difficult to see in yourself. 47lbs is loads - you should get some old clothes and try them on - I bet they're big on you x | |||
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"I'm 47lbs (and 8 BMI points) down so I reckon that's at least one size dropped, right?" That's impressive - and remember, it's not all-or-nothing. That's made reductions on all sorts of risks; you've literally given yourself more life, and more healthy life, to live. Well done, and keep it up! | |||
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"A waist circumference measurement is a better marker of health. Blokes tend to deposit weight around the waist which is proven to increase poor health outcomes (e.g. diabetes, high blood pressure, stroke and heart attacks). This is the so called ‘Apple shape’ as opposed to the slighlty healthier ‘pear shaped’ deposition of fat. A combination of healthy eating and exercise are the best ways to maintain health. High intensity exercise and intermittent fasting boosts health. I write this...having just come back from the pub, eating a steak n ale pie, and I’ve just finished a bowl of dry roasted peanuts! Haha I discovered a not-so-well hidden bag of doritos in the kitchen last night! literally fisted a handful straight into my open jaws like a hangry bear but luckily I caught myself just in time and spat them out! " Hahaha!! Love it! This is my inner Monologue when I’m raiding the biscuit drawer or crisp cupboard: Me: “what are you doing?” My inner chimp: “I’m hungry” Me: “well have an apple then” My inner chimp: “no, I don’t fancy that” Me: “well you’re not hungry then are you? You are just bored”! My inner chimp tends to back down...but not always! | |||
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"I was told by my cardiologist to ignore BMI. According to BMI I am overweight, but my cholesterol levels are normal. " Cholesterol level is formed from HDL (good cholesterol) and LDL (bad cholesterol). When you are given your cholesterol level, ask what the level of these constituents are. Another lipid level which, if elevated, is a good prognostic factor of health outcomes (e.g. stroke and heart attacks) is triglyceride level. Triglyceride levels are more closely correlated to what we eat as opposed to cholesterol which is a combination of diet/exercise/genetics. | |||
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"Did you change your goal weight in the end?" I'm going to get closer to it first and see how I feel | |||
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"Did you change your goal weight in the end? I'm going to get closer to it first and see how I feel " Best way as you see how you go you can adjust your target. It's how my brother got me running longer distances a few years back, just kept saying you see that next lamp post aim for that, then he'd see something just past the post etc. It's better to set an easier target and push it back than set a hard one and be disappointed when you can't so it x | |||
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"Did you change your goal weight in the end? I'm going to get closer to it first and see how I feel Best way as you see how you go you can adjust your target. It's how my brother got me running longer distances a few years back, just kept saying you see that next lamp post aim for that, then he'd see something just past the post etc. It's better to set an easier target and push it back than set a hard one and be disappointed when you can't so it x" I just like the goal I've set because it would mean I've lost 200lbs, it's a nice round number lol. Plus I'm almost 1/4 of the way through and setting a new goal would mean I'm not as far along in my progress. We'll see. I should probably worry about actually getting to a close enough weight that I can even think about adjusting haha I'm miles away at the moment | |||
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