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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thus may seem odd to most but it's a conversation had on couple of occasions.

Many people keep their swing or kinklife private.

Do you care what people find out after you are gone? Would they be shocked?

Appreciate there is little you can do about it after the fact but would you put anything in place?

If anything happened I have arrangements to vaniilise my place and have my online profiles removed.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

It would just lay here gathering dust. About 5000 messages sat in my inbox asking how I am. Me whispering from my grave “I’m dead motherfuckers, take a hint!”.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

No, probably but o well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would just lay here gathering dust. About 5000 messages sat in my inbox asking how I am. Me whispering from my grave “I’m dead motherfuckers, take a hint!”."

Time waster x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would just lay here gathering dust. About 5000 messages sat in my inbox asking how I am. Me whispering from my grave “I’m dead motherfuckers, take a hint!”."

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’ve got a Fab friend (with a key) who is under strict instruction to come in the dead of night and clear my “naughty drawer” out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have often wondered about my tranny stash being found and causing upset. Maybe need a plan...

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I have a close friend who would unlos me and take the kink bag for destruction if anything serious happened to me

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Yes my friend will sort out my naughty things and clear my phone of pics when i have gone. My worst fear is getting dementia and rambling on about "The good old days" to all who come to visit.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I had to do this when my partner passed away suddenly, I had to clear out all of our “stuff” from his bedroom

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Im generally out to anyone who is close to me, so they wouldn’t be surprised at my stash of girls clothes, makeup etc... even the porn on my devices wouldn’t surprise them as it’s based around crossdressing.

I just hope they’d realised I enjoyed my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would just lay here gathering dust. About 5000 messages sat in my inbox asking how I am. Me whispering from my grave “I’m dead motherfuckers, take a hint!”."

so your dead then?

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"Yes my friend will sort out my naughty things and clear my phone of pics when i have gone. My worst fear is getting dementia and rambling on about "The good old days" to all who come to visit."

Or being the kinky old lady in the care home

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I'm not bothered what people see when I'm gone, most people that know me know what I'm like anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey. I certainly hope I outlive my parents as I don't want either of them to be the ones to discover my private dungeon playroom & all it contains!

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Blimey. I certainly hope I outlive my parents as I don't want either of them to be the ones to discover my private dungeon playroom & all it contains! "

I asked my mum if could borrow a rucksack, she said yes there's one in the camper. She completely forgot it was full of chains and restraints though

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Yes my friend will sort out my naughty things and clear my phone of pics when i have gone. My worst fear is getting dementia and rambling on about "The good old days" to all who come to visit.

Or being the kinky old lady in the care home "

Who demands male carers only to help wash her bits.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would just lay here gathering dust. About 5000 messages sat in my inbox asking how I am. Me whispering from my grave “I’m dead motherfuckers, take a hint!”."

They will still keep coming. Shadow avatars with "fill in later" text get messages saying you're gorgeous

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

My best friend is set up to clear everything before my daughter finds it.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be fine,I don't have a kink box or anything that would point swinger at me

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

Don’t care what people think of my, Mr, private life after I’ve gone - the truth is the vast majority of us will be forgotten about very very quickly, no one is that interested in you.

Your legacy on the planet is going to be about what you made, created, cared for, donated to etc.

Not how many dildos and sounding rods you have in a secret drawer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t care what people think of my, Mr, private life after I’ve gone - the truth is the vast majority of us will be forgotten about very very quickly, no one is that interested in you.

Your legacy on the planet is going to be about what you made, created, cared for, donated to etc.

Not how many dildos and sounding rods you have in a secret drawer. "

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I've asked my eldest daughter to update my status to the effect of me not being of this world any longer ! Hate the thought of people thinking I'm ignoring them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a deal with a friend to clear each other’s toy boxes when we pass.

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