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Couples - let's share the love!

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By *wist my nipples OP   Couple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I seem to have read a lot recently about why people don't want to be in relationships, why they bring nothing but pain and hassle, and that most end up in heartbreak so why bother?

I wanted to restore some balance with this thread by highlighting some of the positives about being in a long term relationship.

1.Someone is there to make you a cup of tea in the morning.

2. If you haven't shaved your legs it doesn't matter, sex is still on the cards.

3. Someone is there to pick you up when you fall.

Let’s keep it positive - share the couple love!

Mrs TMN x

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I love being in a couple at the weekends x

Thats as much as I can handle

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

He does the dishes because I hate it. I change the bedding because he hates it. Also it sounds really sad but we get super excited coming back from the supermarket and showing the other the exciting thing we got for dinner . Also only paying for half of things is awesome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sober two years next week. He helps me maintain that. He was diagnosed with cancer last year.. I'm helping him through chemo. We both cook, clean..i do the ironing because although he can he takes too long. He does the bins, litter tray and other "dirty" jobs because he thinks he should. We are not only lovers totally aexualky compatible but also best friends. Never argued, ever. One of us will "fold" and the next time, the other gets their way. It's a partnership. I worship him and he adores me.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Yes!!!

I love you Mrs TMN.

100% agree with what has been said. Also....

I have known D a lifetime, we have been through so much together you wouldn't believe it!!

To have had him hold my hand through it all is a miracle I believe.

Yes, some couples are bad for each other. But there are some that are made for each other. I respect people's choices not to be in a relationship just like I respect any of their choices full stop.

I also respect those couples that choose to be together against all odds.

Jo.Xx

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Someone who makes you laugh daily

Someone who doesn't judge you

Someone who loves you for who you are, no matter what

Someone to cuddle up to

Someone you can talk to about absolutely anything

Someone who supports you and has your back

Someone to come home to

Someone to cuddle and put your cold feet on.

Life is wonderful when you are married to your best friend and soulmate

Oh and also someone to share a fantastic sex life with (and involve others now and again)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She would support any life decision I made, and I would do the same for her

She gives great cuddles and is annoying in the most adorable ways sometimes

She looks great wrapped around me

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Bookmarking - to restore my faith in romance. So make it good

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Should of added it's not all plain sailing, you have to both work at keeping a marriage special, and keep

making the effort,butt you reap the rewards ten fold.

Communication is key.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shout out andbig to all the long term couples.

I've spent over half my life with Peach and hope to spend the rest of it together to. She's my wife, lover, best friend and favourite kinky slut bunny. I honestly wouldn't be here if it weren't for her

Fuzz

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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How long term is long term?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should of added it's not all plain sailing, you have to both work at keeping a marriage special, and keep

making the effort,butt you reap the rewards ten fold.

Communication is key."

These are true words

Fuzz

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

We are a team.

That's it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's my person.

The other half of me.

He just makes everything better.

Lu

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

20 years and he is still the person I want to wake up with each morning and can't wait to see at the end of the day.

He will listen to me talk crap and put up with my hormonal moods. I would never tell him this but he also still makes me laugh!

Sure he annoys me and sometimes I'm sick of the sight of him but he's my past, present and future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All lovely to read and gen happy for you all but nah, not convincing me

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Lovely thread and Northern Stars you got it spot on for what it is for me. When you find it, it just all falls naturally into place, even the working at it, as you both want it..... except the marriage part, that’s not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He is not only my partner and lover, but he's also my best friend.

He's always there for me. Whenever I need to rant about stressful day at work or just feel sad for no reason as soon as he wraps his arms around me I am content.

I am a weirdo and I like to be childish at times and we laugh together a lot.

I want to grow old with this man

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Aww this is lovely and something I genuinely strive for but feel is unlikely to happen for me.

So I'll just continue to perv over you lovely couples instead

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

27 years and still madly in .Can’t put it all into words as it would take to long.

Someone to tell you when your wrong even if you don’t want to hear it.

Someone to love you unconditionally.

Someone who is always there for you in the good times as well as the bad..

Enough of the mushy stuff ..Sex with my lovely husband whenever I’m horny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very envious of all the happy couples on this thread, its a dream to me to have what you've got

Sadly though many regularly post that they too would like a relationship I've not met one in the 2+ years of me being on fab.

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By *wist my nipples OP   Couple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Just coming back to this now, thank you for all the beautiful contributions! I started off lighthearted but some of you have gone very deep

Unconditional love is a really important aspect for me. When I'm having a really tough time; when I'm being a dick; when I feel frumpy and unattractive: Mr is always there for me. It works both ways and it can be tough but deep down, we're always on the same team. For someone to know you so completely with all your imperfections and still choose you? That's love. X

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