FabSwingers.com forum: Fat woman fetish

By *ooomx OP Man
over a year ago

ferndown

I love larger ladies were are you all

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bet you're gonna regret calling anybody fat...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread might go BOOOM!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm very fat, but not female, sorry.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I'm female and very fat

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

Why did you not say larger ladies..... Calling women fat is not the way to go

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bet you're gonna regret calling anybody fat..."

It’s a bold strategy, Cotton. Let’s see if it pays off for him

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

OP. The word “fat” can only be used to describe “bulkier” people of the Male persuasion.

Fab Rule # 17

It’s okay you weren’t to know.... Oh Gods, I care hear them..... they are coming...... I can feel the outrage.... can anyone stop this madness?

In other news apparently subway bread isn’t bread in Ireland

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 09/10/20 00:38:11]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Bet you're gonna regret calling anybody fat...

It’s a bold strategy, Cotton. Let’s see if it pays off for him "

Narrator...."it didn't"

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Bet you're gonna regret calling anybody fat...

It’s a bold strategy, Cotton. Let’s see if it pays off for him

I've got some popcorn here if anybody needs some while we watch this."

Good man. Is it toffee?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem is that people don't tend to like to be fetishized.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 09/10/20 00:37:43]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bet you're gonna regret calling anybody fat...

It’s a bold strategy, Cotton. Let’s see if it pays off for him

I've got some popcorn here if anybody needs some while we watch this.

Good man. Is it toffee? "

Yup.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Bet you're gonna regret calling anybody fat...

It’s a bold strategy, Cotton. Let’s see if it pays off for him

I've got some popcorn here if anybody needs some while we watch this.

Good man. Is it toffee?

Yup.

Woop woop.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After this thread, I bet Boom's gonna be spoiled for pussy soon.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"After this thread, I bet Boom's gonna be spoiled for pussy soon."

I hope he's brought cake.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After this thread, I bet Boom's gonna be spoiled for pussy soon."

Let's just remember the is new to the forums and not take the piss.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After this thread, I bet Boom's gonna be spoiled for pussy soon.

Let's just remember the is new to the forums and not take the piss. "

Just gentle joking.

Boom, it was just your awkward phrasing. You could have simply sung the praises of a curvier lady and talked about your love for those curves. Then I reckon you'd have done fine here.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bet you're gonna regret calling anybody fat..."

Nothing wrong with the word fat.

Everything wrong either having a “fat woman fetish” it’s just weird.

If you’re attracted, cool, but a fetish? No.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bet you're gonna regret calling anybody fat...

Nothing wrong with the word fat.

Everything wrong either having a “fat woman fetish” it’s just weird.

If you’re attracted, cool, but a fetish? No. "

I disagree, for a lot of people the word fat has negative connotations.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"Bet you're gonna regret calling anybody fat...

Nothing wrong with the word fat.

Everything wrong either having a “fat woman fetish” it’s just weird.

If you’re attracted, cool, but a fetish? No. "

Just like the word “Skinny”

. It’s never the word that hurts, it’s the venom that launches it.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bet you're gonna regret calling anybody fat...

Nothing wrong with the word fat.

Everything wrong either having a “fat woman fetish” it’s just weird.

If you’re attracted, cool, but a fetish? No.

I disagree, for a lot of people the word fat has negative connotations.

Maybe it does. That doesn’t mean a person can’t use the word though.

Some have an issue with the word, some don’t. We can’t really police what words people use to describe others within reason.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bet you're gonna regret calling anybody fat...

Nothing wrong with the word fat.

Everything wrong either having a “fat woman fetish” it’s just weird.

If you’re attracted, cool, but a fetish? No.

I disagree, for a lot of people the word fat has negative connotations.

Maybe it does. That doesn’t mean a person can’t use the word though.

Some have an issue with the word, some don’t. We can’t really police what words people use to describe others within reason. "

I wasn't policing anything, I was giving an opinion it just happens to different from yours and doesn't mean its wrong.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bet you're gonna regret calling anybody fat...

Nothing wrong with the word fat.

Everything wrong either having a “fat woman fetish” it’s just weird.

If you’re attracted, cool, but a fetish? No.

Just like the word “Skinny”

. It’s never the word that hurts, it’s the venom that launches it. "

I’m a fat woman.

The word fat doesn’t bother me.

I’m sure there’s many fat women who aren’t bothered by the word fat, there’s no doubt some who will be bothered by it.

The same goes for skinny.

People will use what word they see fit.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oomarangMan
over a year ago

Chester

I think larger ladies are more sexier than skinny birds and normally a lot more fun

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bet you're gonna regret calling anybody fat...

Nothing wrong with the word fat.

Everything wrong either having a “fat woman fetish” it’s just weird.

If you’re attracted, cool, but a fetish? No.

I disagree, for a lot of people the word fat has negative connotations.

Maybe it does. That doesn’t mean a person can’t use the word though.

Some have an issue with the word, some don’t. We can’t really police what words people use to describe others within reason.

I wasn't policing anything, I was giving an opinion it just happens to different from yours and doesn't mean its wrong. "

I said “We can’t really police what words people use” I didn’t say “you”.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"Bet you're gonna regret calling anybody fat...

Nothing wrong with the word fat.

Everything wrong either having a “fat woman fetish” it’s just weird.

If you’re attracted, cool, but a fetish? No.

Just like the word “Skinny”

. It’s never the word that hurts, it’s the venom that launches it.

I’m a fat woman.

The word fat doesn’t bother me.

I’m sure there’s many fat women who aren’t bothered by the word fat, there’s no doubt some who will be bothered by it.

The same goes for skinny.

People will use what word they see fit.

If I got upset every time called me skinny I think I would still end everyday upset.

Words. If people allow them to have power they have power. Me? Meh. It’s a word...

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I love larger ladies were are you all "

Rude

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"I love larger ladies were are you all

Rude"

Why is it rude?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I got upset every time called me skinny I think I would still end everyday upset.

Words. If people allow them to have power they have power. Me? Meh. It’s a word..."

Absolutely.

Words are words, how you take those words is all down to “you”.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet the original poster's gonna be thrilled when he sees his thread's taken off in such a big way.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I love larger ladies were are you all

Rude

Why is it rude? "

My opinion

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"I love larger ladies were are you all

Rude

Why is it rude?

My opinion "

Fair enoughski

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I love larger ladies were are you all

Rude

Why is it rude?

My opinion

Fair enoughski

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oomarangMan
over a year ago

Chester

"I love larger ladies were are you all

Rude

Why is it rude?

My opinion "

How is that in anyway rude

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women don't mind that term and they'll be the only ones that might proposition him.

I class myself as a Fabulous BBW with curves and cushions in all the right places.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

"Bet you're gonna regret calling anybody fat...

Nothing wrong with the word fat.

Everything wrong either having a “fat woman fetish” it’s just weird.

If you’re attracted, cool, but a fetish? No. "

Not if he essentially cannot have sex and orgasm without a "fat woman" by definition it is a fetish for them

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I wouldn’t say fetishising fat women was weird. It’s just a kink.

There are lots of weird things in the world, this kink isn’t really one of them.

Welcome to the forums OP. If you use the forum search thingy and put in “BBW” you’ll find lots of recent threads started by folk admiring fuller figured ladies. That might help you in your search.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've no issue with the word "fat".

I'd much rather be referred to as a fat woman than a BBW.

I'm not here to be anyone's fetish tho.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 09/10/20 07:34:45]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 09/10/20 07:34:45]"
female and fat here but not a fetish prefer people to want me for me not my fat

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

"I've no issue with the word "fat".

I'd much rather be referred to as a fat woman than a BBW.

I'm not here to be anyone's fetish tho.

Exactly this. Im a fat bird, and most of us fat birds acknowledge we are just that...its other people who get uncomfortable when we say what we are.

It is however a real mind fuck when a hot guy wants you...is it because they actually like you, or do they just want to try a fat bird to tick it off their to do list.

Some folk might like Irish accents...thats not a fetish. Some might like tall slim women...thats not a fetish. Some might like to whack idiots around the head with a slipper...still not a fetish. We are not a fetish.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *otSoNewAnymoreMan
over a year ago

North East

"I'm female and very fat"

you are female but definitely not fat x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good look with this on OP

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finally, a thread on the larger lady

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say fat is a describing word. I’m fat even though I’m not large, I have more fat than I’d like.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why did you not say larger ladies..... Calling women fat is not the way to go "

Yet women who get called BBW complain because they’re fat and would rather just be called fat

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rubenesque

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rubenesque

I like your style

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've no issue with the word "fat".

I'd much rather be referred to as a fat woman than a BBW.

I'm not here to be anyone's fetish tho.

Exactly this. Im a fat bird, and most of us fat birds acknowledge we are just that...its other people who get uncomfortable when we say what we are.

It is however a real mind fuck when a hot guy wants you...is it because they actually like you, or do they just want to try a fat bird to tick it off their to do list.

Could not agree more.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think larger ladies are more sexier than skinny birds and normally a lot more fun "

Farmers are putting Turkeys on a diet for this Christmas.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

Gotta love big boobs and bums. Its not a fetish, just find them more attractive in my opinion. Different strokes and all that

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've no issue with the word "fat".

I'd much rather be referred to as a fat woman than a BBW.

I'm not here to be anyone's fetish tho.

Exactly this. Im a fat bird, and most of us fat birds acknowledge we are just that...its other people who get uncomfortable when we say what we are.

It is however a real mind fuck when a hot guy wants you...is it because they actually like you, or do they just want to try a fat bird to tick it off their to do list.

I couldn't have put it better! Especially the thing about hot guys, but that is one of the reasons I love fab, I get to punch way above my (substantial) weight.

Ironically enough, I hate the term BBW but have it as my username just because if I put fat I get loads of messages with people saying 'you aren't fat, you're gorgeous' which does my head in as I blatantly am fat AND gorgeous

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *mnipotent_BehemothMan
over a year ago

near Merry Hill shopping centre

"I'm female and very fat"

No not at all quite delightful would be my description from what I can see in your images.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm female and very fat"

yeah but

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gotta love big boobs and bums. Its not a fetish, just find them more attractive in my opinion. Different strokes and all that "

I like the way you spunk.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ooomx OP Man
over a year ago

ferndown

It gave you all something to rant about and thank you to the ladies that didn't mind and put a nice e comment up xx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It gave you all something to rant about and thank you to the ladies that didn't mind and put a nice e comment up xx"

This thread was always gonna get mixed feedback.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It gave you all something to rant about and thank you to the ladies that didn't mind and put a nice e comment up xx"

Post of the Day

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why did you not say larger ladies..... Calling women fat is not the way to go

Yet women who get called BBW complain because they’re fat and would rather just be called fat "

I think you mean some women complain ,,I actually dislike any label

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

"Gotta love big boobs and bums. Its not a fetish, just find them more attractive in my opinion. Different strokes and all that

I like the way you spunk."
haha

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just one particular woman, OP?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

"I've no issue with the word "fat".

I'd much rather be referred to as a fat woman than a BBW.

I'm not here to be anyone's fetish tho.

Exactly this. Im a fat bird, and most of us fat birds acknowledge we are just that...its other people who get uncomfortable when we say what we are.

It is however a real mind fuck when a hot guy wants you...is it because they actually like you, or do they just want to try a fat bird to tick it off their to do list.

I couldn't have put it better! Especially the thing about hot guys, but that is one of the reasons I love fab, I get to punch way above my (substantial) weight.

I wanted to put fat but Mr KC wouldn't let me - he says I'm not (but I am) - I think he just loves me

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *randmrsbigcCouple
over a year ago

North east

"OP. The word “fat” can only be used to describe “bulkier” people of the Male persuasion.

Fab Rule # 17

It’s okay you weren’t to know.... Oh Gods, I care hear them..... they are coming...... I can feel the outrage.... can anyone stop this madness?

In other news apparently subway bread isn’t bread in Ireland

Lmao!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No surprise your girlfriend is always fucking random guys

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The problem is that people don't tend to like to be fetishized.

This,it's a pet hate of mine hence why I don't like to be called a bbw I'm just a larger lady

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

"I've no issue with the word "fat".

I'd much rather be referred to as a fat woman than a BBW.

I'm not here to be anyone's fetish tho.

Exactly this. Im a fat bird, and most of us fat birds acknowledge we are just that...its other people who get uncomfortable when we say what we are.

It is however a real mind fuck when a hot guy wants you...is it because they actually like you, or do they just want to try a fat bird to tick it off their to do list.

I couldn't have put it better! Especially the thing about hot guys, but that is one of the reasons I love fab, I get to punch way above my (substantial) weight.

You absofuckinlutely are gorgeous Vixen

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no objection someone saying fat. I have lots of fat on my body, but I’m more than a fat person and I do have problems being objectified or being someone’s fetish

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

"Bet you're gonna regret calling anybody fat...

Nothing wrong with the word fat.

Everything wrong either having a “fat woman fetish” it’s just weird.

If you’re attracted, cool, but a fetish? No.

Just like the word “Skinny”

. It’s never the word that hurts, it’s the venom that launches it.

I’m a fat woman.

The word fat doesn’t bother me.

I’m sure there’s many fat women who aren’t bothered by the word fat, there’s no doubt some who will be bothered by it.

The same goes for skinny.

People will use what word they see fit.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The problem is that people don't tend to like to be fetishized.

Say that to all the men with bbc on their profile

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inkyguy12Man
over a year ago

my own little world

Never knew there was a fat woman fetish but count me in I love the curvy lady “seems more politically correct these days” and the last thing we should all want to do on here is offend the person we message

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The problem is that people don't tend to like to be fetishized.

Say that to all the men with bbc on their profile"

The men who have BBC on their profile choose to call themselves that.

There’s a difference.

If you choose to label yourself as something you can’t be made if people describe you as such.

Some black men like to be fetishised, so do some fat women. Not all.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *sbbwcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Worthing

"I've no issue with the word "fat".

I'd much rather be referred to as a fat woman than a BBW.

I'm not here to be anyone's fetish tho.

Exactly this. Im a fat bird, and most of us fat birds acknowledge we are just that...its other people who get uncomfortable when we say what we are.

It is however a real mind fuck when a hot guy wants you...is it because they actually like you, or do they just want to try a fat bird to tick it off their to do list.

Absolutely this! Thank you for putting it better words than I could.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this thread still alive? Oh dear.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love larger ladies were are you all "

Everywhere?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this thread still alive? Oh dear."

Well it is now....

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *unmatt888Man
over a year ago

Duns

"I have no objection someone saying fat. I have lots of fat on my body, but I’m more than a fat person and I do have problems being objectified or being someone’s fetish "

Well that's the important bit - always remember that those physical attributes you lust after are part of a person.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got fat after an operation. It took a meet to make me realise that I had to get back to my normal weight. My boyfriend at the time would not go near me x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *reativecouplederbyCouple
over a year ago

Derby

"I'm female and very fat"

You look amazing

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *otSoNewAnymoreMan
over a year ago

North East

"I love larger ladies were are you all "

*where

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *luttonousGirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Burnhope

I am fat and I like it that way

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As Freddie said

Fat bottomed girls make the rocking world go round.

Mines fat

I'm fat

So what.

We all carry fat on us.

If we didn't have fat on us we would freeze to oblivion.

Just eating a fat bowl of porridge.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually

I am going to have a fat loving life.

Full of fatty foods

One thing this tory government don't control is what I eat.

You notice how fat most of the mps are good fatty foods. Beer drinking in their own bars.

My birds enjoy fat balls.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *luttonousGirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Burnhope

"Actually

I am going to have a fat loving life.

Full of fatty foods

One thing this tory government don't control is what I eat.

You notice how fat most of the mps are good fatty foods. Beer drinking in their own bars.

My birds enjoy fat balls. "

I love this.

I actively lead a life of Gluttony and indulgence and Im loving it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Nothing wrong with being fat as long as you are financially independent and mobile not wanting state assistance. People should be able to do as they wish independently just as long as they are independent and the same for people who wish to meet them.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh ffs not again lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

"Oh ffs not again lol"

Ha ha here we go again

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think a body type should be fetishised, I wouldn’t want someone to only want me because they have a fetish for tattoos as an example.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fat but not a fetish, ta!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *luttonousGirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Burnhope

"Nothing wrong with being fat as long as you are financially independent and mobile not wanting state assistance. People should be able to do as they wish independently just as long as they are independent and the same for people who wish to meet them. "

I'm pretty much the exact opposite of this

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got fat after an operation. It took a meet to make me realise that I had to get back to my normal weight. My boyfriend at the time would not go near me x"

Sounds like you should've lost the boyfriend, rather than the weight.

Far worse things to be than fat!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

You could say that about a lot of things. If you want to be a junkie, single parent, alcoholic, school dropout etc, do as you wish without any state assistance.

Thankfully we realise that not everyone is perfect, shit happens and thank whatever god you worship with "but for your grace...".

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

This place never ceases to amaze

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

"I got fat after an operation. It took a meet to make me realise that I had to get back to my normal weight. My boyfriend at the time would not go near me x

Sounds like you should've lost the boyfriend, rather than the weight.

Far worse things to be than fat!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

You could say that about a lot of things. If you want to be a junkie, single parent, alcoholic, school dropout etc, do as you wish without any state assistance.

Thankfully we realise that not everyone is perfect, shit happens and thank whatever god you worship with "but for your grace..."."

No not at all people have a choice how they live their life we shouldn't restrict their choice but if you choose to be that way you shouldn't expect others to pay for your lifestyle choice. You can't dictate on many issues people have in life but everyone can choose to eat less if they want to.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could say that about a lot of things. If you want to be a junkie, single parent, alcoholic, school dropout etc, do as you wish without any state assistance.

Thankfully we realise that not everyone is perfect, shit happens and thank whatever god you worship with "but for your grace...".

Jesus!

NOT ALL FAT PEOPLE ARE FAT BEACUSE THEY EAT TOO MUCH AND/OR LAZY!!!!

Fucking educate yourself if you're gonna spout bullshit online people!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

You could say that about a lot of things. If you want to be a junkie, single parent, alcoholic, school dropout etc, do as you wish without any state assistance.

Thankfully we realise that not everyone is perfect, shit happens and thank whatever god you worship with "but for your grace...".

Selective reading. I'm not disagreeing with you. My point is there are a myriad of life choices people make that we the tax payer have to fund.

Thing is we then begin to turn on each other.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

You could say that about a lot of things. If you want to be a junkie, single parent, alcoholic, school dropout etc, do as you wish without any state assistance.

Thankfully we realise that not everyone is perfect, shit happens and thank whatever god you worship with "but for your grace...".

Jesus

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

You could say that about a lot of things. If you want to be a junkie, single parent, alcoholic, school dropout etc, do as you wish without any state assistance.

Thankfully we realise that not everyone is perfect, shit happens and thank whatever god you worship with "but for your grace...".

Jesus!

NOT ALL FAT PEOPLE ARE FAT BEACUSE THEY EAT TOO MUCH AND/OR LAZY!!!!

Fucking educate yourself if you're gonna spout bullshit online people!

Weight gain is the calories eaten are greater than burnt off its a simple fact any moderately intelligent person can understand maybe its you who needs to get an education and some manners at the same time.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

You could say that about a lot of things. If you want to be a junkie, single parent, alcoholic, school dropout etc, do as you wish without any state assistance.

Thankfully we realise that not everyone is perfect, shit happens and thank whatever god you worship with "but for your grace...".

Selective reading. I'm not disagreeing with you. My point is there are a myriad of life choices people make that we the tax payer have to fund.

Thing is we then begin to turn on each other. "

Not really I have no problem with people being as fat as they choose to be its their choice I really don't think its unreasonable for people to be independent financially if that's there choice.

If you hadn't noticed there are calls for money to be spent on school meals for children that are going without do you not think that public finances would not be better diverted to these children who go without?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

You could say that about a lot of things. If you want to be a junkie, single parent, alcoholic, school dropout etc, do as you wish without any state assistance.

Thankfully we realise that not everyone is perfect, shit happens and thank whatever god you worship with "but for your grace...".

Selective reading. I'm not disagreeing with you. My point is there are a myriad of life choices people make that we the tax payer have to fund.

Thing is we then begin to turn on each other.

Not really I have no problem with people being as fat as they choose to be its their choice I really don't think its unreasonable for people to be independent financially if that's there choice.

I'm fairly sure that not everyone woman (person)who is a bit bigger,doesn't work.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

You could say that about a lot of things. If you want to be a junkie, single parent, alcoholic, school dropout etc, do as you wish without any state assistance.

Thankfully we realise that not everyone is perfect, shit happens and thank whatever god you worship with "but for your grace...".

Selective reading. I'm not disagreeing with you. My point is there are a myriad of life choices people make that we the tax payer have to fund.

Thing is we then begin to turn on each other.

Not really I have no problem with people being as fat as they choose to be its their choice I really don't think its unreasonable for people to be independent financially if that's there choice.

I'm fairly sure that not everyone woman (person)who is a bit bigger,doesn't work."

Who said they all are? Can you read? Quote it point it out there's a good lad.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

You could say that about a lot of things. If you want to be a junkie, single parent, alcoholic, school dropout etc, do as you wish without any state assistance.

Thankfully we realise that not everyone is perfect, shit happens and thank whatever god you worship with "but for your grace...".

Selective reading. I'm not disagreeing with you. My point is there are a myriad of life choices people make that we the tax payer have to fund.

Thing is we then begin to turn on each other.

Not really I have no problem with people being as fat as they choose to be its their choice I really don't think its unreasonable for people to be independent financially if that's there choice.

I'm fairly sure that not everyone woman (person)who is a bit bigger,doesn't work.

Who said they all are? Can you read? Quote it point it out there's a good lad. "

You are a little charmer arent you?

Nothing wrong with being fat as long as you are financially independent?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

You could say that about a lot of things. If you want to be a junkie, single parent, alcoholic, school dropout etc, do as you wish without any state assistance.

Thankfully we realise that not everyone is perfect, shit happens and thank whatever god you worship with "but for your grace...".

Selective reading. I'm not disagreeing with you. My point is there are a myriad of life choices people make that we the tax payer have to fund.

Thing is we then begin to turn on each other.

Not really I have no problem with people being as fat as they choose to be its their choice I really don't think its unreasonable for people to be independent financially if that's there choice.

I'm fairly sure that not everyone woman (person)who is a bit bigger,doesn't work.

Who said they all are? Can you read? Quote it point it out there's a good lad.

You are a little charmer arent you?

Nothing wrong with being fat as long as you are financially independent?"

Can't quote it? What a surprise! If you are going to lie lie about someone else there's a good boy.

If you cared to read the thread I pointed out funds would be better diverted to kids who are going without food in the school holidays though that point you strangely missed. So do you think this money wouldn't be better diverted to children in need? Well?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

You could say that about a lot of things. If you want to be a junkie, single parent, alcoholic, school dropout etc, do as you wish without any state assistance.

Thankfully we realise that not everyone is perfect, shit happens and thank whatever god you worship with "but for your grace...".

Selective reading. I'm not disagreeing with you. My point is there are a myriad of life choices people make that we the tax payer have to fund.

Thing is we then begin to turn on each other.

Not really I have no problem with people being as fat as they choose to be its their choice I really don't think its unreasonable for people to be independent financially if that's there choice.

I'm fairly sure that not everyone woman (person)who is a bit bigger,doesn't work.

Who said they all are? Can you read? Quote it point it out there's a good lad.

You are a little charmer arent you?

Nothing wrong with being fat as long as you are financially independent?

Can't quote it? What a surprise! If you are going to lie lie about someone else there's a good boy.

So when you said..there Is nothing wrong with being fat as you are financially independent..who were you referring too exactly?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

Im FIAF Financially Independent and Fat, and its becsuse I eat too much and dont excercise, can i get a medal? Make it from Sheffield steel though so i dont eat it by accident

My sister is also FIAF but is fat due to a thyroid deficiency.

My friend, another FIAF but has a neurological condition that causes her to be unsteady on her feet causing her to fall a lot, injury after injury means she cant do any physical activity without risking injury.

I could go on. You see not every fat person is an over-eater.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

You could say that about a lot of things. If you want to be a junkie, single parent, alcoholic, school dropout etc, do as you wish without any state assistance.

Thankfully we realise that not everyone is perfect, shit happens and thank whatever god you worship with "but for your grace...".

Selective reading. I'm not disagreeing with you. My point is there are a myriad of life choices people make that we the tax payer have to fund.

Thing is we then begin to turn on each other.

Not really I have no problem with people being as fat as they choose to be its their choice I really don't think its unreasonable for people to be independent financially if that's there choice.

Again you miss my point and not making yours.

I'm fat and not poor. I was sterilized at 30 because I knew we could only afford to give three children the quality of life we wanted them to have.

My husband and I were ships in the night for five years: I worked days he worked nights so there was always a parent at home for the children.

If I thought like you I should resent the parents who pop out kids without the means to feed them: their life choice, especially as I shop at Lidl and can produce from scratch, nutritional meals on a budget without a chip pan in sight.

Thing is there will always be things we champion and those we don't. Fat is an easy target: no government is going to target the growing financial demands due to gender reassignment, ivf, large families low/No income families though.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really hate stereotypes. I've spent my whole life trying to prove I'm not one.

I'm a child of two alcoholic parents, now both dead.

I had my first child at 17 so I'm a teenage mum. I'm also a school drop out so you know I must be thick as mince.

I'm single with 3 sons so I've got the single parent one hanging over me too. And there's a big age gap between my sons so it's often assumed they must be to different dads. They aren't.

Oh and I'm also fat.

However, I also have a good job and have always worked hard to support my boys alone. Often two jobs. I have a nice house and and I'm independent. Their dad doesn't pay me a penny and has had no part part of their lives for 11 years.

I can cook and often do, however I also refuse to feel guilty for also throwing together frozen chicken nuggets and chips or a pizza because I'm too tired to do anything else.

I'm fat because I comfort eat and it becomes a vicious cycle.

Anyway, this is a bit off of the OP topic so I'll get off my soapbox.

I'm glad there are men out there who like bigger women however I don't wish to be someomes fettish.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By * Plus ECouple
over a year ago

The South

I'm a larger lady and very conscious of my curves. Sometimes I hate the way my body looks.

M says he's never seen a Rolls Royce with skimpy upholstery.

That's why he's special.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will always refer to someone as bigger or larger than average rather than fat. I've always considered the word fat associated with negativity.

If anyone chooses to call themselves fat then that's their choice. However I still wouldn't refer to them as fat, that's my choice.

Tbh it's not for me to judge who considers themselves on the larger side and who doesn't.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread